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Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:05PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:10PM

(insert sound FFXU advice combining a retaliatory CL post with "shirtless torso flexing" request)

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: FUNdamental ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:11PM

Well that depends; what celebrity does the girlfriend most resemble?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: dater ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:13PM

Since February? You haven't confronted him yet? Please grow a spine.

He is obviously pursuing ways to see other women behind your back. Besides, he can't even spell college correctly. Basically, dump his ass if not for attempting to cheat, but for being so stupid as to get caught.

What rational answer could he give that would satisfy you?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: TefD187 ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:13PM

If you wanna get ahead baby stick to the plan, if you want to get a head baby cheat on your man.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:15PM

This guy would fuck someone else given the chance.

You should dump him on principle, though. Obviously, he's into girls that are dumb enough to fall for the "here's a picture of my stomach" routine.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:16PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 01:17PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> (insert sound FFXU advice combining a retaliatory
> CL post with "shirtless torso flexing" request)


I found the actual photo...

fat_torso_boy203_203x152.jpg

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:17PM

yeaaaaaaah babee, you want daddy to make it all better? Id give you a cheeze wit or witout! ooooh daaaayaaam girl! sliiiiiide over to my crib and lemme show you my Finest brazilian aircraft! uuuh huuuhh!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:18PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I'm not sure which celebrity I resemble. I've
> gotten Uma Thurman before, some german model
> (forget her name), Christina Applegate, etc.
>
> I'm 5'7", 135Ibs. Thin, athletic body.
> 34C-27-36. Blonde hair, blue eyes. I do some
> modeling part time, and get hit on frequently.
> Why can't I find a boyfriend who will treat me
> right.
>
> I'm also not a bimbo. Served in the USAF for 6
> years, have a Bachelor's degree (and starting my
> masters soon). I have a good job, and make good
> money.


That's all well and good, but without a picture, it's just words.
Sorry, thats the way it works here.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:19PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I'm not sure which celebrity I resemble. I've
> > gotten Uma Thurman before, some german model
> > (forget her name), Christina Applegate, etc.
> >
> > I'm 5'7", 135Ibs. Thin, athletic body.
> > 34C-27-36. Blonde hair, blue eyes. I do some
> > modeling part time, and get hit on frequently.
> > Why can't I find a boyfriend who will treat me
> > right.
> >
> > I'm also not a bimbo. Served in the USAF for 6
> > years, have a Bachelor's degree (and starting
> my
> > masters soon). I have a good job, and make
> good
> > money.
>
>
> That's all well and good, but without a picture,
> it's just words.
> Sorry, thats the way it works here.

+1

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:20PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:23PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:24PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Why am I putting up with this?

You already said it; because you love him. Love makes people do stupid things they ordinarily wouldn't do.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: word of advice ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:25PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I think I have some photos on my computer. Hold
> on a sec, and I'll post some for you guys...

there are some people with a few screws loose on this site. I don't even exclude myself in that statement. I would NOT be posting pictures of yourself here.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:26PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I think I have some photos on my computer. Hold
> on a sec, and I'll post some for you guys...

DON'T DO IT. SERIOUSLY.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 01:27PM

Gwen Wrote:
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>
> He says he posted it in Pittsburgh rather than DC,
> because he had no intention of meeting anyone. He
> just wanted women to write to him and tell him how
> hot and great he was. He needed attention.
>
>

If this is how his mind really works, you should still leave his ass. If you end up getting married to the guy, what's he going to be like at 35 or 40 when he REALLY wants attention?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:27PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:28PM

MrMephisto Wrote:

> DON'T DO IT. SERIOUSLY.


-1

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:28PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:31PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
>
> > DON'T DO IT. SERIOUSLY.
>
>
> -1

I know. Having a conscience makes me feel bad.

I freely sacrifice one (1) internet to spare this girl the hassle.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:31PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:32PM

And so a once-promising thread yet again devolves into nothingness.

Nice work, people.

Dammit.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:32PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> okay okay. No pics. Sorry guys. You will have
> to take my word for it.


BOOOOO!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: dater ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:33PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> So is the consensus that my boyfriend IS a tool?

absatively

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:33PM

I think his tool-ness is beyond question. The issue of the moment is whether YOU are a tool for buying into his bullshit.

I'm just sayin...

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:35PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> And so a once-promising thread yet again devolves
> into nothingness.
>
> Nice work, people.
>
> Dammit.

Here's a viable substitute; go to one of those amateur porn sites that have candid pictures of clothed girls. Crop off the head. Pretend it's Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 01:35PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> So is the consensus that my boyfriend IS a tool?


If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer, don't you?

As for the love thing, you need to show a little less love for him and a little more love for yourself. Get over whatever self-esteem issues and feelings of insecurity you have and dump this fucker. You can do better.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:35PM

i think he is a tool and you should TOTALLY get back at him by posting pictures of yourself on THIS website and getting us all to vote hot or not.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:35PM

LOL

+1/2

even minor gains count!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:36PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:37PM

Gwen Wrote:

>
> Love makes us do stupid things.


Then you should definitly post some pics on here....for the Love!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:37PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> So is the consensus that my boyfriend IS a tool?

It could be that he really did want some harmless ego stroking, but I think that's generally a symptom of a bigger problem. Talk to him first, but if it's still irreconcilable, dump him.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:38PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > So is the consensus that my boyfriend IS a
> tool?
>
> It could be that he really did want some harmless
> ego stroking, but I think that's generally a
> symptom of a bigger problem. Talk to him first,
> but if it's still irreconcilable, dump him.

Better yet, introduce him to Spunky on this site.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:38PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 01:39PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > So is the consensus that my boyfriend IS a
> tool?
>
> It could be that he really did want some harmless
> ego stroking, but I think that's generally a
> symptom of a bigger problem. Talk to him first,
> but if it's still irreconcilable, dump him.

My advice? Either way, this dude is a toxic asset, girlfriend. Time to take out the trash!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:39PM

por-NO! por-NO! CROP-IT! CROP-IT! CROP-IT!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:40PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:41PM

After taking all evidence into consideration, I can't see how a newly-single blonde with a porn star's body being unleashed into the Fairfax area would be a BAD thing.

