In reply to
http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/543655/690426.html#msg-690426
I am so sorry if I offended you in my mind I was praising the fathers. I know your son Calvin was married to her and I have gotten to play with your grandson Blaine when my sister Tracy would bring him to my house to visit...he is such a happy go lucky child with no problems as far as I could see
but I did write:
that Krystal made the responsible decision to let the grandmother and the fathers be responsible for them in a place in her life where she feels she cant...
and I also said:
the fathers are
> getting to raise their sons the way they see
> fit...and grandmother of the other two could have
> stood idly by and let the children be taken into
> the foster care system but she did the right thing
> by taking her grandchildren in her home to give
> them a unconditional love that no foster parent
> could give.
the only thing that I said tha could have offended you is:
also another thing it takes more then one person
> to make a baby and the boyfriends could have been
> more resposible too and used condoms to prevent
> pregnancies from happening
Keyword here is boyfriends...like I said I am sorry and I think its wonderful that the fathers and the grandmother took a stand and are responsible for there children and grandchildren....
and its great that you are here to back them up when they need it...again I am sorry
Shannon
momcrazy2b Wrote:
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> You know Krystal may have not made all the right
> decisions in her life at this point. But you make
> it sound like she was sticking a needle into her
> unborn child and was physically abusing him which
> we know is impossible...She could have been
> totally heartless and had the baby aborted
> (killed) but instead she choose to give the baby
> life. She has also made the responsible decision
> to let the grandmother and fathers of her children
> to be responsible for them in a place in her life
> where she feels like she can't be and these are
> all life decisions that she has made for herself
> right now. Until you have stood in her shoes you
> should not point your finger because when you do
> there are always three pointing right back at
> you...I really don't know what the real vendetta
> is all about I wish I did...I don't know you but
> what good is it doing her baby and her family by
> harassing them..I have seen posts where some of
> you have degratted the grandmother for doing what
> is right..this has just went on for to long
> Krystal does not even have access to a computer so
> all the hurtful things you say is not being heard
> by her...She is over 21 so her mom can not be held
> accountable for what she does and neither can her
> whole 100 other family members...so my question to
> you is why? why harrass us? we do not know where
> she is...as you have stated she is on the run...
> also another thing it takes more then one person
> to make a baby and the boyfriends could have been
> more resposible too and used condoms to prevent
> pregnancies from happening,,,the fathers are
> getting to raise their sons the way they see
> fit...and grandmother of the other two could have
> stood idly by and let the children be taken into
> the foster care system but she did the right thing
> by taking her grandchildren in her home to give
> them a unconditional love that no foster parent
> could give...so again why harrass everyone else
> for the decisions that Krystal and her past
> boyfriends have made...not all of us are
> irresponsible we hold jobs take care of our
> children and do the best we can in (our)
> lives...who are you to judge the rest of us...I
> hope you take sometime to read this and maybe it
> will sink in that people are responsible for there
> own lives and decisons why do you blame us all...I
> was being serious earlier Carey the adminstrator
> is going to stop this thread because this is too
> much for anybody...I can see where it can cause
> hurt feelings and cause people to act out in away
> that they usually don't so can youplease for
> family sake let this go...I am sure that sooner or
> later if there are warrents out for Krystal she
> will be caught it is just a matter of time...and
> none of this do we have any control over....
> Please tell me you understand...if you dont then
> there is another underlying reason which we as the
> family no nothing about and that is something you
> need to take up with the person responsible...
> Thank you for taking the time to read this I hope
> it helps you in your time of need...