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Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
LaDiva
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:10PM
If you were dating someone for a few months and found out she is a single mom. is it a deal breaker? Do you wish she would have told you up front?
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
jgefuj
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:20PM
LaDiva Wrote:
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> If you were dating someone for a few months and
> found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> breaker? Do you wish she would have told you up
> front?
The deal breaker is that she did not represent everything upfront. I'd wonder what else she was hiding.
How could you NOT know she's a single mom? Are you not going to her place? Is she hiding the kid in a closet when you're there?
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> If you were dating someone for a few months and
> found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> breaker? Do you wish she would have told you up
> front?
The deal breaker is that she did not represent everything upfront. I'd wonder what else she was hiding.
How could you NOT know she's a single mom? Are you not going to her place? Is she hiding the kid in a closet when you're there?
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Clint
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:21PM
A few months? That's too long to wait to tell someone. Second or third date would be more appropriate.
Is it a deal breaker? Depends on how much drama is involved and how you are in the sack.
Is it a deal breaker? Depends on how much drama is involved and how you are in the sack.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
libs hate America.
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:29PM
Shit, I dated a chick for a long time before I knew she was married. She was separated and lived alone. She never wanted to go to Arlington because that's where her husband lived, as I found out later.
She just married the dude for citizenship. Fucking hot German pussy.
She just married the dude for citizenship. Fucking hot German pussy.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
dtfjekk
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:33PM
Clint Wrote:
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> A few months? That's too long to wait to tell
> someone. Second or third date would be more
> appropriate.
No reason to hold back the information. It should be disclosed immediately, unless she is paying for the dates.
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> A few months? That's too long to wait to tell
> someone. Second or third date would be more
> appropriate.
No reason to hold back the information. It should be disclosed immediately, unless she is paying for the dates.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Big Dick Black
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Date: November 10, 2014 02:58PM
Depends on (1) How hot she looks and (2) If she likes BBBJCIMWS
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Wrectum.Wrecker
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Date: November 10, 2014 05:23PM
Does she take dick up the ass?
If the answer is yes AND...willingly? I can overlook some things...
Zippy chance I'm marrying her though.
If the answer is yes AND...willingly? I can overlook some things...
Zippy chance I'm marrying her though.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Slobbersaurus
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Date: November 10, 2014 05:49PM
For a lot of guys it definitely can be.
I dated a single mom once and we were constantly having to deal with the Baby Daddy. He was on ok guy, not violent or anything, but always seemed to be "around" if you know what I mean. It get's old quick.
I dated a single mom once and we were constantly having to deal with the Baby Daddy. He was on ok guy, not violent or anything, but always seemed to be "around" if you know what I mean. It get's old quick.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Open Minded Intellectual
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Date: November 10, 2014 06:05PM
LaDiva Wrote:
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> If you were dating someone for a few months and
> found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> breaker? Do you wish she would have told you up
> front?
Depends. If the kid is black, hispanic, asian, or some kind of deformed dwarf midget - I guess you can live with that and let it go. Everyone has a past and has done things they regret.
But if her kid is the retarded offspring from some Republican/Tea Bagger - game over. Reproducing with that sort of scum is worse than bestiality and there is no excuse for failing to disclose that degraded level of sexual deviancy up front.
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> If you were dating someone for a few months and
> found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> breaker? Do you wish she would have told you up
> front?
Depends. If the kid is black, hispanic, asian, or some kind of deformed dwarf midget - I guess you can live with that and let it go. Everyone has a past and has done things they regret.
But if her kid is the retarded offspring from some Republican/Tea Bagger - game over. Reproducing with that sort of scum is worse than bestiality and there is no excuse for failing to disclose that degraded level of sexual deviancy up front.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
onlies
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Date: November 10, 2014 06:06PM
It is only a deal breaker if she has boys.
I am dating a chinese woman who has 5 girls and her husband died 2 years ago and left her the mansion and a big check from the airline industry and she and her girls are so pretty! Uptown class status.
Already we had sex 3 times.
She wants me to move in with her asap. I think I will.