Now carry on.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:42PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> No need to introduce him to anyone on this site.
> I GUARANTEE he knows most of the people on this
> site already. He is a regular on FFX Underground.
> I'm counting on him seeing this post and reading
> what everyone has to say about him. Maybe he
> needs to realize how it looks to everyone on the
> outside looking in.


oh shit! Hi GWEN! uuuh I didnt realize that was you. See you in class in about ten minutes, k? bye!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:43PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> No need to introduce him to anyone on this site.
> I GUARANTEE he knows most of the people on this
> site already. He is a regular on FFX Underground.
> I'm counting on him seeing this post and reading
> what everyone has to say about him. Maybe he
> needs to realize how it looks to everyone on the
> outside looking in.


Hmmm...a regular with Pittsburg/Johnstown roots. Now let me seee.....hmmm...this COULD be interesting!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:44PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:46PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Hmmm...a regular with Pittsburg/Johnstown roots.
> Now let me seee.....hmmm...this COULD be
> interesting!

This is much better than a clothed picture of a headless chick.

It's not me, in case anybody's wondering; I charge people to look at my stomach. I'd never give the goods away for free.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:47PM

Gwen
Email: Hidden
Posts: 15
Registered: 07/03/2009 10:25PM
Last Activity: 10/01/2009 01:37PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:48PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> fairfaxdude Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Hmmm...a regular with Pittsburg/Johnstown
> roots.
> > Now let me seee.....hmmm...this COULD be
> > interesting!
>
> This is much better than a clothed picture of a
> headless chick.
>
> It's not me, in case anybody's wondering; I charge
> people to look at my stomach. I'd never give the
> goods away for free.

Gwen, was there perchance a mop or a bucket in the picture's background? A mouse?

Hmmmmmmm......

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:50PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:56PM

I do recall a certain regular with ties to that area who is conspicuously missing from this thread....LOL

Any guesses?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:57PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 01:58PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> I do recall a certain regular with ties to that
> area who is conspicuously missing from this
> thread....LOL
>
> Any guesses?

Well, ^^^^^^ that shoots holes in your theory.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:00PM

DAMN I look GOOD in that picture! Anyone need tickets to the GUN SHOW!?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:00PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:00PM

Omg, now eeesh will get all frothy and sexually charged.

Good gawwwd.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Sherlock ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:01PM

by hte looks of that photo, I don't think I am going out on a limb and declaring with 100% definitive proof that it is without a doubt noneother than.........


























MEADE SKELTON

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:02PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:02PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> He's probably going to be pissed now when he sees
> this, but it won't be even half as bad as I felt
> when I found his ad. I felt like my heart had
> sunk into my stomach, and I wanted to throw up.

So, this is basically your passive aggressive way of breaking up with him. Not a bad approach.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Meepersburg ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:03PM

Is that the Meeper?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:05PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:07PM

can i slowly eat a hole into you? would that make you feel better?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:07PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I don't know what it is. I probably shouldn't be
> posting all of this, but I'm still really hurt and
> angry, and it is making me feel better.

Sometimes getting things off your chest is the best route to take.

> That's pretty selfish of me...isn't it?

Not as selfish as posting a M4W ad on CL while in a 1 1/2 year relationship.

> It's just been making me feel like shit since
> February... It's slowly eating a hole into me.

Cheers to a better future now that this is behind you

> How could someone who says he loves you, post an
> ad like that on CL trying to meet other women?

Cause he is a douchebag asswipe.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:08PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I don't know what it is. I probably shouldn't be
> posting all of this, but I'm still really hurt and
> angry, and it is making me feel better.
>
> That's pretty selfish of me...isn't it?
>
> It's just been making me feel like shit since
> February... It's slowly eating a hole into me.
>
> How could someone who says he loves you, post an
> ad like that on CL trying to meet other women?

Maybe he thinks you're going to dump him, or is otherwise less than secure in the relationship.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:09PM

Damn Dr Fill you should get a self-help TV show or something!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:10PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Damn Dr Fill you should get a self-help TV show or
> something!

It's easier to help other people with a problem that you've had yourself.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 02:10PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> This isn't the exact photo, but basically the same
> thing. He has a bunch of them. He probably uses
> them on CL all the time.


Fuck! Her boyfriend's Meade!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:10PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:11PM

oh wait. your THIS GWEN.... I rescind my offer of the whole hole thing.... fuck off.

I really gotta get to class now...... call me!

Re: Buzz Babes/Junkettes Suck
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: July 03, 2009 10:34PM

That chick in the yellow swimsuit is NOT a Junkette. I happen to be a Junkies listener and know all of the Junkettes. A little birdie told me that not enough Junkettes were available, so they had to employee a few Hooters girls, so that Heffer in the yellow suit must be a hooters chick.

The only Junkette shown is Lauren. She is the African American in the first photo. She is one of the original Junkettes, and even the Junkies comment on her weight. I think they keep her because she is their "token sister".

Check out all of the Junkettes here... [junksweb.com]

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Sherlock ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:11PM

WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
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> > This isn't the exact photo, but basically the
> same
> > thing. He has a bunch of them. He probably
> uses
> > them on CL all the time.
>
>
> Fuck! Her boyfriend's Meade!

Stop stealing my material!!!! Plus, my delivery was better!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:12PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:13PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> but just don't know that I can trust him with my heart
> anymore.

I think you know. Getting to acceptance of what you know to be true in your mind it is the hard part.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:22PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: TefD187 ()
Date: October 01, 2009 02:57PM

women always love to play detective.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: dono ()
Date: October 01, 2009 03:06PM

shaves his chest - he is a tool

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: eesh ()
Date: October 01, 2009 03:36PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Omg, now eeesh will get all frothy and sexually
> charged.
>
> Good gawwwd.




You are just jealous because I hang out with hot chics like these:





CheetoMan5-746033.jpgBlessed are the murderous.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: NGT ()
Date: October 01, 2009 03:56PM

lol...5'9"..what, is he in seventh grade? In either case, he is a miserable lowlife scumbag

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 04:06PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 04:12PM

eesh, why is your face 17 times tanner than your hand?

(I'm scared to learn the reason, actually.)

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Sally ()
Date: October 01, 2009 04:14PM

Cut him loose dear..surely you can find a decent man who doesn't need a booster seat at fine restaurants.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 01, 2009 04:14PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> He's only 5'8". He always exaggerates his height.


