My boyfriend is 39 years old and he refuses to believe he is an alcoholic, even though he spends most of his allowance on beer. I remember reading that the moment a kid starts using drugs and alcohol is the moment he stops growing up. If that's the case then my boyfriend stopped growing up when he was 15. Is it his fault he's an alcoholic or should his family bring an intervention?

Shut the fuck up whore. Who are you to judge the man, your nothing more then a filthy whore that rides his dick every night. Do yourself a favor and cook and clean for him your worthy or nothing more. The man can do what ever he pleases, if he wants to drink a 12 pack every night then he shall do so. Whore.

Sobered Girlfriend in Mclean Wrote:
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> My boyfriend is 39 years old and he refuses to
> believe he is an alcoholic, even though he spends
> most of his allowance on beer. I remember reading
> that the moment a kid starts using drugs and
> alcohol is the moment he stops growing up. If
> that's the case then my boyfriend stopped growing
> up when he was 15. Is it his fault he's an
> alcoholic or should his family bring an
> intervention?

First of all...your boyfriend spends most of his "allowance"
on beer?
Is someone supporting him?

Is it "his fault" he's an alcoholic?....not if he came from a family of
alcoholics. It can be genetic.

Should his family bring an intervention?
How much does it affect the family?
Are his relationships suffering with family members?

Thanks Dr. Armstrong. I shouldn't have mentioned he's got an allowance, but yeah, he gets like $400 a month from his dad and I give him money every few weeks. I know his dad is a functional alcoholic, but people I talk to say that's not an excuse, my boyfriend is in charge of his own life. But like, his alcoholism affects his whole family, he gets enraged like he's on steroids when he drinks, and his family suffers big time.

Sobered Girlfriend in Mclean Wrote:
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> Thanks Dr. Armstrong. I shouldn't have mentioned
> he's got an allowance, but yeah, he gets like $400
> a month from his dad and I give him money every
> few weeks.

You are an enabler. You shouldn't give him money every few weeks. You don't hand a loaded gun to a person contemplating suicide, and you shouldn't give beer money to an alcoholic.

He's 39, its time to grow up. If he's living on handouts at this age, he's not going to be better at 49 (if he lives that long).

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> Sobered Girlfriend in Mclean Wrote:
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> > Thanks Dr. Armstrong. I shouldn't have
> mentioned
> > he's got an allowance, but yeah, he gets like
> $400
> > a month from his dad and I give him money every
> > few weeks. I know his dad is a functional
> > alcoholic, but people I talk to say that's not
> an
> > excuse, my boyfriend is in charge of his own
> life.
> > But like, his alcoholism affects his whole
> family,
> > he gets enraged like he's on steroids when he
> > drinks, and his family suffers big time.
>
>
> I suggest you pull your dick out of your ass and
> go beat the shit out of your boyfriend with it at
> his next open mic night!




That's how he used to talk when he was shooting up meth, but at least he hasn't done that since he got over his parents separating.

Ito Wrote:
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> Sobered Girlfriend in Mclean Wrote:
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> > Thanks Dr. Armstrong. I shouldn't have
> mentioned
> > he's got an allowance, but yeah, he gets like
> $400
> > a month from his dad and I give him money every
> > few weeks.
>
> You are an enabler. You shouldn't give him money
> every few weeks. You don't hand a loaded gun to a
> person contemplating suicide, and you shouldn't
> give beer money to an alcoholic.
>
> He's 39, its time to grow up. If he's living on
> handouts at this age, he's not going to be better
> at 49 (if he lives that long).



He's counting on getting his dad's inheritance, but I personally think he was written out of the will a long time ago. The sister seems to be the favorite in the family.

He doesn't play guitar, but he used to be a drummer in some garbage band in the 90s.

So why am I getting dragged back into this again? Just curious. I thought we were all having a splendid time leaving each other alone.

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she's a bitch ass Wrote:
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> Ask your girlfriend, Sobered in Mclean!

Again, what does this have to do with me? I can't control what someone else posts.

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ok? Wrote:
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> Stop fucking "her" then.

I don't know what that even means, but ok.

Now what?

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she's a bitch ass Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > So why am I getting dragged back into this
> again?
> > Just curious. I thought we were all having a
> > splendid time leaving each other alone.
>
>
> Ask your girlfriend, Sobered in Mclean!


Stop talking to yourself you pathetic loser

You know Wrote:
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> You know that thing you do with the two penises?

No, but if you hum a few bars, I think I can fake it.