I am dating a chinese woman who has 5 girls and her husband died 2 years ago and left her the mansion and a big check from the airline industry and she and her girls are so pretty! Uptown class status.
Already we had sex 3 times.
She wants me to move in with her asap. I think I will.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Cream of Sum Yung Gy
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Date: November 10, 2014 07:08PM
5 girls? How can you tell you're in? Talk about throwing a hot dog down a hallway!
Oh, so you're there only to bang the girls once they reach their teenage years? Clever!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EKqDCFcIck
Oh, so you're there only to bang the girls once they reach their teenage years? Clever!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EKqDCFcIck
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Decrapitated
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Date: November 10, 2014 09:16PM
Cream of Sum Yung Gy Wrote:
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> 5 girls? How can you tell you're in? Talk about
> throwing a hot dog down a hallway!
>
> Oh, so you're there only to bang the girls once
> they reach their teenage years? Clever!
>
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EKqDCFcIck
Woody Allen lives!
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> 5 girls? How can you tell you're in? Talk about
> throwing a hot dog down a hallway!
>
> Oh, so you're there only to bang the girls once
> they reach their teenage years? Clever!
>
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EKqDCFcIck
Woody Allen lives!
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
eesh
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Date: November 10, 2014 09:22PM
You know who likes single moms?
......this guy!
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Blessed are the murderous.
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......this guy!
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Blessed are the murderous.
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Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Huh???
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Date: November 10, 2014 09:28PM
Open Minded Intellectual Wrote:
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> LaDiva Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > If you were dating someone for a few months and
> > found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> > breaker? Do you wish she would have told you
> up
> > front?
>
> Depends. If the kid is black, hispanic, asian, or
> some kind of deformed dwarf midget - I guess you
> can live with that and let it go. Everyone has a
> past and has done things they regret.
>
> But if her kid is the retarded offspring from some
> Republican/Tea Bagger - game over. Reproducing
> with that sort of scum is worse than bestiality
> and there is no excuse for failing to disclose
> that degraded level of sexual deviancy up front.
Something's suspicious about this poster's name but...I just...can't...place it.
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> LaDiva Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > If you were dating someone for a few months and
> > found out she is a single mom. is it a deal
> > breaker? Do you wish she would have told you
> up
> > front?
>
> Depends. If the kid is black, hispanic, asian, or
> some kind of deformed dwarf midget - I guess you
> can live with that and let it go. Everyone has a
> past and has done things they regret.
>
> But if her kid is the retarded offspring from some
> Republican/Tea Bagger - game over. Reproducing
> with that sort of scum is worse than bestiality
> and there is no excuse for failing to disclose
> that degraded level of sexual deviancy up front.
Something's suspicious about this poster's name but...I just...can't...place it.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Nonot
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Date: November 10, 2014 10:24PM
Some guys actually see her as not a real woman if She doesn't have kids or doesn't want any. A woman who doesn't want any has some serious deficits.
They may be afraid of having their own children because they have many crazy relatives and worry about having a child that takes after them.
If the woman's child/ren are good-looking, well-behaved and smart its often a deal-closer for some men. She is also a bit more responsible for the kids, because they are hers. So, he gets cute kids to play daddy with and doesn't have full responsibility.
They may be afraid of having their own children because they have many crazy relatives and worry about having a child that takes after them.
If the woman's child/ren are good-looking, well-behaved and smart its often a deal-closer for some men. She is also a bit more responsible for the kids, because they are hers. So, he gets cute kids to play daddy with and doesn't have full responsibility.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
the terrible tooheys
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Date: November 11, 2014 01:25AM
Wrectum.Wrecker Wrote:
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> Does she take dick up the ass?
>
> If the answer is yes AND...willingly? I can
> overlook some things...
>
> Zippy chance I'm marrying her though.
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> Does she take dick up the ass?
>
> If the answer is yes AND...willingly? I can
> overlook some things...
>
> Zippy chance I'm marrying her though.
