Your overweight appearance is an impediment to getting a job and a girlfriend. Start exercising, hit the track and gym, and get on a proper diet. It's easier to meet girls in class, so go back to school and get another degree, which will also help your job prospects.
You don't want to wind up like William Robert Moreno, who is a thirty-six-year-old overweight art-school dropout, also a virgin, has no job at all, wasted more than $300,000 of his parent's money, and his hated around the world as a notorious stalker, pedophile, and Internet troll. So far you are way ahead.