Re: #notme
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Been Circling the Sun for AWhile
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Date: November 22, 2017 02:17PM
Man walks into a crowded room and the first thing he checks out is all the ladies, to find the hottest ones.
Woman walks into the same room and the first thing she checks out is all the ladies and begins comparing herself to them to see what kind of competition she has there.
Make a girl feel special without going too deep into the Creep factor.
A woman is more attracted to a guy that smiles and cracks jokes and seems comfortable in his own skin, who appears he doesn't give a crap about what others think about him.
If the woman starts to shut down the conversation, move on and begin talking with another woman ... You may find the first, wondering what SHE did wrong to have you move on.
Avoid women who use put downs and insulting replies. They've got special issues or are employing it as a tactic to actually get you to ask them out.
Those kind need to be researched in order to handle them, cause you don't know what you're in for off the bat .. they won't let you get to know them well even after the 1st 5 dates.
Pick someone who has a great personality, who is respectful and respectable.
If you are looking for a life time partner or wife, don't zero in on the 10s .. a lot of them are stuck on themselves. There are a few however who are great and nobody tries, because they either are intimidatingly beautiful or guys ASSUME that "she must have a boyfriend".
Looks are great .. 7 to 9 on a scale range .. but if you settle down, remember that looks fade and you are stuck with all the rest that goes with that woman ...
Unless you are the type to CAP and Trade them in for a younger Model when your lady looks "over the hill" ... and that doesn't normally work out for long ... a lot of trading and a lot of bucks out the window.
Guys beware of the evil GOLD DIGGER who will say and do anything to leave you lonely and broke ... She will drop you, when she realizes you are low on funds.
A simple test for that is ... take her to a rather nice restaurant the few dates ... then pick her up and take her to Wendy's ... If you notice a pissed off look or a really disappointed expression on her face ... then say "I thought you were hungry?" We gotta hurry cause we're going to check out a movie later.
If she bitches about it after eating, drive her home and as she exists the car tell her "Good luck on finding what you want"
Never talk to her again.