Okay, Im a guy. I definitely find women attractive. But I am also repulsed by most human beings. Intimiate physical contact kind of grosses me out. I do care about other people, I just don't like to get too close. Something about humans can be really gross, like we are are a lot messier and grosser than we like to admit.

I find women attractive but i dont want to be in their lady parts, at least not orally. It kind of sickens me to think about all the germs and nasty stuff thats down there. I have a more emotional connection with them. I have some interest in seeing them naked, but the sex part Im not as interested in. Im not attracted to guys at all, even more repulsed by them, so I dont think Im gay. I just don't want to have sex because its seems messy like and gross.

What is it?

Ok guys, be gentle with the kid.

FrankinHerndon Wrote:
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> Okay, Im a guy. I definitely find women
> attractive. But I am also repulsed by most human
> beings. Intimiate physical contact kind of grosses
> me out. I do care about other people, I just don't
> like to get too close. Something about humans can
> be really gross, like we are are a lot messier and
> grosser than we like to admit.
>
> I find women attractive but i dont want to be in
> their lady parts, at least not orally. It kind of
> sickens me to think about all the germs and nasty
> stuff thats down there. I have a more emotional
> connection with them. I have some interest in
> seeing them naked, but the sex part Im not as
> interested in. Im not attracted to guys at all,
> even more repulsed by them, so I dont think Im
> gay. I just don't want to have sex because its
> seems messy like and gross.
>
> What is it?


Might as well go full gay, bro.

Pull down your pants and see whats down there.

Frank'sInBeans Wrote:
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> FrankinHerndon Wrote:
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> -----
> > Okay, Im a guy. I definitely find women
> > attractive. But I am also repulsed by most
> human
> > beings. Intimiate physical contact kind of
> grosses
> > me out. I do care about other people, I just
> don't
> > like to get too close. Something about humans
> can
> > be really gross, like we are are a lot messier
> and
> > grosser than we like to admit.
> >
> > I find women attractive but i dont want to be
> in
> > their lady parts, at least not orally. It kind
> of
> > sickens me to think about all the germs and
> nasty
> > stuff thats down there. I have a more emotional
> > connection with them. I have some interest in
> > seeing them naked, but the sex part Im not as
> > interested in. Im not attracted to guys at all,
> > even more repulsed by them, so I dont think Im
> > gay. I just don't want to have sex because its
> > seems messy like and gross.
> >
> > What is it?
>
>
> Might as well go full gay, bro.


Maybe you didn't understand my original post. I am repulsed by both genders- women slightly less, as I find them the less repulsive physically- and sometimes even I find sexual attraction, but I don't have a normal sexual desire in the way I want to copulate or anything. It repells me. I coudn't be gay, because I dont find men attrative.

OP- you are probably asexual.

Become an autosexual.

You could be asexual. You certainly don't sound gay. It would help to know your age. If you're a pre-teen, a lot of boys find sex gross. If you're an older teen, then that would be unusual - unless you're a late bloomer. If you're an adult, you might be asexual or you might be a germaphobe. Hard to say without more information.

You might consider getting a physical checkup, especially of your hormone levels. There is a lot of information on the Internet regarding asexuality. Take a look and see if that helps clarify your situation.

In any case, you are who you are. There is no reason to feel bad about it. You may just need to find a woman who accepts how you feel and who won't try to change you. There are probably a number of women who want emotional intimacy but don't care about a physical relationship. Good luck!

To be honest......I cant blame him
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Stabitha Wrote:
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> To be honest......I cant blame him

Good God...I did not need to see that. I've sometimes wondered how men can get past the fact that female genetalia are pretty gross.