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Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:11PM
A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture). I bear no ill will to this girl and the split was relatively amicable. We didn't decide to remain "friends," but are friendly when we see each other which is seldom, but occassional as our respective circles of friends has some overlap.
Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures? Do you think she already knows or would want to know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an anonymous email?
Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the pictures.
Thanks for all your advice.
Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures? Do you think she already knows or would want to know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an anonymous email?
Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the pictures.
Thanks for all your advice.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Harry Tuttle
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:14PM
You should tell her... If you don't mind getting your friend in trouble... Also... you should post them on this forum....
Thanks in advance, Bye!
Signatures are for fags
Thanks in advance, Bye!
Signatures are for fags
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Warhawk
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:14PM
Post the pics so we can evaluate and make an informed decision.
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:16PM
Harry Tuttle Wrote:
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> You should tell her...
Why, if she doesn't know, isn't ignorance bliss? If she does, I am just compounding it by letting her know I have seen them.
> If you don't mind getting
> your friend in trouble...
No way to trace it to him. He just "stumbled" across them.
> Also... you should post
> them on this forum....
Not a chance!
> Thanks in advance, Bye!
Sorry to disappoint you.
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> You should tell her...
Why, if she doesn't know, isn't ignorance bliss? If she does, I am just compounding it by letting her know I have seen them.
> If you don't mind getting
> your friend in trouble...
No way to trace it to him. He just "stumbled" across them.
> Also... you should post
> them on this forum....
Not a chance!
> Thanks in advance, Bye!
Sorry to disappoint you.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:17PM
the ex Wrote:
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture). I
> bear no ill will to this girl and the split was
> relatively amicable. We didn't decide to remain
> "friends," but are friendly when we see each other
> which is seldom, but occassional as our respective
> circles of friends has some overlap.
>
> Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures?
> Do you think she already knows or would want to
> know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should
> I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an
> anonymous email?
>
> Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I
> am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the
> pictures.
>
> Thanks for all your advice.
What would your motive be in telling her??
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture). I
> bear no ill will to this girl and the split was
> relatively amicable. We didn't decide to remain
> "friends," but are friendly when we see each other
> which is seldom, but occassional as our respective
> circles of friends has some overlap.
>
> Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures?
> Do you think she already knows or would want to
> know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should
> I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an
> anonymous email?
>
> Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I
> am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the
> pictures.
>
> Thanks for all your advice.
What would your motive be in telling her??
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
breaking news
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:17PM
Post the pics....we are here to help.
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Posted by:
WingNut
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:21PM
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
eesh
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:25PM
the ex Wrote:
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture).
Not really, we need the pics to "get the picture." For all we know these less than wholesome poses involves a horse or a bullmastiff.
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture).
Not really, we need the pics to "get the picture." For all we know these less than wholesome poses involves a horse or a bullmastiff.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
MGF
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:26PM
I have the pics as well. No worries, she joined mygirlfund.com and is selling them for pay pal money.
There is a video too.
There is a video too.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Harry Tuttle
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:32PM
the ex Wrote:
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> Why, if she doesn't know, isn't ignorance bliss?
Put yourself in her shoes... Wouldn't you want to know if someone was betraying your trust and exploiting you? Maybe she's blissful in ignorance now, but who knows what horrors this betrayal could lead to?
> If she does, I am just compounding it by letting
> her know I have seen them.
I think she'll be more upset about the person she thought she could trust sharing the pictures... You're not in the wrong, she'll be happy knowing who not trust in the future...
>
> > If you don't mind getting
> > your friend in trouble...
>
> No way to trace it to him. He just "stumbled"
> across them.
I feel you are hiding some relevant information. Regardless, if you tell her you've seen these pictures, you'll have to tell her how you came across them...
> Not a chance!
>
I wouldn't be doing my job if I didn't ask...
>
> Sorry to disappoint you.
I'm really not so disappointed... sorry if that disappoints you...
Signatures are for fags
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> Why, if she doesn't know, isn't ignorance bliss?
Put yourself in her shoes... Wouldn't you want to know if someone was betraying your trust and exploiting you? Maybe she's blissful in ignorance now, but who knows what horrors this betrayal could lead to?
