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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: HittingItHardFromTheYard ()
Date: April 23, 2016 06:16PM

Fairfax FD is full of cocky pussies that do not know what it's really like to be a firefighter. They are over payed. The ones have met were a bunch of dumb and fake as shit. Fucking losers.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: lolwat ()
Date: April 23, 2016 06:18PM

@JimmyL19
@whoa

She killed herself, no one put a gun to her head, no one forced her to swallow any pills, or tie a noose around her neck. This isn't a murder. She took her own life willingly. If she can't respect herself why should I give her respect?? There are plenty of ways on dealing with suicidal thoughts. She's fucking 30+ years old for Gods sake, she should be at least smart enough to know there are places she can go and talk this through. She's not a 16 year old, she's 30.

I'm pretty sure this woman didn't off herself like a teenager would over some comments on the internet. It has to be more than that, her cheating isn't the only contributing factor. So far, on these forums she is rarely mentioned (unless they are talking about easy lays) and if a bunch of men (or women?) are saying shes easy, good chance that she is. And what about the families she possibly destroyed? It's ok to possibly ruin a family but not feel bad about some slut offing herself isnt? She might be a cause for a family to break up and a child whom now has divorced/broken family, I think that kid didn't deserve it, don't you agree?

Like I said before, the posts she is mentioned in, no one disputed the claims. No one gives another person a bad reputation over nothing. People will talk about you, but they won't just make shit up like "Brad slept with Marry and Marry is married!" When that's super easy to debunk. Regardless of gender, if you suck a lot of dick, and sleep around, people will talk. Deal with it or stop being a slut.


And also lol at the Trump comment. What? You disagree with me so now it's free game to make irrational statements about me? Great logic there dummy. You're essentially bullying and spreading lies about me, kinda hypocritical isn't it?

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: whoa ()
Date: April 23, 2016 06:34PM

Please stop talking. You are an automaton.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: lolmadlol ()
Date: April 23, 2016 07:26PM

I'm not talking, I'm posting, huge difference. As in, you can literly close this thread and not see what I write, as oppose to hearing. Then again you can walk away too and not listen to me. And why should I listen to an over sensitive baby who crys over a whore? No value was lost, deal with it.

The husband is probably happy too.
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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Witnesstothemess ()
Date: April 23, 2016 07:29PM

So far no one is coming out and defending her saying she isn't a
> slut. All of you guys are just saying "yeah, well,
> she is a slut and all but that doesn't give the
> right to bully her!"

There are tons of people who are here defending her. Only now are they even made aware of this horrible site and it's role in her life.

I am sure YOU do NOT pay taxes. Even if you could make enough income to reach the threshold, I am sure you don't even pay.

So crawl back under the rock from which you came and STAY there. Your brain is mush.. try to lay off the booze.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: lolmadlol ()
Date: April 23, 2016 07:47PM

@Witnesstothemess

Defending her right to sleep around isn't defending her. There is a post basically saying "everyone slept around when I volunteered, so it's ok!" How is this ok? How did society get to the point where people can sleep around in a serious profession and we are all ok with it?? I'm not ok with hearing stories about people using the beds and rooms that I PAY FOR to be used as a place to fuck and act like horny teenagers. I'm not ok with childish rumours that makes a slut turn to suicide. This is a serious problem but the problem isn't "cyber bullying" the problem is that there are horrible, slutty people fucking on my dime and causing them to act like high schoolers. The problem is that people are fucking each other at the station and we need to stop this. I'm pretty sure any office job has a 0 tolerance policy for this type of behavior, all the FF knows whats going on but no action has happened. Seriously, fuck women in the FF. This wouldn't have happened if they understood that bringing in 1 or 2 women will make men turn into pigs and want to fuck them, regardless of looks. If we still want these women to fight along side them then we must treat them like we do with children. Keep them separate.




P.S you're an idiot, learn how taxes work before you insult people on the topic. I obviously do pay for their room and board, anyone who works does.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: WUSA9aa ()
Date: April 23, 2016 07:56PM


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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Hopkinson ()
Date: April 23, 2016 08:21PM

Bullying and harassment doesn't just exist in the Fairfax Fire Department. Prince William Fire Department also has their share of bullying and harassment. I know someone who was a recruit and who was harassed daily. There are guidelines that talk about hostile working environment and harassment and these were not followed in Prince William County. Prince William County violated these repeatedly. If I was allowed by the recruit (who was my son) I would have filed a law suit. This law suit would have been won based on all the evidence collected. This is a systemic problem but no-one will discuss it because of the implications. There is a difference between LEADERSHIP AND BULLYING!!!!

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: 69VtT ()
Date: April 23, 2016 08:46PM

Hopkinson Wrote:
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> Bullying and harassment doesn't just exist in the
> Fairfax Fire Department. Prince William Fire
> Department also has their share of bullying and
> harassment.


then stand the fuck up for yourself!

you can not be bullied if you have not given reason to be bullied

"bullied" usually means REPORTING FACTS ABOUT SOMEONE that they do not like

why is it that women are the only ones? EQUAL huh? then act like it!

so tired of this "victim" culture, entire generation of pussies "OMG someone typed something on (insert social media here) I am going to go cry in a corner"

fuck that, do something about it or ignore it

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Man teacher ()
Date: April 23, 2016 08:50PM

We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is the women teachers who harass and bully us men teachers. They outnumber us. They comment on my great ass and husky good looks. I dread going to work every day with mean women waiting to mess with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they are wearing sandals that show their crusty ass feet. Ewww

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: poobabby ()
Date: April 23, 2016 08:55PM

Hopkinson Wrote:
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> Bullying and harassment doesn't just exist in the
> Fairfax Fire Department. Prince William Fire
> Department also has their share of bullying and
> harassment. I know someone who was a recruit and
> who was harassed daily. There are guidelines that
> talk about hostile working environment and
> harassment and these were not followed in Prince
> William County. Prince William County violated
> these repeatedly. If I was allowed by the recruit
> (who was my son) I would have filed a law suit.
> This law suit would have been won based on all the
> evidence collected. This is a systemic problem
> but no-one will discuss it because of the
> implications. There is a difference between
> LEADERSHIP AND BULLYING!!!!

Did you wipe his ass for him when he got home every night?

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: whoa ()
Date: April 23, 2016 09:00PM

@ lolmadlol

People with your mentality fit well with groups like ISIS. You know, the woman is a slut, no loss she died. In fact, in your words, "I am glad."

Those words right there prove just what kind of person you really are. A whore is better than you.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Oooooooooooooowt ()
Date: April 24, 2016 09:33AM

In going to throw this out:

Could it be possible Nicole didn't give a fuck about Fairfax underground? Possible that her world was not revolving around the five month old three or four posts online? If she was that disturbed by those posts, perhaps she'd have done this sooner.

