Why didn't you save up money before you were laid off? And don't tell me you couldn't its the oldest lame excuse in the book. Do you have cable? Do you have a smart phone? Do you have an SUV or Minivan? Could you have chosen to live someplace less expensive? Do you buy make-up?
how it really is Wrote:
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> Take it from one who was in the program just the
> last few months of 2012 (not by choice- laid off
> and have a young child at home gotta do
> something!)-
>
>
> TANF (temp assistance to needy families formerly
> known as welfare) pays all of $323 a month for one
> child. 2 might make $389 (see- 2 and 3 person
> families at the bottom of this page=
>
http://www.fairfaxcounty.gov/dfs/ss/tanf.htm )
>
> How did the other lady mentioned above get $875
> per child per month???? I dont think even SSI pays
> that much even if the kids were disabled!
>
> But back on point- if you are in TANF, you HAVE TO
> participate in something for 30 hours a week. Work
> a job or do their job training seminars or be in
> school full time-and they DO verify and are QUICK
> to cut you off if you miss even one hour of
> training of schol!!! I already have a bachelors,
> so I started doing their seminars, but they are
> disgustingly simple- like how to put together a
> resume or how to use monster- I can do all that
> from home! But no, since they were giving that $
> 323/month I had to spend my $7 of gas a DAY
> getting to those seminars 16 days out the month to
> keep my $323 grant! (16 daysx$7= 112 so 323-112 I
> effectivaly got only $202 amonth to work with!!!
> I asked for transportation assistance but
> ironically where the seminars are held and the
> time (like 8am) it would be IMPOSSIBLE for me to
> get there via public transportation on time on the
> other side of the county- so i HAD TO drive to
> make it on time. They DID give me free childcare
> to use during that time which helped- but it was
> only 9-5 monday-friday basically.
>
> Housing- everyone talks about section 8 (sharon!
> LOL) but what she doesnt tell you is there is a
> 4-year waiting list if you add your name to the
> list right now- but rent is due TODAY and taking
> home $202/month from ffx county what rent would
> that pay? Obviously I lost my apartment and had to
> move back in with family. Now I have bad credit
> too (of course they didnt offer any rent
> assistance citing those funds were spent
> too-probably on all the illegals that came by
> earlier that morning walking out the office with
> smiles and checks in hand right before I got
> there).
>
> Tired of all the hoops I was jumping to only get
> $323 cash, 250 foodstamps, childcare while I was
> in the "seminars" and medicaid (for the child not
> me) (that was all I got! No obamaphone here!) and
> thinking I wanted to get out of the system right
> away and get back to real work again, I happily
> took a job at walmart making $9.50 an hour (and
> almost didnt get it since Im overqualified with a
> degree and 10 years real experiance in the
> corporate world, not retail....)- but guess what-
> as soon as I was hired, TANF said I MADE TOO MUCH
> MONEY so my TANF was cancelled, they cut my food
> stamps from 250/mo (me and 1 child) down to $60 a
> month, and booted me out of the childcare
> assistance since "they didnt have room to assist
> people who were working right now theres a waiting
> list only space for TANF participants right now"-
> so for me to go to work I am paying a nighttime
> sitter $160/week (which is CHEAP and I was LUCKY
> to find her, childtime during the day is
> $250/week!)- and I only take home ~900 a MONTH
> after taxes-if i get a full 40 hours- usually get
> like 30. No medicaid, little food stamps, thats
> it. SO now I am effectively working for $300 a
> month AGAIN take home (after taking out for
> daycare) and I am in the SAME BOAT.
>
> I am VERY tempted to quit and just go back on
> TANF- been "overqualified" for most other
> positions ( I SURE AM looking every day!) and
> walmart is NOT going to support me, I can barely
> pay the daycare with it so I CAN go to work! I
> feel like I am working for NOTHING and I can see
> why people just sit on welfare for a long while. I
> was only on TANF for 4 months but quite frankly
> that was less stress than working at walmart
> dealing with the lower levels of society for 5-7
> hours a day then coming home with my paycheck,
> paying the sitter, filling up the gas tank, then
> counting the $100 I have left to last us 2 weeks
> to eat and everything....Lord forbid I had to pay
> rent too! And getting a 2nd job- well thats
> another sitter to pay!
>
>
> ANy thoughts-rebuttals welcome!