Re: LBSS alumni causing problems
Posted by:
Anon
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Date: May 09, 2011 09:16PM
This has been happening for many, many years. Grads who are still in the area or home for break hang out with their high school friends. I graduated several years ago and remember lots of 19-20 year olds waiting by the high school for their friends to get out. Yes, they probably do supply some of the alcohol to minors, but honestly most of the grads that still hang out with high schoolers are under 21 themselves. I've never felt the need to hang out with kids from high school after I graduated, seems kind of lame.
To tell the truth, it isn't your place to go around trying to ban people from hanging out with each other. I'm not sure if they are "orchestrating" high school parties, there are plenty of high school kids with very relaxed/oblivious parents to do that. I get that you are worried about your kids, which is great, but as long as you make sure they aren't going to those kinds of parties (pretty easy to tell if they always "sleep over" at their friend's house to sober up or get home at like 2am or later) then you won't run into any problems.
I'd say the major component to underage kids drinking is their parents, until they go off to college that is. Every once in a while one of these underage kids will be driving home drunk from a party and get themselves killed or hospitalized, but their friends will still continue their lame little parties, because that's what kids do. It isn't right, but if you are truly concerned about it you should talk to other parents rather than lay the entire blame on kids who are still largely under 21.