> If she does, I am just compounding it by letting
> her know I have seen them.
I think she'll be more upset about the person she thought she could trust sharing the pictures... You're not in the wrong, she'll be happy knowing who not trust in the future...
>
> > If you don't mind getting
> > your friend in trouble...
>
> No way to trace it to him. He just "stumbled"
> across them.
I feel you are hiding some relevant information. Regardless, if you tell her you've seen these pictures, you'll have to tell her how you came across them...
> Not a chance!
>
I wouldn't be doing my job if I didn't ask...
>
> Sorry to disappoint you.
I'm really not so disappointed... sorry if that disappoints you...
Signatures are for fags
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
ITRADE
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:33PM
Something tells me the OP wants to use this to split the guy and the girl apart and to start fucking the girl again - using the "trust" factor as the wedge.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
themuse
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:35PM
why would your friend (who i assume is aware that you dated this girl) send a link of her pics to you? what is his motivation? did he do so in confidence? if so, do nothing. if not, then tell her. why do you question whether or not to identify yourself to her? do you think she'll be all the more humiliated if she knows you have seen the photos or are you afraid your friend will find out? if it's the former, then reveal yourself. if it's the latter, then question your motivation.
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yeefuckinghaw
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:37PM
Conie Wrote:
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> What would your motive be in telling her??
Try to save her or at least prepare her for the embarassment if other friends family see the pictures. Let her know in case there is a way for her to have the pics taken down.
But, if she already knows about the pictures, I would just be adding insult to injury. They were posted over a year ago, so she may know.
WingNut Wrote:
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> How good a friend is the guy who showed you the
> pictures and what motivation did he have for
> showing them to you?
He is a pretty good friend. His motivation was more or less like, hey man isn't this your ex? He didn't send a blast email to all of our friends. I think he was trying to do the right thing.
> Also, what are the poses- are they standard nudes
> or is she sucking her own tits while having both
> holes stuffed?
Mostly standard, one with a toy.
> Can the people positively ID her
> from the pictures?
Yes, if you know her, it cannot be mistaken. Plus, a couple were taken in her room.
> It's a hard road to go but try to be a noble
> gentleman and a grown-up about this. Give us a
> peak.
That's my goal here. No peeks.
PS - code for this post "L7XXX" Had to LOL at that one.
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> What would your motive be in telling her??
Try to save her or at least prepare her for the embarassment if other friends family see the pictures. Let her know in case there is a way for her to have the pics taken down.
But, if she already knows about the pictures, I would just be adding insult to injury. They were posted over a year ago, so she may know.
WingNut Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> How good a friend is the guy who showed you the
> pictures and what motivation did he have for
> showing them to you?
He is a pretty good friend. His motivation was more or less like, hey man isn't this your ex? He didn't send a blast email to all of our friends. I think he was trying to do the right thing.
> Also, what are the poses- are they standard nudes
> or is she sucking her own tits while having both
> holes stuffed?
Mostly standard, one with a toy.
> Can the people positively ID her
> from the pictures?
Yes, if you know her, it cannot be mistaken. Plus, a couple were taken in her room.
> It's a hard road to go but try to be a noble
> gentleman and a grown-up about this. Give us a
> peak.
That's my goal here. No peeks.
PS - code for this post "L7XXX" Had to LOL at that one.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:39PM
ITRADE Wrote:
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> Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> fucking the girl again - using the "trust" factor
> as the wedge.
My understanding is she is currently single and I am very happy in my current relationship.
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> Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> fucking the girl again - using the "trust" factor
> as the wedge.
My understanding is she is currently single and I am very happy in my current relationship.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
WingNut
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:43PM
ITRADE Wrote:
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> Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> fucking the girl again - using the "trust" factor
> as the wedge.
Good call. I caught a bad smell from this guy too.
I've never found that the man who highlights the bad behavior of another man to get on the good side of a woman to be much of a man. It's really a punk move.
If you really care about the girl, talk to your friend and tell him it's not cool. Don't use this as a stepping stone to divide them or get her pussy. That is the epitome of a lamedick faggot manuever. Virtue is it's own reward in a case like this.