I tend to think the most overwhelming cause of grief for her was the guilt of her actions and the consequences it wreaked on her marriage. A much closer and intimate pain than some online keyboard warriors. Maybe she found out she was Pregnant, maybe with her husband or maybe not. Or maybe she got nasty notes from the wives of men she messed with.

But online posts? Five months old? A handful of them? It doesn't add up.

The biggest slew of online shit posting came after her death. And while those are vile and reprehensible, it was in response to her death. Not the cause.


Nicole didn't kill herself because of Fairfax underground. But Nicole killing herself made Fairfax underground rip her apart post mortim. I'd need to see a suicide note that said: "I killed myself because of a couple posts back in December. I didn't kill myself because of interpersonal relationship stresses."



Come on guys... Cyber bullying? She was a full grown adult and had a tough job. She had probably been use to people talking shit about her since high school, like all the rest of us. and we're focusing on one post from techie 7, back in December?

Wake up people.

You're upset about the replies posted here in response to her death.


Look up all the other "RIP" threads here. Fairfax underground thrives on mocking the mourning families and friends. It's terrible and awful but it's predictable as it gets. You're all being trolled.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: DullaD ()
Date: April 24, 2016 09:56AM

Fairfax FD is full of fake, cocky losers who think they are the shit. You fuckheads try to act so tough. You guys have no idea what real service is around. Nothing but trash that works there. TYFYS

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: ...... ()
Date: April 24, 2016 12:06PM

whoa Wrote:
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> @ lolmadlol
>
> People with your mentality fit well with groups
> like ISIS. You know, the woman is a slut, no loss
> she died. In fact, in your words, "I am glad."
>
> Those words right there prove just what kind of
> person you really are. A whore is better than you.


^ DC mommy alert.


Privileged, NW cunt.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Jim Teacher ()
Date: April 24, 2016 12:30PM

Man teacher Wrote:
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> We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is the
> women teachers who harass and bully us men
> teachers. They outnumber us. They comment on my
> great ass and husky good looks. I dread going to
> work every day with mean women waiting to mess
> with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they are
> wearing sandals that show their crusty ass feet.
> Ewww

Over 50 women have some real nasty feet. like this.
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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: whoawhoa ()
Date: April 24, 2016 02:35PM

nice try, asshat. but, no.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: livinginthepresent ()
Date: April 24, 2016 03:59PM

JimmyL19 Wrote:
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> I work FD for a department about 500 strong.
> Around here even when you know something you dont
> spread it.Thats bad for the Dept.I can write a
> book about cheating spouses. What good would it
> do? Not my business. If you have stock in a
> relationship with a person who is being cheated on
> and if just cant stand by and mind your business
> then use your words in person. Coming online and
> blasting someone is not what adults should be
> doing. SHAME ON YOU ALL. I would venture to say
> the most "outraged" are shitty fat fucks who
> probably still live at home with mom and help her
> take care of her 30 cats.

You seem to be one of the few that gets it. All these outraged people who say she deserved public ridicule because she was allegedly a "slut" are truly fucked up individuals.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 24, 2016 05:12PM

Tarnished Brass Wrote:
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> A new tramp emerges for us to watch destroy
> > herself. Nicole Mittendorf at 32 is already
> > slutting her way around the county. Got wasted
> and
> > screwed Sam Mill's cousin and last week was
> seen
> > at 8's usual hockey game in DC making out with
> > Nate Larkin. Pics to come from someone there.
> Also
> > hear some JJ Walsh play? She's married to a
> nice
> > dude. Not sure if he knows. He's a trooper up
> here
>
>
>
> I hope whoever wrote this is proud of himself.
> The so-called brotherhood...right...

Thanks for reposting. I wondered what the hubbub was about.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 24, 2016 05:13PM

What's the problem? Women have half the money and all the pussy.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/24/2016 05:13PM by Ying Ko.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Isthishighschool? ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:15PM

I read on FFXU that the incident at Samantha Mills party was rape. Mills allegedly allowed her cousin to take advantage of Nicole.

Point here is several posters have assumed the things said about Nicole are true. You don't KNOW anything, so please just stop.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Dummy ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:37PM

So you imply that the supposed rape is true, because someone posted it here, and then state that anyone assuming anything about her supposed behavior, because it was posted here, doesn't know anything?


How fucking dumb are you?

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Allegedly ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:42PM

I probably used a word that is too big for you to understand, my bad.

Allegedly... It means it has been asserted but not proven. Read my post again. Get it now?

Bless your LITTLE heart.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: A Mental Mind Fuck Can Be Fun ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:44PM

The great thing about all of this attention and controversy is that it has brought in a whole new group of idiots to fuck with.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Dummy ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:46PM

Allegedly Wrote:
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> I probably used a word that is too big for you to
> understand, my bad.
>
> Allegedly... It means it has been asserted but
> not proven. Read my post again. Get it now?
>
> Bless your LITTLE heart.


Yet you felt an overwhelming need to bring it up, because you read it on a message board.


Just like the very poster(s) you are complaining about.



Dumbass.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: 2sidestoeverystory ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:53PM

Intelligent people like to have as much information as possible before drawing conclusions. What I posted is another point of view that people with a functional brain will know what to do with.

Seems most folks have accepted the crude commentary in the original post as truth. There is more to it than that.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: On your period? - Again ()
Date: April 24, 2016 06:57PM

I kinda like crude commentary - Especially in the morning with fresh hot coffee from Starbuck's.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: nose be growing ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:04PM

Man teacher Wrote:
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> We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is the
> women teachers who harass and bully us men
> teachers. They outnumber us. They comment on my
> great ass and husky good looks. I dread going to
> work every day with mean women waiting to mess
> with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they are
> wearing sandals that show their crusty ass feet.
> Ewww


I know you cant work for FCPS because the majority of women working there are man haters and burned out from long hours and constant BS from hellions and their parents.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Well. ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:05PM

nose be growing Wrote:
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> Man teacher Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is the
> > women teachers who harass and bully us men
> > teachers. They outnumber us. They comment on my
> > great ass and husky good looks. I dread going
> to
> > work every day with mean women waiting to mess
> > with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they are
> > wearing sandals that show their crusty ass
> feet.
> > Ewww
>
>
> I know you cant work for FCPS because the majority
> of women working there are man haters and burned
> out from long hours and constant BS from hellions
> and their parents.


Man haters only exist because one hasn't properly fucked them yet.


Fact.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Manhaters ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:13PM

Well. Wrote:
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> nose be growing Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Man teacher Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is
> the
> > > women teachers who harass and bully us men
> > > teachers. They outnumber us. They comment on
> my
> > > great ass and husky good looks. I dread going
> > to
> > > work every day with mean women waiting to
> mess
> > > with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they are
> > > wearing sandals that show their crusty ass
> > feet.
> > > Ewww
> >
> >
> > I know you cant work for FCPS because the
> majority
> > of women working there are man haters and
> burned
> > out from long hours and constant BS from
> hellions
> > and their parents.
>
>
> Man haters only exist because one hasn't properly
> fucked them yet.
>
>
> Fact.