That's funny. All these short dudes spend all of their time in the gym and then need constant affirmation from others to feel good about themselves. Self-conscious twerps.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Genevieve ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:22PM

WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
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> All these short dudes spend all of
> their time in the gym and then need constant
> affirmation from others to feel good about
> themselves.

Looks like he needs to spend less time in the gym. Honestly I found that picture rather repulsive. Toned muscles... great. But that was just too much.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:24PM

im thinking that picture is not real or photoshoped or stolen from a fitness club ad.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:26PM

I'm still skeeved out by eesh's picture. Especially the white hand.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Freddie ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:29PM

he probably did 25 quick pushups and crunches right before he snapped the photo. that's a d-bag right there.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: eesh ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:33PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> I'm still skeeved out by eesh's picture.
> Especially the white hand.


JEALOUSY





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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill Sherlock ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:33PM

Gwen,

Does he drive a 1994 Lexus and work at a non-profit? If so, he's definitely a regular on this site who has professed his man-love to just about everyone. It's really strange that he didn't tell you about this.

Sincerely,
Dr. Fill Sherlock

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:39PM

its a gay oompaloompah!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:40PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:40PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:41PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Why can't I see Eesh's pic?


because we cant see your headless pic! its double blockage!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:51PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melissa Doode ()
Date: October 01, 2009 05:59PM

Gwen is a dude, dude.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Genevieve ()
Date: October 01, 2009 06:56PM

So Gwen's boyfriend is a tool... but how did she find out about the ad? In the habit of looking through his email?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Moko ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:11AM

Gwen,

Bottom line, unless his colleg education is making him big money, the guy's not good enough for you - neither are the guys on this list.

There are plenty of other guys who will treat you better.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 02, 2009 09:48AM

you should reply to his post and send him your pic

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 02, 2009 09:56AM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Wow! That guy is orange. Too much fake and
> bake.
>
> No he doesn't drive a Lexus. He drives an Audi.


Just did a search. I think her boyfriend is... §

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 10:03AM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:53PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: bloody blisters ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:55PM

i hope my mail wasnt stolen today

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:56PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:58PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Why does doing the right thing feel so wrong?


if it feels good baby go for it.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: bloody blisters ()
Date: October 02, 2009 01:58PM

damn those foreign shipping companies

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:01PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:06PM

Just allow your sadness to manifest itself into blind rage towards a defenseless canine and I bet it will feel like old times again.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 02, 2009 02:07PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> It doesn't feel good, to feel like your boyfriend
> is a tool. It doesn't feel good to have to move
> out of a house that has been your home for the
> past year. It doesn't feel good to have to leave
> behind a dog that changed you from hating dogs, to
> wanting one of your own. It doesn't feel good to
> feel your heart breaking...


a few more versus and you might have a song there lady
this could work out for you afterall

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:07PM

Charlie Schmidt's "cool cat" Wrote:
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> you should reply to his post and send him your pic


This is, by far, the best idea so far proposed!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:08PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:12PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> It doesn't feel good, to feel like your boyfriend
> is a tool. It doesn't feel good to have to move
> out of a house that has been your home for the
> past year. It doesn't feel good to have to leave
> behind a dog that changed you from hating dogs, to
> wanting one of your own. It doesn't feel good to
> feel your heart breaking...


Sorry for your troubles. Solution: Get all done up...head downtown and throwdown...bring the guy home with you and prepare for the ensuing show!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:13PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:14PM

So you did dump him then? Good for you. As retribution, you could always take the dog for yourself.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:15PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:20PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I'm not a vengeful person. I just want to move on
> with my life.


That is very decent and typical of a conscionable human being. Move on...forget the dog...it's a dead relationship leash that needs to be cut.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: question ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:22PM

so, how did he take it?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:24PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: question ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:26PM

good to hear. I suppose he now has the freedom to use CL as often and open as he wants.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:27PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: PecsRUs ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:28PM

Oh god now CL will be inundated with shaved chest pics.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:32PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: PecsRUs ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:34PM

I bet that chest was itchy/scratchy on your chest.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:35PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: however ()
Date: October 02, 2009 02:37PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I'm sure there are plenty more stupid girls like
> me out there, who will fall for them too.


Youcan't be too stupid. You are smart enough to leave the louse.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:14PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I'm sure there are plenty more stupid girls like
> me out there, who will fall for them too.

I've found that, especially in this area, the more "attractive" a person is, the less substance they have. This applies to both genders.

Pretty people are used to having their asses kissed by insincere people, and after a while, one of two things happens: 1) they believe the bullshit, and become a shallow douchebag, or 2) become so desensitized that they don't recognize when someone's being genuine.

Fortunately, I'm a fairly ugly person, so I'll never have this problem. I have to earn whatever I get.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:22PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I'm sure there are plenty more stupid girls
> like
> > me out there, who will fall for them too.
>
> I've found that, especially in this area, the more
> "attractive" a person is, the less substance they
> have. This applies to both genders.
>
> Pretty people are used to having their asses
> kissed by insincere people, and after a while, one
> of two things happens: 1) they believe the
> bullshit, and become a shallow douchebag, or 2)
> become so desensitized that they don't recognize
> when someone's being genuine.
>
> Fortunately, I'm a fairly ugly person, so I'll
> never have this problem. I have to earn whatever
> I get.


I wouldn't say you're GEICO cave man ugly, but whatever aesthetical shortcomings you may think you have, I'm sure you compensate with engaging personality.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:22PM

Melon Coli Wrote:
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> I wouldn't say you're GEICO cave man ugly, but
> whatever aesthetical shortcomings you may think
> you have, I'm sure you compensate with engaging
> personality.

Oh, no, I'm ugly on the inside, too. I even have the t-shirt to prove it.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:34PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:36PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: mad1n ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:42PM

nice subtle way of letting us know you're a model

post pics or gtfo

also, who the fuck was your boyfriend. whut was his screen name you attn whore

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:44PM

You should not sell yourself short like that. Most people are fairly decent, interesting, and have plenty to offer the right person. It sounds like you have just met one too many schmucks. You should take a risk in your next relationship - don't go after the same shaved chest, CL posting tool bag types - branch out a bit and you might surprise yourself.

