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so you'd hear of at most a couple suicides a year for the whole county when it was much smaller: maybe today a reasonable figure would be several for the whole county. if there wasn't zero tolerance facists treating kids like domination puppets
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fact is going through puberty there is "chemical instability" and kids (HAD BEEN) tought about it, how it's natural, and etc
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TODAY something dangerous is happening. fucking foriegners are in the usa prescribing dangerous drugs (ie, that CAUSE suicide and say so on the label) to any kid - sometimes for political reasons - or sometimes just because they know they can use puberty as an excuse to give a sexy illegal a large paycheck for fuck
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TODAY those fucking facists at Google are STRONLY advertizing gov pshy's for teens and massive prescripttions EVEN IN THE FUCKING MEDICAL INFO SEcTION OF ENCYLOPEDIAS
these people, if they are really removing civil evidence puberty is normal, kids can rely on each other and groups and show be taught it's temporary and all that (no drugs, no pshychologists). these people making puberty out to be a mental illness by removing evidences and past articles so to sell drugs: SHOULD BE SHOT. and i mean that if it's true.
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Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
what going on
()
Date: September 29, 2014 08:21PM
Another suicide happen today. What is going on ? are they up or they seem they are up? seem like once a month a high schoolkid is dying. What can FCPS do to help?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
A School Counselor
()
Date: September 29, 2014 08:32PM
It's tragic, in a school system this big there is not a ton that can be done to prevent these.
The one thing that does come to mind though, is reminding the kids that school counselors actually are there to not just work on schedules and letters of recommendations, but also there to counsel and talk to kids as they go through difficult times. School counselors then have the ability to refer out and/or talk with many stakeholders in the child's life. I don't know what goes through a child's mind when contemplating this, but I am sure often they feel like they have no one to talk to. Make it known that school counselors can help and perhaps some of these are avoided.
Parents need to take responsibility too though. If they suspect something is up, they need to seek outside help and play a bigger role in their child's life. Not saying this is the case in many instances, but still a consideration for some at-risk youth.
The one thing that does come to mind though, is reminding the kids that school counselors actually are there to not just work on schedules and letters of recommendations, but also there to counsel and talk to kids as they go through difficult times. School counselors then have the ability to refer out and/or talk with many stakeholders in the child's life. I don't know what goes through a child's mind when contemplating this, but I am sure often they feel like they have no one to talk to. Make it known that school counselors can help and perhaps some of these are avoided.
Parents need to take responsibility too though. If they suspect something is up, they need to seek outside help and play a bigger role in their child's life. Not saying this is the case in many instances, but still a consideration for some at-risk youth.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
rippy van winkle
()
Date: September 29, 2014 08:38PM
Lack of sleep
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
True Cause
()
Date: September 29, 2014 08:47PM
Don't let your kids read threads at FFXU. That'll go a long way towards reducing likelihood of suicide.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
:(
()
Date: September 29, 2014 09:33PM
This is very sad but I find it hard to blame is on fcps. They have made every effort to prevent this sort of thing. At woodson, at least, there are new programs designed to let struggling students talk to their counselors or teachers about what troubles them.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Enough
()
Date: September 29, 2014 09:36PM
I blame the pressure that the schools in this county put on children. It is just too much! The schools in Fairfax are not even that good anymore!
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Better counselors
()
Date: September 29, 2014 09:38PM
Some of the counselors are awful in these schools! I would never let a child deal with them I much rather have one out of school.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
kate sheridan
()
Date: September 29, 2014 09:40PM
o
FCPS has got to start making concentrated efforts to change it's schools into supportive, healthy environments.
FCPS has got to start making concentrated efforts to change it's schools into supportive, healthy environments.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Before You Get Too Upset...
