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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: one of his friends ()
Date: November 05, 2014 12:51PM

I am appalled by the comments on this open forum. Before you go posting online about how it was all the teenagers' fault. I am disgusted. They were not standing outside of their car. Cars have issues all the time. The boys were picked up from a party by a 19 year old whose brother was one of the boys at the party. They called for a ride. they did everything right. they pulled over. they waited for someone to bring them gas or for someone to pick them up. they did nothing wrong. they are seniors in high school. were you ever out at 2 am? im sure you were. i can not believe the disgusting comments that people have made on this forum. its so obvious that you have never lost a person tragically and for that im really happy. i hope that you can stay as ignorant as you are nonw to be able to blame the innocent victims. I hope that you can sleep well tonight because i surely cant knowing that I can't ever hug my friend again and that i will never see his smile or hear his laugh ever again.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Highwayman ()
Date: November 05, 2014 01:54PM

Why did they get hit......because they were stopped on the shoulder of 495.

Why were they on the side of the road disabled......because the car ran out of gas.

Why did the car run out of gas....because the owner/driver failed to put any gas in the tank.

So when you connect the dots, there are reasons why this happened. About 95% of the blame belongs to the drunk driver. But the driver of the disabled car put everyone in a dangerous position. I dont know what year the Honda was, but almost all cars now have a warning light that comes on which tells you GET GAS NOW! I dont know how far he had to drive to pick them up but there are gas stations everywhere in the DC/MD/VA area. It's not like this happened out in Rappahannock county in the boonies.

I have been in a disabled vehicle on the shoulder of the beltway in the middle of the afternoon and I was scared shitless. We got out and got over the wall. And plenty of cars on the shoulder of 495 have been hit by completely sober drivers.

Bottom line: the drunk driver caused the crash but the driver of the disabled car put everyone in danger by not getting gas for whatever reason.

“The Moth effect” is the term coined for the high number of incidents in which motorists crash into parked emergency vehicles sitting on the shoulder illuminated by their bright flashing lights. Theories for this effect focus on the human instinct to look towards light, and the tendency to steer in the direction on which attention is fixated. But as Tom Vanderbilt notes in the book “Traffic”, “the simplest explanation may be that most drivers, upon seeing a car on the highway, assume that it is moving at the same high speed as everyone else—and cars with flashing lights are usually moving even faster that that.” By the time a driver understands what is actually happening, it may be too late to avoid the crash.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Casesearch ()
Date: November 05, 2014 02:00PM

Looked up Casesearch on Margaret Baisley and four days later no charges have been filed against her. Why is that - are we jumping to conclusions again with the driver and using the "Guilty until proven innocent" analysis that has perpetrated this thread?

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Decrapitated ()
Date: November 05, 2014 02:06PM

"Baisley displayed signs of being impaired, police said."

That's all we know. That doesnt say the driver was drunk. Altho I agree "impaired" is almost always associated with DUI, we dont know the facts.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: question to be asked ()
Date: November 05, 2014 03:29PM

Why were these under aged kids calling for a designated driver?

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Date: November 05, 2014 03:48PM

Well said Courtney - some people are ignorant.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: one of his friends ()
Date: November 05, 2014 03:55PM

I am so sorry for you loss, I agonize because you will not be able to hug your friend and I won't see him either. These ignorant people don't have a clue of the tragic loss of Dom. Dom was kind and a good person. Rest assured that the Lord knows. God Bless. MariaGabriela Mossa

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: MariaGabriela Mossa ()
Date: November 05, 2014 03:58PM

She was drunk and she will tell the truth.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Big Dick Black ()
Date: November 05, 2014 04:07PM

MariaGabriela Mossa Wrote:
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> She was drunk and she will tell the truth.

So youve seen the BAC results?

Before you get all caught up in hearts and flowers, be reminded in this good old USA, you are innocent until proven guilty. If it is revealed she was not intoxicated are you prepared to pay the libel suit you have created by ypur post?

