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Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Don't get it ()
Date: October 07, 2010 04:46PM

Do you know someone "Living on the Down Low"

A guy who is so obviously gay but hiding behind a marriage/kids?

I do. I know at least 2 guys in my neighborhood like that.

I understand why they might do it. It must be hard to think about "coming out". I'm sure some guys convince themselves that they just could never do that to their family/mother..whoever

What is harder to understand though is the women who marry men like that.

Do they not notice? Are they desperate?

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 07, 2010 05:24PM

Don't get it Wrote:
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> Do you know someone "Living on the Down Low"
>
> A guy who is so obviously gay but hiding behind a
> marriage/kids?
>
> I do. I know at least 2 guys in my neighborhood
> like that.
>
> I understand why they might do it. It must be hard
> to think about "coming out". I'm sure some guys
> convince themselves that they just could never do
> that to their family/mother..whoever
>
> What is harder to understand though is the women
> who marry men like that.
>
> Do they not notice? Are they desperate?

... because the guys were successful enough to attract the kind of woman that would marry them?

Around here, house + wife + kids + car = status. Two of those are unattainable for an openly-gay man. But what to do if he wants to climb the corporate/government ladder? Sure, you can if you're gay, but it's a hell of a lot more difficult even with today's anti-discrimination laws.

Plus, you can't get gay married in Virginia.

Or, they're deeply religions people who believe their urges are a sin that must be contained.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Warhawk ()
Date: October 07, 2010 05:29PM

If anyone I know or associate with is living on the down low, they're doing one hell of a job hiding it. But then again, maybe my gaydar isn't sensitive enough.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: WingNut ()
Date: October 07, 2010 06:05PM

Used to use the term in the 90's to mean just under the radar or keeping a low profile. I still like the way it sounds but it's been appropriated by da gays, not cool.

Don't really like the word "gay" for that matter and I'm sure Hanna-Barbaera are turning in their graves and wish they could re-write the final verse of the Flintstones theme for the same reason.


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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:45PM

I think the "gay" dudes who marry women, and are in a truly romantic relationship with them, are confused. I don't know what it is that makes people doubt whether they themselves are straight or not, but I have a friend like that. The guy was in love with this girl, and he was really going heavy with her. Then he suddenly broke off the relationship and declared that he was gay. The way in which I saw him loving this girl, and how he couldn't think of anything else but her, I know that he can't truly be gay, but for some reason he's now got it in his mind that he is.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:48PM

Queer is prefered, followed by Fag, Faggot, Homo or Homosexual.

Then we have the hybrids like Queermo, Homoqueer, and Fagmosexual.

HAVE ANOTHER MARTINI.
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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:50PM

Oh he's GAY, TPL.

A straight GROWN man doesn't flouder around on that topic.
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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Gravis ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:55PM

ThePackLeader Wrote:
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> I think the "gay" dudes who marry women, and are
> in a truly romantic relationship with them, are
> confused. I don't know what it is that makes
> people doubt whether they themselves are straight
> or not, but I have a friend like that. The guy was
> in love with this girl, and he was really going
> heavy with her. Then he suddenly broke off the
> relationship and declared that he was gay. The way
> in which I saw him loving this girl, and how he
> couldn't think of anything else but her, I know
> that he can't truly be gay, but for some reason
> he's now got it in his mind that he is.

the gay bomb strikes again.


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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Connie1 ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:55PM

ThePackLeader Wrote:
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> I think the "gay" dudes who marry women, and are
> in a truly romantic relationship with them, are
> confused. I don't know what it is that makes
> people doubt whether they themselves are straight
> or not, but I have a friend like that. The guy was
> in love with this girl, and he was really going
> heavy with her. Then he suddenly broke off the
> relationship and declared that he was gay. The way
> in which I saw him loving this girl, and how he
> couldn't think of anything else but her, I know
> that he can't truly be gay, but for some reason
> he's now got it in his mind that he is.


Maybe he's Bi.....?
How old is he? A lot of us are confused with our sexuality
when we're young.

And if he's a really sensitive kind of guy maybe
some guy may have convinced him that he's gay.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: WingNut ()
Date: October 07, 2010 07:57PM

I always heard that bisexuals are just faggots without the conviction.

(Heard it from a "gay" so it's not "racist"!)


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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Conie ()
Date: October 07, 2010 08:02PM

Troll@AOL Wrote:
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> Oh he's GAY, TPL.
>
> A straight GROWN man doesn't flouder around on
> that topic.
> .


Now I understand why everyone hates you here Troll.

You're a fucking asshole!

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 07, 2010 08:19PM

'Conie' wrote :

> "Now I understand why everyone hates you here Troll.
> You're a fucking asshole!

And YOU SUCK SHITTY-ASSHOLES you FAGGOT!
Go figure.
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Jose01 ()
Date: October 07, 2010 09:23PM

Troll@AOL Wrote:
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> 'Conie' wrote :
>
> > "Now I understand why everyone hates you here
> Troll.
> > You're a fucking asshole!
>
> And YOU SUCK SHITTY-ASSHOLES you FAGGOT!
> Go figure.
> .