()
Date: September 29, 2014 09:44PM
Was he gay? If so, then no harm, no foul, and nothing to get upset about.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
highschoolstudent
()
Date: September 29, 2014 10:11PM
This is a terrible site to read off of and shows people have zero idea what they are talking about. I have close friends who knew this girl personally are are right now mourning her loss. Please be respectful and think about what you are saying before posting anything onto here. It affects everyone.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Pinky
()
Date: September 29, 2014 10:16PM
Nothing has been confirmed yet. Please don't spread rumors on here.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Cown Salor
()
Date: September 29, 2014 10:49PM
Better counselors Wrote:
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> Some of the counselors are awful in these schools!
> I would never let a child deal with them I much
> rather have one out of school.
Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty much don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
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> Some of the counselors are awful in these schools!
> I would never let a child deal with them I much
> rather have one out of school.
Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty much don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
reasons why
()
Date: September 29, 2014 10:51PM
The suicide rate in FCPS is so high do to several factors. The biggest being the pressure to be the "BEST." Fairfax being in the top 5 richest counties in the world, the pressure to be great is passed on down to the students along with the other stresses and things teens deal with being teens it is just a fatal mix.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Drugs are the answer
()
Date: September 29, 2014 10:52PM
These kids need to just turn to drugs instead of killing themselves.
I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug addicted kid than a dead body.
I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug addicted kid than a dead body.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Kardinal
()
Date: September 29, 2014 11:00PM
Drugs are the answer Wrote:
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> These kids need to just turn to drugs instead of
> killing themselves.
>
>
> I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug
> addicted kid than a dead body.
Sure. But there are other options. Tends of millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill ourselves.
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> These kids need to just turn to drugs instead of
> killing themselves.
>
>
> I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug
> addicted kid than a dead body.
Sure. But there are other options. Tends of millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill ourselves.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Lazy counselors
()
Date: September 29, 2014 11:02PM
They do not care!
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Drugs are the answer
()
Date: September 29, 2014 11:03PM
Kardinal Wrote:
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> Drugs are the answer Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > These kids need to just turn to drugs instead
> of
> > killing themselves.
> >
> >
> > I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug
> > addicted kid than a dead body.
>
> Sure. But there are other options. Tends of
> millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill
> ourselves.
What are the other options? Meds and locking them in a hospital?
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> Drugs are the answer Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > These kids need to just turn to drugs instead
> of
> > killing themselves.
> >
> >
> > I'm sure their parents would rather have a drug
> > addicted kid than a dead body.
>
> Sure. But there are other options. Tends of
> millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill
> ourselves.
What are the other options? Meds and locking them in a hospital?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Kardinal
()
Date: September 29, 2014 11:05PM
Drugs are the answer Wrote:
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> Kardinal Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Drugs are the answer Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > These kids need to just turn to drugs instead
> > of
> > > killing themselves.
> > >
> > >
> > > I'm sure their parents would rather have a
> drug
> > > addicted kid than a dead body.
> >
> > Sure. But there are other options. Tends of
> > millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill
> > ourselves.
>
>
> What are the other options? Meds and locking them
> in a hospital?
Psychologists. Therapists. Involved parenting. Religion. Support groups. Etc, etc.
Creating false dichotomies helps no one.
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> Kardinal Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Drugs are the answer Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > These kids need to just turn to drugs instead
> > of
> > > killing themselves.
> > >
> > >
> > > I'm sure their parents would rather have a
> drug
> > > addicted kid than a dead body.
> >
> > Sure. But there are other options. Tends of
> > millions of us who didn't do drugs or kill
> > ourselves.
>
>
> What are the other options? Meds and locking them
> in a hospital?
Psychologists. Therapists. Involved parenting. Religion. Support groups. Etc, etc.
Creating false dichotomies helps no one.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
School Counselor
()
Date: September 30, 2014 12:06AM
Cown Salor Wrote:
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>
> Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty much
> don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
I think that is pretty far from the truth. Fairfax County has a lot of qualified school counselors. That being said, school counselors are not mental health experts and of course there are counselors and therapists outside of school that work with mental health on a daily basis and would be a better fit. What makes a good versus bad counselor in your opinion though? I haven't seen many bad ones, they are just improperly utilized for solely academics in a lot of cases.