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: AnonymousHQ ()
Date: November 05, 2014 06:24PM

We are Anonymous. We beleive that this women who is writeing should never had done so. Number one reason is that Fairfax CO is not where this incident occurred. Secondly this is idiocy for blameing an outstanding student for his own death is shamefull. You should be ashamed of yourself.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: white line fever ()
Date: November 06, 2014 05:05AM

This thread was an interesting read, so much drama and passion.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Boom Goes the Dynamite ()
Date: November 06, 2014 12:26PM

white line fever Wrote:
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> This thread was an interesting read, so much drama
> and passion.

^
THIS!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyAGZ41btx8

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Looks like....... ()
Date: November 07, 2014 04:41AM

.....Just a failure to maintain control charge on the jeep driver, no DUI here. The girl's insurance co. will pay to the max and the lawyers will probably go after the insurance on the honda as well. Nobody is going to prison this time. I bet the parents are really tore up over all this, I feel sorry for them.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: mind blown ()
Date: November 07, 2014 06:55AM

Looks like....... Wrote:
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> .....Just a failure to maintain control charge on
> the jeep driver, no DUI here. The girl's insurance
> co. will pay to the max and the lawyers will
> probably go after the insurance on the honda as
> well. Nobody is going to prison this time. I bet
> the parents are really tore up over all this, I
> feel sorry for them.


If she wasn't drunk that blows up the idea being pushed that she was entirely at fault and everyone else is a victim.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Rush To Judgment ()
Date: November 07, 2014 11:19AM

mind blown Wrote:
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> Looks like....... Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > .....Just a failure to maintain control charge
> on
> > the jeep driver, no DUI here. The girl's
> insurance
> > co. will pay to the max and the lawyers will
> > probably go after the insurance on the honda as
> > well. Nobody is going to prison this time. I
> bet
> > the parents are really tore up over all this, I
> > feel sorry for them.
>
>
> If she wasn't drunk that blows up the idea being
> pushed that she was entirely at fault and everyone
> else is a victim.

Once again we live in a "Victim" society that makes assumptions without facts. I know one fact, kids who think they are mature, but not, were out late and ran out of gas due to a lack of good judgment. Shame someone dies because of it.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: brother randy ()
Date: November 09, 2014 07:07AM

shell answer man Wrote:
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> Gonzaga student Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Are you guys serious? The student was on the
> way
> > home from being out with his friends. An adult
> was
> > driving when they ran out of gas, and pulled
> off
> > the road to call someone to bring them gas.
> While
> > they were waiting an impaired driver hit them.
> > This is going to change a lot of lives for the
> > worse, have some respect.
>
>
> So the 19 year old "adult" got on the freaking
> beltway at 2am with 1/64th of a tank of gas? What
> a fucking asshole! Somebody should bitchslap the
> hell out of that "adult" driver.


Lots of folks are putting the blame on Andy May. He had two good credit cards on him but he decided not to stop for gas even though the low fuel light had been on for some time. He is going to have to live with himself now and that is going to be very hard.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: toxic ()
Date: November 09, 2014 08:22AM

Ideally they will release both toxicology reports.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Legal Eagle1 ()
Date: November 09, 2014 09:28AM

Looks like....... Wrote:
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> The girl's insurance
> co. will pay to the max and the lawyers will
> probably go after the insurance on the honda as
> well.

Dont be so sure. Dead teenagers arent worth much in dollars and cents.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: bbbbb ()
Date: November 09, 2014 10:56AM

He was a high school athlete returning home from a game you ignorant nincompoop

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Jackson ()
Date: November 09, 2014 08:30PM

Shut the fuck up. You hVe no fucking idea what you're talking about. You're a fucking idiot who knows literally nothing. I knew Dom and he was a great kid not an idiot. So shut th fuck up because you don't know shit, and you're a fuxking piece of shit for saying what you said. Fuck you.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Classless Action Suit ()
Date: November 09, 2014 08:52PM

What year Honda was it? It could have been one of those defective shrapnel airbags.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: FFXU etiquette ()
Date: November 09, 2014 09:16PM

Jackson Wrote:
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> Shut the fuck up. You hVe no fucking idea what
> you're talking about. You're a fucking idiot who
> knows literally nothing. I knew Dom and he was a
> great kid not an idiot. So shut th fuck up because
> you don't know shit, and you're a fuxking piece of
> shit for saying what you said. Fuck you.


