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Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: sam.T ()
Date: November 22, 2017 11:31AM

I remember growing up in this area in the 80's. While attending Mary Washington, I'd go see my buddies street race in Manassas, after which we'd all go to various watering holes and get fucked up, maybe smoke some weed and pick up girls. I can remember a few times getting so faded i'd wake up in open fields, people's driveways and even a trampoline in a stranger's backyard once.

In my 30's, I was living in Connecticut and would commute to New York for my job at a boutique consulting firm. Almost every night after work, we'd go out for drinks, reconnoiter for loose women and do copious amounts of drugs. Work hard and play hard was the mantra of the industry. This went on for me until I got married at 33 and settled down in Falls Church to raise a family.

Things are different now however. I have three sons. one is 13, another 16 and my eldest 22. The younger ones go out occasionally to the movies with their friends, the diner and the occasional party. My eldest however, who goes to American hardly ever goes out. He stays in with buddies drinking beers, playing x-box and smokes a bowl or two. I asked him why he doesn't go out and socialize, to which he told me no one does.

I've talked to others with similar aged kids, and they confirm this is the new norm. Millennials (however you wish to define them) aren't going out anymore. They aren't socializing face-to-face anymore, and aren't going out to meet new people, unless it's on some app. They claim it's too expensive to spend $ on a pint, and entertainment in this day and age is lame.

My son summed up the collective sentiment in this way; "Fuck going out. Fuck "out." It's expensive, it's crowded, it smells bad, the bands are usually terrible, the clubs are usually worse."

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Fresh Air Clear mind ()
Date: November 22, 2017 12:02PM

Take him out to the AP trail or camping when it gets warmer .. canoeing, fishing, hiking .. the great outdoors.

You might have to bribe him or drag him along, but he will thank you for giving him a opportunity to clear his mind from all those fucking electronics.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: sam.T ()
Date: November 22, 2017 12:43PM

Fresh Air Clear mind Wrote:
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> Take him out to the AP trail or camping when it
> gets warmer .. canoeing, fishing, hiking .. the
> great outdoors.
>
> You might have to bribe him or drag him along, but
> he will thank you for giving him a opportunity to
> clear his mind from all those fucking electronics.


Good suggestion. Haven't done that in awhile. "going out" doesn't necessarily mean going to a bar, club or other social setting.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Gerrymanderer2 ()
Date: November 22, 2017 12:53PM

Millennials are wise beyond their years. Dont regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go to the club and waste money though. We were the club and made money and the pussy was on tap.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Step Right Up ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:02PM

Our youth are rapidly becoming moles.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Goatmolesterer2 ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:05PM

Gerrymanderer2 Wrote:
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> Millennials are wise beyond their years. Dont
> regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go
> to the club and waste money though. We were the
> club and made money and the pussy was on tap.
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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: GerryTardin' ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:24PM

Gerrymanderer2 Wrote:
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> Millennials are wise beyond their years. Dont
> regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go
> to the club and waste money though. We were the
> club and made money and the pussy was on tap.


What a crock of shit post. Molesting goats and smoking meth isn't a good way to live.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: you aren't fooling anyone ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:32PM

Gerrymanderer2 Wrote:
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> Millennials are wise beyond their years. Dont
> regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go
> to the club and waste money though. We were the
> club and made money and the pussy was on tap.


You haven't touched a pussy let alone fucked one. Your personality and posts scream frustrated virgin.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Poofter detector ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:46PM

The only clubs Gerry went to were gay clubs.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Pc retardz ()
Date: November 22, 2017 01:59PM

The boring generation,

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: It bears repeating.... ()
Date: November 22, 2017 03:13PM

Millennials are the worst generation EVER!

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: they are leeches on society ()
Date: November 22, 2017 03:20PM

It bears repeating.... Wrote:
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> Millennials are the worst generation EVER!


They're a complete letdown to humanity. Go to college, don't want to pay for it. Want a paycheck, don't want to work for it. Want healthcare, wants the government to provide it for "free." The list goes on from there.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: The Me Generation or "Y" ()
Date: November 22, 2017 03:21PM

^^^ It appears that most of them have been duped into believing that They are "Better" than others around them.

Some of this deception is based on their generation being the generation of Social Media. They compete with each other over social media and also a lot of them have been coddled growing up and even as young adults in this era of "blame the other person" "do not take responsibility for your own bad actions or behavior" "extreme political correctness". They live as though they know better than older generations and so often take liberty, shortcuts and "freedom" which often actually sets them back.

They also take and show off more pictures of themselves than any generation in history .. some of this is due to technology .. the rest is due to just plain Narcissism.

Generation Z, overall is a more promising one IMO.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: stfu gerry ()
Date: November 22, 2017 03:37PM

Gerrymanderer2 Wrote:
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> Dont
> regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go
> to the club and waste money though. We were the terrorist cell and stole money and the goats were on tap.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Roger Strawback ()
Date: November 22, 2017 03:43PM

Millenials suck ass. The lamest generation ever.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: GerryTardin' ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:01PM

Gerrymanderer2 Wrote:
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> Millennials are wise beyond their years. Dont
> regret all the partying I did though. We didn't go
> to the club and waste money though. We were the
> club and made money and the pussy was on tap.

