Re: How can I deal with this loser?
Posted by:
problemsolver101
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Date: August 04, 2016 12:19PM
IPissedInYourWhiskey Wrote:
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> I have a neighbor who loves to stomp around his
> room like a god damn elephant above me. I've
> tried pounding on the ceiling with a broom handle,
> but that's done nothing.
>
> I want him to realize he's pissing me off. Ideas?
Broom handle is passive aggressive and not a healthy way to resolve problems.
Here potential ideas and solutions to your problem.
1) talk to the person calmly and cooly about your problem
---they will likely ignore you or not change
2) talk to them again
---they will likely ignore you or not change
3) install sound proofing material on your ceiling if possible, use ear plugs, change your schedule or routine to not be around during the times the neighbor is making the noise
4) one alternative is to move, which may not be a suggestion you think you can take, but one has to be sane, you will have to think outside the box, save up, make it work, move wherever you can after saving up and coming up with a plan
Any behavior in attempt to make the person stop such as pounding on the ceiling, playing loud music, indirectly confronting the person in any way without targeting what the issue is is futile and will only drive you and or them crazy in the end and make your more mad and unhealthy