No, they exist because of the ignorance witnessed in forums such as this one. I am not a man hater but you are trying your best to make me one. Get yourselves together cowboys! You're probably just upset that Mommy hasn't called you up for dinner yet.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ok.Sure. ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:16PM

Manhaters Wrote:
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> Well. Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > nose be growing Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Man teacher Wrote:
> > >
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> >
> > > -----
> > > > We have the opposite problem at FCPS. It is
> > the
> > > > women teachers who harass and bully us men
> > > > teachers. They outnumber us. They comment
> on
> > my
> > > > great ass and husky good looks. I dread
> going
> > > to
> > > > work every day with mean women waiting to
> > mess
> > > > with me. Plus, with warmer weather, they
> are
> > > > wearing sandals that show their crusty ass
> > > feet.
> > > > Ewww
> > >
> > >
> > > I know you cant work for FCPS because the
> > majority
> > > of women working there are man haters and
> > burned
> > > out from long hours and constant BS from
> > hellions
> > > and their parents.
> >
> >
> > Man haters only exist because one hasn't
> properly
> > fucked them yet.
> >
> >
> > Fact.
>
> No, they exist because of the ignorance witnessed
> in forums such as this one. I am not a man hater
> but you are trying your best to make me one. Get
> yourselves together cowboys! You're probably just
> upset that Mommy hasn't called you up for dinner
> yet.


Sure.


I've fucked and chucked plenty of bitches like you in this area. That's your dirty little secret.

You may tell everyone you like progressive, faggoty SJW "men", but you really want a man to toss your ass around.


The popularity of Bernie Sanders and his comments on women liking to be Dominated, and the overwhelming sales of the 50 Shades crap proves my point.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: ForrestGump ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:22PM

Let go of the hate, brother. Have a blessed Sunday night.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: The.Family ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:28PM

ForrestGump Wrote:
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> Let go of the hate, brother. Have a blessed Sunday
> night.


You too, brother.
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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: I hate bullies ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:54PM

You are a asshole

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Master. ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:57PM

I hate bullies Wrote:
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> You are a asshole


And women love it.


;)

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:58PM

I hate bullies Wrote:
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> You are a asshole


"an asshole", Sybil.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Go home little girl to your mom ()
Date: April 24, 2016 07:59PM

I hate bullies Wrote:
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> You are a asshole


Someone got their feelings hurt - BOO HOO HOO!

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FRe: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Man teacher ()
Date: April 24, 2016 08:15PM

Hmmmmm, yeah, been there several years. Long enough to see lots of crusty ass feet.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Petey kid ()
Date: April 24, 2016 09:36PM

You fucking Virginia hicks

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Petey kid ()
Date: April 24, 2016 09:37PM

You dirrty hick

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: causeican ()
Date: April 24, 2016 09:40PM

2sidestoeverystory Wrote:
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> Intelligent people like to have as much
> information as possible before drawing
> conclusions. What I posted is another point of
> view that people with a functional brain will know
> what to do with.
>
> Seems most folks have accepted the crude
> commentary in the original post as truth. There
> is more to it than that.

It seems your wisdom has been overlooked.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Oldtimer ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:29PM

I don't know if Nicole really was sleeping around and its not my business, that would be between her and her husband.

I don't believe what is posted on discussion boards and I sure won't on this one. I have read enough to see that the firefighters on here act like middle school children. Y'all need to grow up and be adults, get a life of your own and leave others alone.

To the middle school firefighters that bullied her I hope she haunts you for many years.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: b79c9 ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:44PM

there are NOT 2sides of the story to cheating

there can be 2sides of the story in the RELATIONSHIP, but that does not excuse cheating

simple fact, infidelity is wrong illegal and has no excuse

a person only can end the relationship FIRST

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Oldtimer ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:50PM

Message boards are hearsay, not fact. Even if she did,attacking her on line is wrong and childish.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Pepperidge.Farms ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:51PM

Oldtimer Wrote:
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> Message boards are hearsay, not fact. Even if she
> did,attacking her on line is wrong and childish.


Go to bed, Gramps.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: yahooreader ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:54PM


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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Et9cG ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:55PM

Oldtimer Wrote:
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> Message boards are hearsay, not fact. Even if she
> did,attacking her on line is wrong and childish.


no

if she did then it is modern day social justice

before the internet, if cheated on you could only vent to people immediately around you

think of the bullshit term of "cyber bullying" as a way for people to warn other people of a bad person

if some guy gave me a sexual STD, it would be my duty to not let others get hurt by this bad person

same applies here

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Chnge is needed ()
Date: April 24, 2016 10:58PM

I couldn't help but notice that many of the people who are condemning these women are nothing but a bunch of self-admitted sluts themselves. Someone on here said "a whore is a whore" and this is correct, for both sexes.

A large number of those that were a negative part of the thread in question were most likely given the cold shoulder or out right turned down by Mittendorf and could not keep their over-inflated egos in check. Their childishness kicked in (if it ever turns off) and they had to use derogatory name calling and unfounded accusations (only one act of sex was told, willing or not) to make their feel-goods stop hurting. Whether this led to the suicide or not, I cannot say. However, I can say that any of those that are a part of the fire department are not mature enough to have such a job and need to be disgracefully released from service.

I served my country for nearly 15 years, did 6 tours on 3 different fronts, and I have mourned the lose of 6,862 brothers (a number that continues to rise). It does not matter if I liked them or not nor does it matter if I knew them, I never speak ill of them like the malignant puddles of piss are doing on here with one of their own. Honor and integrity seems to have very little influence among the Fairfax fire and rescue services. I hope that those involved drown in their own disreputable shame.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Whiteknight ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:09PM

Chnge is needed Wrote:
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> I couldn't help but notice that many of the people
> who are condemning these women are nothing but a
> bunch of self-admitted sluts themselves. Someone
> on here said "a whore is a whore" and this is
> correct, for both sexes.
>
> A large number of those that were a negative part
> of the thread in question were most likely given
> the cold shoulder or out right turned down by
> Mittendorf and could not keep their over-inflated
> egos in check. Their childishness kicked in (if it
> ever turns off) and they had to use derogatory
> name calling and unfounded accusations (only one
> act of sex was told, willing or not) to make their
> feel-goods stop hurting. Whether this led to the
> suicide or not, I cannot say. However, I can say
> that any of those that are a part of the fire
> department are not mature enough to have such a
> job and need to be disgracefully released from
> service.
>
> I served my country for nearly 15 years, did 6
> tours on 3 different fronts, and I have mourned
> the lose of 6,862 brothers (a number that
> continues to rise). It does not matter if I liked
> them or not nor does it matter if I knew them, I
> never speak ill of them like the malignant puddles
> of piss are doing on here with one of their own.
> Honor and integrity seems to have very little
> influence among the Fairfax fire and rescue
> services. I hope that those involved drown in
> their own disreputable shame.