How Gerry (Ravi) parties.
^
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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: GerryTardin' ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:04PM

More pictures from Gerry's (Ravi's) past partying escapades have surfaced.
^
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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: drunk & on drugs ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:09PM

sam.T Wrote:
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> I remember growing up in this area in the 80's.
> While attending Mary Washington, I'd go see my
> buddies street race in Manassas, after which we'd
> all go to various watering holes and get fucked
> up, maybe smoke some weed and pick up girls. I can
> remember a few times getting so faded i'd wake up
> in open fields,

Yeah I really wish we had more potheads getting shitfaced and racing their cars around. That's what this community needs.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: GerryTardin' ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:11PM

drunk & on drugs Wrote:
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>
> Yeah I really wish we had more potheads getting
> shitfaced and racing their cars around. That's
> what this community needs.

Instead, they're OD-ing on opioids at home, in some parking lot, or in a public restroom.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: News.Flash ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:30PM

No generation likes spending their free time the way their parents generation spent or spends THEIR free time. That's part of adolescent rebellion. You reject all that comes from your parents.

The OP's generation liked to "go out". Millenials do not. Just watch...the children of Millenials will bring back "going out" and socializing more in-person.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: trumpitality ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:33PM

Fresh Air Clear mind Wrote:
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> Take him out to the AP trail or camping when it
> gets warmer .. canoeing, fishing, hiking .. the
> great outdoors.
>
> You might have to bribe him or drag him along, but
> he will thank you for giving him a opportunity to
> clear his mind from all those fucking electronics.


Best post. Social media is, by design, addicting people of this generation.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Gerrymandoer2 ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:38PM

Here is proof of me out tearing it up partying. You all are just jealous haters because you have to work for a living! My mom takes care of me losers!
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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Gordon Gecko ()
Date: November 22, 2017 04:41PM

"Nintendo, computers and cellular phones, like subprime mortgages are weapons of mass destruction."

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Great answer ()
Date: November 22, 2017 06:59PM

Fresh Air Clear mind Wrote:
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> Take him out to the AP trail or camping when it
> gets warmer .. canoeing, fishing, hiking .. the
> great outdoors.
>
> You might have to bribe him or drag him along, but
> he will thank you for giving him a opportunity to
> clear his mind from all those fucking electronics.



Good man. I call it 'digital detox' and I also recommend it to the op.

Take your sons out and show them the simple things. They will thank you

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Smear The Queer ()
Date: November 22, 2017 07:35PM

Remember when.. boys were boys? This schoolyard was a stepping stone in life. It was in your face reality for Real American boys. Little fuckers can't even play a game where there is a obvious loser. Kickball, Dodgeball, King of the hill, Kick the can. Murderball, etc. Those games were fun, even if you weren't the winner.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: DEA ()
Date: November 22, 2017 07:43PM

Sounds like you were and/or are a pothead/druggie. You probably damaged your chromosomes with substance abuse and hence your offspring are fucked up. According to you, your kid is a druggie as well. With a little luck he will kill you and himself before he reproduces and clears up the gene pool.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Sounds like you pee sitting down ()
Date: November 22, 2017 07:46PM

DEA IS A FAG.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Me Me Me Me Me ()
Date: November 22, 2017 07:54PM

The Me Generation or "Y" Wrote:
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> ^^^ It appears that most of them have been duped
> into believing that They are "Better" than others
> around them.
>
> Some of this deception is based on their
> generation being the generation of Social Media.
> They compete with each other over social media and
> also a lot of them have been coddled growing up
> and even as young adults in this era of "blame the
> other person" "do not take responsibility for your
> own bad actions or behavior" "extreme political
> correctness". They live as though they know
> better than older generations and so often take
> liberty, shortcuts and "freedom" which often
> actually sets them back.
>
> They also take and show off more pictures of
> themselves than any generation in history .. some
> of this is due to technology .. the rest is due to
> just plain Narcissism.
>
> Generation Z, overall is a more promising one IMO.

Dont forget, they are the first generation of the "Everyone gets a trophy" mentality.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Americans Not Allowed ()
Date: November 22, 2017 07:56PM

drunk & on drugs Wrote:
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> sam.T Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I remember growing up in this area in the 80's.
> > While attending Mary Washington, I'd go see my
> > buddies street race in Manassas, after which
> we'd
> > all go to various watering holes and get fucked
> > up, maybe smoke some weed and pick up girls. I
> can
> > remember a few times getting so faded i'd wake
> up
> > in open fields,
>
>

Now Manassas is all Camel racing. They do have a Rickshaw invitational once a year.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: this just in ()
Date: November 22, 2017 08:25PM

News.Flash Wrote:
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> No generation likes spending their free time the
> way their parents generation spent or spends THEIR
> free time. That's part of adolescent rebellion.
> You reject all that comes from your parents.
>
> The OP's generation liked to "go out". Millenials
> do not. Just watch...the children of Millenials
> will bring back "going out" and socializing more
> in-person.


"the children of Millennials"

That is another thing they are not doing.... they do not even date nonetheless marry and have children.

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Re: Young people aren't going out anymore
Posted by: Gerryfagtarderer 2 ()
Date: November 22, 2017 08:40PM

"We were the club..." LOL

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