Just an Observer Wrote:
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> Wow has this ever happened before? I thought Cary
> didn't talk to the media.
>
>
http://potomaclocal.com/2015/06/08/missing-nokesvi
> lle-boy-terrorized-online-prior-to-disappearance/
>
> Exclusive: Missing Nokesville boy terrorized
> online prior to disappearance
> by Stephanie Tipple on June 8, 2015 at 8:42 am
>
> Potomac Local spoke with the owner of community
> forum the Fairfax Underground, Cary Wiedemann,
> about T.J. Sadler’s disappearance.
>
> According to Wiedemann, there may be reason to
> suspect foul play.
>
> “If my mapping of online personas to real world
> identities is accurate, [Sadler] has been the
> perpetrator of harassment far more than the
> receiver. I have been trying to ban this
> individual from Fairfax Underground for years,
> going as far as deactivating dozens of accounts
> and banning hundreds of IP addresses. Due to the
> abusive nature of comments likely authored by this
> young man I had to take the nearly unprecedented
> step of banning entire neighborhoods of Verizon
> DSL users in the Nokesville area, as T.J. Sadler
> learned how to change his IP address…it’s
> worth nothing that this young man sparked the ire
> of countless individuals…I worry that this
> disappearance could be due to foul play, given how
> T.J’s online personas irked many,” said
> Wiedemann in an email.
>
> Potomac Local has reached out to the Prince
> William County Police Department with the
> information given by Wiedemann in relation to this
> case.
>
> “We are aware of the site and the postings. We
> still have no reason to believe that he left under
> any other circumstances other than his own
> accord,” said Officer Perok, public information
> officer for Prince William police.
> Original post
>
> It appears that Thomas James “T.J.” Sadler –
> a 14-year old Nokesville boy that went missing on
> June 3 – may have left home after being bullied
> online.
>
> Lynn Sadler, a family nurse practitioner and
> T.J.’s mother, stated that she was struggling
> with her son’s disappearance.
>
> “I’m not doing well. It’s just me mostly –
> there isn’t really any other family,” said
> Sadler.
> Online harassment on community forum
>
> According to Sadler, her son was severely bullied
> by anonymous individuals on a community forum site
> called the Fairfax Underground.
>
> The harassment began after T.J. posted on the site
> back in December 2014. Commenters began posting
> personal information and records about T.J. and
> his mother, as well as photos.
>
> “There’s been a lot of online harassment from
> my first ex-husband…he’s been posting pictures
> of me and my son – calling him homosexual…and
> then there was another individual who got on there
> with the screen name of ‘eesh’ and he’s also
> been terrorizing my son. They’ve posted all
> kinds of pictures of my face on pornography – my
> son’s face on pornography…calling my son gay.
> I presume this has what’s gotten to him all this
> time,” said Sadler.
> Law enforcement unable to help
>
> Sadler stated that she reached out to law
> enforcement for help with the online attacks, but
> was not successful.
>
> “I’ve been to the police, I’ve been to the
> Commonwealth Attorney…no one’s done anything
> to protect my son from all of this. I’ve been
> harassed terribly too – I’ve even hired a
> private detective and they weren’t able to do
> anything because Cary – who owns the Fairfax
> Underground – won’t release any information
> about who’s doing these things,” Sadler
> commented.
>
> Originally when T.J. was reported missing the
> Prince William police thought he had left on foot,
> but they later learned that he had taken his
> grandfather’s car and had left while his mother
> was at the hospital.
>
> “I don’t know why [he left]. He’s been very
> sad and depressed. I’ve tried to do things to
> fix it…my father was in the hospital having a
> stroke at the time. I had talked to him on the
> phone and I asked him to do a couple of things to
> get ready for my dad to come home…and when I got
> home T.J. was nowhere to be found,” said
> Sadler.
>
> The vehicle is a blue Ford pickup truck with the
> license tag ZMD-4856.
> He is still missing
>
> Sadler has pled on Facebook, and when she spoke
> with Potomac Local, for her son’s return.
>
> “I’m so afraid that he’s not okay…I’m
> heartbroken. I’m destroyed. I can’t function.
> I don’t know how I’m going to face all of
> this,” said Sadler.
>
> Officer Jon Perok from the Prince William police
> stated that T.J. Sadler is still missing as of
> this morning.
>
> He is a white male, 6’5” and 220 pounds with
> collar length sandy brown hair and brown eyes. He
> was last seen wearing a red and black striped
> t-shirt and blue jeans.
>
> POTOMAC LOCAL
>
> LOL I guess he has no love loss for a troll
FXU owner/admin, if he is going to keep his website up, needs to restrict it the best he can from anyone under the age of 21. No younger than 18.
With instruct that they could be subjected to such things as this 'TJ SADLER incidences and the rest.
Parents should be individually blocking their children from websites like this one and the rest. Just like they would do with other sites with concerns of the effects it may have on them. (their children)
It would also help with stopping a ton of childish garbage nonsense being posted that jams up the website redundantly.
Easy solutions for to stop such incidences as this.
As many should notice, additionally, the same username keeps coming up with similar incidences. 'eesh'. This sick minded pervert has been spamming profusely, as well as certain others.
Him and these certain others are constantly breaking FXU admin's 'stickey' rules - NO PERSONAL ATTACKS AND/OR ATTEMPTED OUTINGS". In which 'eesh' and his 'running mates' persistently perform without waiver. The spamming involves tons of super grotesque XXX porn pictures and short video clip 'gifs' that they are obviously transferring from their endless surfing of porn sites as well.
Why is FXU admin, Cary, doing anything 'solid' about this problem? This 'eesh' but case's identity is now known. Supposedly with going to court over is inexcusable behavior on the net. And he and his similar counterparts are ruining other peoples privileges on the FXU website that have been conducting themselves well within the realm of the FXU admin/Cary's preemptively set guidelines. And this Cary Weidemann does not seem to understand this very well. Making sweeping blockages is simply blocking many from the site. Not just the one like this 'eesh' or these very few others that are ruining it for the many.
Cary Weidemann obviously did not realize what he was getting himself into when he set up this website. The time consumption in the monitoring of it respectably. A 'sweeping' pre-emptive warning is clearly needed, to start with, publicly and upon entering this website. That it is to be only utilized by non-mentally disturbed perverts, for one. And no one under the age of 21. That is fully responsible for their actions. Morally as well as with the law.
At least until the technology or permission to use what is in place, can be utilized to block, easily, the one certain ones like this 'eesh' from doing such things.
Here. Let's be 'diplomatic'.
Lets take a vote on this -
Cary. Instead of you jumping to conclusions and block - banning everone in the municipality that any given forum refers to -
And publicly announce that every parent out there needs to utilize the blocking software built into every computer device and block their children from this website!
Who has a YES vote on this:
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