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>
> Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty much
> don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
I think that is pretty far from the truth. Fairfax County has a lot of qualified school counselors. That being said, school counselors are not mental health experts and of course there are counselors and therapists outside of school that work with mental health on a daily basis and would be a better fit. What makes a good versus bad counselor in your opinion though? I haven't seen many bad ones, they are just improperly utilized for solely academics in a lot of cases.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
causeican
()
Date: September 30, 2014 12:26AM
No hope. Someone would have to feel as if they had no hope. But there is hope for everyone. Even someone fully despised or disgraced, there is hope. There is hope for everyone. Never ever give up.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Cown Salor
()
Date: September 30, 2014 12:37AM
School Counselor Wrote:
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> Cown Salor Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> >
> > Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty
> much
> > don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
>
>
> I think that is pretty far from the truth.
> Fairfax County has a lot of qualified school
> counselors. That being said, school counselors
> are not mental health experts and of course there
> are counselors and therapists outside of school
> that work with mental health on a daily basis and
> would be a better fit. What makes a good versus
> bad counselor in your opinion though? I haven't
> seen many bad ones, they are just improperly
> utilized for solely academics in a lot of cases.
I was actually referring mostly to their abilities in "guiding" and/or "counseling" in academics. They have very little to offer that parents don't already know or could learn after about 30 minutes of research.
Heaven help anyone (maybe a bad choice of words in this thread) who needs to lean on them for issues such as depression or suicidal tendencies.
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> Cown Salor Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> >
> > Most of the counselors are awful...and pretty
> much
> > don't even know it, or possibly don't care.
>
>
> I think that is pretty far from the truth.
> Fairfax County has a lot of qualified school
> counselors. That being said, school counselors
> are not mental health experts and of course there
> are counselors and therapists outside of school
> that work with mental health on a daily basis and
> would be a better fit. What makes a good versus
> bad counselor in your opinion though? I haven't
> seen many bad ones, they are just improperly
> utilized for solely academics in a lot of cases.
I was actually referring mostly to their abilities in "guiding" and/or "counseling" in academics. They have very little to offer that parents don't already know or could learn after about 30 minutes of research.
Heaven help anyone (maybe a bad choice of words in this thread) who needs to lean on them for issues such as depression or suicidal tendencies.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Anjel
()
Date: September 30, 2014 05:12AM
All young people today really need Jesus...go directly to your local church and get involved with the youth programs available to you and there are plenty...you won't believe how your life will change.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Addie6
()
Date: September 30, 2014 06:19AM
My children have had some wonderful counselors when they were students in FCPS. My youngest daughter dealt with some serious anxiety and depression, which caused her to miss a great deal of school. Her counselor really helped us navigate that time, provided good resources, and helped us work with her teachers to get her through Junior and Senior year.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Counselors
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:06AM
There are tons of counselors in FCPS who are qualified therapists and would love to spend their time helping students with concerns and issues. Unfortunately, like teachers in FCPS, they aren't able to do what they are "hired" to do, because most of their time is spent in committees, being testing coordinators, running PBIS curriculums, etc.
I guarantee any counselor who you ask, will tell you that they wish they could spend all of their time at school directly helping students.
I guarantee any counselor who you ask, will tell you that they wish they could spend all of their time at school directly helping students.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Who?
()
Date: September 30, 2014 09:27AM
Who?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
kisses
()
Date: September 30, 2014 09:32AM
stop blaming it on the school system and take responsibility for your own actions as a parent. i mean some of the blame can be put on the school system but lets be real...a strong family and bond with your kids is the best way to help with this type of thing. i strongly believe that because a lot of families in this area have dual careers and obligations to make ends meet only ends up with the children getting the short end of deal in the emotional department of there lives.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/30/2014 09:34AM by kisses.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/30/2014 09:34AM by kisses.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
89302
()
Date: September 30, 2014 10:01AM
how was it done? what time of day? what social group were his/her peers? was the student on medication?
answers might be more forthcoming if more information was shared
answers might be more forthcoming if more information was shared
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
knower of all things...
