MortonInLorton Wrote:
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> @Wacking Off:
> 1) So, I've got 15 years of sexual experience at
> this point and I've averaged 4 times per week
> consistently in that time. Some weeks it's twice
> per week, sometimes it's thirteen per week.
> 2) I have indeed learned to masturbate and used it
> frequently prior to being married when I was
> between partners.
> 3) Yes, I've heard that from many sources. But, I
> prefer to live in the present and currently, I
> have no children.
> 4) I ran cross-country in HS and college.
> Currently, I run 30 miles per week and I'm at the
> gym 6 days per week. I run 2 half-marathons
> annually. My wife was a rower in HS and college
> and now participates in triathlons.
> 5) The rules of a relationship are what they are.
> I've had several partners in my life who have kept
> or exceeded my sexual pace. The issue at hand is,
> my wife knew what she was marrying into and now,
> without so much as a courtesy review of our
> marriage, she has changed the rules.
I would not
> have married her if when we discussed the
> long-term aspects of our marriage she had said,
> "I'm good for 2-3 times per week and a solo
> masturbation session..." It's her right and
> privilege to change the rules. I want her to live
> a life she's comfortable with. But, expecting me
> to stick around is...unreasonable. If anything it
> sends the message that nothing we ever agree to is
> binding to her.
> 6) I did tell her. I told her prior to agreeing to
> get married. Sexually hungry partners are no where
> near to as rare as you portray them to
> be...rather, I'm sorry your experiences have been
> so...limiting.
>
> @RubbinInDubblin: She's entitled to pleasure
> herself anytime she wants. I'm entitled to leave
> anytime I want.
>
> @YesDoItNow: The sarcasm is heavy upon your
> post...but taken un-sarcastically, it's nice to
> get some support.
>
> @DungeonSmash: It's not as though I sprung my
> sexual expectations on my wife last week. Again,
> we discussed this and she agreed to it and now she
> wants to change the deal without further
> discussion. Again, totally her privilege but, I
> retain privileges, too.
>
> @beendare: And what of my swollen, blue
> testicles?
>
> @emuju: She won't get half my shit. She'll get
> half OUR shit. And we entered the marriage with
> about the same amount of shit so, no cause for
> concern there...
Seems like you have answered your own question (see bold above). I applaud your ability to identify your needs. I also am in awe of your sexual history! You have fucked 3,120 times in 15 years. Impressive! Moreover, you have access to multiple female partners up to the task.
If you think you can jump ship, find another fit-body new wife to have sex with 3,100 times over the next 15 years (where your current wife will only want to have sex 2,340 times over the next 15 years) it seems to me you are looking at a net loss of 780 fucks with your current wifey - that's 3.9 liters (avg. 5cc/ejaculation) of spooge buildup over time. Thats a lot of Big Gulps worth of jiz