Using the quote function would help narrow down who you're referring to.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Breaking Bad News ()
Date: November 11, 2014 01:14PM

Britt McHenry has confirmed that the driver of the vehicle with fuel was drunk:

@BrittMcHenry: Just hearing about Gonzaga HS senior & hockey player Dom Pettey, killed by a drunk driver. Thoughts and prayers to his family #dmv

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: DMV Observers. ()
Date: November 12, 2014 09:37PM

Almost 2 weeks and still no charges filed by police against Ms. Baisley. Why does it take so long since a hot dumb blonde sports reporter like Britt McHenry already knows the charges?

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: high times ()
Date: December 30, 2014 09:08AM

So the girl was drunk and high. The driver of the car that ran out of gas should be charged as well.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Who names their kid Dom? ()
Date: December 30, 2014 09:29AM

What a douchey name...RIP to the kid though, that is sad.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: MariaGabriela ()
Date: March 02, 2015 12:03PM

TO: Big Black Dick no lawsuit she was intoxicated, like I said

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: 11 in heaven ()
Date: April 27, 2015 09:03PM

we won't ever forget you dom, you're a true legend - no better way to put it.
over 3,000 at your funeral, not to mention it was at the basilica of the national shrine.
rest in peace dp
love ya

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: nick ()
Date: October 20, 2015 01:26PM

the poeple who comment on this site area as sick and uninformed as the fairfax police. figures.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Better Call Saul ()
Date: October 20, 2015 02:19PM

Never stay with your car if you are stranded on the side of the road. You are a sitting duck if you do - you'd be surprised how many cars veer onto shoulders because they are playing on their phone or drunk. Instead, get out of the car and get as far from the roadway as possible, preferably with a guardrail between yourself and the roadway. I have no idea what the situation was in this case - perhaps the occupants had no safe place to go if they got out. But being inches from an interstate is never a good place to be, especially at night.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Malcom ()
Date: September 17, 2016 07:59AM

Better Call Saul Wrote:
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> Never stay with your car if you are stranded on
> the side of the road. You are a sitting duck if
> you do - you'd be surprised how many cars veer
> onto shoulders because they are playing on their
> phone or drunk. Instead, get out of the car and
> get as far from the roadway as possible,
> preferably with a guardrail between yourself and
> the roadway. I have no idea what the situation was
> in this case - perhaps the occupants had no safe
> place to go if they got out. But being inches from
> an interstate is never a good place to be,
> especially at night.

Drew is partially responsible for this whole thing. I heard he tried to kill himself, does anybody know if that is true?

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Johanna Weston ()
Date: November 01, 2017 03:10PM

I stumbled across this feed as I was looking for updates about the boys involved in this crash, as I have done every year since it occurred. My husband and I were there. We helped the victims while we waited for police and EMTs to arrive. Seeing the loss of life, one so young, never leaves you.

The boys were not out partying or any of the other garbage said here. They were on their way home from a practice and they ran out of gas. The father of two of the boys was on his way to them with gas. They were not drunk or high, they were sitting in their car because they assumed it was safer. That highway id next to the woods and extremely dark, I may have done the same in their position.