()
Date: September 30, 2014 10:06AM
They can't handle the influx of illegals, it's making everyone depressed seeing their county being torn apart by illegals.
I don't blame them, RIP.
I don't blame them, RIP.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Kardinal
()
Date: September 30, 2014 10:20AM
89302 Wrote:
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> how was it done? what time of day? what social
> group were his/her peers? was the student on
> medication?
>
> answers might be more forthcoming if more
> information was shared
Still not clear it was suicide. If it actually was, there will be no information released through official channels. Journalistic policy and police policy is not to discuss suicides out of sensitivity to the family and to reduce copycats.
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> how was it done? what time of day? what social
> group were his/her peers? was the student on
> medication?
>
> answers might be more forthcoming if more
> information was shared
Still not clear it was suicide. If it actually was, there will be no information released through official channels. Journalistic policy and police policy is not to discuss suicides out of sensitivity to the family and to reduce copycats.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
cae
()
Date: September 30, 2014 10:23AM
RIP she was funny and nice
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Fractured FCPS
()
Date: September 30, 2014 01:03PM
A shame that FCPS still has no idea how to address the growing suicides problem in their schools. As they will not release the causes of each individual tragedy, the public is also left wondering what could be done.
Maybe somewhere out there in FFU world there is someone who would aggregate all the names, ages, schools, method of death, etc. of these children and start gathering real data on what led to their taking of their own lives.
Then we could have a real conversation on prevention.
Maybe somewhere out there in FFU world there is someone who would aggregate all the names, ages, schools, method of death, etc. of these children and start gathering real data on what led to their taking of their own lives.
Then we could have a real conversation on prevention.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
kjkKb
()
Date: September 30, 2014 01:06PM
The responsibility does not fall entirely fall on the schools - they are funded to educate, yet everyone expects the schools to raise their children for them. Why not put the same pressure on parents? Why shouldn't it be a parent-sponsored volunteer organization that shoulders the responsibility?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
5.0
()
Date: September 30, 2014 01:19PM
According to a friend-of-a-friend. She jumped off the bridge. Sad especially as the parent of young teenagers. What could be so troubling? Maybe time to live off-the-grid....
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
2 cents
()
Date: September 30, 2014 02:04PM
Teenagers operate in the here and now. They don't have the luxury of time or the mental ability to look back and recognize that most of their concerns are trivial, fixable, temporary, or misguided. Plus parents and the schools put way too much pressure on these kids, especially in this area. If you have a child with physical or mental health problems you realize pretty quickly how unimportant peripheral issues are.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
BruceBruceBruceBruce
()
Date: September 30, 2014 02:42PM
City of Fairfax posted/tweeted the following today:
"The City of Fairfax Schools mourns the loss of one of our students. Thoughts and prayers go to the family and the entire FHS community."
Then they sent out the link to the crisis support center with FCPS.
"The City of Fairfax Schools mourns the loss of one of our students. Thoughts and prayers go to the family and the entire FHS community."
Then they sent out the link to the crisis support center with FCPS.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Burke Brat
()
Date: September 30, 2014 04:05PM
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Huh? Don't get it.
()
Date: September 30, 2014 04:23PM
What the heck was she doing at Manassas Park MS, when she was a 16 yo from Fairfax HS?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
we failed
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:13PM
this society needs to stop making kids feel like they are failures if they are not college bound
this society needs to stop talking about college tiers
this society needs to stop worshipping us world news college rankings
this society needs to let kids hear different drummers
this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde and marrying up
this society needs to stop talking about college tiers
this society needs to stop worshipping us world news college rankings
this society needs to let kids hear different drummers
this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde and marrying up
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Andy Molina
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:19PM
LOL I guess Woodson can't say they had the first suicide of the school year. Darn.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
No, *you* failed
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:21PM
we failed Wrote:
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> this society needs to stop making kids feel like
> they are failures if they are not college bound
>
> this society needs to stop talking about college
> tiers
>
> this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> news college rankings
>
> this society needs to let kids hear different
> drummers
>
> this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde
> and marrying up
You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine tonight?
