Jenny O Wrote:
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> Divorcing my dipshit husband of 21 years. Husband
> is a worthless, selfish, asshole, who has no time
> for his family. Thought going golfing this
> weekend with his buddies is more important than
> spending the holiday weekend with my family at
> their beach house. He will be shocked when he is
> served with divorce papers on the golf course!
>
> We have a nice house in Little Rocky Run which we
> lived in for 12 years. Asshole refuses to take
> care of it. Lawn looks like crap, house needs
> lots of repairs and he just ignores it.
>
> He is totally non-supportive, spends money like
> crazy on frivelous things, has over $20K in credit
> card debt and no savings, but loves his fucking
> BMW. Won't spend a dime on our son (13) or
> daughter (11). (I don't give a shit if he spends
> anything on me.) He has been working for nearly 25
> years and has not saved one cent towards
> retirement. He cancelled our last two family
> vacations because he could afford them, but he
> always has money (read credit cards) to play golf
> with his buddies on the weekend and buy drinks
> afterwwards.
>
> We fight constantly about money and the house! He
> is verbally abusive and has issues with anger (he
> punches holes in the wall, instead of hitting me)!
> I fear for my safety and that of our kids. The
> other night he and our son got into a fight and I
> thought he was going to kill our son! We no
> longer share a bedroom and we haven't had sex in 6
> years (lawyer says that is constructive
> abandonment), and when were were having sex it was
> never any good anyway (pmeer)! I know he has had
> at least two affairs in the last five years! I
> can't believe I have been married to this asshole
> this long!
>
> He is leaving Thursday to go golfing with his
> buddies. I am changing the locks and moving all
> his stuff into storage. When he is served, he
> will be given the key to the storage unit, along
> with a restraining order!
>
> So here is my question. Can I call the cops
> preemptively on Monday before he arrives home, or
> do I have to wait until he violates the
> restraining order, ie he pulls into the driveway?
> Attorney says I should wait, but a friend who
> husband is a cop in PWC says I can have an officer
> at the house, if I know he is coming and they will
> arrest him if he sets foot on the property. Any
> adivce appreciated!
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