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Fairfax Underground
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My boyfriend snoops through my browsing history and looks at my laptop when I go to the restroom. I purpose turned it in a way so that I'd know if he was peeping and he was. When confronted about it he denied it. How do I deal with a man with such low self esteem?
haha i have honestly thought about it. is that bad? i dont think i could do it but i have never given him a reason to think im stepping out and since i caught him red handed for him to deny it is a sure sign that things are no good.
not only is he snooping without probable cause but won't own up to his insecurity? sit him down, calmly call him on it, and give him a chance to save the day. if he can't do that, run for the hills and never look back.
I wouldn't worry about it unless you are looking at sites you know
he wouldn't like. Perhaps he's been burned before. I know some married
couples who actually share an e-mail address because they don't trust
one another enough. (My ex-wife and her current husband are like this)
I know another couple who check each others history constantly. Silly,
but it happens. If my wife wants to know where I've been on-line she
knows all she has to do is ask and I'll show her. Trust me though,
she has no desire to look at the Fairfax Underground because she thinks
we're all crazy anyway.
There is no dealing with a guy like that. Drop him before he cracks up and cuts off your head. But in the meantime, have fun looking up as many horrible things as you can!