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> this society needs to stop making kids feel like
> they are failures if they are not college bound
>
> this society needs to stop talking about college
> tiers
>
> this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> news college rankings
>
> this society needs to let kids hear different
> drummers
>
> this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde
> and marrying up
You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine tonight?
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Jeff Yost
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:24PM
No, *you* failed Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
LMAOOOOO
-------------------------------------------------------
> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
LMAOOOOO
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Sorry for FHS/Family
()
Date: September 30, 2014 07:26PM
we failed Wrote:
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> this society needs to stop making kids feel like
> they are failures if they are not college bound
>
> this society needs to stop talking about college
> tiers
>
> this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> news college rankings
>
> this society needs to let kids hear different
> drummers
>
> this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde
> and marrying up
It won't stop people, but it's a time for sympathy and empathy for the family, not projecting your own personal beefs about society at large. Whether you intend to or not, a post like your implies things about the FHS student that most likely were not true at all.
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> this society needs to stop making kids feel like
> they are failures if they are not college bound
>
> this society needs to stop talking about college
> tiers
>
> this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> news college rankings
>
> this society needs to let kids hear different
> drummers
>
> this society needs to stop embracing khaki, blonde
> and marrying up
It won't stop people, but it's a time for sympathy and empathy for the family, not projecting your own personal beefs about society at large. Whether you intend to or not, a post like your implies things about the FHS student that most likely were not true at all.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
)(*&*(^T%
()
Date: October 01, 2014 10:14PM
No, *you* failed Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
let me guess, you are a narrow minded uva alumni
-------------------------------------------------------
> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
let me guess, you are a narrow minded uva alumni
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Stick to the company line
()
Date: October 01, 2014 10:35PM
No, *you* failed Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
When in doubt, blame the blacks.
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> we failed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > this society needs to stop making kids feel
> like
> > they are failures if they are not college bound
> >
> > this society needs to stop talking about
> college
> > tiers
> >
> > this society needs to stop worshipping us world
> > news college rankings
> >
> > this society needs to let kids hear different
> > drummers
> >
> > this society needs to stop embracing khaki,
> blonde
> > and marrying up
>
> You're right. Wee need more illiterate niggers on
> welfare. We need more minimum wage workers pumping
> out babies for us taxpayers to support, we need
> more poets and dreamers, we need more marrying
> down so white girls produce half-breed niglets.
>
> Let me guess. You're at 7-11 and are pissed that
> it's your turn to clean the Slurpee machine
> tonight?
When in doubt, blame the blacks.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
actuallyif
()
Date: October 02, 2014 01:04AM
The thing is, even a girl as beautiful as She was, isn't going to be marrying up unless She gets into a good college. Enough guys would mislead her to think that way and they'd use her and then blame her for being uneducated and "vain".
I would love a tally of women in Northern Virginia who have no college education and have married up. I'd then love a tally of all the girls who tried to marry up and failed. The ratio would be 20 married, thousands whored out, used and dumped.
Its how the upper classes are truly tearing down everybody else. Women cannot see guys in their own league as lovable or worthy. They are not getting together and growing strong together. Instead, the women wish to sleep with the enemy. If someone has a higher education or makes more money, they AIN'T you're friend! Time they use women in their own league as their whores.
As if many welfare babies weren't fathered by lawyer fuck buddies- pleeze!
I would love a tally of women in Northern Virginia who have no college education and have married up. I'd then love a tally of all the girls who tried to marry up and failed. The ratio would be 20 married, thousands whored out, used and dumped.