Sounds great senpai, get some barbecues going and see how this turns out in the future.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Here.we.go. ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:10PM

Chnge is needed Wrote:
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> I couldn't help but notice that many of the people
> who are condemning these women are nothing but a
> bunch of self-admitted sluts themselves. Someone
> on here said "a whore is a whore" and this is
> correct, for both sexes.
>
> A large number of those that were a negative part
> of the thread in question were most likely given
> the cold shoulder or out right turned down by
> Mittendorf and could not keep their over-inflated
> egos in check. Their childishness kicked in (if it
> ever turns off) and they had to use derogatory
> name calling and unfounded accusations (only one
> act of sex was told, willing or not) to make their
> feel-goods stop hurting. Whether this led to the
> suicide or not, I cannot say. However, I can say
> that any of those that are a part of the fire
> department are not mature enough to have such a
> job and need to be disgracefully released from
> service.
>
> I served my country for nearly 15 years, did 6
> tours on 3 different fronts, and I have mourned
> the lose of 6,862 brothers (a number that
> continues to rise). It does not matter if I liked
> them or not nor does it matter if I knew them, I
> never speak ill of them like the malignant puddles
> of piss are doing on here with one of their own.
> Honor and integrity seems to have very little
> influence among the Fairfax fire and rescue
> services. I hope that those involved drown in
> their own disreputable shame.


No one cares if you're a veteran. You aren't the only one ever, and you injecting that into this debate means nothing. Other than you playing on some stupid, sense of entitlement.

And I can guarantee you a good number of those 6,000 were bags of shit.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Disagree ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:25PM

Et9cG Wrote:
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> Oldtimer Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Message boards are hearsay, not fact. Even if
> she
> > did,attacking her on line is wrong and
> childish.
>
>
> no
>
> if she did then it is modern day social justice
>
> before the internet, if cheated on you could only
> vent to people immediately around you
>
> think of the bullshit term of "cyber bullying" as
> a way for people to warn other people of a bad
> person
>
> if some guy gave me a sexual STD, it would be my
> duty to not let others get hurt by this bad
> person
>
> same applies here

Modern Day social Justice? That's a barbaric concept. I'll just come on any old forum (anonymously) and add fuel to the fire with no knowledge of this person or if the accusations are true. That's exactly what you did.

If you know something and are 100% sure where the STD originated...follow the norms and contact the health department, the police...whatever. Modern Day justice? No discretion used (?), do you think the world wants to know your personal problems....they do not. The ONLY reason for "outing" is vengeance. It serves no purpose other than your smug smile to yourself and possibility destroys lives of innocent people. Hope the smile was worth it...and yes, it will come back to you, believe that.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: causeican ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:29PM

b79c9 Wrote:
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> there are NOT 2sides of the story to cheating
>
> there can be 2sides of the story in the
> RELATIONSHIP, but that does not excuse cheating
>
> simple fact, infidelity is wrong illegal and has
> no excuse
>
> a person only can end the relationship FIRST

The post I think you are referring to, speaks about how people respond to this forum, not cheating on a spouse. Here it is:

2sidestoeverystory Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Intelligent people like to have as much
> information as possible before drawing
> conclusions. What I posted is another point of
> view that people with a functional brain will know
> what to do with.
>
> Seems most folks have accepted the crude
> commentary in the original post as truth. There
> is more to it than that.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: #niggersdontmatter ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:34PM

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: uCpJK ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:46PM

Disagree Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Et9cG Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Oldtimer Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Message boards are hearsay, not fact. Even
> if
> > she
> > > did,attacking her on line is wrong and
> > childish.
> >
> >
> > no
> >
> > if she did then it is modern day social justice
> >
> > before the internet, if cheated on you could
> only
> > vent to people immediately around you
> >
> > think of the bullshit term of "cyber bullying"
> as
> > a way for people to warn other people of a bad
> > person
> >
> > if some guy gave me a sexual STD, it would be
> my
> > duty to not let others get hurt by this bad
> > person
> >
> > same applies here
>
> Modern Day social Justice? That's a barbaric
> concept. I'll just come on any old forum
> (anonymously) and add fuel to the fire with no
> knowledge of this person or if the accusations are
> true. That's exactly what you did.
>
> If you know something and are 100% sure where the
> STD originated...follow the norms and contact the
> health department, the police...whatever. Modern
> Day justice? No discretion used (?), do you think
> the world wants to know your personal
> problems....they do not. The ONLY reason for
> "outing" is vengeance. It serves no purpose other
> than your smug smile to yourself and possibility
> destroys lives of innocent people. Hope the smile
> was worth it...and yes, it will come back to you,
> believe that.


you can disagree, but would be wrong

if person A hurts you (STD, abuse, cheating etc...) person B has every right to do anything they like

they could make a banner and hang it from their house

of course they can go to authorities

where it becomes social justice is when others decide to not let person A do it to others and use what is available to let others know

in terms of infidelity, authorities do little to nothing, get a divorce and most likely have the woman take half your possessions and money - that is the usual and makes no sense - even your kids when she cheated

fuck that

person A is the "bully" and there is a time for a person, and others, to stand up for themselves - that includes using social media

you continue to try and protect the false victim, we will deal in reality

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Interesting. ()
Date: April 24, 2016 11:49PM

Hmmmmmmm....you're saying she used her pussy as a weapon, and as she is a protected class, is actually the bully herself?


I'll admit, that is food for thought.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Spykster ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:09AM

I would like to make a general comment about this situation. I'm a retired FDNY Lieutenant. I was on the job when women were force fed into the ranks of the FDNY.The problem we had with it was that they were given watered down physical requirements after they all failed the toughest entry physical the job ever used, and the males who failed were left out in the cold, as they should have been. We were upset not because the females were females, but because they got jobs they didn't deserve. Sure, there were some knuckleheads who whined about "females" on the job, but when they were investigated and charged many of them were fired for their harassing behaviour. I read enough of the comments in this forum, and they quite frankly shock me as to the downright depraved immaturity and hatred displayed. There are those dim bulbs among you that think you can hide behind some non-existent cyber- curtain. You can't. Anyone who desires to conduct an in-depth search as to your identity can and will find out who you are in short order. We will now find out what the Chief of the Fairfax Fire Department is made of. Is he part of the problem, or will he put an end to this sordid nonsense. Those of you who posted all the vile comments here know who you are. If you are "on the job", you are a disgrace to the Fire Service, your families, and yourselves. I sincerely hope you get what's coming to you if it can be proven what the level of your individual involvement in this disgraceful episode is. There could be criminal and civil issues for you, and you deserve it. May this unfortunate young lady rest in peace, and her family find some solace.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: .... ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:11AM