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roll tape Wrote:
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> Just ask eesh to post the docking gif he made from
> your last video session.

What are you talking about? What's a "docking gif?"

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You're not making any sense. I can't help you if you can't explain things clearly.

How did I get dragged into this, and what gif do you want my girlfriend to stop posting? I'm pretty sure my girlfriend doesn't even know this site exists, so you'll probably have to do a little more explaining on that one.

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one 4 u Wrote:
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> That's funny, your "girlfriend" is on here all the
> time.

I don't think we're on the same page here.

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> Your girlfriend is the only thing that doesn't
> exist!

Burn, I guess?

> The doosh meant eesh, stupid.

I really must be stupid because I still have no idea what you're talking about.

Again, why am I getting dragged into these conversations, and what gif are you talking about that's bothering you so much?

If this is who I think it is, I'd like us to go back to not talking to each other, so tell me what's bothering you so I can fix it. I'm in a good mood tonight, so I don't really feel like fighting.

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> That's what happens when you start stupid troll
> threads and pretend to be women, eesh.
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you don't get it Wrote:
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> Sarcasm Detector

What?

Won't argue that one Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> >
> > I really must be stupid because I still have no
> > idea what you're talking about.
> >
> >
>
> You said it.

I did say that because you're still not making a lot of sense. Why am I getting dragged into this conversation, and what gif is my pretend girlfriend posting that has you so upset?

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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > and what gif is my pretend
> > girlfriend posting that has you so upset?
>
>
>
> There is no gif I have a problem with, retard.

Then what's the problem?

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MrMephisto Wrote:
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> ratard Wrote:
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> > MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > -----
> > > and what gif is my pretend
> > > girlfriend posting that has you so upset?
> >
> >
> >
> > There is no gif I have a problem with, retard.
>
> Then what's the problem?

I'm sorry, Meph. I had a bad night and way too much to drink. I'll leave you alone now. Truce?

sorry Wrote:
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> I'm sorry, Meph. I had a bad night and way too
> much to drink. I'll leave you alone now. Truce?

It happens. No problem. Truce.

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idiots galore Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > sorry Wrote:
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> > -----
> > > I'm sorry, Meph. I had a bad night and way
> too
> > > much to drink. I'll leave you alone now.
> Truce?
> >
> > It happens. No problem. Truce.
>
>
> That's your boyfriend, eesh, idiot. I didn't drink
> anything tonight.

How am I supposed to know that when everyone posts anonymously?

So you'd rather just keep trying to pick a fight than leave each other alone? What's the point of that?

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stop drinking Wrote:
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> I mention something about you and eesh docking and
> you pretend to not know what it is, when eesh
> posts that gif with the dick going inside another
> dick (docking) every other day. How much did you
> drink tonight?

I still have no idea what picture you're talking about.

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Chick Filleted Wrote:
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> eesh Wrote:
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>
>
> Why don't you post your docking gif instead of the
> cow one, so MrRetardo can "know" what we are
> talking about?




Why are you fixated on this docking phenomenon?

I was fine Wrote:
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> You and your girlfriend, eesh post using alternate
> handles and he posts anonymously trolling you as
> well.

So what does that have to do with me? What do you think I'm saying about you? I'm trying to understand, here.

> You guys have shared passwords and your
> Mephisto account at one time and could possibly
> still be doing it.

So you're trying to restart the fighting because you think I'm "possibly" sharing my account with eesh? Even I told you that we didn't have access to each others' accounts, would you believe me?

What can I do here to get us back to not talking to each other? I'm still willing to let things go but I don't know how we'll come to any kind of understanding if you're determined to stay after me.

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At least it wasnt space docking :( I wish I didn't know about that....

....and if the OP is actually a woman w/a alcholic BF....Um, was he an alchoholic when you started dating? Cause if so, you're shit outta luck. You can't change what was already there, and if you do, it'll just come back to haunt you cause you "made" him do it....sucks, but life's that way sometimes, but a helmet.

eat shit Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > Even I told you that we didn't have access
> > to each others' accounts, would you believe me?
> >
> >
>
> That's a lie and you know it.
>
> As long as your bitchboy does shit, you will get
> shit. BTW, when you "left" you gave up your
> account to eesh ( after offering it up for "sale"
> on here) who started posting as the new Mephisto.
> You then came back and and let everyone that you
> had just given your account away for safe keeping.
> Fuck off with your lies, "Todd"
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That's why! Wrote:
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> Because your boyfriend pretends to know nothing
> about it when you post that gif on here all the
> time.




