Re: 2e?
Posted by:
waweez
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Date: July 23, 2009 02:16PM
Thurston wrote:
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Maybe we are coming out of the age of ritalin and other drugs. Let's hope.
What you just described would have been a sure-fire diagnosis for something like ADHD, or ADD, or some psychological disorder requiring pyschoactive drugs.
If we've moved past that phase, that's a fucking good thing.
But don't expect a government run school system to catch up.
If you want your kids to have a good education, pay for it yourself. Public schools are nothing more than the lowest common denominator, they teach the riff-raff, and the poor, and those who do not wish to sacrifice for their children in the hopes that their children will achieve more than they did.
Stick with the public schools if you want to remain socially and financially immobile. To become upwardly mobile, from generation to generation, buy the best education you can afford for your kids. Consider those "taxes" you pay for education, that you think affords you the right to demand tailored education for your little procreation, as a social and economic payment to prevent your children from growing up in a world of absolute morons.
It's like food stamps. Yes, we all pay for them, but would you want to try to live off the sort of foods you could afford on food stamps? No. You buy better food with your own money. Why put your kids through public schools if you could afford to send them to someplace better, that will teach them well and according to the values YOU CHOOSE to instill them with?
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Since you brought it up, a child who has ADHD, (with or without the H) that impacts his ability to benefit from his school experience (because he can't stay in his seat, he has limited ability to maintain attention to task, he says the first thing that comes out of his mouth without thinking and is constantly in trouble, for example) may be found eligible for Special Education, usually under the category of "Other Health Impairment." This allows for the school, with input from the child's parents, to provide various methods for the child to LEARN new ways to handle himself and to be successful.
The best research we have says that kids with ADHD generally will need BOTH stimulant medication AND behavior management techniques that are used consistently at home and at school, so the child knows what is expected of him, there is a consistent response to his actions by all adults, and the child is not required to do more than he is reasonably capable of doing. Using positive behavior supports is far more successful than any punitive techniques. Schools haven't learned this yet, or perhaps, just don't accept it.
It doesn't matter where the child goes to school as long as the way he is managed, and taught to manage himself, is appropriate to his needs.
Some people have no choice but to eat what their food stamp allotment allows, just as they have no means to send their kids to private schools. My personal opinion is that those of us who are fortunate enough to have more than we really need to survive have a moral obligation to give a hand up to those who are struggling. If we see a wrong, we should try to right it. But for the Grace of God, there go I.