Its how the upper classes are truly tearing down everybody else. Women cannot see guys in their own league as lovable or worthy. They are not getting together and growing strong together. Instead, the women wish to sleep with the enemy. If someone has a higher education or makes more money, they AIN'T you're friend! Time they use women in their own league as their whores.
As if many welfare babies weren't fathered by lawyer fuck buddies- pleeze!
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
commonsense
()
Date: October 02, 2014 04:49PM
Its actually a good thing since FCPS system is crowded as fuck, the suicide students are doing FCPS system a favor by killing themselves. More room for the rest of the students haha.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
hs teacher
()
Date: October 02, 2014 10:50PM
we spent the teachers day on Monday in training to deal with "at risk" students struggling with several issues and was upsetting to hear of another suicide this week.
Most teachers and counselors are doing their best to identify and help these kids. I think the students friends and family really need to guide them to help as soon as they sense an issue. The toll that this is taking on the other students is heavy.It has been hard to know what to say to help them through it. Know your kids parents.
Most teachers and counselors are doing their best to identify and help these kids. I think the students friends and family really need to guide them to help as soon as they sense an issue. The toll that this is taking on the other students is heavy.It has been hard to know what to say to help them through it. Know your kids parents.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
El
()
Date: October 02, 2014 11:15PM
> What the heck was she doing at Manassas Park MS, when she was a 16 yo from Fairfax HS?
Successfully committing suicide by bridge.
Successfully committing suicide by bridge.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
fuckooooooffffffff
()
Date: October 02, 2014 11:55PM
TOTES AGREES, we need more rooooooom, so can you go kill yourself? we do need more space! thanks buddy
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
^^^^^^thatwastocommonsense
()
Date: October 02, 2014 11:56PM
the above post is to commonsense .____.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
dumbafwe
()
Date: October 03, 2014 12:01AM
Why should we care?
Another Emo yuppie fag offend himself.
Another Emo yuppie fag offend himself.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
JohnParent
()
Date: October 05, 2014 07:23PM
Agree. Not only counselors but some chool staff are terrible. After a student leaving school early in deep shock and grievance the day the death news broke, the attendance office demanded a written excuse from parents. The next day gave the student a lecture on how you can't leave school without properly checking out and that the late excuse may be "unacceptable" due to school "policy". They didnt even ask how the student was feeling and coping...completely insensitive and cold...That is how the school system operates....
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Dr Philled
()
Date: October 05, 2014 07:40PM
The sooner in life these weaklings learn that the world doesn't revolve around their feelings,the better.
Suicide is part of the natural selection process. Its ok, the genetic deficiency stops right there.
Suicide is part of the natural selection process. Its ok, the genetic deficiency stops right there.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit
()
Date: October 05, 2014 07:50PM
The only thing counselors seem useful for are changing classes. They're approach isn't always...personal. It's not their fault though.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit
()
Date: October 05, 2014 07:54PM
I'll admit that our problems can seem very trivial and overblown when you hear them but you guys are so removed from high school you forget you worried about the same stuff.
Getting good grades and studying
Having friends
Making a sports team
Getting good sleep.
If you can't get 2 or 3(I'm struggling with 3) it can surprisingly make high school really tough. Who will think I'm cool when I can't make the basketball team and have no other sport to play? And we really do have a lot of homework. But I still wing it lol
Getting good grades and studying
Having friends
Making a sports team
Getting good sleep.
If you can't get 2 or 3(I'm struggling with 3) it can surprisingly make high school really tough. Who will think I'm cool when I can't make the basketball team and have no other sport to play? And we really do have a lot of homework. But I still wing it lol
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Propane Proponent
()
Date: October 05, 2014 08:41PM
Here's another angle.
High school social dynamics really aren't that important in real life. Don't get worked up about what you perceive or hear people say about you. High school is 90% insecure kids and 10% kids with actual direction, goals and empathy. It's not a cross-section of society given the high proportion of undeveloped minds.
