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My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 15, 2022 06:44PM

Keeps short changing me. This always and only happens when some bullshit happens that he doesn't like and so I will be taking a week off from work due to car troubles. I don't need that job. I just like it when he's not there or involved.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: jkr ()
Date: June 15, 2022 06:56PM

I worked for an asshole like that for 18 months(should have been 6)...if it gets to you just fucking quit...your well being and mental health is more important.However,economically things were better back then,look for another job in your week off.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 15, 2022 08:10PM

Thank you for your advice man. I'm going to take it. Sorry you had to deal with some shit too. My boss is just a prick.

A guy at work got injured today, and his insulin pump was ripped out of his arm. Instead of my boss being empathetic, he told the guy that "now we're going to be down three people".

I spoke up and how tackless that was and suddenly I'm missing $50 lol. I live 30 miles from my job and busted my ass to get in this week for him to pull some shit like this.

Now they'll be down four people while I wait for my part to come in.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Theft of wages ()
Date: June 16, 2022 03:17PM

He did that so you would have to come back to work. The other guy should file for workmen's compensation.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 17, 2022 09:06AM

Two other employees who spoke up about a situation didn't get paid at all.

I think I'll indeed be leaving soon.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 18, 2022 07:32PM

I'm off for the next 13 days! Got my shifts covered and getting my car fixed. A much needed vacation!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 20, 2022 12:46PM

Pretty happy I decided to take off this week! Shit is hitting the fan and it's extra busy due to people being off today. Boss had to go in today and he's chewing people out on stupid shit over the group chat. I'm biting my tongue lol.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Niggers Are Vile Animals ()
Date: June 20, 2022 01:32PM

You should just kill yourself. Do it on national TV!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 21, 2022 11:04PM

Boss texted me asking how the car is. Apparently my replacement hasn't been showing up so they're short handed. That's unfortunate. Looking at the schedule next week and seeing two of the best employees are going to be out on vacation for a week each is making quitting a lot easier. Plenty of places closer to home are hiring. I just have a lot of freedom to do what I want at the place now and am not going to get to smoke, sit or eat whenever I want like I can there. Decisions, decisions..

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Hots ()
Date: June 21, 2022 11:14PM

Shit yeah, man. Fuck it!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car Psychologist ()
Date: June 21, 2022 11:17PM

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: FP7XF ()
Date: June 22, 2022 12:04AM

Malicious compliance is the way to go. Eventually,a boss like that is going to tell you to do something stupid. When you hear it coming, day "Wait a minute, Boss, let me get out my cell phone and record your orders so I can get it right. This way I'll be able to play back your instructions to make sure I've done everything you told me to do & exactly how you said to "

A week or so later.....

"Yes, Boss, I deleted those files. Why? You told me to. Yes you did. Here, I got right here on my cell phone. Look."

"Can I get them back? I might be able to reconstruct them, but it's going to take time. No, I don't have my notes, you told me to delete those files. Oh, BTW, here's my 30 Days Notice. Now let me get started on those files. No, it's going to take a lot longer than 30 Days. Yes, I'm still leaving. Who's going to reconstruct them? I don't know. Not my prob. I won't be here."

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Horrible Bosses ()
Date: June 22, 2022 12:22AM

Put a little anti-freeze in his coffee. That will show him.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: I hate that ()
Date: June 22, 2022 01:17AM

Car troubles Wrote:
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> Keeps short changing me. This always and only
> happens when some bullshit happens that he doesn't
> like and so I will be taking a week off from work
> due to car troubles. I don't need that job. I just
> like it when he's not there or involved.


You desrve better

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: serious answer ()
Date: June 22, 2022 07:17AM

You should tell him you refuse to work the drive-thru any more. Stand up for yourself.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: BE CREATIVE ()
Date: June 22, 2022 07:40AM

Fuck over his customers
What do u do for work?
U assemble, pack….u see customers face to face?

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Phantom Shitter ()
Date: June 22, 2022 08:09AM

Uhhh... MY needle won't leave the red on this issue.

give_a_fuck.gif

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: wispy88 ()
Date: June 22, 2022 08:11AM

Where have you shat?

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Are u alive, u need a few bumps ()
Date: June 22, 2022 08:13AM

Phantom Shitter Wrote:
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> Uhhh... MY needle won't leave the red on this
> issue.
>
> src=https://www.reactiongifs.us/wp-content/uploads
> /2013/05/give_a_fuck.gif
> width="900">


This guy need some of that old days coke..
Nothing excites him, the meter is always -20+

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Your boss needs some meth ()
Date: June 22, 2022 08:20AM

first, meth will chill the boss

second, boss may become irritable and hostile

third, boss will eventually tweak in and out depending on hit frequency

fourth, boss will lose interest as he gets really skinny and loses his teeth

fifth, don't be surprised when boss offers blow jobs for $5

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:08AM

FP7XF Wrote:
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> Malicious compliance is the way to go.