Anonymous josh price post
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
the_pole
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Date: November 11, 2014 09:21AM
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Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
XG3tt
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Date: November 11, 2014 09:30AM
absolute deal breaker. Being lied to about the familial status you certainly could not trust the person, ever. Why lie? It would require a great deal of effort and deception to keep it up. Poor kid, his mom is desperate and ashamed to disclose the most beautiful thing we are given mother/child bond.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Justin_G
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Date: November 11, 2014 09:37AM
Single mom's can be fun, especially if they have a teen daughter
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Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
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Date: November 11, 2014 09:50AM
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Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
JP
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Date: November 11, 2014 10:01AM
It all depends on why she is a single mother
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Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Bill.N.
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:09AM
Most of the women I've been out with since my divorce were single moms. Having kids myself that is usually who I meet, and it creates an opportunity to start a conversation with them. The only down side so far has been scheduling issues.
Now if the woman insists on introducing you to her kids after just a few dates, RUN.
Now if the woman insists on introducing you to her kids after just a few dates, RUN.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
gerthuils
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:38AM
Bill.N. Wrote:
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> Now if the woman insists on introducing you to her
> kids after just a few dates, RUN.
I'm not sure if I agree with that in every circumstance. I think chemistry can develop quickly. If you're not into her but she wants you to meet her kid(s), then back off. But if the chemistry is there, I think it might be a good idea to meet the kid(s). Many times this can be an important test; how you get along with the kid(s), etc.
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> Now if the woman insists on introducing you to her
> kids after just a few dates, RUN.
I'm not sure if I agree with that in every circumstance. I think chemistry can develop quickly. If you're not into her but she wants you to meet her kid(s), then back off. But if the chemistry is there, I think it might be a good idea to meet the kid(s). Many times this can be an important test; how you get along with the kid(s), etc.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
b. ryan
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:46AM
Okay, how many kids? Is the ex causing her grief all the time and does she have a restraining order against him? Is he paying child support? What's the history of these kids? Jail time seem to run in the family? I've been there and done that and domestic problems aren't my thing.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
judge much
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:47AM
I have a buddy who is a single Dad. He says women are 100x more judgmental when it comes to dating a single parent. It's rare he can find a single woman (no kids) who will date him. He says 99% of the time, his dates are with single moms.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
bloody blisters
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:49AM
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
dfekermk
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Date: November 11, 2014 11:52AM
bloody blisters Wrote:
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> at least with single moms you know they put out.
> almost a guarantee
Yeah, but be careful. Because you also know their innards work just fine too. Don't want no extra ankle biters runnin around.
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> at least with single moms you know they put out.
> almost a guarantee
Yeah, but be careful. Because you also know their innards work just fine too. Don't want no extra ankle biters runnin around.
Re: Is being a single mom a deal breaker
Posted by:
Angels or Devils
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Date: November 11, 2014 12:04PM
TRUTH:
Being a single mom is not a deal-breaker in-and-of-itself. Being a single mom with one or a couple of shitty offspring is.
I'm talking about the kind of offspring that just fuck things up because they're too ignorant and/or selfish not to. Kids doing things that get them arrested/in jail for petty shit, kids that fight to hide their lack of self esteem then get expelled from school, underage drunkenness on a regular basis, illicit drug possession/use, hanging out with other fucked up kids, disappearing for days. These type of things, to name a few.
Someone once told me, "If there is one thing that can ruin a perfectly good relationship, it's the shitty kids from a prior relationship".
Us single parents must ask ourselves this question and answer honestly:
"Are my kids complete assholes"?
If yes, then stay single until you can get them out of your house/life.
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Being a single mom is not a deal-breaker in-and-of-itself. Being a single mom with one or a couple of shitty offspring is.
I'm talking about the kind of offspring that just fuck things up because they're too ignorant and/or selfish not to. Kids doing things that get them arrested/in jail for petty shit, kids that fight to hide their lack of self esteem then get expelled from school, underage drunkenness on a regular basis, illicit drug possession/use, hanging out with other fucked up kids, disappearing for days. These type of things, to name a few.
Someone once told me, "If there is one thing that can ruin a perfectly good relationship, it's the shitty kids from a prior relationship".
Us single parents must ask ourselves this question and answer honestly:
"Are my kids complete assholes"?
If yes, then stay single until you can get them out of your house/life.
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