TJ has fought with his family members and is physically intimidating due to his size. But Monique and the MCF have made similar threats, and they all have a track record of violence. William Moreno has a Felony Arrest for physically attacking his father, chased Mo and eesh down the street with a baseball bat, and menaced TJ with his cane in the courthouse. Monique got in fights with her family, Myeesha, and the police. Megan famously attacked Aaron on video. It's ironic that Miz posted his eesh/Katie collage because eesh and Katie are the only ones who have not physically threatened others and don't have violent records.
Monique is not afraid of engaging violence but she is much smaller physically than TJ. She could easily whip William and kill him with her bare hands but not necessarily TJ. Hence TJ is more of a threat and part of why she rejected him.
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