Gwen Wrote:
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> I guess that is why I got into modeling. I
> figured if people were willing to pay me to model
> for them, then I must have something going on for
> me.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:53PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:57PM

But to not tell is sort of like the whole Carly Simon, 'who is "you're so vain" really written about' conspiracy. Don't be a Carly, although she had nice jugs on the No Secrets album cover...

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 03:57PM

Wahhh Wrote:
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> You should not sell yourself short like that. Most
> people are fairly decent, interesting, and have
> plenty to offer the right person. It sounds like
> you have just met one too many schmucks. You
> should take a risk in your next relationship -
> don't go after the same shaved chest, CL posting
> tool bag types - branch out a bit and you might
> surprise yourself.

... except that decent, honest, reliable guys with good personalities get put in the friend zone almost immediately, so they can be a shoulder to cry on after another shaved-chest-on-Craigslist douche breaks her heart. You know, because they'd hate to ruin the friendship.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:00PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:01PM

so true.

MrMephisto Wrote:

> ... except that decent, honest, reliable guys with
> good personalities get put in the friend zone
> almost immediately, so they can be a shoulder to
> cry on after another shaved-chest-on-Craigslist
> douche breaks her heart. You know, because they'd
> hate to ruin the friendship.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:01PM

are you Tina?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:02PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:04PM

Did the tool read your post yet?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:05PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:06PM

And when he logs in, what will his screen name be?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:07PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:09PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I have a great guy friend like that. I wish I
> were attracted to him, but I'm not. Other than
> that, he would be the perfect boyfriend.

See, and that's my point; you'll take a ripped guy who needs the attention of other women on Craigslist over a guy who, by your own admission, would be perfect if only he were hotter. You put aesthetics over personality, and so did your boyfriend. This pattern will more than likely repeat itself over and over again until you change your priorities.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:11PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:12PM

It's pretty hot he posted his pec pic on CL, huh?

Oh wait, that point's already been made. Sorry.

(was I the only one that thought that pic looked..umm....ghey?)

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:13PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: pitchfork ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:19PM

unfortunately, personality wont get you dick in this world. especially not pussy

looks and attitude is the ticket

an attractive, desirable girl would choose a good looking total d-bag over a decent looking guy with a 10/10 personality.....any day of the week. Most will deny this of course

sa la vi

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:20PM

Nope. you are just trying to justify your shallowness in the case of your "great guy friend"

Gwen Wrote:
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> Guys are shallow all the time, why can't women be
> sometimes?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:20PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Guys are shallow all the time, why can't women be
> sometimes?

Women can be as shallow as they want, but for the guys that aren't, it's a huge turn-off.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:21PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:23PM

pitchfork Wrote:
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> unfortunately, personality wont get you dick in
> this world. especially not pussy
>
> looks and attitude is the ticket

Charm goes a long way, too.

> an attractive, desirable girl would choose a good
> looking total d-bag over a decent looking guy with
> a 10/10 personality.....any day of the week. Most
> will deny this of course

Pretty much, yeah. Entire industries are based on this premise.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: pitchfork ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:25PM

i've seen the show before

the girls judge the guys 90%+ based on the depth of their voice, and their height (which they are able to determine through touch).

nothing whatsover to do with personality or charm. all the show does is drive home generalizations about what truly attracts a woman to a man...... and it sure as hell aint none of that stupid personality BS.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:26PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:28PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Have any of you guys seen that reality show
> "Dating in the Dark"?
>
> Dating in the Dark is a unique alternative series
> that asks the age-old question, "Is Love Blind?"
> Each week, three single men and three single
> women, all looking for love, will move into a
> house together, but be totally sequestered from
> the opposite sex. While they will have no chance
> of seeing each other in the light, they will have
> the opportunity to date in a completely dark room.
> Looks will be taken out of the equation as the men
> and women get to know each other and form bonds in
> total darkness. After several days of dating in
> the darkroom, the participants will select the one
> member of the opposite sex that they want to see
> revealed in the light. For the first time, the
> participants will see whom they've been dating,
> wooing, kissing, snuggling with and forming bonds
> with. And after they see each other in the light
> for the first time, they have to make the
> difficult decision...do they stay with the person
> they fell for in the dark, or leave them behind?
> Hosted by Rossi Moreale

Neat concept, but the entire premise is flawed. The producers won't choose anybody that's blatantly unattractive, so going in, these 6 know they're not going to get stuck with a total lemon. Maybe not the first girl they would have hit on, but their friends won't rag them about that dog they were dating on that TV show.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:29PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:34PM

I changed my mind. Post your pictures so we can all be shallow together.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: pitchfork ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:35PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> I changed my mind. Post your pictures so we can
> all be shallow together.


srsly

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:36PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:40PM

Well if thats what you are looking for Im fertile. Im full of sperms just waiting to make you an octo mom. Come on down and we can solve your self image problems all at once by me knocking you up, down, sideways and back! Reverse cowgirl style, missionary, brazillian airplane or anyway you WANT!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:40PM

Gwen,

If you have to ask yourself this question, then, yes...and it becomes a rhetorical question.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:47PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:52PM

but if deep down every woman is looking for the fertile male, when she is fertile herself to mate with and provide for offspring. To follow your example to its logical conclusion you SHOULDNT be looking for a douchebag who would bang you and leave you you should be looking for a provider.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Vince(!) ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:52PM

and here I am! READY and WILLING to Impregnate you and PROVIDE for the offspring.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:53PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:54PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 02, 2009 04:56PM

bye Gwen! mail me your CL ad when you put it up!



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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Registered Voter ()
Date: October 04, 2009 09:29AM

Hmm.... for all of his other posts, stoner is conspicuously missing from this topic. Perhaps this is the answer as to why he has gone off the deep end?

If you can’t model the past, where you know the answer pretty well, how can you model the future? - William Happer Cyrus Fogg Brackett Professor of Physics Princeton University

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:59AM

Registered Voter Wrote:
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> Hmm.... for all of his other posts, stoner is
> conspicuously missing from this topic. Perhaps
> this is the answer as to why he has gone off the
> deep end?

No, it's just that this thread is about girls, and that class is next semester.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Registered Voter ()
Date: October 04, 2009 01:20PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> This isn't the exact photo, but basically the same
> thing. He has a bunch of them. He probably uses
> them on CL all the time.

ffxstoner Wrote:
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> Well lets see i am in shape workout daily i rep
> 260 i am 6'1, Little to no acne.