Spykster Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> I would like to make a general comment about this
> situation. I'm a retired FDNY Lieutenant. I was on
> the job when women were force fed into the ranks
> of the FDNY.The problem we had with it was that
> they were given watered down physical requirements
> after they all failed the toughest entry physical
> the job ever used, and the males who failed were
> left out in the cold, as they should have been. We
> were upset not because the females were females,
> but because they got jobs they didn't deserve.
> Sure, there were some knuckleheads who whined
> about "females" on the job, but when they were
> investigated and charged many of them were fired
> for their harassing behaviour. I read enough of
> the comments in this forum, and they quite frankly
> shock me as to the downright depraved immaturity
> and hatred displayed. There are those dim bulbs
> among you that think you can hide behind some
> non-existent cyber- curtain. You can't. Anyone who
> desires to conduct an in-depth search as to your
> identity can and will find out who you are in
> short order. We will now find out what the Chief
> of the Fairfax Fire Department is made of. Is he
> part of the problem, or will he put an end to this
> sordid nonsense. Those of you who posted all the
> vile comments here know who you are. If you are
> "on the job", you are a disgrace to the Fire
> Service, your families, and yourselves. I
> sincerely hope you get what's coming to you if it
> can be proven what the level of your individual
> involvement in this disgraceful episode is. There
> could be criminal and civil issues for you, and
> you deserve it. May this unfortunate young lady
> rest in peace, and her family find some solace.



Jumping to conclusions are we? Sounds like you were a shitty leader.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: nnGGE ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:27AM

Interesting. Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Hmmmmmmm....you're saying she used her pussy as a
> weapon, and as she is a protected class, is
> actually the bully herself?
>
>
> I'll admit, that is food for thought.


not sure I would specifically say "pussy", but the first "bullying" was done (IF) she cheated on her husband when married

I would not care who, or how many, people she chose to have sex with AFTER she was divorced

that is where the white knights lose their argument - regardless of how bad the marriage MIGHT be, infidelity can not be excused - the only options are divorce or authorities if there is something else going on

I am SPECULATING that he did not get a divorce, because our society would excuse the infidelity and he would get screwed in a divorce (even lose the kids if they had any) only because she is female

the only "bullying" I see is by the female - she chose to break the law (infidelity) maybe multiple times and supposedly with people in their circle of employment and friends - he is left with an unfaithful wife, her even not bothering to do it in private, no way out of the relationship except going to our hugely female leaning legal system to only get fucked over again BY THE PERSON WHO BROKE THE LAW, RELATIONSHIP, FAMILY....HE is the victim


notice HE is not involved in any of the drama, no cheating to get "even", no playing the "victim" card even

he did what many men HAVE to do - step up and say fuck it, I am done with this shit and move on

he was smart by not initiating a divorce, or he did and saw the oncoming rape of his life if he did

I am not one of those "glad she died because she was a slut" people

I wish she would have found peace and just moved along with her life

I DO NOT agree that the social media justice was wrong, in fact I encourage it (for legitimate facts) as away for people to punish those that hurt others

you can see, just from this thread, that a FEMALE will be excused of any wrong doing even in the face of facts

again, if this event had the roles reversed and HE killed himself after cheating and so on...the white knights and fake feminists would be cheering that HE got whet HE deserved

hate to say, but if she was some over-weight unattractive females, the white knights would drop by 99% too

also, if she never cheated, I am sure the husband and wife would squash any rumors immediately

on top of all that - the posts about her were very tame in reality

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: You People Need Help ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:42AM

There are some seriously mentally ill people in this thread - none of whom realize it. Their warped positions appear to be motivated purely by hatred and revenge - not principle. You people would burn women at the stake if you could.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: William ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:43AM

To deadasdicks() and doubtfulthat() probably the same weasel. You are exactly the kind of POS that needs to be investigated. If I were lucky enough to learn exactly who you are I'd make a personal visit to show you my gratitude for the amazing work you do as an ungrateful servant of society. This women may have made many poor decisions but who the hell are you to knock her down after she paid the ultimate price!!! Your posts are pathetic, insensitive and troubling - it appears to me you may have personal mistakes on your conscience. You'll deny it I'm sure because you may be diillusioned with the idea you are larger than life being a firefighter. That's a laugher to a guy like me. Your comments lead me to believe you are weak, cowardly, insecure and quite ignorant. I don't know Nicole M but I feel bad that she felt such pain. So much so that she needed to escape this world. It's people like you that she perhaps ran from.

I honestly would absolutely love to run into a guy like you (if i knew who you were we would most definitely meet) but guys like me are never fortunate to have that happen. My email is on this site - feel free to reach out - you can tell me face to face how wonderful you are and how cool the firefighters on your team are and how volunteers are less competent (not true by the way, actually quite the opposite). You can be tough in person - let's see how that works out for you. Lol. Try your childish, insensitive, ignorant blah blah blah comments about these women you bully and disrespect on me. Real men respect women and real men don't brag about being a firefighter or having sex with married women. Little boys do that. And you my friend - are a boy.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Lol. ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:51AM

William Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> To deadasdicks() and doubtfulthat() probably the
> same weasel. You are exactly the kind of POS that
> needs to be investigated. If I were lucky enough
> to learn exactly who you are I'd make a personal
> visit to show you my gratitude for the amazing
> work you do as an ungrateful servant of society.
> This women may have made many poor decisions but
> who the hell are you to knock her down after she
> paid the ultimate price!!! Your posts are
> pathetic, insensitive and troubling - it appears
> to me you may have personal mistakes on your
> conscience. You'll deny it I'm sure because you
> may be diillusioned with the idea you are larger
> than life being a firefighter. That's a laugher
> to a guy like me. Your comments lead me to believe
> you are weak, cowardly, insecure and quite
> ignorant. I don't know Nicole M but I feel bad
> that she felt such pain. So much so that she
> needed to escape this world. It's people like you
> that she perhaps ran from.
>
> I honestly would absolutely love to run into a guy
> like you (if i knew who you were we would most
> definitely meet) but guys like me are never
> fortunate to have that happen. My email is on
> this site - feel free to reach out - you can tell
> me face to face how wonderful you are and how cool
> the firefighters on your team are and how
> volunteers are less competent (not true by the
> way, actually quite the opposite). You can be
> tough in person - let's see how that works out for
> you. Lol. Try your childish, insensitive,
> ignorant blah blah blah comments about these women
> you bully and disrespect on me. Real men respect
> women and real men don't brag about being a
> firefighter or having sex with married women.
> Little boys do that. And you my friend - are a
> boy.



