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Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Pickle ()
Date: December 24, 2010 11:50AM

How do I leave my wife, who I have a child with, who has serious mental disorders? She literally tried to kill herself one time a few years back while me and my child were asleep in the house.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Dr. Phil ()
Date: December 24, 2010 11:52AM

First, remove ALL sharp objects out of the house.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Warhawk ()
Date: December 24, 2010 12:31PM

Honestly? Just leave. Make sure you file for separation first, otherwise it could be classified as abandonment. But if you want to get custody, you'd better have some evidence to back yourself up and be prepared for a long, long battle.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: GreatGoogilyMoogily ()
Date: December 24, 2010 12:37PM

Attend your local Christian ministry. Enroll your wife and accept Christ as your savior.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Billy Jack ()
Date: December 24, 2010 12:59PM

All women are psychotic. It's just a matter of how crazy they actually are.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: anon ()
Date: December 24, 2010 01:36PM

Well the very first thing to do is make a brief post on fairfax underground soliciting anonymous sarcastic suggestions. You've done that so you're off to a good start.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Radiophile ()
Date: December 24, 2010 02:24PM

check the thread on can VA police give tickets to drivers with window tins and out of state plates. After you read that, you will know what legal eagles we are here and then feel confident you can take our advice.

Then you can hang around with the Robison boys Swim Team and SHE will ask fo a divorce.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/24/2010 02:26PM by Radiophile.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: i don't trust anything that can bleed for a week and not die ()
Date: December 24, 2010 02:35PM

Pickle Wrote:
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> a woman who is psychotic

Hello? Mr. Redundancy is calling...

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Radiophile ()
Date: December 24, 2010 02:57PM

"till deat do us part".... Sorry dude. One of you has to die. Will it be you or her? Think long and hard about this.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: itz ez ()
Date: December 24, 2010 03:52PM

Well the Fairfax County Sheriff and former Alexandria Sheriff had interesting ways to dispose of their wives. + ask VMI guy in Fairfax Station how to take care of business.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Date: December 25, 2010 01:27PM

1) Walk out the door.

2) Never come back.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: burke bum ()
Date: December 25, 2010 05:39PM

Pickle Wrote:
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> How do I leave my wife, who I have a child with,
> who has serious mental disorders? She literally
> tried to kill herself one time a few years back
> while me and my child were asleep in the house.


You don't sound very supportive or like you do anything to help her. You probably make things even harder for her.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: hmm ()
Date: December 25, 2010 05:51PM

Pickle Wrote:
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> She literally
> tried to kill herself one time a few years back
> while me and my child were asleep in the house.


so wuht went wrong

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: rob ()
Date: December 25, 2010 10:14PM

cheapest solution? let commit suicide/encourage it, duh

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: ProVallone ()
Date: December 27, 2010 09:07AM

next time marry a retard, they're so less demanding.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Be my Bride ()
Date: December 27, 2010 09:10AM

ProVallone Wrote:
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> next time marry a retard, they're so less
> demanding.


Are you retarded? Let's go camping :)

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Ralph Pootawn ()
Date: December 27, 2010 09:22AM

Bang her sister, that'll do it.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: ProVallone ()
Date: December 27, 2010 10:02AM

Be my Bride Wrote:
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> ProVallone Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > next time marry a retard, they're so less
> > demanding.
>
>
> Are you retarded? Let's go camping :)
In a minute, I've got some shopping carts to gather.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: jum ()
Date: December 27, 2010 10:07PM

divorce her

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Hatemotor ()
Date: December 27, 2010 10:51PM

Billy Jack Wrote:
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> All women are psychotic. It's just a matter of
> how crazy they actually are.


Exactly,,,If it was easy we would all do it

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: Pancakes ()
Date: January 04, 2011 10:39AM

Make plans to move far far away. It may take weeks or months, but get your ducks lined up in a row. Look for jobs across the country. Secure a job. Secure a place to live. Arrange all moving necessities. Then pick a day when she is gone all day and make that your day to move. Also, NEVER look back.

Might be a good idea to change your name too.

My only other solution is grow a pair of nad's and tell her you want a divorce and follow through with it.

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Re: Help! Get me out of a marriage with a woman who is psychotic
Posted by: FBO ()
Date: January 05, 2011 01:40PM

Warhawk Wrote:
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> Honestly? Just leave. Make sure you file for
> separation first, otherwise it could be classified
> as abandonment. But if you want to get custody,
> you'd better have some evidence to back yourself
> up and be prepared for a long, long battle.


No such thing as "legal seperation" in VA so what would he file for???

OP, you need to document her actions and make the case that she is a danger to herself, you and your child. If you can document it, then you can walk away and file for a divorce after you have been living apart for 1 year. (no kids is 6 months)

The one year usually starts at the time that one of you move out of the shared residence but in FFX County you can claim that you were 'no longer living as man and wife' even if you still lived in the house with her - this is due to the known cost of living in this area. The stipulation is that you will need a witness to testify that you were in fact not 'living as man and wife'.

Best of luck. Take care of the kid first!

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