Now describe the dirty girl to us already, we've given you something....
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> Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> fucking the girl again - using the "trust" factor
> as the wedge.
Good call. I caught a bad smell from this guy too.
I've never found that the man who highlights the bad behavior of another man to get on the good side of a woman to be much of a man. It's really a punk move.
If you really care about the girl, talk to your friend and tell him it's not cool. Don't use this as a stepping stone to divide them or get her pussy. That is the epitome of a lamedick faggot manuever. Virtue is it's own reward in a case like this.
Now describe the dirty girl to us already, we've given you something....
idontlikebeingrightaboutshitlikethisbutiam
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:45PM
the ex Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Conie Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > What would your motive be in telling her??
>
> Try to save her or at least prepare her for the
> embarassment if other friends family see the
> pictures. Let her know in case there is a way for
> her to have the pics taken down.
>
> But, if she already knows about the pictures, I
> would just be adding insult to injury.
Not if you word it in a way that she know's you're telling her because you care.
They were
> posted over a year ago, so she may know.
She must know by now.
>
>
>
> WingNut Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > How good a friend is the guy who showed you the
> > pictures and what motivation did he have for
> > showing them to you?
>
> He is a pretty good friend. His motivation was
> more or less like, hey man isn't this your ex? He
> didn't send a blast email to all of our friends.
> I think he was trying to do the right thing.
>
> > Also, what are the poses- are they standard
> nudes
> > or is she sucking her own tits while having
> both
> > holes stuffed?
>
> Mostly standard, one with a toy.
>
> > Can the people positively ID her
> > from the pictures?
>
> Yes, if you know her, it cannot be mistaken.
> Plus, a couple were taken in her room.
>
> > It's a hard road to go but try to be a noble
> > gentleman and a grown-up about this. Give us a
> > peak.
>
> That's my goal here. No peeks.
>
> PS - code for this post "L7XXX" Had to LOL at
> that one.
Do you want to reconnect with her?..is that what this is about?
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> Conie Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > What would your motive be in telling her??
>
> Try to save her or at least prepare her for the
> embarassment if other friends family see the
> pictures. Let her know in case there is a way for
> her to have the pics taken down.
>
> But, if she already knows about the pictures, I
> would just be adding insult to injury.
Not if you word it in a way that she know's you're telling her because you care.
They were
> posted over a year ago, so she may know.
She must know by now.
>
>
>
> WingNut Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > How good a friend is the guy who showed you the
> > pictures and what motivation did he have for
> > showing them to you?
>
> He is a pretty good friend. His motivation was
> more or less like, hey man isn't this your ex? He
> didn't send a blast email to all of our friends.
> I think he was trying to do the right thing.
>
> > Also, what are the poses- are they standard
> nudes
> > or is she sucking her own tits while having
> both
> > holes stuffed?
>
> Mostly standard, one with a toy.
>
> > Can the people positively ID her
> > from the pictures?
>
> Yes, if you know her, it cannot be mistaken.
> Plus, a couple were taken in her room.
>
> > It's a hard road to go but try to be a noble
> > gentleman and a grown-up about this. Give us a
> > peak.
>
> That's my goal here. No peeks.
>
> PS - code for this post "L7XXX" Had to LOL at
> that one.
Do you want to reconnect with her?..is that what this is about?
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:46PM
Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i meant.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:46PM
WingNut Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> ITRADE Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> > split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> > fucking the girl again - using the "trust"
> factor
> > as the wedge.
>
>
> Good call. I caught a bad smell from this guy
> too.
>
> I've never found that the man who highlights the
> bad behavior of another man to get on the good
> side of a woman to be much of a man. It's really a
> punk move.
>
> If you really care about the girl, talk to your
> friend and tell him it's not cool. Don't use this
> as a stepping stone to divide them or get her
> pussy. That is the epitome of a lamedick faggot
> manuever. Virtue is it's own reward in a case like
> this.
>
> Now describe the dirty girl to us already, we've
> given you something....
I think you have misread my posts. I have no ambition whatsoever to get back with this girl. Zero. I don't even know who took the pics.
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> ITRADE Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Something tells me the OP wants to use this to
> > split the guy and the girl apart and to start
> > fucking the girl again - using the "trust"
> factor
> > as the wedge.