Can you provide a link to this gif or maybe post it yourself? I think it would help you if you got it out of your system.

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> That's a lie and you know it.

My point exactly. You believe we have access to each others' accounts, and you'll refuse to believe otherwise because that's what you want to believe. No amount of proof or evidence to the contrary will change your mind.

> As long as your bitchboy does shit, you will get
> shit.

So you're saying that you want to perpetuate your little vendetta against me for the rest of your life because of what someone else writes? For the last time, I have no control over what other people say about you. I have about as much influence on his posts as I have on yours. You may as well be saying that you'll keep giving me shit as long as gravity exists.

Do you seriously want to keep this going forever? Is it really that critical?

> BTW, when you "left" you gave up your
> account to eesh ( after offering it up for "sale"
> on here) who started posting as the new Mephisto.
> You then came back and and let everyone that you
> had just given your account away for safe keeping.
> Fuck off with your lies, "Todd"

You do realize you can change the password for a registered account, right? Because you totally can. I know this for a fact because I did it when I got my account back.

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there you go Wrote:
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> eesh Wrote:
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> > That's why! Wrote:
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> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> >
> > > Because your boyfriend pretends to know
> nothing
> > > about it when you post that gif on here all
> the
> > > time.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Can you provide a link to this gif or maybe
> post
> > it yourself? I think it would help you if you
> got
> > it out of your system.
>
>
> http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/98
> 6672/986698.html#msg-986698




That link you provided went to this message:


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> Paging Doc Frot Wrote:
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>
> > Maybe they could engage little frottage or even
> > some docking.


You know eesh has tried this.




Can you try again?

fuck_off Wrote:
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>
> I have until I die...what your pea brained partner
> fails to realize is, that no matter what he posts,
> I will never leave as long as shit is on the net.
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fuck_off Wrote:
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> How stupid are you?

Pretty stupid. I thought we already covered that, but I'm not sure. Because I'm pretty stupid.

> I never said you are sharing
> accounts, I just said you did (and if you did,
> what would stop you guys from doing it again?).

You said we were "possibly" still sharing accounts. When I said that we weren't sharing accounts, you said that was a lie.

What would stop me from sharing my account with anyone? Why would that matter to you anyway?

> I have until I die...what your pea brained partner
> fails to realize is, that no matter what he posts,
> I will never leave as long as shit is on the net.

Again, what does that have to do with me? I didn't write a blog about you, and I'm trying to leave you alone because you keep telling me that's what you want me to do.

> I don't care how many times he posts my name or
> any contrived lies about me, that will not change.

Not my problem. I'm not the one saying anything. I don't see why I'm still getting thrown in the middle of this when I'm actively trying to stay out of your life.

> If you want to come back aboard, you are more than
> welcome; do you think I wanted this shit in the
> first place?

I'd like for us to pretend each other doesn't exist, but again, I don't know how I can meet you in the middle on that when you hold me accountable and try to "punish" me for what someone else does. It's clear at this point that we'll never be friends, but I don't understand why have to actively be my enemy.

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eat it Wrote:
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> You are fair game now.






LMAO What a nut job.

eat it Wrote:
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> You are fair game now.

Because there's a chance we might have shared accounts and one point and you think that we're possibly still sharing accounts?

What happened to "coming back aboard?" Are you seriously not willing to let this drop?

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mephisto offers an olive branch and that is how you respond? no wonder everone thinks you are a douche. you really need to unfuck your life and grow up,, son.

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the culprit Wrote:
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>
>
>
>
>
>
> Blame eesh for starting this one.


wahhh wahhh i didn't start it eesh did wahhh wahhh. fuckin crybaby. my kids fight wit each other the same way and they not even 10 yet. next you gonna be cryin bout how eesh playin with your my little pony dolls. stop triflin son.

Has it really been 6 months? These types of semiannual threads are sometimes better than a calendar.

EDIT: semiannual, not biannual

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That's not a ladybug, that's a cannapiller.



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Warhawk Wrote:
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> Has it really been 6 months? These types of
> semiannual threads are sometimes better than a
> calendar.
>
> EDIT: semiannual, not biannual

I have you now.



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stfu whore Wrote:
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> Shut the fuck up whore. Who are you to judge the
> man, your nothing more then a filthy whore that
> rides his dick every night. Do yourself a favor
> and cook and clean for him your worthy or nothing
> more. The man can do what ever he pleases, if he
> wants to drink a 12 pack every night then he shall
> do so. Whore.


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