Okay, hints seem to point to this woman as being Gordon:
http://www.gale.cengage.com/free_resources/whm/bio/chamberlin_w.htm
I don't think that looks right.
I think the Gordon I met was the woman on YouTube.
Born in Bethesda, Maryland, Chamberlin was the second of three children and the only daughter of William, a Marine colonel, and Beverly, a homemaker. Like other "army brats," Chamberlin moved often with her family according to her father's military assignments. As a child she lived in Hawaii, California, and Falls Church, Virginia, where she graduated from George C. Marshall High School.
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Her daughters had been evacuated from Islamabad in mid-September of 2001, when they returned to Washington, D.C., to live with their father.
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Chamberlin surprised the U.S. media when she announced in May of 2002 that she would step down from her ambassadorship to be with her family. "My girls were very clear, very firm, they wanted me back," Chamberlin told the New York Times's Bonner. "I owe it to them, I'm a mother first." Her departure was met with both disappointment and understanding from Pakistani officials and the public. "She was seen as somebody who is fair," Pakistan Embassy spokesman Asad Hayauddin told the Washington Times. "As a parent, myself, I have much regard for her decision. Family values make a difference."
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