My sweet darling told us thus morning that she's 3 months pregnant! She doesn't know who the father is, but has a vague idea. I don't care for the father since he's going to be a loser anyways. How do I handle this? Should I talk her into aborting the baby (my precious grandson)? My daughter's planning on dropping out of school. And no, we are not blacks; we are a normal white family.

edit by Cary: Poster has a history of trolling. Moved to Off-Topic. Poster, do not troll Fairfax General. Only warning.



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It baffles the mind why anyone would seek advice on a forum. If she's 3 months along and does decide to abort, you have to go outside of the Commonwealth. It is beyond stupid to abort beyond the first trimester, too. It looks like she concealed it from you for a reason...

Why the hell I'm actually answering such a post escapes me.

The bigger problem is you raised a whore

On the upside, She can work at the paper moon.

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To clarify, your question is:

Should you talk your daughter into killing it because it will make everyone's life complicated?

Consider this: When the kid is ready to go to college, your daughter will be 34. She can get on with her life then. Or, she can end up a prescription drug addict Prozac feind and hate you forever 'what you did to her'.

I'll put $20 down and indicate that the father of the baby is most likely of Hispanic descent.

I have some friends who would LOVE to adopt him. Let me know if you are interested.

Debbie Downer Democrat XD Wrote:
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> I'll put $20 down and indicate that the father of
> the baby is most likely of Hispanic descent.

I'm going to say $50 and the father is black.

So after the birth, will your daughter and little baby Deondre be living with you?

LOL "no we are not blacks.."

thisisajokeright Wrote:
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> LOL "no we are not blacks.."

Translation? Gullible White People.

I know in Rockville you can get abortions done up to 17 weeks and its ~$800 (for being so late/more risky). Google "potomac family planning". This helped a friend of mine last year.

If you wish, make the appointment now. Doesn't mean you can't cancel if you change your mind later.

Your options:

1) YOu can pay the $800 and be done with it, get her an IUD or pills or something from them they do that too.

2) have the baby and place it for adoption. Plenty of places around here that do open adpotion, just screen carefully/read reviews online/talk to parents if you can. there are open(you get pics and maybe even a visit)/closed (never see/hear from them again) adoptions.

3) have the baby and move on. Fairfax County does have a decent wic/medicaid/housing program, but best to sign up sooner rather than later. or get a job/go to school now before you start showing too much.

Make the choice that's best for YOU (well really let HER make the choice).

Please look into counseling for both your daughter and yourself, to help you through this stressful time for all of you. Your health insurance may be able to point you to a directory of covered providers so you can find professionals in your area. Beyond navigating the pregnancy issue, this may help you all deal with deeper-rooted issues that could help you all.

I also suggest contacting her school's counselors to get help; it's important that she not lose focus on her education despite this distraction.

A child is a blessing. If not for your family, for someone else's.

Kick her ass out and change the locks.

Old enough to breed, old enough to take care of herself.

Keep the baby, after its born you'll thank me. Unless the father is black? Did I just say that, I didnt just say that. How inappropriate, disregard the part about the black baby.

I would say falcon punch but that may be illegal. Check the laws in your area before using it.
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Mikeymike Wrote:
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> A child is a blessing. If not for your family,
> for someone else's.

Or sometimes it's just a byproduct of recreational activity. Get rid of it now. As someone who was such a product himself, do the world a favor. And get your kid back under control. I wish my grandparents had made my mother do the same.

And find the kid who impregnated her and beat the living shit out of him.

Too many unwanted accidents in the world already.

Contact her school's counselor. FCPS actually has a school for kids like her, a program with daycare, classes with other parent students, counseling and they have parenting classes. I don't remember the name of the school ( starts with a W), but one of my students just transferred there for this reason.

A teacher Wrote:
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> Contact her school's counselor. FCPS actually has
> a school for kids like her, a program with
> daycare, classes with other parent students,
> counseling and they have parenting classes. I
> don't remember the name of the school ( starts
> with a W), but one of my students just transferred
> there for this reason.

Do they have an in-house abortion clinic? Do we have to do this at home ourselves? My husband has a Shop-Vac that might help.

What you propose only seems to promote more bad behavior.

A teacher Wrote:
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> Contact her school's counselor. FCPS actually has
> a school for kids like her, a program with
> daycare, classes with other parent students,
> counseling and they have parenting classes. I
> don't remember the name of the school ( starts
> with a W), but one of my students just transferred
> there for this reason.


I think its called Bryant. Thats where expelled and pregnant students go.

I got pregnant at 15 and was forced to carry the baby to term and give her up for adoption. If this is the route your daughter is to go, please understand this.

80% of "open" adoptions are bull. People will say anything to get ahold of a healthy white baby. The ultimate sense of "entitlement" are these middle class infertile couples ( usually due to her eating disorder and scared pelvis from botched abortions) thinking they have the right to promise you the sun moon and stars with no intention of doing right by you and your daughter at all.