High school social dynamics really aren't that important in real life. Don't get worked up about what you perceive or hear people say about you. High school is 90% insecure kids and 10% kids with actual direction, goals and empathy. It's not a cross-section of society given the high proportion of undeveloped minds.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
amen
()
Date: October 05, 2014 08:44PM
that ms.buckeet bitch wrote me up for making a fake note when I was sick and my mom able to pick me up
JohnParent Wrote:
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> Agree. Not only counselors but some chool staff
> are terrible. After a student leaving school
> early in deep shock and grievance the day the
> death news broke, the attendance office demanded a
> written excuse from parents. The next day gave
> the student a lecture on how you can't leave
> school without properly checking out and that the
> late excuse may be "unacceptable" due to school
> "policy". They didnt even ask how the student was
> feeling and coping...completely insensitive and
> cold...That is how the school system operates....
JohnParent Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Agree. Not only counselors but some chool staff
> are terrible. After a student leaving school
> early in deep shock and grievance the day the
> death news broke, the attendance office demanded a
> written excuse from parents. The next day gave
> the student a lecture on how you can't leave
> school without properly checking out and that the
> late excuse may be "unacceptable" due to school
> "policy". They didnt even ask how the student was
> feeling and coping...completely insensitive and
> cold...That is how the school system operates....
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
causeican
()
Date: October 06, 2014 01:21AM
JohnParent Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Agree. Not only counselors but some chool staff
> are terrible. After a student leaving school
> early in deep shock and grievance the day the
> death news broke, the attendance office demanded a
> written excuse from parents. The next day gave
> the student a lecture on how you can't leave
> school without properly checking out and that the
> late excuse may be "unacceptable" due to school
> "policy". They didnt even ask how the student was
> feeling and coping...completely insensitive and
> cold...That is how the school system operates....
Do you believe everything your student tells you? Get real
-------------------------------------------------------
> Agree. Not only counselors but some chool staff
> are terrible. After a student leaving school
> early in deep shock and grievance the day the
> death news broke, the attendance office demanded a
> written excuse from parents. The next day gave
> the student a lecture on how you can't leave
> school without properly checking out and that the
> late excuse may be "unacceptable" due to school
> "policy". They didnt even ask how the student was
> feeling and coping...completely insensitive and
> cold...That is how the school system operates....
Do you believe everything your student tells you? Get real
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
RdFox
()
Date: October 06, 2014 01:41AM
I know first hand that the Fairfax-falls church community service board played a devilish role in most of the suicide victims lives.
Creigh Deeds son had a history with the CSB and look at that train wreck.
To all Fairfax County student's parents I strongly advise you to pay the enormous fees for private help if your kid needs or is forced to get help.
Fairfax County has a policy of tormenting anyone who gets out of line for even the smallest infractions. Once they get control of your child they won't let go for a long time and unfortunately many kids just give up before their freedom is restored.
Creigh Deeds son had a history with the CSB and look at that train wreck.
To all Fairfax County student's parents I strongly advise you to pay the enormous fees for private help if your kid needs or is forced to get help.
Fairfax County has a policy of tormenting anyone who gets out of line for even the smallest infractions. Once they get control of your child they won't let go for a long time and unfortunately many kids just give up before their freedom is restored.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit
()
Date: October 06, 2014 02:39PM
My only problem with fcps is that they chose to ignore suicide. I get it's dark subject but that's not something that should ignored. I'm not asking for a huge post on the fcps website, but the least you could do is put something on that schools site. They don't even say anything on the announcements. And when ryan mcelveen did recognize the girl by name he had to delete it. All we get is a disclaimer about sucide help.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit
()
Date: October 06, 2014 02:40PM
I'm surprised at all the empathy from you guys on fairfax underground about this. I expected a ton of jokes. I'm assuming the majority of you are women, not that it matters.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/06/2014 02:40PM by Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/06/2014 02:40PM by Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Selfish
()
Date: October 06, 2014 08:00PM
Fuckwithmeyouknowigotit Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> My only problem with fcps is that they chose to
> ignore suicide. I get it's dark subject but that's
> not something that should ignored. I'm not asking
> for a huge post on the fcps website, but the least
> you could do is put something on that schools
> site. They don't even say anything on the
> announcements. And when ryan mcelveen did
> recognize the girl by name he had to delete it.