If his self-appraisal is close... and his conspicuous absence from the thread.

If you can’t model the past, where you know the answer pretty well, how can you model the future? - William Happer Cyrus Fogg Brackett Professor of Physics Princeton University

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Harry Tuttle ()
Date: October 04, 2009 05:33PM

Interesting theory... that could also explain the hair up his ass he's been reacting to lately.

Registered Voter Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > This isn't the exact photo, but basically the
> same
> > thing. He has a bunch of them. He probably
> uses
> > them on CL all the time.
>
> ffxstoner Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Well lets see i am in shape workout daily i rep
> > 260 i am 6'1, Little to no acne.
>
> If his self-appraisal is close... and his
> conspicuous absence from the thread.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 04, 2009 05:41PM

And he is a douchebag/tool.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Registered Voter ()
Date: October 04, 2009 08:06PM

I'd hate to be Gwen right now if he is "the one" we are speaking of.

If you can’t model the past, where you know the answer pretty well, how can you model the future? - William Happer Cyrus Fogg Brackett Professor of Physics Princeton University

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Serious question ()
Date: October 04, 2009 08:13PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> And he is a douchebag/tool.


Serious question: what do people mean when they call somebody a "tool"?

I could look it up on urban dictionary, but I find that a dubious resource, sometimes helpful, but too many sketchy multiple definitions.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 04, 2009 09:11PM

In my definition, a tool is someone that only serves a function, not a purpose.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Serious question ()
Date: October 04, 2009 09:35PM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> In my definition, a tool is someone that only
> serves a function, not a purpose.


Well, thanks, but that's not particularly helpful.

Purpose vs. function: it seems like a distinction without a difference. An example would be helpful.

The word "tool" is obviously very derogatory. But to say someone "serves a function, not a purpose," how is that derogatory?

I broke down and looked it up on urban dictionary. Not surprisingly, the proferred definitions are at least as confusing as they are enlightening.

Thus:

1. One who lacks the mental capacity to know he is being used. A fool. A cretin. Characterized by low intelligence and/or self-steem.

Comment: How does that fit with the title of this thread, where the boyfriend seems to be the user (rather than being used), and not really a fool, as such (although he made a tactical blunder by using CL).


2. someone who tries too hard. a poser. one of those chic's who holds the sign saying "Carson Daly is Hot." the asstard who goes to a rock show because they heard one of the songs on the radio or mtv. or someone who insists on wearing velour sweat suits. Avril Lavigne.

Comment: This sort of makes sense -- I mean, I understand the kind of person being described here -- but I don't see how it fits the person described in the title of this thread.

-- In short, what did the OP mean when she called her boyfriend a "tool," rather than, I don't know, a jackass, a two-timer, a douchebag, whatever...?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Registered Voter ()
Date: October 04, 2009 09:37PM

think of it as the new form of jackass and moron pooled into a new name to identify folks who are too self-centered to realize how much of an asshole they are.

If you can’t model the past, where you know the answer pretty well, how can you model the future? - William Happer Cyrus Fogg Brackett Professor of Physics Princeton University

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 04, 2009 09:38PM

Serious question Wrote:
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> -- In short, what did the OP mean when she called
> her boyfriend a "tool," rather than, I don't know,
> a jackass, a two-timer, a douchebag, whatever...?

I don't know. She probably just uses it synonymously with the phrases you mentioned. You'll have to ask her.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: A Serious Man ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:00PM

Registered Voter Wrote:
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> think of it as the new form of jackass and moron
> pooled into a new name to identify folks who are
> too self-centered to realize how much of an
> asshole they are.


Hmm... okay. That makes sense.

I realize slang is not necessarily logical (e.g., saying a pitcher's stuff is "filthy," i.e., very good), but I don't get how the word "tool" is applied to that kind of person.

I get "tool" as male organ, "tool" as dupe/stooge ("Bush was a tool of Rove and the Neocons"), but not "tool" in the sense used here.

Oh well, it's no biggie... just a little piece of popular culture I've been puzzled by the last year or so... probably a sign of advancing age/decrepitude.

Thanks to Mephisto and RV for their thoughts.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Czar ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:07PM

A Serious Man Wrote:
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> Registered Voter Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > think of it as the new form of jackass and
> moron
> > pooled into a new name to identify folks who
> are
> > too self-centered to realize how much of an
> > asshole they are.
>
>
> Hmm... okay. That makes sense.
>
> I realize slang is not necessarily logical (e.g.,
> saying a pitcher's stuff is "filthy," i.e., very
> good), but I don't get how the word "tool" is
> applied to that kind of person.
>
> I get "tool" as male organ, "tool" as dupe/stooge
> ("Bush was a tool of Rove and the Neocons"), but
> not "tool" in the sense used here.
>
> Oh well, it's no biggie... just a little piece of
> popular culture I've been puzzled by the last year
> or so... probably a sign of advancing
> age/decrepitude.
>
> Thanks to Mephisto and RV for their thoughts.


in my generation a 'tool' is another name for a dick

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Sirius ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:22PM

Czar Wrote:
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> in my generation a 'tool' is another name for a
> dick

Okay. I guess when I see the word it seems to suggest more than just dick - there seems to be another layer of meaning -- such as, not merely a dick, but a phony. Perhaps "tool" is the 21st century equivalent of Salinger/Caulfield's "phony".

More data to add to the mix: http://www.fluther.com/disc/31542/what-is-a-tool/

The meaning of the word does seem to be somewhat in a state of flux, seeing the different ways people define it. Perhaps it has more of a fixed meaning for certain age groups - within the specific cultural mix/ephemera of that cohort - but loses its meaning to an extent outside that cohort.

socal_network_tool.jpg

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Posted by: inkahootz ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:24PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:29PM

It probably would have been better if Gwen had titled her thread "Is My Boyfriend a Worthless Piece of Shit Like Inkahootz".

Everyone would have understood instantly; no explanations required.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: inkahootz ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:34PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/01/2010 06:26AM by inkahootz.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ffxstoner ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:37PM

Gwen your pussy just isnt good enough.

http://www.lol.com

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ffxstoner ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:38PM

Gwen your pussy just isnt good enough.

http://www.lol.com

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Querulous ()
Date: October 04, 2009 10:58PM

Some of the many different uses of the word "tool".