Haha. I already have plenty of dirt on him, which is why he won't fire me. I'm thinking I'm just going to reduce my availability. The job is great and most of my coworkers are awesome. It's just when he's physically present or someone is slacking or snitching that it sucks and that's pretty much what happens at every job though. I won't have as much freedom other places. Not being there this week has been nice, they're suffering.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:09AM

BE CREATIVE Wrote:
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> Fuck over his customers
> What do u do for work?
> U assemble, pack….u see customers face to face?

I thought about this but I don't want to get fired. I do have an arsenal of shit at the ready in case that ever does happen that'll cause him to lose business.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:10AM

wispy88 Wrote:
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> Where have you shat?

Lol. Only in the toilets. I'm thinking of stealing toilet paper and other items to make up for all this shit.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:11AM

Your boss needs some meth Wrote:
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> second, boss may become irritable and hostile

He's already there. He'd probably physically hurt someone if he got on meth.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: GET PAAAAAID ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:14AM

Car troubles Wrote:
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> BE CREATIVE Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Fuck over his customers
> > What do u do for work?
> > U assemble, pack….u see customers face to
> face?
>
> I thought about this but I don't want to get
> fired. I do have an arsenal of shit at the ready
> in case that ever does happen that'll cause him to
> lose business.


File sexual harassment, complain he mad advances on you, he touched u in ur no no spot

Complain there
no tranny bathrooms

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Just Go to HR or New Job ()
Date: June 22, 2022 11:16AM

You first go the HR department and file a complaint. If your boss is refusing to pay for travel time on planes or give you your vacation vouchers then you should go to your accounting department also.

I had a boss that tried to short me out of my per diem, plane vouchers and wouldn't file my vacation benefits. I finally got a job at another company but I did get compensated for my per diem of about $20,000 when I left.

My new job is completely remote office and the optional. I usually only do the travel if it to places like Hawaii or Bahamas where my per diem is $1000 or more a day.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 22, 2022 12:38PM

Unfortunately he's the owner of the place so his wife is HR. I don't know what she'd do if we all brought it up to her that her husband is a shady, non paying asshole.

I think I've resigned to stealing shit and becoming lazy like everyone else there and to just stop giving a fuck. Cutting my hours and reducing my time there will also help a lot. I just don't like how he mistreats others. I'm going to keep my mouth shut though and continue to smoke, sit and eat on company time. My car should be fixed tomorrow but I'm still not going in until next week, fuck him!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 23, 2022 10:23PM

Ah. Sweet justice. Tonight my boss posted in the group chat asking everyone why there were 7 people opening today and 5 people closing and stuff still not being finished.

I really want to be a smartass and post that it's because I'm not there but it's obvious to him now. Now he sees for himself how I was the one basically running that place and how it falls apart when I'm not there. I'm loving this a little too much and this is what he gets!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: jkr ()
Date: June 24, 2022 02:16PM

Car troubles Wrote:
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> Unfortunately he's the owner of the place so his
> wife is HR. I don't know what she'd do if we all
> brought it up to her that her husband is a shady,
> non paying asshole.
>
> I think I've resigned to stealing shit and
> becoming lazy like everyone else there and to just
> stop giving a fuck. Cutting my hours and reducing
> my time there will also help a lot. I just don't
> like how he mistreats others. I'm going to keep my
> mouth shut though and continue to smoke, sit and
> eat on company time. My car should be fixed
> tomorrow but I'm still not going in until next
> week, fuck him!

I wouldn’t resort to stealing shit,my boss did steal my tools though.I looked into him a little deeper back then,turns out that guy beat and stalked his ex-wife according to court documents…some people are just total shit bags,don’t go down to their level.chalk it up as lesson learned and move on.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 24, 2022 02:47PM

Yeah you're right. Stuff like that catches up to you or comes back on you later on. That's fucked up about your boss doing that shit to his ex wife! Car is fixed. Boss texted this morning asking about the schedule. I gave him a reduced hours availability so I won't have to suffer there for as long anymore. Hopefully I'll be okay lol.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: your boss ()
Date: June 24, 2022 03:44PM

You are on the grill tonight making whopper juniors.

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 24, 2022 04:36PM

Ha! I fuckin wish!

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Re: My boss is manipulative
Posted by: Car troubles ()
Date: June 24, 2022 07:17PM

Well, I finally feel halfway appreciated! Not only did he send me what he shorted me last week, he added a little extra. Even though I'm dreading going back I'm going to try to grin and bear it. I think he realized some stuff while I was out. Going to enjoy the weekend and pray for tolerance for next week lol.

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