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I hope you are documenting everything in writing to your supervisor and HR.
Make sure you lead the chick on with plenty of subtle eye contact, gestures, and hints. Nothing in writing though.
Sounds like the perfect opportunity to set things up so you can file a law suit and cash in big time.
Clearly you have a hostile work environment and have been sexually harassed. The pain, suffering, mental and emotional distress have led to sexual dysfunction, sleepless nights, thoughts of suicide.
Time to see a psychiatrist and sexual dysfunction counselor. They keep records that will be useful for your lawsuit.
Keep in mind: Ever since you reported it you have been treated differently, you've been ostracized, people avoid you at the office, and management keeps you out of meetings, plus you haven't gotten the raises and promotions you clearly deserved.
File a lawsuit.
They'll probably settle out of court for at least $250,000, a raise, and a promotion.