She's not going to fuck you, dude.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: 4NYpx ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:56AM

Lol. Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> William Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > To deadasdicks() and doubtfulthat() probably
> the
> > same weasel. You are exactly the kind of POS
> that
> > needs to be investigated. If I were lucky
> enough
> > to learn exactly who you are I'd make a
> personal
> > visit to show you my gratitude for the amazing
> > work you do as an ungrateful servant of society.
>
> > This women may have made many poor decisions
> but
> > who the hell are you to knock her down after
> she
> > paid the ultimate price!!! Your posts are
> > pathetic, insensitive and troubling - it
> appears
> > to me you may have personal mistakes on your
> > conscience. You'll deny it I'm sure because
> you
> > may be diillusioned with the idea you are
> larger
> > than life being a firefighter. That's a
> laugher
> > to a guy like me. Your comments lead me to
> believe
> > you are weak, cowardly, insecure and quite
> > ignorant. I don't know Nicole M but I feel bad
> > that she felt such pain. So much so that she
> > needed to escape this world. It's people like
> you
> > that she perhaps ran from.
> >
> > I honestly would absolutely love to run into a
> guy
> > like you (if i knew who you were we would most
> > definitely meet) but guys like me are never
> > fortunate to have that happen. My email is on
> > this site - feel free to reach out - you can
> tell
> > me face to face how wonderful you are and how
> cool
> > the firefighters on your team are and how
> > volunteers are less competent (not true by the
> > way, actually quite the opposite). You can be
> > tough in person - let's see how that works out
> for
> > you. Lol. Try your childish, insensitive,
> > ignorant blah blah blah comments about these
> women
> > you bully and disrespect on me. Real men
> respect
> > women and real men don't brag about being a
> > firefighter or having sex with married women.
> > Little boys do that. And you my friend - are a
> > boy.
>
>
>
> She's not going to fuck you, dude.


LOL

and who is "William"?

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Curiositar ()
Date: April 25, 2016 02:22AM

x3nwk Wrote:
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> IF the allegations of being unfaithful are true,
> then...
>
>
> Person cheats on spouse
>
> Person cheats on spouse (with co-workers?)
>
> Person is called out for cheating on spouse in
> social media (and in person?)
>
> Person, now, has to deal with consequences of
> their choices

PLUS ALL THE THINGS SAID IN THAT POST
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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: hose patrol ()
Date: April 25, 2016 04:39AM

Spykster Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> I would like to make a general comment about this
> situation. I'm a retired FDNY Lieutenant. I was on
> the job when women were force fed into the ranks
> of the FDNY.The problem we had with it was that
> they were given watered down physical requirements
> after they all failed the toughest entry physical
> the job ever used, and the males who failed were
> left out in the cold, as they should have been. We
> were upset not because the females were females,
> but because they got jobs they didn't deserve.
> Sure, there were some knuckleheads who whined
> about "females" on the job, but when they were
> investigated and charged many of them were fired
> for their harassing behaviour. I read enough of
> the comments in this forum, and they quite frankly
> shock me as to the downright depraved immaturity
> and hatred displayed. There are those dim bulbs
> among you that think you can hide behind some
> non-existent cyber- curtain. You can't. Anyone who
> desires to conduct an in-depth search as to your
> identity can and will find out who you are in
> short order. We will now find out what the Chief
> of the Fairfax Fire Department is made of. Is he
> part of the problem, or will he put an end to this
> sordid nonsense. Those of you who posted all the
> vile comments here know who you are. If you are
> "on the job", you are a disgrace to the Fire
> Service, your families, and yourselves. I
> sincerely hope you get what's coming to you if it
> can be proven what the level of your individual
> involvement in this disgraceful episode is. There
> could be criminal and civil issues for you, and
> you deserve it. May this unfortunate young lady
> rest in peace, and her family find some solace.


Fuck you and your opinion.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 25, 2016 05:14AM

Spykster Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> I would like to make a general comment about this
> situation. I'm a retired FDNY Lieutenant. I was on
> the job when women were force fed into the ranks
> of the FDNY.The problem we had with it was that
> they were given watered down physical requirements
> after they all failed the toughest entry physical
> the job ever used, and the males who failed were
> left out in the cold, as they should have been. We
> were upset not because the females were females,
> but because they got jobs they didn't deserve.
> Sure, there were some knuckleheads who whined
> about "females" on the job, but when they were
> investigated and charged many of them were fired
> for their harassing behaviour. I read enough of
> the comments in this forum, and they quite frankly
> shock me as to the downright depraved immaturity
> and hatred displayed. There are those dim bulbs
> among you that think you can hide behind some
> non-existent cyber- curtain. You can't. Anyone who
> desires to conduct an in-depth search as to your
> identity can and will find out who you are in
> short order. We will now find out what the Chief
> of the Fairfax Fire Department is made of. Is he
> part of the problem, or will he put an end to this
> sordid nonsense. Those of you who posted all the
> vile comments here know who you are. If you are
> "on the job", you are a disgrace to the Fire
> Service, your families, and yourselves. I
> sincerely hope you get what's coming to you if it
> can be proven what the level of your individual
> involvement in this disgraceful episode is. There
> could be criminal and civil issues for you, and
> you deserve it. May this unfortunate young lady
> rest in peace, and her family find some solace.

I'm confused. You said women have jobs they don't deserve, but you have a problem with men who put their lives at risk working with those who can't support their end of the load. If I worked in a life or death job, I'd want the most capable person beside me.



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 04/25/2016 05:38AM by Ying Ko.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: 6KhMm ()
Date: April 25, 2016 05:23AM

Ying Ko Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Spykster Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I would like to make a general comment about
> this
> > situation. I'm a retired FDNY Lieutenant. I was
> on
> > the job when women were force fed into the
> ranks
> > of the FDNY.The problem we had with it was that
> > they were given watered down physical
> requirements
> > after they all failed the toughest entry
> physical
> > the job ever used, and the males who failed
> were
> > left out in the cold, as they should have been.
> We
> > were upset not because the females were
> females,
> > but because they got jobs they didn't deserve.
> > Sure, there were some knuckleheads who whined
> > about "females" on the job, but when they were
> > investigated and charged many of them were
> fired
> > for their harassing behaviour. I read enough of
> > the comments in this forum, and they quite
> frankly
> > shock me as to the downright depraved
> immaturity
> > and hatred displayed. There are those dim bulbs
> > among you that think you can hide behind some
> > non-existent cyber- curtain. You can't. Anyone
> who
> > desires to conduct an in-depth search as to
> your
> > identity can and will find out who you are in
> > short order. We will now find out what the
> Chief
> > of the Fairfax Fire Department is made of. Is
> he
> > part of the problem, or will he put an end to
> this
> > sordid nonsense. Those of you who posted all
> the
> > vile comments here know who you are. If you are
> > "on the job", you are a disgrace to the Fire
> > Service, your families, and yourselves. I
> > sincerely hope you get what's coming to you if
> it
> > can be proven what the level of your individual
> > involvement in this disgraceful episode is.
> There
> > could be criminal and civil issues for you, and
> > you deserve it. May this unfortunate young lady
> > rest in peace, and her family find some solace.
>
> I'm confused. You said women have jobs they don't
> deserve, but you have a problem with with men who
> put their lives at risk working with those who
> can't support their end of the load. If worked in
> a life or death job, I'd want the most capable
> person beside me.