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"Have you guys heard about this Michael Phelps character? Get this. He’s a 23-year old stoner who likes playing beer pong and hitting water bongs at house parties. Not only that, but these are state school house parties. What a tool."




france_riot_keffiyah_2.jpg
"Check out the keffiyah. What a tool."




35741859.DSC00643.jpg
"The UWV mascot, mountaineer. What a tool"




smithbirkheadthumb.jpg
"I’m not a big Zsa Zsa fan but no one deserves to have their husband tell the whole world that he didn’t marry you for love and that rather than divorcing you, he tried to get you to sign adoption papers for the chick he was banging, and was still mad you refused. What a tool!"




cookout%20018.jpg?imgmax=400
"I do believe this is the first photo of my brother and I as adults that I've ever posted here. Look at him. What a tool. A chiseled, handsome, successful tool. God damn him."




ChristmasClan.jpg?t=1229048877
"Favorite Christmas picture: This one from many years ago because it shows a bunch of my family. Most importantly, though, it shows my nephew being a HUGE baby when everyone else is having a blast. What a tool."




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"What a tool, eh?"




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"WHAT A TOOL!"




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"What a tool. Self-important, glad-handing, pneumatic, what else am I missing. Let's try narcissistic, superficial, insecure and inept"




Oscar-Sherak.jpg
"Tom Sherak has been responsible of late for many of the worst decisions by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts & Sciences. Heck, this guy helped run Revolution Studios into the ground. Now he's going to do the same thing with AMPAS. What a tool. What a moronic Board Of Governors."

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Registered Voter ()
Date: October 04, 2009 11:10PM

Seriously stoner, wtf is up with this stupid page spam you are doing now?

Just acting out? Or you lose your meds? Maybe a little over medication maybe? While you may have a hard-on for Gravis, do you need to spread your BS to all the threads you touch?

If you can’t model the past, where you know the answer pretty well, how can you model the future? - William Happer Cyrus Fogg Brackett Professor of Physics Princeton University

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Harry Tuttle ()
Date: October 04, 2009 11:30PM

I've been puzzled about the word "douchebag" myself... I can certainly identify one, but I am unsure how the word came about. I've always considered it more of a humorous thing to call someone rather than an actual insult.

Do you think "douchebag" is synonymous with "tool" in the context it was used in this thread?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Czar ()
Date: October 04, 2009 11:30PM

yo maybe ffx stoner got caught up and can't smoke any weeeddd. some ppl need their weed.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 05, 2009 12:42AM

NGT Wrote:
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> lol...5'9"..what, is he in seventh grade? In
> either case, he is a miserable lowlife scumbag


Lol, and what are you, a got damn Giraffe?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 05, 2009 12:46AM

MrMephisto Wrote:
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> In my definition, a tool is someone that only
> serves a function, not a purpose.


Sounds like the best definition. Be certain to submit it to Webster.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 05, 2009 12:52AM

Gwen Wrote:
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> It doesn't feel good, to feel like your boyfriend
> is a tool. It doesn't feel good to have to move
> out of a house that has been your home for the
> past year. It doesn't feel good to have to leave
> behind a dog that changed you from hating dogs, to
> wanting one of your own. It doesn't feel good to
> feel your heart breaking...


Your mistake is an obvious and oft repeated one, you simply started acting like your bf was your husband. Living with him? Sharing a house, and dog, and you're not committed to stay together? That's a recipe for disaster.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 05, 2009 10:51AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:57PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: October 05, 2009 10:56AM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Looks like you guys were busy this weekend.
>
> Yes, I use tool in place of Douchebag, Asshole,
> Jackass, Narcissist, etc.
>
> An update: Told the tool on Friday that I would
> be moving out. I was out of town this weekend.
> He sent me sappy texts, did my laundry, dropped me
> off and picked me up from the airport, and made
> dinner for me on Sunday...
>
> ...but it's "too little, too late".

At least your clothes are clean when you pack them. Sappy texts....I bet he cried like a baby all weekend.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 05, 2009 11:16AM

Dr. Fill Wrote:

> At least your clothes are clean when you pack
> them. Sappy texts....I bet he cried like a baby
> all weekend.


OR started 73 "outing" threads on here between dryer cycles.

That's a lotta laundry.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 05, 2009 01:58PM

Here's a tool...



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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Fairfax Underground: The Toolbelt? ()
Date: October 05, 2009 07:40PM

Another definition (which segues into an archetypal FU exchange about halfway through):


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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 06, 2009 12:00AM

WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
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> Here's a tool...
>
>


LOL, man, I was waiting to post that.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 06, 2009 12:06AM

"Happy Birthday to the Ground! I threw the rest of the cake too. Welcome to the Real World Jackass."

HAHAHAHAHA, too damn funny.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: TefD187 ()
Date: October 06, 2009 08:02AM

I am sorry gwen. I was wrong for posting on cl. And this song is for you gwenny bear. I know its too late, but I will always love you.



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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: § ()
Date: October 07, 2009 04:43PM

Who calls other people "Narcissists?"

I can't imagine someone rolling down their car window yelling, "Narcissist!!!!" at the top of their lungs. I think I would have to pull over and bitch slap them.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 07, 2009 08:19PM

I think it's about time for a Gwen status report.

Gwen, what say ya?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:07AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:57PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:09AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:58PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 11:56AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:58PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:00PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Apparently the tool is upset that I posted this
> and wants me to have the thread removed. Is that
> even possible?
>
> Who do I need to contact?

The bigger question is, why would you want to? The tool hasn't been identified, and you're a woman scorned.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Tim the toolman ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:02PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Apparently the tool is upset that I posted this
> and wants me to have the thread removed. Is that
> even possible?
>
> Who do I need to contact?


Why bother? If he wants it removed, let him do the contacting.

