Re: Is Gerry really Indian or just a white boy wannabe minority?
Posted by:
Woodysporter
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Date: September 13, 2017 04:43PM
I met his parents Wrote:
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> his family are normal,
> decent people.
His father is of course an
> electrical engineer;
his mother has a PhD in
> Biochem, and taught at NoVa.
> people, tolerant of all, somewhat conservative in
> their views.
FCPS
>
> Gerry's sister Preksha attended the very
> same schools, and now has degrees in law and
> medicine and is happilly married to a stockbroker
> (a white man, incidentally, who also attended
> FCPS.)
>
>
Those are all descriptions of your run of the mill Indian immigrant or even 1st or 2nd gen. They are decent, hard working, conservative who want to fit in. They are a bit tight fisted, but when you come from poverty, you tend to be.
My great grandparents on both sides grew up in the Great Depression, and to hear my Ma and Pa tell it, they were cheap. THe y died when I was in elementary school, so I don't remember them that well; certainly not that about them,
The Indians know most white Americans consider them a bit exotic and strange so they want to fit in and be accepted. It's one reason they encourage their daughters to date and marry white westerners. They really don't like the idea, but it's more important for them to be accepted by white Americans, so they put up with it. They know their sons will have a harder time landing a white western girl, but the girls, when they're young, can land a white western guy. They figure if the girls run around with and marry white boys, people will see they're not so strange and exotic after all.
I had a couple of Indian GFs in HS and college. I was you r typical head banger/stoner back then, when I didn't have HW to do or a job to go to. The parents thought I was a bit off the wall, and they were right, but they were happy that their daughter had landed a westerner and a white one, at that.
Funny, though, even though the 1st & 2nd gen are American in many ways, they seem to retain their ethnic reservations about sex. The Indian chicks will do it, but they think it's just in and out. Oral takes a lot of work. When my first one actually had the Big OOOOOOOOO! after I went down on her, her 1st Q was "does it really feel that good when a girl does it for you?" Yes, sweetie, it does. "What if it tastes funny?" It might, but then your cuisine tastes funny to me, but I eat it and enjoy most of it. "OK. so how do I do this?"