Re: Just got engaged. I am 32 she is 25. What is it really like to be married? I am very happy now.
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my 2 cents
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Date: August 07, 2015 11:01AM
engagd Wrote:
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> my 2 cents Wrote:
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> > OP: There is a small percentage of people out
> > there happily married. Of all the couple I know
> > who are married, I can think of only one
> happily
> > married. The other couples go through the
> motions.
> > They work, take care of the house, deal with
> > bills, deal with kids, soccer practice, swim
> > practice, homework, gymnastics, part-time
> > chauffeurs, and full-time stressed out and
> > generally unhappy. The couples have sex once a
> > quarter with each other. I don't bother to ask
> if
> > they are having sex outside the marriage. I
> think
> > it's likely, or at least on their minds.
> >
> > This 25 year old you are with is young,
> possibly
> > hot, and everything is great right now. Just
> > remember that you grow older, she grows older,
> you
> > run out of things fun to talk about, you will
> stop
> > having sex, and your life will become mundane
> and
> > filled with chores. The chances for unhappiness
> > are huge and it's very possible you'll get a
> > divorce. I think the important thing to
> consider
> > before you get married is whether this girl is
> a
> > good person, to the point of not being a total
> > bitch during a divorce. The last thing you want
> is
> > to marry a smokin hot crazy bitch who will
> become
> > even more psycho if things turn south and your
> > marriage is dissolved.
> >
> > Just my 2 cents.
>
> thanks, she agreed to a prenup and is a nice
> person. so i am not scared of divorce.
Then take the leap. Just make sure you keep the sexual bond going as long as you can. It makes a difference. And, it lessens the chance of her fucking some other guy. Once you stop having sex, the relationship is doomed. Remember, she's 25. She has lots of years left where she wants to explore and get regular inseminations.