> All we get is a disclaimer about sucide help.
It's not their place. Permission from the parents must be given before any information about their daughter can be shared. You do understand that, don't you? I mean, it's not about you
-------------------------------------------------------
> My only problem with fcps is that they chose to
> ignore suicide. I get it's dark subject but that's
> not something that should ignored. I'm not asking
> for a huge post on the fcps website, but the least
> you could do is put something on that schools
> site. They don't even say anything on the
> announcements. And when ryan mcelveen did
> recognize the girl by name he had to delete it.
> All we get is a disclaimer about sucide help.
It's not their place. Permission from the parents must be given before any information about their daughter can be shared. You do understand that, don't you? I mean, it's not about you
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Oh, Mama, can this really be the
()
Date: October 13, 2014 12:20AM
From Edwin S. Shneidman, The Suicidal Mind.
Until Dr. Shneidman took up the study of suicide shortly after World War II, the subject had received little sustained attention from researchers or clinicians. But as a researcher, theoretician, lecturer and author, he helped establish the study of suicide as an interdisciplinary field and devised many concepts now widely accepted.
Until Dr. Shneidman took up the study of suicide shortly after World War II, the subject had received little sustained attention from researchers or clinicians. But as a researcher, theoretician, lecturer and author, he helped establish the study of suicide as an interdisciplinary field and devised many concepts now widely accepted.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
hate waiting in line
()
Date: October 13, 2014 06:36AM
Parents need to emphasize that it's ok to slack off in school because the world needs more baristas.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
Lp6VJ
()
Date: October 14, 2014 04:43PM
i'm hot on your trail i know your a fucking facist trying to get a big gov paycheck for doing fraudulent psych work - mrs "i diagnosed you crazy" foreigner bitch
so you'd hear of at most a couple suicides a year for the whole county when it was much smaller: maybe today a reasonable figure would be several for the whole county. if there wasn't zero tolerance facists treating kids like domination puppets
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fact is going through puberty there is "chemical instability" and kids (HAD BEEN) tought about it, how it's natural, and etc
____________________________
TODAY something dangerous is happening. fucking foriegners are in the usa prescribing dangerous drugs (ie, that CAUSE suicide and say so on the label) to any kid - sometimes for political reasons - or sometimes just because they know they can use puberty as an excuse to give a sexy illegal a large paycheck for fuck
____________________________
TODAY those fucking facists at Google are STRONLY advertizing gov pshy's for teens and massive prescripttions EVEN IN THE FUCKING MEDICAL INFO SEcTION OF ENCYLOPEDIAS
these people, if they are really removing civil evidence puberty is normal, kids can rely on each other and groups and show be taught it's temporary and all that (no drugs, no pshychologists). these people making puberty out to be a mental illness by removing evidences and past articles so to sell drugs: SHOULD BE SHOT. and i mean that if it's true.
Re: Another Suicide from a FCPS student (Fhs)
Posted by:
kbFyd
()
Date: October 14, 2014 04:46PM
my book still shows all about it, puberty, you bitch democrat
and it was handled: for free not billions of obama grafted moneys
==============================
and the drugs? more kids are doign suicide not less: which is what the black box label says, which is there after the drug companies were FORCED to display the black box warnings after being sued for knowingly causing suicides. at the time: they immediately began prescribing it for pets, just incase they lost the human market
sacks of shit is what they are
and it was handled: for free not billions of obama grafted moneys
==============================
and the drugs? more kids are doign suicide not less: which is what the black box label says, which is there after the drug companies were FORCED to display the black box warnings after being sued for knowingly causing suicides. at the time: they immediately began prescribing it for pets, just incase they lost the human market
sacks of shit is what they are