Re: On average, how long does it take after a couple gets married for a husband and a wife to start losing interest in one another?
Date: September 25, 2012 02:25PM
When I'm 64 Wrote:
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> From the Other Side Wrote:
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> > As a female, I'd say that things change
> radically
> > when you have kids. If the wife is working
> > full-time, and doing most of the child care and
> > housework, it breeds deep resentment. That is
> not
> > good for any aspect of the marriage.
> >
> > If the most important thing to you is sex, you
> > won't last. If you treat your wife like it
> appears
> > that Ahmayzin does, it will pay off.
>
> Ahmayzin said: "I told my wife from the jump, she
> had me, so even if she gets fat Im good . . . . We
> have the luxury of experiencing some of the things
> OLDER couples experience, say 10-20 years down the
> road. With that, til death do we part."
>
> And one day the woman wakes up and realizes she's
> married to a 60-year-old man. And amplifying her
> seething resentment, she fully appreciates the
> downside of "'til death do us part." So she turns
> to Investigation Discovery and movies on Lifetime
> in which the husband invariably kills the wife,
> then is caught and punished. She relishes every
> moment of the heel facing his just desserts. She
> pops a candy into her mouth and clicks the remote
> looking for Judge Judy or some other strong-willed
> woman who knows how to put guys in their places.
>
> WHOA! Gotta be a nightmare. Must wake up.
HA!!! You wish. Like with everything in life, I never said it was perfection. We make it work, but the point I made above, was that we put everything on the table. We did not get married for convenience. We got married because we knew we wanted to be together forever. She has taught me things. I have taught her things. I learned I wasn't as patient, she learned she wasn't as patient. Through all the mess, we've experienced the REALLY bad, without anything totally detrimental coming in to play. We keep it fun. Don't ignore each other. Naturally we need our space. If we were insecure, we would be doomed. I'm not a bad looking brotha. She is definitely a good looking woman. We make it work, because of UNselfishness. Read about it. Be about it. lol.