Troll is gay. He try mask his homo ways on website but everyone know truth

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 12:27AM

Troll = NOT gay

Jose01 = gayer than GAY

This is facts.
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Yahweh ()
Date: October 08, 2010 10:47AM

Stop livin the 'down low' life Troll. Your family will understand.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:02AM

If your father would have been a full-time tranny,
you never would have been born 'Yahweh'.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Britdrnva~ ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:07AM

I thought living on the down low meant hiding from the law. I'm getting old.

I don't know of people like that, but I suppose they wouldn't just come right out with it unless they were right flamboyant. I'd imagine they keep it fairly repressed or squirrel away on the side with their little liaisons.

I doubt their wives would know - unless their sex lives is in the crapper (or again he's one of those flamboyant sorts) - and then would the fellow be truly gay if he's having sex with a woman?

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:16AM

'Britdrnva' wrote :
> " - and then would the fellow be truly gay if he's having sex with a woman?"

Well, in my opinion IF SHE DOESN'T KNOW HE SWINGS
THAT WAY BEFORE THEY EVER GOT INTIMATE -he is WORSE than GAY.

Why?

Because MOST heterosexual women would NOT be with OR stay with a queer
if they had the CHOICE and were not being LIED to.

PLUS, homosexual males are pervertedly disgusting and propogate the
AIDS virus among heterosexual women.
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:19AM

Needless to say; I've personally noticed Black males are the worst when
it comes to this 'Down Low' lifestyle followed by Mexican Spaniards.
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: eesh ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:23AM

Troll@AOL Wrote:
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> Needless to say; I've personally noticed Black
> males are the worst...





Sounds like Troll got his heart broken by a black guy. LMAO




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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:28AM

Tell us what happened, Troll. We all notice the way you act out, and how much you hate gay people?

What are you trying to tell us? Which bad man broke your heart?

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:29AM

ALERT ALERT ^ ^ ^ Just Realeased Pics of eesh and GAY BLACK BOYFRIEND ^ ^ ^

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 11:29AM

'Mephist-eesh' wrote :
> "Which bad man broke your heart?"

THIS IS HILARIOUS, COMING FROM A SHIT-SUCKING ASS-FUCKING QUEER LIKE YOURSELF!

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2010 12:39PM

You're just projecting.

You don't have to hide from the pain anymore, Troll. We're here to help you get over your loss and face a bright future.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 12:43PM

Who's "we"?

You're just ONE faggot, with a bunch of screen names right?
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Warhawk ()
Date: October 08, 2010 12:58PM

Why the hate Troll? You used to come on here and be sort of an over the top troll spoof. Not a bad gimmick, but now it's become just flat out angry.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Britdrnva~ ()
Date: October 08, 2010 12:59PM

Troll, why the profound vitriol towards gays? I thought you were the of the Republican/Libertarian bend - if two adults are consenting really what matter is it to you?

I can see in this case that being on the "down low" is wrong because you are obviously lying to your spouse/family by living a duplicitous life. But your hatred...tis alarming or are you just living up to your namesake?

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2010 01:02PM

Troll@AOL Wrote:
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> Who's "we"?
>
> You're just ONE faggot, with a bunch of screen
> names right?
> .

Let's start simple. What was his name, and how long were you two together?

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll ()
Date: October 08, 2010 01:06PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Troll@AOL Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Who's "we"?
> >
> > You're just ONE faggot, with a bunch of screen
> > names right?
> > .
>
> Let's start simple. What was his name, and how
> long were you two together?


Lamar. 6 years.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2010 01:10PM

Troll Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Troll@AOL Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Who's "we"?
> > >
> > > You're just ONE faggot, with a bunch of
> screen
> > > names right?
> > > .
> >
> > Let's start simple. What was his name, and how
> > long were you two together?
>
>
> Lamar. 6 years.

You're not the real Troll. I'm trying to help him overcome his problems with his own sexuality. You're not helping.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:09PM

'eesh' = 'Britdrnva' = 'Warhawk' = 'Mr. Mephisto' = anon-'Troll'
= too many others to list = PATHETIC = GAY

AM I HELPING ANYONE OUT?
.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Nope ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:14PM

Troll@AOL=Numbers

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Jose01 ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:16PM

Yes, troll@aol is gay. Very gay. His father do bad things to him as child. . Feel sorry for the troll.

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:22PM

Numbers = Jose01 = previously mentioned monikers

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:23PM

= Haha !

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll is talking to himself..poor guy ()
Date: October 08, 2010 07:29PM

Troll=Numbers=Jose01

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Re: Living on the Down Low
Posted by: Troll@AOL ()
Date: October 09, 2010 01:47PM

anon-faggot w/ long name = GAY

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