>
>
> Good call. I caught a bad smell from this guy
> too.
>
> I've never found that the man who highlights the
> bad behavior of another man to get on the good
> side of a woman to be much of a man. It's really a
> punk move.
>
> If you really care about the girl, talk to your
> friend and tell him it's not cool. Don't use this
> as a stepping stone to divide them or get her
> pussy. That is the epitome of a lamedick faggot
> manuever. Virtue is it's own reward in a case like
> this.
>
> Now describe the dirty girl to us already, we've
> given you something....
I think you have misread my posts. I have no ambition whatsoever to get back with this girl. Zero. I don't even know who took the pics.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:48PM
Conie Wrote:
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> Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> meant.
For the umpteenth time. No. I do NOT want to reconnect with her. I just want to know if you had these types of pics floating around on the web, would you want to be told and how would you want to find out?
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> Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> meant.
For the umpteenth time. No. I do NOT want to reconnect with her. I just want to know if you had these types of pics floating around on the web, would you want to be told and how would you want to find out?
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Harry Tuttle
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:50PM
LOL! Conie doesn't know how to edit her posts... or how to hotlink...
Conie Wrote:
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> Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> meant.
Signatures are for fags
Conie Wrote:
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> Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> meant.
Signatures are for fags
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:51PM
the ex Wrote:
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> Conie Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> > meant.
>
> For the umpteenth time. No. I do NOT want to
> reconnect with her. I just want to know if you
> had these types of pics floating around on the
> web, would you want to be told and how would you
> want to find out?
I would totally want to know.
And i wouldn't care how it was delivered.
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> Conie Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Woops....*want to reconnect with her" is what i
> > meant.
>
> For the umpteenth time. No. I do NOT want to
> reconnect with her. I just want to know if you
> had these types of pics floating around on the
> web, would you want to be told and how would you
> want to find out?
I would totally want to know.
And i wouldn't care how it was delivered.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Uh...
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:52PM
Your friend sent you a link to a site with the pictures.
I'd say the female already knows they're there.
I'd say the female already knows they're there.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
WingNut
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:52PM
the ex Wrote:
> I think you have misread my posts. I have no
> ambition whatsoever to get back with this girl.
> Zero. I don't even know who took the pics.
You seem maybe a little selfish and one-sided. Any wonder she's not with you? The internet is give/take ya know. You just received the wisdom and good advice of about 10 strangers who could have told you to buzz off.
Return the generosity already. Just the toy shot and we'll understand if you Photoshop out her face.
> I think you have misread my posts. I have no
> ambition whatsoever to get back with this girl.
> Zero. I don't even know who took the pics.
You seem maybe a little selfish and one-sided. Any wonder she's not with you? The internet is give/take ya know. You just received the wisdom and good advice of about 10 strangers who could have told you to buzz off.
Return the generosity already. Just the toy shot and we'll understand if you Photoshop out her face.
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
6X
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:56PM
I googled L7XXX & this is what I got. Is this her?
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 07:59PM
Uh... Wrote:
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> Your friend sent you a link to a site with the
> pictures.
>
> I'd say the female already knows they're there.
Maybe, maybe not. The picture with the most views had only been viewed about 500 or so times.
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> Your friend sent you a link to a site with the
> pictures.
>
> I'd say the female already knows they're there.
Maybe, maybe not. The picture with the most views had only been viewed about 500 or so times.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Harry Tuttle
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:01PM
Ok... so you ask for help, but then you explain why you won't do any of the things that were suggested...
It sounds like you've already made up your mind about how you're going to handle this...
Signatures are for fags
It sounds like you've already made up your mind about how you're going to handle this...
Signatures are for fags
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
ITRADE
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:03PM
Its been viewed 500 times? So up to 500 different people have seen it?
Might a well tell us the url.
Might a well tell us the url.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:03PM
Harry Tuttle Wrote:
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> Ok... so you ask for help, but then you explain
> why you won't do any of the things that were
> suggested...
>
> It sounds like you've already made up your mind
> about how you're going to handle this...