What a whiney little bitch he is.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:05PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:58PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:10PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:58PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:20PM

give up already gwen. You are holding onto this grudge. Just drop kick him and MOVE ON already. Who cares about your lil Tiff with Mr Perfect. Go find someone new and quit buggin us with your soap opera!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:21PM

Well, I hope you find the attractive, superficial, unfaithful d-bag of your dreams, Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Who Gwen Needs to Contact ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:38PM

I would be glad to remove it Gwen but I need to know the tool's FU name, just for record keeping purposes.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ferfux ()
Date: October 08, 2009 12:45PM

PS by the way Gwen, Thanks for the pics of you that you sent me the link to. I thank you from the Bottom of my 9th, I hit a grand slam.


http://homerderby.com/archives/2590

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Britdrnva~ ()
Date: October 08, 2009 01:10PM

Hey Gwen - just read this fascinating screed and you're doing the absolute right thing. I would have done one thing slightly different though to be absolutely sure he was a fucking tool - I would've replied as someone else and see where he wanted to take the advert. Nonetheless, this guy is lying to you I am a believer in Occam's Razor (the simplest explanation tends to be the right one) - he's obviously looking for some loving on the side.

His other explanation to just get adoration and kudos has a touch of merit but even if we look at that as gospel - he's still a tool. His self-esteem is therefore very, very low and that's ashame because you claim to be a model and therefore must be somewhat pretty (unless you're a "before" model) and on that very merit should be a self-confidence booster.

You're doing the right thing - leave before you vest anymore of your life into this guy - he was testing the waters - who is to say if he won't do it again...you'll always have that nagging doubt in your mind - move on - tisn't worth it.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 01:47PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:59PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: October 08, 2009 01:52PM

He is attempting to be manipulative by attempting to turn this around on you as if you are the damaging party. He must really underestimate your intelligence if he thinks you would be gullible enough to fall for his "betrayal" routine.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 01:53PM

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Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:59PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 08, 2009 01:56PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> This just keeps getting better.
>
> apparently he feels "betrayed" by my posting all
> of this. WTF?
>
> How does he think I felt when he was out trolling
> on the internet for other women?


You need to PM us your personal information in case he becomes enraged. Also, include that torso shot you were talking about earlier. We might need it.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 08, 2009 01:57PM

Wait, I thought you said he "took it well"?

Damn, my occasional peaks at these threads arent getting the job done!

Can someone (and you know who you are) please PM me when threads take interesting turns, so I can umm...stay abreast, so to speak?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:11PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:59PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: bobo ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:14PM

Gwen. Is your boyfriend's name Bob?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:15PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:59PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:15PM

Does the first letter of his profile name fall in the first or second half of the alphabet?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:16PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 03:59PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:17PM

First half

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 08, 2009 02:17PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> Just so you guys know, I hit the "Report" button
> on my original post in this thread to have the
> thread removed, in order to be nice, and keep the
> peace with the tool. So don't be surprised if the
> thread disappears... But feel free to start
> another one if you like. He can't get mad if
> someone else initiates it right?


Sounds like you are giving in to the tool.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:18PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: watson ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:20PM

it begins with an f

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:20PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:22PM

You should hang it in his ass. How else will he learn that he cannot continue this kind of tom-toolery in his next relationship. You owe it to all women to nip this in the bud. That being said, I am happy to help but I need more. Out of that first half of the alphabet - A through M, is he on the left or right of the letter G?



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 02:23PM by Wahhh.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:23PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 04:00PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: watson ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:24PM

Wahhh Wrote:
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> You should hang it in his ass. How else will he
> learn that he cannot continue this kind of
> tom-toolery in his next relationship. You owe it
> to all women to nip this in the bud. That being
> said, I am happy to help but I need more. Out of
> that first half of the alphabet - A through M, is
> he on the left or right of the letter G?

as I said before, it begins with an "F"

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wahhh ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:28PM

well that certainly zeroes it in...

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: F Possibilities ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:49PM

FailSafe
ferfux
ffxstoner
fairfaxdude
FUNdamental
formerhick76
FurFaxTownie
496

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:51PM

F Possibilities Wrote:
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> FailSafe
> ferfux
> ffxstoner
> fairfaxdude
> FUNdamental
> formerhick76
> FurFaxTownie
> 496

Did she mean his NAME begins with an F, or his username begins with an F?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:53PM

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 08, 2009 02:54PM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 04:00PM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 08, 2009 03:01PM

Yes, I admit it, it's me. You got me.

I'm amused by the thread topic here, but at home I'm just pissed.

Now carry on.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Fail Safe ()
Date: October 08, 2009 03:17PM

F Possibilities Wrote:
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> FailSafe
> ferfux
> ffxstoner
> fairfaxdude
> FUNdamental
> formerhick76
> FurFaxTownie
> 496




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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: call ur bluff ()
Date: October 08, 2009 07:29PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Yes, I admit it, it's me. You got me.
>
> I'm amused by the thread topic here, but at home
> I'm just pissed.
>
> Now carry on.

No fucking way anyone believes this load of horseshit. Fairy's faggy infatuation with Registered Voter and Inkahootz rules him out in being involved in any heterosexual relationship.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Fail Safe ()
Date: October 08, 2009 07:43PM

call ur bluff Wrote:
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edit by Cary: CSS "hacks" removed. Inkahootz image overlay.



Edited 4 time(s). Last edit at 05/26/2011 10:55AM by Cary.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Wise One ()
Date: October 08, 2009 07:45PM

what appears to be a woman on his lap is actually an oversized belt buckle

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: hmmm ()
Date: October 08, 2009 08:03PM

odd resemblence...
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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 08, 2009 08:10PM

Epic Fail,

You are worse than Fairy with your inkahootz paranoia. Why the rush to defend him? Do you have a man crush on him and are you jealous of his obsession for RV and inkahootz?



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 08:14PM by Melon Coli.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Fail Safe ()
Date: October 08, 2009 08:22PM

http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/207246/207246.html#msg-207246

Melon Coli Wrote:
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> The trolls have taken over...most of the noobs
> suck...the regulars are either dead or don't post
> anymore...WTF? This place blows more than a whale!

Melon Coli Wrote:
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>
>
> Yes...I registered this name today, but I have
> been here for very long time, Danielson. Now go
> wax on...wax off...and paint the fence.





Jesus inka. How many names are you going through?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 08, 2009 08:26PM

Fail Safe Wrote:
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> http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/20
> 7246/207246.html#msg-207246
>
> Melon Coli Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > The trolls have taken over...most of the noobs
> > suck...the regulars are either dead or don't
> post
> > anymore...WTF? This place blows more than a
> whale!
>
> Melon Coli Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
>
> >
> >
> > Yes...I registered this name today, but I have
> > been here for very long time, Danielson. Now go
> > wax on...wax off...and paint the fence.
>
>
>
>
> Jesus inka. How many names are you going through?


