Lurker. Wrote:
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> There's no magic formula. What works with some
> women won't work with others. Like anything the
> more you try the more you will perfect YOUR
> style.
>
> Confidence is certanly key. Would you date
> somebody who wasn't confident? Women like a guy
> who is the provider and takes charge of a
> situation. A good sense of humor also works
> wonders.
>
> I have a couple of openers that work well for me.
> I don't want to give out my best ones because then
> everybody will know.
>
> I'll give you a couple of starters\ice breakers:
>
> 1) Pick out some piece of jewelry she's wearing,
> look over and smile, then say I just bought that
> exact same (whatever) for my sister or Mom. (It
> shows you care about family, you give presents and
> your complimenting her on her taste at the same
> time)
>
> 2) Accidentally bump into her, as an apology buy
> her a drink. If she's interested then she'll
> follow up.
>
> 3) Figure out something she's interested in and
> comment on it.
>
> 4) My favorite, which is not for a novice is to
> simply walk straight over and say, "I noticed you
> from over there and I thought you looked cute so I
> decided to come over here and introduce myself,
> I'm X" If she says, oh well I'm blah blah , but
> thanks, Leave her alone, this usually doesn't
> work the first time, but later after she thinks
> about it, she'll usually become interested since
> you had the balls to do that and it probably
> rarely happens to her.
>
> Really listen to her responses and it should be
> easy to follow up with good conversations.
>
> Giving a girl your number rarely works me, get her
> number and call her three days after. A lot of
> girls feel akward calling a guy unless their
> desperate.
>
> I know this sounds kinda whore-ish but spend some
> money on her. Especially flowers, women love
> getting flowers.
Sorry man, I had to bring up your advice in this thread!
LOL!
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