I probably will tell her. I am looking for the most tactful approach. Do I send an anonymous email to warn her so that if I see her in the future there are no awkward moments or do I tell her straight up?
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> Ok... so you ask for help, but then you explain
> why you won't do any of the things that were
> suggested...
>
> It sounds like you've already made up your mind
> about how you're going to handle this...
I probably will tell her. I am looking for the most tactful approach. Do I send an anonymous email to warn her so that if I see her in the future there are no awkward moments or do I tell her straight up?
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
ITRADE
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:04PM
I did a search for L7XXX and got this...No wonder you're being coy:
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
WingNut
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:11PM
lol
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Harry Tuttle
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:16PM
Just tell her straight up... Explain to her how you are torn about telling her, but that you thought it was the right thing to do...
She'll be grateful...
the ex Wrote:
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> Do I send an anonymous
> email to warn her so that if I see her in the
> future there are no awkward moments or do I tell
> her straight up?
Signatures are for fags
She'll be grateful...
the ex Wrote:
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> Do I send an anonymous
> email to warn her so that if I see her in the
> future there are no awkward moments or do I tell
> her straight up?
Signatures are for fags
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:16PM
the ex Wrote:
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> Harry Tuttle Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Ok... so you ask for help, but then you explain
> > why you won't do any of the things that were
> > suggested...
> >
> > It sounds like you've already made up your mind
> > about how you're going to handle this...
>
>
> I probably will tell her. I am looking for the
> most tactful approach. Do I send an anonymous
> email to warn her so that if I see her in the
> future there are no awkward moments or do I tell
> her straight up?
If you're worried about awkwardness, tell her anonymously.
It's kind of simple.
Unless, you want something in the end...gratitude?
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> Harry Tuttle Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Ok... so you ask for help, but then you explain
> > why you won't do any of the things that were
> > suggested...
> >
> > It sounds like you've already made up your mind
> > about how you're going to handle this...
>
>
> I probably will tell her. I am looking for the
> most tactful approach. Do I send an anonymous
> email to warn her so that if I see her in the
> future there are no awkward moments or do I tell
> her straight up?
If you're worried about awkwardness, tell her anonymously.
It's kind of simple.
Unless, you want something in the end...gratitude?
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
496
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:16PM
Good god, it's Jabba the Hut with champagne!
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
ITRADE
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:18PM
Hutt is with two "t"s.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/19/2011 08:18PM by ITRADE.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/19/2011 08:18PM by ITRADE.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
Conie
()
Date: January 19, 2011 08:18PM
ITRADE Wrote:
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> I did a search for L7XXX and got this...No wonder
> you're being coy:
>
> http://www.thepensblog.com/images/stories/2009_pla
> yoffs/recaps/ecf-game_1/fat-bitch-champagne.jpg
That is so frickin' discusting
How the hell does anyone get that large?
I worried today that i ate one too many Cheez-its !!
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> I did a search for L7XXX and got this...No wonder
> you're being coy:
>
> http://www.thepensblog.com/images/stories/2009_pla
> yoffs/recaps/ecf-game_1/fat-bitch-champagne.jpg
That is so frickin' discusting
How the hell does anyone get that large?
I worried today that i ate one too many Cheez-its !!
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
6X
()
Date: January 19, 2011 09:00PM
You should let her know. .....I did a search for 6x and got this.
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Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
MrMephisto
()
Date: January 19, 2011 10:35PM
the ex Wrote:
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture). I
> bear no ill will to this girl and the split was
> relatively amicable. We didn't decide to remain
> "friends," but are friendly when we see each other
> which is seldom, but occassional as our respective
> circles of friends has some overlap.
>
> Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures?
> Do you think she already knows or would want to
> know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should
> I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an
> anonymous email?
>
> Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I
> am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the
> pictures.
>
> Thanks for all your advice.
It depends on her line of work or what line of work she would like to be involved with in the future. Is she a stripper or Hooters girl? Then no, don't tell her. Is she going to school to be a lawyer or politician or some other career where risque photos could cost her a career? Then yes, I would tell her.
If it's a link and not actual pictures, you could always create a throw-away email address and notify her anonymously. Your conscience would be clear, and nobody could prove it was you.