You're quite the detective, but no, I am not him...I used an unregistered nick for a long time.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/08/2009 08:27PM by Melon Coli.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:05PM

Fail Safe Wrote:
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> http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/20
> 7246/207246.html#msg-207246
>
> Melon Coli Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > The trolls have taken over...most of the noobs
> > suck...the regulars are either dead or don't
> post
> > anymore...WTF? This place blows more than a
> whale!
>
> Melon Coli Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
>
> >
> >
> > Yes...I registered this name today, but I have
> > been here for very long time, Danielson. Now go
> > wax on...wax off...and paint the fence.
>
>
>
>
> Jesus inka. How many names are you going through?


Talk about the pot calling the kettle black!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: bloody blisters ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:12PM

talk about the kettle buying pot from the black

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:17PM

bloody blisters Wrote:
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> talk about the kettle buying pot from the black


haha

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i swear...
Posted by: Gravis ()
Date: October 08, 2009 09:51PM

there is totally a logical explanation... it wasnt me!




"the wisdom of the wise will perish, the intelligence of the intelligent will vanish."095042938540

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 08, 2009 10:35PM

Gwen must have been legit. She went through and deleted everything. Guess she wants to keep her "tool" of a boyfriend happy.

Man, she's dumb.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: October 08, 2009 11:01PM

WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
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> Gwen must have been legit. She went through and
> deleted everything. Guess she wants to keep her
> "tool" of a boyfriend happy.
>
> Man, she's dumb.


Talk about it. I've seen this sort of thing time and time again, girls staying with guys that beat them, treat them like garbage, etc. It never fails to amaze me anymore.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Melon Coli ()
Date: October 08, 2009 11:03PM

WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
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> Gwen must have been legit. She went through and
> deleted everything. Guess she wants to keep her
> "tool" of a boyfriend happy.
>
> Man, she's dumb.


Agreed.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: bloody blisters ()
Date: October 08, 2009 11:07PM

so no UPS delivery?

i'll put away the comfy cot i had set up.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 09, 2009 09:32AM

ThePackLeader Wrote:
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> WashingTone-Locian Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Gwen must have been legit. She went through and
> > deleted everything. Guess she wants to keep her
> > "tool" of a boyfriend happy.
> >
> > Man, she's dumb.
>
>
> Talk about it. I've seen this sort of thing time
> and time again, girls staying with guys that beat
> them, treat them like garbage, etc. It never fails
> to amaze me anymore.

She already stated that one of her guy friends would be the perfect boyfriend, but she's not attracted to him. As long as she remains attracted to douchebags, she'll repeat this cycle over and over again. Of course, the douchebags won't change either, because their dickhead tactics are obviously working.

This is why I stopped being nice to women, especially the pretty ones.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: guessing game ()
Date: October 09, 2009 11:25AM

My guess is blackmail. The tool probably threatened to put up a picture of her unless she took her posts down. He probably has some "private" pictures that he might posts on some NSFW sites. Just a guess on my part though.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Date: October 09, 2009 11:27AM

guessing game Wrote:
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> My guess is blackmail. The tool probably
> threatened to put up a picture of her unless she
> took her posts down. He probably has some
> "private" pictures that he might posts on some
> NSFW sites. Just a guess on my part though.


I think that's a good guess. That would be in line with his "tool"-ness.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:01PM

...



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 10/12/2009 11:39AM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gwen ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:05PM

...



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/12/2009 11:38AM by Gwen.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Britdrnva~ ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:06PM

Are you going to post an advert on CList now that you're single?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: aha! ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:21PM

Gwen Wrote:
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> I can't post on here anymore, so take care. I'll
> see you guys around in other threads.
>
> Gwen

definitely blackmail

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:25PM

aha! Wrote:
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> Gwen Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I can't post on here anymore, so take care.
> I'll
> > see you guys around in other threads.
> >
> > Gwen
>
> definitely blackmail

Pathetic.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Black & Decker Detecter ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:43PM

No doubt pathetic. They deserved each other. What a toolette Gwen turned out to be.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Harry Tuttle ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:52PM

"Can't post on here anymore"!? WHat the fuck? What in the world is stopping you?

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: slime ()
Date: October 09, 2009 12:58PM

Harry Tuttle Wrote:
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> "Can't post on here anymore"!? WHat the fuck? What
> in the world is stopping you?

my guess is nudie pics of her that she doens't want disseminated. Having those gives you free reign over ex gfs.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: October 09, 2009 01:18PM

I bet that friend of hers (you know, the one that would be perfect for her if only he were hotter) wouldn't do that to her.

Guys act like douchebags only because women tolerate it, and both genders are to blame for it.

Pathetic.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: TefD187 ()
Date: October 09, 2009 04:54PM

slime Wrote:
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> Harry Tuttle Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > "Can't post on here anymore"!? WHat the fuck?
> What
> > in the world is stopping you?
>
> my guess is nudie pics of her that she doens't
> want disseminated. Having those gives you free
> reign over ex gfs.


naw video of her taking it up the butt. if she comes back and posts here I will show.hey a deals a deal.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: LOLcat ()
Date: October 09, 2009 07:56PM

I gots it. YER boyfrend is Handy Manny!

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: Gravis ()
Date: October 10, 2009 04:00PM

LOLcat Wrote:
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> I gots it. YER boyfrend is Handy Manny!



file.php?40,file=11040,filename=handy+ma <-- douchebag | nice guy --> file.php?40,file=11039,filename=bob-the-
"the wisdom of the wise will perish, the intelligence of the intelligent will vanish."095042938540

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: TefD187 ()
Date: October 10, 2009 09:18PM

why isn't the white guy a douche? because gravis thats racist.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: sherlock ()
Date: October 15, 2009 01:59PM

496 is the bf. Ads on CL confirm.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: fairfaxdude ()
Date: October 15, 2009 02:38PM

Allegations without links are useless, dude.

Please post them.

______________________________________________
I have had to change the addresses to my retaliatory blogs over half a dozen times.

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Re: Is my boyfriend a tool?
Posted by: holmes ()
Date: October 15, 2009 02:41PM

fairfaxdude Wrote:
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> Allegations without links are useless, dude.
>
> Please post them.

dude, really, dude? Dude, why should I post them, dude? Dude, they are easy to find, dude.

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