NOR, The baby as a healthy white baby literally holds the world as its oyster the demand is that huge. I would forgo notions of any open adoption and find a family that is extremely wealthy and can afford private school as anybody who goes to public school has a 95% chance of winding up an idiot- that's the point.

KNOW that in adoption the ball is totally in your court and never let a selfish loser family or full of crap lawyer make you think otherwise. You have ALL the power. Understand the supply and demand.

In a "closed" adoption you may still get their real names or no baby- period.

The father has equal responsibility., My daughter ended the spitting image of his Mother. She got a short letter and 2 clear pictures in the mail and nothing else, as did his other daughter. He made my family suffer enormously and knew to pull out but selfishlessly did not!

Preggers at 15?

You should have stuck to anal or just blowjobs. Im sure you did all that too right?

( Yes OP is obviously a troll yet, often a trolls bite can surface real wounds)

Just anal? What can I say? Years later, I can understand the balance in that logic yet, I was simply a stupid girl with stupid parents.

Years later I met and fell in love with somebody born on the same day as him, He dumped me and ended up with a woman born on the same day as my daughter who gave him a son ( he stupidly made a deal with the devil to save his son with muscular dystrophy, The devil works through you- not for you) that She kidnapped and went back to China with.

ifyougothere Wrote:
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> ( Yes OP is obviously a troll yet, often a trolls
> bite can surface real wounds)
>
> Just anal? What can I say? Years later, I can
> understand the balance in that logic yet, I was
> simply a stupid girl with stupid parents.
>
> Years later I met and fell in love with somebody
> born on the same day as him, He dumped me and
> ended up with a woman born on the same day as my
> daughter who gave him a son ( he stupidly made a
> deal with the devil to save his son with muscular
> dystrophy, The devil works through you- not for
> you) that She kidnapped and went back to China
> with.

Are you into numerology or why the hell does any of that matter?

ifyougothere... Wrote:
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> 80% of "open" adoptions are bull. People will say
> anything to get ahold of a healthy white baby. The
> ultimate sense of "entitlement" are these middle
> class infertile couples ( usually due to her
> eating disorder and scared pelvis from botched
> abortions) thinking they have the right to promise
> you the sun moon and stars with no intention of
> doing right by you and your daughter at all.

That's a crock of shit. Open adoption is great for the child, for the birth families, and for the adoptive family.

Mikeymike Wrote:
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> A child is a blessing. If not for your family,
> for someone else's.


You obviously have never had a 16 year kid with a baby. She's fucked for the rest of her 16-26 years. Good luck with college anywhere.

I suppose you think this 16 year old can afford weekly child care, medical bills, clothing, diapers, crib etc.. and food for the baby? That should be around at least $1500 a month.

Put the kid into a foster home or orphanage? Oh yea that's what society needs. Another crackhead living off my tax dollars.

No brainer, abort it.

Not true, she can go to Night school and still graduate (a year late). As for college, she can take online courses until the baby is old enough for daycare or to be watched by a relative while she goes to college. This is the 21st century, there are many, many opportunities to get around problems like this.

Craigslist

libs hate America Wrote:
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> Craigslist


That's probably how she got preggos in the first place...

Best part is that she can't get knocked up twice at the same time, take advantage while you can.

Stabitha?

ifyougothere... Wrote:
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He made
> my family suffer enormously and knew to pull out
> but selfishlessly did not!


.... you could have said "no glove, no love" and stuck with it....

Libs, unless you are black, have brainwashed the weak minded to think a baby is a detriment to society. In a proud American, conservative family a baby is a blessing and human life is cherished and nurtured. Libs can't relate because they have been taught to kill the unborn baby, that it's bad, that it's a burden. Blacks however, see it as $$$$. They get more welfare for every baby.

libs hate America Wrote:
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> Libs, unless you are black, have brainwashed the
> weak minded to think a baby is a detriment to
> society. In a proud American, conservative family
> a baby is a blessing and human life is cherished
> and nurtured. Libs can't relate because they have
> been taught to kill the unborn baby, that it's
> bad, that it's a burden. Blacks however, see it as
> $$$$. They get more welfare for every baby.


I'm a pro-life liberal, so....

thisisajokeright Wrote:
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> libs hate America Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Libs, unless you are black, have brainwashed
> the
> > weak minded to think a baby is a detriment to
> > society. In a proud American, conservative
> family
> > a baby is a blessing and human life is
> cherished
> > and nurtured. Libs can't relate because they
> have
> > been taught to kill the unborn baby, that it's
> > bad, that it's a burden. Blacks however, see it
> as
> > $$$$. They get more welfare for every baby.
>
>
> I'm a pro-life liberal, so....

That's funny. There is no such thing. It's like calling yourself a Christian liberal. It's just not possible.