But we need pictures to verify whether this is even necessary at all.
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13 4826 0948 82695 25847. Yes.
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> A friend of mine recently sent me a link that has
> pictures of my ex-girlfriend in some less than
> wholesome poses, etc. (you get the picture). I
> bear no ill will to this girl and the split was
> relatively amicable. We didn't decide to remain
> "friends," but are friendly when we see each other
> which is seldom, but occassional as our respective
> circles of friends has some overlap.
>
> Anyway, should I tell her about these pictures?
> Do you think she already knows or would want to
> know if she doesn't? If I do tell her, how should
> I do it? Just be honest with her or send her an
> anonymous email?
>
> Finally, because I know it will come up - yes, I
> am positive it is her and NO, I did NOT take the
> pictures.
>
> Thanks for all your advice.
It depends on her line of work or what line of work she would like to be involved with in the future. Is she a stripper or Hooters girl? Then no, don't tell her. Is she going to school to be a lawyer or politician or some other career where risque photos could cost her a career? Then yes, I would tell her.
If it's a link and not actual pictures, you could always create a throw-away email address and notify her anonymously. Your conscience would be clear, and nobody could prove it was you.
But we need pictures to verify whether this is even necessary at all.
--------------------------------------------------------------
13 4826 0948 82695 25847. Yes.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
496
()
Date: January 19, 2011 10:40PM
ITRADE Wrote:
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> Hutt is with two "t"s.
I stand corrected, Sky Walker.
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> Hutt is with two "t"s.
I stand corrected, Sky Walker.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
kaya
()
Date: January 19, 2011 11:57PM
dont tell her
send them the photos anon
shell think ur up 2 smthing if u tell her
send them the photos anon
shell think ur up 2 smthing if u tell her
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
the ex
()
Date: January 20, 2011 01:40AM
MrMephisto Wrote:
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>
> It depends on her line of work or what line of
> work she would like to be involved with in the
> future. Is she a stripper or Hooters girl? Then
> no, don't tell her.
She works here in DC as a typical contractor work person, as do I.
> Is she going to school to be
> a lawyer or politician or some other career where
> risque photos could cost her a career?
She has ambitions to go to law school and advance her career. I certainly do not want to hinder her future. Contrary to what some people have said, I am not interested in getting back with her. I just want to be the "nice guy." I am not interested in getting back with her at all. I just want to tell her that these pictures are out there and she should be aware of them THAT'S IT. NOTHING ELSE.
> If it's a link and not actual pictures, you could
> always create a throw-away email address and
> notify her anonymously. Your conscience would be
> clear, and nobody could prove it was you.
That is the way I am thinking as the link is on imagefap and not that many people have viewed it.
> But we need pictures to verify whether this is
> even necessary at all.
Not going to happen.
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>
> It depends on her line of work or what line of
> work she would like to be involved with in the
> future. Is she a stripper or Hooters girl? Then
> no, don't tell her.
She works here in DC as a typical contractor work person, as do I.
> Is she going to school to be
> a lawyer or politician or some other career where
> risque photos could cost her a career?
She has ambitions to go to law school and advance her career. I certainly do not want to hinder her future. Contrary to what some people have said, I am not interested in getting back with her. I just want to be the "nice guy." I am not interested in getting back with her at all. I just want to tell her that these pictures are out there and she should be aware of them THAT'S IT. NOTHING ELSE.
> If it's a link and not actual pictures, you could
> always create a throw-away email address and
> notify her anonymously. Your conscience would be
> clear, and nobody could prove it was you.
That is the way I am thinking as the link is on imagefap and not that many people have viewed it.
> But we need pictures to verify whether this is
> even necessary at all.
Not going to happen.
Re: Would You Tell Her?
Posted by:
sumguy
()
Date: January 20, 2011 03:16PM
This is how you handle it.
1. post the pics on here
2. tell her that she should check this forum out
3. she will see the pics
4. someone is in trouble
5. she will think you are a hero
and do not tell her you posted these pics.
1. post the pics on here
2. tell her that she should check this forum out
3. she will see the pics
4. someone is in trouble
5. she will think you are a hero
and do not tell her you posted these pics.