Re: HELP
Posted by:
Holy Bullshit Batman
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Date: November 09, 2012 10:59PM
Good influence Wrote:
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> Stop and try to think this thru b/c you're making
> a big mistake.
>
> You and your girlfriend may think your bodies are
> ready, but there's no way at 14 that your brains
> are ready to handle the turbulent and
> uncomfortable emotions this act will leave. You
> are likely to be disappointed the experience isn't
> better, and then you may just feel emptiness.
>
> Everyone I've known who had sex as a young teen
> regretted it years later, saying it really screwed
> them up.
Everyone you know must be some sort of born again purity pledge nutjob.
I enjoyed every sexual experience I had when I was in middle school. It didn't screw me up, and quite frankly everyone I know who DIDN'T have sex in middle school and high school REGRETS NOT HAVING SEX IN MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HIGH SCHOOL.
Do not take this religious fundamentalist's advice, OP. People who take their religion too seriously end up regretting a lot of things they did when they were young, because their "church" considers just about every aspect of being human to be a sin. They preach this "original sin" bullshit, which is the sin of being human.
Don't pressure your girlfriend into having sex. Don't manipulate her, don't lie to her in order to have sex with her. But if she believes she's ready and you believe you are ready, go at it like fuck monkeys and have a good time. Use protection. Be responsible.
"No sex before marriage" is a tenet of some religions not because it'll make god mad, and it certainly has nothing to do with physical or emotional well-being. It is a relic, it is just about perpetuating marriage.