The impaired driver was under the influence, but she was not charged woth manslaughter on the request of the parents of Dom, the young boy who died. Perhaps it would serve many of you well to not form opinions without all the facts, but I suppose that's too much to ask in this day and age.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Was the car totaled? ()
Date: November 01, 2017 09:14PM

Looking for a good deal
Attachments:
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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Bill Gates ()
Date: November 01, 2017 09:44PM

Johanna Weston Wrote:
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> I stumbled across this feed as I was looking for
> updates about the boys involved in this crash, as
> I have done every year since it occurred. My
> husband and I were there. We helped the victims
> while we waited for police and EMTs to arrive.
> Seeing the loss of life, one so young, never
> leaves you.
>
> The boys were not out partying or any of the other
> garbage said here. They were on their way home
> from a practice and they ran out of gas. The
> father of two of the boys was on his way to them
> with gas. They were not drunk or high, they were
> sitting in their car because they assumed it was
> safer. That highway id next to the woods and
> extremely dark, I may have done the same in their
> position.
>
> The impaired driver was under the influence, but
> she was not charged woth manslaughter on the
> request of the parents of Dom, the young boy who
> died. Perhaps it would serve many of you well to
> not form opinions without all the facts, but I
> suppose that's too much to ask in this day and
> age.

Do you spit or swallow?
Have you ever came from anal sex?
Please post a nude pic of yourself or you don’t post lies on this forum!

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: YKM8N ()
Date: November 01, 2017 10:05PM

If you are ever stuck on the side of the highway, GET AWAY FROM THE CAR AND GO UP INTO THE TREES, INTO THE FIELD, somewhere away from the car! Cars sitting on the side of the road get hit by speeding cars ALL THE TIME, ask a cop or a tow truck driver. I've read several times in this thread that they were doing the right thing, waiting in the car. NOT TRUE - GET OUT SAFELY ON THE PASSENGER SIDE AND GET AWAY FROM THE CAR.

This is in no way a criticism of those boys. Just an attempt to help anyone else in this situation.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: Do you swallow? ()
Date: November 01, 2017 10:08PM

YKM8N Wrote:
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> If you are ever stuck on the side of the highway,
> GET AWAY FROM THE CAR AND GO UP INTO THE TREES,
> INTO THE FIELD, somewhere away from the car! Cars
> sitting on the side of the road get hit by
> speeding cars ALL THE TIME, ask a cop or a tow
> truck driver. I've read several times in this
> thread that they were doing the right thing,
> waiting in the car. NOT TRUE - GET OUT SAFELY ON
> THE PASSENGER SIDE AND GET AWAY FROM THE CAR.
>
> This is in no way a criticism of those boys. Just
> an attempt to help anyone else in this situation.

No one cares about your tips biyatch!
Stop using CAPS too!
If I came to FFXU for life tips, I woulda been dead 19 yrs ago when it was just arrest records you degenerative enema!

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: wally ()
Date: November 01, 2017 10:30PM

Johanna Weston Wrote:
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> I stumbled across this feed as I was looking for
> updates about the boys involved in this crash, as
> I have done every year since it occurred. My
> husband and I were there. We helped the victims
> while we waited for police and EMTs to arrive.
> Seeing the loss of life, one so young, never
> leaves you.
>
> The boys were not out partying or any of the other
> garbage said here. They were on their way home
> from a practice and they ran out of gas. The
> father of two of the boys was on his way to them
> with gas. They were not drunk or high, they were
> sitting in their car because they assumed it was
> safer. That highway id next to the woods and
> extremely dark, I may have done the same in their
> position.
>
> The impaired driver was under the influence, but
> she was not charged woth manslaughter on the
> request of the parents of Dom, the young boy who
> died. Perhaps it would serve many of you well to
> not form opinions without all the facts, but I
> suppose that's too much to ask in this day and
> age.


What was she under the influence of? Was she charged with anything? DUI? It's not up to the parents of the victim whether or not she was charged with anything. I find it very hard to believe that she was driving under the influence of something, killed someone, and faced no charges.

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: khalid al-djibouti ()
Date: September 20, 2020 12:27PM

they are still dead and justice not served, horri ble!!!!!

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Re: Another Dead High School Student who shouldn't be out at 2am
Posted by: alan ()
Date: September 20, 2020 06:38PM

http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/2/3364481/page-1.html Ruby fucking Cockburn should've been in that car and died.

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