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Hello folks, a recent west coast transplant here looking for people that don't accept societal and cultural labels about gender. Looking if there is such a social groups in the DC area.
Johnny Wrote:
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> Hello folks, a recent west coast transplant here
> looking for people that don't accept societal and
> cultural labels about gender. Looking if there is
> such a social groups in the DC area.
I am not a boy or a girl, man or women. I am just a human, why is that so hard for people to accept? Why do I have take a gender? Why can't I be gender neutral?
Johnny Wrote:
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> Hello folks, a recent west coast transplant here
> looking for people that don't accept societal and
> cultural labels about gender. Looking if there is
> such a social groups in the DC area.
There are none here, even the GLBT community would reject you. You should have moved to/stayed in San Francisco.
You ask an interesting question: "Why do I have to take a gender?"
Hmmm, let's see, maybe because there are definitive biological phenotypes and gentotypes, as well as indisputable medical organs and bodily functions (menstraution etc), that clearly define you as one or the other. It is not a matter of "choice". What IS a matter of choice is whether or not you adhere to socially acceptable stereotypes assigned to either gender.
Just remember, the world isn't going to change for you sir/ma'am, don't think that you are gonna parade around and be accepted just because you want to be.,
Drrty Wrote:
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> FFX is not for you mate. People here are
> douche-nozzles. =/ However check out the clubs
> Bound and Rapture.
LOL
Because there's no douche-nozzles in the goth scene. No, sir.
Drrty Wrote:
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> FFX is not for you mate. People here are
> douche-nozzles. =/ However check out the clubs
> Bound and Rapture.
Bound is a really lame place, and I don't think it is place you will find many "gender neutral" people, whatever that means to you.
MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Drrty Wrote:
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> > FFX is not for you mate. People here are
> > douche-nozzles. =/ However check out the
> clubs
> > Bound and Rapture.
>
> LOL
>
> Because there's no douche-nozzles in the goth
> scene. No, sir.
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They're ALL douche-nozzles in the goth scene. In the fetish scene they're much more open about this kind of thing. Goth kids tend to stand around, smoke clove cigerette's and complain that the music in whichever club they're at sucks because its not enough A: 80's B: darkwave or C: it's just too main stream.
MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Drrty Wrote:
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> > FFX is not for you mate. People here are
> > douche-nozzles. =/ However check out the
> clubs
> > Bound and Rapture.
>
> LOL
>
> Because there's no douche-nozzles in the goth
> scene. No, sir.
uh oh, smoke cigarette's what? Not possessive or a contraction, learn the rules son.
> they're
correct
> its not enough
oops, missed it
> 80's
nope, '80s is the right way to write it, or 1980s.
> it's just too
got it there, good job
4 out of 7, a failing grade. More work is needed.
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Drrty Wrote:
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> They're ALL douche-nozzles in the goth scene. In
> the fetish scene they're much more open about this
> kind of thing. Goth kids tend to stand around,
> smoke clove cigerette's and complain that the
> music in whichever club they're at sucks because
> its not enough A: 80's B: darkwave or C: it's just
> too main stream.
Every time I went to a fetish club, all I saw were the same old goth douches. Even worse, I saw way, WAY too much of the goth douches.
MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Drrty Wrote:
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> -----
> > They're ALL douche-nozzles in the goth scene.
> In
> > the fetish scene they're much more open about
> this
> > kind of thing. Goth kids tend to stand around,
> > smoke clove cigerette's and complain that the
> > music in whichever club they're at sucks
> because
> > its not enough A: 80's B: darkwave or C: it's
> just
> > too main stream.
>
> Every time I went to a fetish club, all I saw were
> the same old goth douches. Even worse, I saw way,
> WAY too much of the goth douches.
Although I will agree there are too many of the goth douches at the fetish clubs, it is mostly balanced out with people worth knowing. Then again, there are the 300lb women being nekkid and screaming as loud as they can to get attention when somethings done to them...ugh...