In the black community, most babies are just unfortunate collateral damage from a booty call. The baby daddy wants nothing to do with the child. The momma, usally a kid herself, grows to resent the child because she has no clue how to raise a child it reminds her of the baby daddy who she now despises because he stuck her with raising this kid by herself. Well, that's not true either, usually granny raises the kid so momma can go out and fuck some more thugs. So you end up with a kid nobody wants who becomes angry and violent and either (A) goes out and makes more unwanted babies and becomes a welfare queen, or (B) kills someone and goes to jail for life.

That's pretty much the cycle of life in the hood.

Stabitha Wrote:
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> In the black community, most babies are just
> unfortunate collateral damage from a booty call.
> The baby daddy wants nothing to do with the child.
> The momma, usally a kid herself, grows to resent
> the child because she has no clue how to raise a
> child it reminds her of the baby daddy who she now
> despises because he stuck her with raising this
> kid by herself. Well, that's not true either,
> usually granny raises the kid so momma can go out
> and fuck some more thugs. So you end up with a kid
> nobody wants who becomes angry and violent and
> either (A) goes out and makes more unwanted babies
> and becomes a welfare queen, or (B) kills someone
> and goes to jail for life.
>
> That's pretty much the cycle of life in the hood.


Libs enable this. Don't forget that.

libs hate America Wrote:
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> thisisajokeright Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > libs hate America Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Libs, unless you are black, have brainwashed
> > the
> > > weak minded to think a baby is a detriment to
> > > society. In a proud American, conservative
> > family
> > > a baby is a blessing and human life is
> > cherished
> > > and nurtured. Libs can't relate because they
> > have
> > > been taught to kill the unborn baby, that
> it's
> > > bad, that it's a burden. Blacks however, see
> it
> > as
> > > $$$$. They get more welfare for every baby.
> >
> >
> > I'm a pro-life liberal, so....
>
> That's funny. There is no such thing. It's like
> calling yourself a Christian liberal. It's just
> not possible.

Didn't Jesus help the poor? I don't understand how Christianity has strayed so far from what it says in the Bible.

MammaJones Wrote:
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> My sweet darling told us thus morning that she's 3
> months pregnant! She doesn't know who the father
> is, but has a vague idea. I don't care for the
> father since he's going to be a loser anyways. How
> do I handle this? Should I talk her into aborting
> the baby (my precious grandson)? My daughter's
> planning on dropping out of school. And no, we are
> not blacks; we are a normal white family.

Really MOM! On a bb forum? Jeez, with your parenting skills no wonder I am pregnant!

Did the baby daddy at least get you off first or was it a pump and dump?

Give it for adoption and then teach the poor little girl how to use protection and dont trust that the boy is taking care of it.

3 sharp strikes with a baseball bat right below the belly button.

MammaJones Wrote:
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> My sweet darling told us thus morning that she's 3
> months pregnant! She doesn't know who the father
> is, but has a vague idea. I don't care for the
> father since he's going to be a loser anyways. How
> do I handle this? Should I talk her into aborting
> the baby (my precious grandson)? My daughter's
> planning on dropping out of school. And no, we are
> not blacks; we are a normal white family.


Troll troll troll. There is no way that your 12 weeks pregnant 16 year old knows that she's carrying your "grandson" yet.

real unbiased talk Wrote:
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> I know in Rockville you can get abortions done up
> to 17 weeks and its ~$800 (for being so late/more
> risky). Google "potomac family planning". This
> helped a friend of mine last year.
>
> If you wish, make the appointment now. Doesn't
> mean you can't cancel if you change your mind
> later.
>
> Your options:
>
> 1) YOu can pay the $800 and be done with it, get
> her an IUD or pills or something from them they do
> that too.
>
> 2) have the baby and place it for adoption. Plenty
> of places around here that do open adpotion, just
> screen carefully/read reviews online/talk to
> parents if you can. there are open(you get pics
> and maybe even a visit)/closed (never see/hear
> from them again) adoptions.
>
> 3) have the baby and move on. Fairfax County does
> have a decent wic/medicaid/housing program, but
> best to sign up sooner rather than later. or get a
> job/go to school now before you start showing too
> much.
>
> Make the choice that's best for YOU (well really
> let HER make the choice).


You dumbass, those are FEDERAL welfare programs and why in the Hell should MY tax dollars have to go to support a stupid 16 year old who is a product of bad parenting?

Do you love me or does a fetus not count?

ABORTION! end of story.

The LAST thing this world is anotehr child having a child.

AND I BLAME THE PARENT FOR THIS CRAP!!!
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?? HELLO!! BIRTH CONTROL!!!


Abort the pregnancy... and get you kid on birth control.


Kids are not having sex to have kids, they have sex to have orgasms.


spay and nueter your pets and kids, you morons

Hahahah called the fuck out for trolling

In Fairfax, normal and white is abnormal minority.