2concerned Wrote:
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> Actually, here's something that happened. Maybe
> it'll give some insight -- I seem to dwell on it
> enough.
>
> A couple of seasons ago, I'm heading to a game at
> Hollin Meadows. I'm making that hellish left turn
> onto Sherwood Hall, by the gas station. I hit
> someone.
>
> One of the most dangerous intersections I can
> think of as a driver, and here's a Postal Worker,
> trying to dash across the intersection. I saw her
> quickly, cut the wheel, hit the brake. I still
> broke her leg.
>
> So here I am, thinking she's pretty irresponsible,
> wondering why there isn't a better crosswalk by a
> local library, and I'm dwelling on my guilt.
> Thinking about it, I KNEW I'd already hated that
> intersection. So, it was kind of my fault... I've
> ALWAYS felt that there's a measure of "rolling the
> dice" there. I'm taking a risk every time I do
> it. I knew that, so really, it's MY fault.
>
> I signed off on "failure to pay attention", or
> something, so she wouldn't have any insurance
> complications. I really wanted to call and say I
> was sorry. I did call the officer to enquire. He
> probably thought I was in CYOA mode, but I was SO
> happy when I heard it was just her leg.
>
> So anyway, I sit down, I look at a map, and I find
> a solution.
>
> I didn't go out and paint a crosswalk. But I know
> there should be one there. No, I figure you folks
> that live down that way can clean up your own
> messes, if you care. But, I did find a way to
> solve MY problem within YOUR system.
>
> This one is different. It shouldn't happen again.
> There are scary people out there, and there
> shouldn't be unknown adults wondering schools
> unattended. Especially if they've been extremely
> erratic from the start. I mean, if I can't find
> out why there isn't a rule against that, or how we
> can make one, well, then I've failed all the
> kids.
>
> I can't just sit around waiting until the next
> Columbine, and watch them scapegoat some guy that
> wasn't even "in charge". Let's just go in the
> right direction now, before the "next time" is
> something bad.
The officials at the school have already told you, they were aware of the man that you saw dancing at the school and determined he was a parent of a child there and not a threat. They took punitive measures against you because you were posting erratic and disturbing posts on forums and on the Patch. I completely support the school systems decision in how they handled this matter. Since May 21st you've posted 550 messages on this board regarding the same subject.
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This is a sign of obsessive compulsive disorder. While I applaud you for reporting the matter to the school officials out of concern for the children, you need to respect the decision made by the authorities. If you observe something strange at the school again, then by all means report it. However, creating threads and harping on your disapproval of the process, is very inappropriate. This is further indications that you are experiencing OCD that might be genetic or perhaps fueled by illegal drug use. OCD can be treated by seeing a physician and getting the appropriate medication for the condition.
Here is some information on Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder below...
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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/obsessive-compulsive-disorder
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), a type of anxiety disorder, is a potentially disabling illness that traps people in endless cycles of repetitive thoughts and behaviors. People with OCD are plagued by recurring and distressing thoughts, fears, or images (obsessions) they cannot control. The anxiety (nervousness) produced by these thoughts leads to an urgent need to perform certain rituals or routines (compulsions). The compulsive rituals are performed in an attempt to prevent the obsessive thoughts or make them go away.
Although the ritual may temporarily alleviate anxiety, the person must perform the ritual again when the obsessive thoughts return. This OCD cycle can progress to the point of taking up hours of the person's day and significantly interfering with normal activities. People with OCD may be aware that their obsessions and compulsions are senseless or unrealistic, but they cannot stop them.
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What Are the Symptoms of OCD?
The symptoms of OCD, which are the obsessions and compulsions, may vary. Common obsessions include:
Fear of dirt or contamination by germs.
Fear of causing harm to another.
Fear of making a mistake.
Fear of being embarrassed or behaving in a socially unacceptable manner.
Fear of thinking evil or sinful thoughts.
Need for order, symmetry, or exactness.
Excessive doubt and the need for constant reassurance.
Common compulsions include:
Repeatedly bathing, showering, or washing hands.
Refusing to shake hands or touch doorknobs.
Repeatedly checking things, such as locks or stoves.
Constant counting, mentally or aloud, while performing routine tasks.
Constantly arranging things in a certain way.
Eating foods in a specific order.
Being stuck on words, images or thoughts, usually disturbing, that won't go away and can interfere with sleep.
Repeating specific words, phrases, or prayers.
Needing to perform tasks a certain number of times.
Collecting or hoarding items with no apparent value.
What Causes OCD?
http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/obsessive-compulsive-disorder
Although the exact cause of OCD is not fully understood, studies have shown that a combination of biological and environmental factors may be involved.
Biological Factors: The brain is a very complex structure. It contains billions of nerve cells -- called neurons -- that must communicate and work together for the body to function normally. The neurons communicate via electrical signals. Special chemicals, called neurotransmitters, help move these electrical messages from neuron to neuron. Research has found a link between low levels of one neurotransmitter -- called serotonin -- and the development of OCD. In addition, there is evidence that a serotonin imbalance may be passed on from parents to children. This means the tendency to develop OCD may be inherited.
In addition, certain areas of the brain appear to be affected by the serotonin imbalance that leads to OCD. This problem seems to involve the pathways of the brain that link the area of the brain that deals with judgment and planning, and the area of the brain that filters messages involving body movements.
Studies also have found a link between a certain type of infection caused by the Streptococcus bacteria and OCD. This infection, if recurrent and untreated, may lead to the development of OCD and other disorders in children.
Environmental Factors: There are environmental stressors that can trigger OCD in people with a tendency toward developing the condition. Certain environmental factors may also cause a worsening of symptoms. These factors include:
Abuse
Changes in living situation
Illness
Death of a loved one
Work- or school-related changes or problems
Relationship concerns
How Common Is OCD?
OCD afflicts about 3.3 million adults and about 1 million children and adolescents in the U.S. The disorder usually first appears in childhood, adolescence, or early adulthood. It occurs about equally in men and women and affects people of all races and socioeconomic backgrounds.
How Is OCD Diagnosed?
There is no lab test to diagnose OCD. The doctor bases his or her diagnosis on an assessment of the patient's symptoms, including how much time the person spends performing his or her ritual behaviors.
How Is OCD Treated?
OCD will not go away by itself, so it is important to seek treatment. The most effective approach to treating OCD combines medications with cognitive behavioral therapy.
Cognitive behavioral therapy : The goal of cognitive behavioral therapy is to teach people with OCD to confront their fears and reduce anxiety without performing the ritual behaviors (called exposure therapy or exposure and response prevention therapy). Therapy also focuses on reducing the exaggerated or catastrophic thinking that often occurs in people with OCD.
Medication therapy : Antidepressants, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) antidepressants like Paxil, Prozac, and Zoloft may be helpful in treating OCD. Older drugs -- tricyclic antidepressants like Anafranil -- might also be used.
In severe cases of OCD and in people who do not respond to medical and behavioral therapy, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) or psychosurgery may be used to treat the disorder. During ECT, electrodes are attached to the patient's head and a series of electric shocks are delivered to the brain, which induce seizures. The seizures cause the release of neurotransmitters in the brain.
What Is the Outlook for People With OCD?
In most cases, OCD can be successfully treated with medication, cognitive behavioral therapy, or both. With ongoing treatment, most people can achieve long-term relief from symptoms and return to normal or near-normal functioning.
Can OCD Be Prevented?
OCD cannot be prevented. However, early diagnosis and treatment can help reduce the time a person spends suffering from the condition.
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Hope this helps!