Correct - RATIONALLY AND LOGICALLY

Incorrect - PC and the ILLOGICAL

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Retired FF ()
Date: April 25, 2016 08:13AM

FXFD will now begin a period of faux outrage over bullying and launch a full "investigation". The results of which would be embarrassing if released publicly but not a real surprise to the ivory tower.

Then most staff will have to go to some sensitivity training - which will not last anywhere near as long as one morning of PT.

This might get its 15 minutes as long as the media bird dog it, then it will go back to the usual bang bang party at the firehouse.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: someone died ()
Date: April 25, 2016 08:15AM

It's sad that people don't seem to have any sympathy for the loss of life here

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: accountability ()
Date: April 25, 2016 10:04AM

Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as well. It mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing that continues on this forum, even after her death.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-firefighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-article-1.2613389

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: ..... ()
Date: April 25, 2016 10:18AM

accountability Wrote:
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> Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as well. It
> mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing that
> continues on this forum, even after her death.
>
> http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-fi
> refighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-arti
> cle-1.2613389


Hats what passes for journalism these days. No proof that the supposed bullying lead to her supposed suicide.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Notsupposed ()
Date: April 25, 2016 11:30AM

..... Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> accountability Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as well. It
> > mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing that
> > continues on this forum, even after her death.
> >
> >
> http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-fi
>
> >
> refighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-arti
>
> > cle-1.2613389
>
>
> Hats what passes for journalism these days. No
> proof that the supposed bullying lead to her
> supposed suicide.


It's a fact that the harassment took place (we've all seen it) and sadly it's also a fact that Nicole killed herself. There is nothing "supposed" about it.

Now it's up to Fairfax County officials to sort through this mess to separate fact from fiction and take actions to ensure it NEVER happens again.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: County Incompetence ()
Date: April 25, 2016 11:33AM

Kathy Smith and Dan Storck are crying over lack of funds to send entitled brats to band camp, and we have firefighters being bullied to suicide. What wonderful leadership we do not have.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: .... ()
Date: April 25, 2016 11:34AM

Notsupposed Wrote:
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> ..... Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > accountability Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as well.
> It
> > > mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing that
> > > continues on this forum, even after her
> death.
> > >
> > >
> >
> http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-fi
>
> >
> > >
> >
> refighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-arti
>
> >
> > > cle-1.2613389
> >
> >
> > Hats what passes for journalism these days. No
> > proof that the supposed bullying lead to her
> > supposed suicide.
>
>
> It's a fact that the harassment took place (we've
> all seen it) and sadly it's also a fact that
> Nicole killed herself. There is nothing "supposed"
> about it.
>
> Now it's up to Fairfax County officials to sort
> through this mess to separate fact from fiction
> and take actions to ensure it NEVER happens again.


You still have to connect those two supposed facts.


As of right now, there is zero proof that any supposed bullying lead to her supposed suicide.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Bingo ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:48PM

.... Wrote:
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> Notsupposed Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > ..... Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > accountability Wrote:
> > >
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> >
> > > -----
> > > > Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as well.
>
> > It
> > > > mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing that
> > > > continues on this forum, even after her
> > death.
> > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
> http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-fi
>
> >
> > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
> refighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-arti
>
> >
> > >
> > > > cle-1.2613389
> > >
> > >
> > > Hats what passes for journalism these days.
> No
> > > proof that the supposed bullying lead to her
> > > supposed suicide.
> >
> >
> > It's a fact that the harassment took place
> (we've
> > all seen it) and sadly it's also a fact that
> > Nicole killed herself. There is nothing
> "supposed"
> > about it.
> >
> > Now it's up to Fairfax County officials to sort
> > through this mess to separate fact from fiction
> > and take actions to ensure it NEVER happens
> again.
>
>
> You still have to connect those two supposed
> facts.
>
>
> As of right now, there is zero proof that any
> supposed bullying lead to her supposed suicide.

Which is precisely why there needs to be a full investigation led by the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors to get to the bottom of this. Links between bullying and suicide are well documented. It's up to Fairfax County leadership to sort fact from fiction and take the necessary action(s).

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Kevin Nacon ()
Date: April 25, 2016 12:54PM

Promiscuity --> Gossiping ---> Bullying ---> Marital separation ---> suicide

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Bla Bla ()
Date: April 25, 2016 01:02PM


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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: ....... ()
Date: April 25, 2016 01:19PM

Bingo Wrote:
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> .... Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Notsupposed Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > ..... Wrote:
> > >
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> >
> > > -----
> > > > accountability Wrote:
> > > >
> > >
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> >
> > >
> > > > -----
> > > > > Nicole's story is on NY Daily news as
> well.
> >
> > > It
> > > > > mentions the vitriol and hate-spewing
> that
> > > > > continues on this forum, even after her
> > > death.
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
> http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/female-fi
>
> >
> > >
> > > >
> > > > >
> > > >
> > >
> >
> refighter-victim-cyberbullying-months-suicide-arti
>
> >
> > >
> > > >
> > > > > cle-1.2613389
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > Hats what passes for journalism these days.
> > No
> > > > proof that the supposed bullying lead to
> her
> > > > supposed suicide.
> > >
> > >
> > > It's a fact that the harassment took place
> > (we've
> > > all seen it) and sadly it's also a fact that
> > > Nicole killed herself. There is nothing
> > "supposed"
> > > about it.
> > >
> > > Now it's up to Fairfax County officials to
> sort
> > > through this mess to separate fact from
> fiction
> > > and take actions to ensure it NEVER happens
> > again.
> >
> >
> > You still have to connect those two supposed
> > facts.
> >
> >
> > As of right now, there is zero proof that any
> > supposed bullying lead to her supposed suicide.
>
> Which is precisely why there needs to be a full
> investigation led by the Fairfax County Board of
> Supervisors to get to the bottom of this. Links
> between bullying and suicide are well documented.
> It's up to Fairfax County leadership to sort fact
> from fiction and take the necessary action(s).


Well documented? How?


If that were the case, and there was a crime, there would be charges already.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Festivus Fan. ()
Date: April 25, 2016 04:35PM

If we only brought back this amazing holiday, maybe cyber bullying would stop?

http://festivusweb.com/festivus-airing-of-grievances.htm

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Investigation ()
Date: April 25, 2016 05:53PM


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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Whiteknight ()
Date: April 25, 2016 06:00PM

Investigation Wrote:
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> Investigation is gonna happen....
>
> http://patch.com/virginia/fairfaxstation/did-firef
> ighter-commit-suicide-after-cyber-bullying-fire-ch
> ief-investigate


How do you know it was bullying?

Her husband could of come home from work,a day before she offed herself,caught her fucking around, called her a dirty fucking whore and she fled to woods and choked.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 25, 2016 06:26PM

Investigation Wrote:
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> Investigation is gonna happen....
>
> http://patch.com/virginia/fairfaxstation/did-firef
> ighter-commit-suicide-after-cyber-bullying-fire-ch
> ief-investigate


Just like the Ashley Madison investigation or the teachers' salaries investigation or the school records investigation? Surely, someone's head will roll as an example but it won't fix the resentment of some of the guys.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Save the Next Girl ()
Date: April 25, 2016 06:27PM

A woman changed the law to fight anonymous online harassers on the internet in the state of Virginia. Identities were outed on this very website. To the ladies in the FD that are presently being harassed it's quite simple - get an attorney! You will sue John Doe and subpoena the Fairfax Underground administrator for the IP addresses. From there your attorney can sue the carrier of the IP address for the name associated.

http://nytlive.nytimes.com/womenintheworld/2015/07/30/virginias-new-andis-law-fights-anonymous-harassers-on-the-internet/

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Nicdoot ()
Date: April 25, 2016 06:40PM

Saw that Fairfax underground made abc news. Made it seem like the comments on here about her drove her to commit suicide.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: enough ()
Date: April 25, 2016 06:56PM

If someone could post the email address of the Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those of us who want to eliminate this will then have a chance to do so.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:03PM

enough Wrote:
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> If someone could post the email address of the
> Fire Chief and his boss that would be great.
> Those of us who want to eliminate this will then
> have a chance to do so.


Why don't you set your house on fire? They might show up and you can talk tough. .

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Whiteknight ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:03PM

enough Wrote:
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> If someone could post the email address of the
> Fire Chief and his boss that would be great.
> Those of us who want to eliminate this will then
> have a chance to do so.
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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: enough ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:06PM

If someone could post the email address of the Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those of us who want to eliminate this will then have a chance to do so.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: XPDVL ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:07PM

enough Wrote:
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> If someone could post the email address of the
> Fire Chief and his boss that would be great.
> Those of us who want to eliminate this will then
> have a chance to do so.

You can email the "Fire Chief and his boss" the horrific and criminal post yourself, I copied and pasted it below.


Here is the post that people consider "bullying" - good luck with that. Seems as though the poster "Techie 7" is reporting events that happened. Please point out the "bullying" part. IF these events happened, the poster is guilty of calling someone a "tramp" and "slut". When did calling someone names become illegal? Add to that, the poster was correct in their prediction that the person will "destroy herself".






Re: To all County Volunter Firefighters

Posted by: Techie 7 ()

Date: December 04, 2015 11:48AM


A new tramp emerges for us to watch destroy herself. Nicole Mittendorf at 32 is already slutting her way around the county. Got wasted and screwed Sam Mill's cousin and last week was seen at 8's usual hockey game in DC making out with Nate Larkin. Pics to come from someone there. Also hear some JJ Walsh play? She's married to a nice dude. Not sure if he knows. He's a trooper up here

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: enough ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:10PM

If someone could post the email address of the Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those of us who want to eliminate this will then have a chance to do so. Thanks in advance

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: nVWLW ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:17PM

enough Wrote:
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> If someone could post the email address of the
> Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those
> of us who want to eliminate this will then have a
> chance to do so. Thanks in advance


We do not want to get in trouble for "bullying" the Fire Chief by posting their email.

Or you could try FUCKING GOOGLE!

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: let's be logical ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:24PM

So some loser firemen post Nast comments on this website.

Here husband finds out about it and they separate

What next?

More bullying from the station
?

I read that she transferred to another station

If Fairfax is serious about investigating this they better hire an outside firm to do it

No way this clown show fire department will conduct a legitimate review

And it Damn well better be shown to the public

No more John geer bullshit from this county

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: x3Cmd ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:43PM

Bitch please... They're already scapegoating the real issue here. It's not cyberbullying but that's the hot topic. The real topis is the cess pool whores den that is FCFD. Get to the meat, the officers passing these bitches around like play toys.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Zowie ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:45PM

Why do you speak hatefully of another human being this way? Do you think it somehow helps you? What do you intend to create with your destructive words and negative comments? Just curious...

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: creeps ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:45PM

Those are valid comments

If someone could post the email address of the Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those of us who want to eliminate this will then have a chance to do so.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Whiteknight ()
Date: April 25, 2016 07:53PM

Zowie Wrote:
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> Why do you speak hatefully of another human being
> this way? Do you think it somehow helps you? What
> do you intend to create with your destructive
> words and negative comments? Just curious...


Poor Husband

Thank god she's dead. I hope she fucked it up and died slowly

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Ying Ko ()
Date: April 25, 2016 08:21PM

creeps Wrote:
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> Those are valid comments
>
> If someone could post the email address of the
> Fire Chief and his boss that would be great. Those
> of us who want to eliminate this will then have a
> chance to do so.


http://lmgtfy.com/?q=fairfax+fire+department

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Euphoric ()
Date: April 25, 2016 08:52PM

Suppose her husband had committed suicide because he found out she was sleeping with his friends? How would any ones attitude towards her change?

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: ...... ()
Date: April 25, 2016 08:54PM

Euphoric Wrote:
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> Suppose her husband had committed suicide because
> he found out she was sleeping with his friends?
> How would any ones attitude towards her change?


Don't think for one second any of these little SJW cunts or their cuckold boyfriends would blame the wife at all.

They'd turn it around on him somehow.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Euphoric ()
Date: April 25, 2016 09:08PM

...... Wrote:
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> Euphoric Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Suppose her husband had committed suicide
> because
> > he found out she was sleeping with his friends?
> > How would any ones attitude towards her change?
>
>
> Don't think for one second any of these little SJW
> cunts or their cuckold boyfriends would blame the
> wife at all.
>
> They'd turn it around on him somehow.

Truth!!!!!!!!!!

Those defending the little slut are the usual back-stabbing assholes who will vote for Hillary or Bernie. Trying to make them understand how they have been manipulated into accepting and sympathizing with bad behavior began with their government education is like trying to teach my dog to speak English.

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Re: Cyber Bullying at Fairfax Fire Department
Posted by: Yall Crazy ()
Date: April 25, 2016 09:25PM

I agree. Time to name names and track down who these people are on this forum and even if this crap isn't illegal the names of the people who posted need to magically appear instead of the anonymous names. This sounds to me more like a bunch of jealous women talking about other women. Like girlfriends and wives of the male firefighters? Of course this could be firefighters but if so they need to raise the age of acceptance in Fairfax because these guys have obviously just hit puberty snd are very insecure in their manhood...what are yall-12?? "Mines bigger than yours and I got laid by so and so"??? Grow the fuck up.

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