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BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: bdsmlife ()
Date: July 21, 2014 10:07AM

I've been in the bdsm lifestyle for about 10 years. The one negative is that most submissive women are fat. As a man who is athletic, I don't see the draw to overweight women. If I'm going to mentor and collar a woman, she must conform to my lifestyle.

If you haven't tried yet, I suggest using tickle torture as a punishment. It's highly-effective. You can incorporate a vibrator into the method and, with patience, you can train your submissive to eventually climax from tickling.
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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Yea,right ()
Date: July 21, 2014 11:00AM

Bullshit. Post photos of you and your subjects or STFU.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: bdsmlife ()
Date: July 21, 2014 12:05PM

From this past weekend...
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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: pics ()
Date: July 21, 2014 12:41PM

top pics are not from the US. plug is most prob EU.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: bdsmlife ()
Date: July 21, 2014 12:56PM

True, the top pics I posted are just for fun; not mine.

The one I posted from this past weekend is real.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: choke ()
Date: July 21, 2014 01:01PM

Yes, they are all fat and they can't take care of themselves & they are all stupid enough to think some self-centered psychopath is going to come along and do it.
You live in Neverland.
I want to a strong alpha male to kiss my ass and do everything I want, some stupid? About as stupid as you...

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: WHVX9 ()
Date: July 21, 2014 01:06PM

to BDSMlife.....As a submissive of 10+ years myself, it is 'Doms' like you who are narrow-minded and pretty much pathetic. If you think about it, a skinny-ninny submissive can't take a flogging like a REAL woman with curves can.

If you think it's all about being pretty and skinny, then have at it. But a REAL woman with curves can take a LOT more for a Dom than you can offer.

You are probably an ugly bastard, based on getting "good looking" subs who are pretty much just wanting to be used and abused.

I feel sorry for your 'subs'

PS---if this is your sub, then this is BULL SHIT. NO intelligent sub will allow her photo to go up ANYWHERE.

Keep your submissives to yourself.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: bdsmlife ()
Date: July 21, 2014 01:27PM

Dear WHVX9,

The D/s lifestyle takes on many forms. Just because one Dom flogs doesn't mean he is a "real" Dom more than another. The submissive in reference, just like all submissives, has her own strengths and tolerance levels. The whole fat vs skinny thing has nothing to do with tolerance for pain. It's a case of attraction. I'm sure your Dom feels you are beautiful.

If you do a google image search for submissive woman (or some derivation of that search), you will find many pictures of submissive women. My submissive knows that what happens to her and her pictures are for me to decide. The (real) picture I posted does not show her face and does not show nudity.

If what I said offended you, then I apologize for the offense. But I am not sorry for my preference, nor will I alter it.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: WHVX9 ()
Date: July 21, 2014 03:02PM

bdsmlife Wrote:
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> Dear WHVX9,
>
> The D/s lifestyle takes on many forms. Just
> because one Dom flogs doesn't mean he is a "real"
> Dom more than another. The submissive in
> reference, just like all submissives....>
>
> If what I said offended you, then I apologize for
> the offense. But I am not sorry for my preference,
> nor will I alter it.

BDSMlifesty: I reacted before I thought and should have commented more clearly.

I wasn't trying to alter your preference. That's what makes the world go around. But clearly, all I read from your original post is: "skinny subs are better than 'fat' submissives." That might not have been what you meant, but I get your point of wanting them to 'convert to your lifestyle.'

Maybe the reason why you can't find a 'skinny' submissive is because you are actually looking for a slave? Or you strictly are looking for a fit submissive that likes to exercise as you do? There are plenty out there. A sub, in my opinion, shouldn't 'convert to your lifestyle' unless she is a slave. BIG difference, and from your above comment you clearly know that.

But really, a submissive should have a choice whether her Dom posts a pic of her on any website, especially here. I would dump my Dom immediately if I found out he was doing that behind my back. If she gave her permission, then that's different.

But really, why post her pic then comment why so many 'fat' submissives? That's a rhetorical question.

Just as a sub has to find the 'right' Dom for her, a Dom should also know he has to find the right sub for him.

PS-I was active in the scene 10 years ago (clubs, conferences, etc), not so much anymore. The reason? A 'Dom' that wanted a skinny, 'you do as I say' sub wouldn't find many with that attitude.

Good luck with your sub (that is not sarcastic).

SPS- The reason why I am so defensive is because I had a "Dom" similar to you. I wasn't skinny enough for him, but I was the only fucking idiot to submit to him. He'd go too far with discipline that I didn't deserve. So, that explains why I initially said what I said.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Zitzbath Zark ()
Date: July 21, 2014 03:15PM

WHVX9 Wrote:
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> bdsmlife Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Dear WHVX9,
> >
> > The D/s lifestyle takes on many forms. Just
> > because one Dom flogs doesn't mean he is a
> "real"
> > Dom more than another. The submissive in
> > reference, just like all submissives....>
> >
> > If what I said offended you, then I apologize
> for
> > the offense. But I am not sorry for my
> preference,
> > nor will I alter it.
>
> BDSMlifesty: I reacted before I thought and
> should have commented more clearly.
>
> I wasn't trying to alter your preference. That's
> what makes the world go around. But clearly, all I
> read from your original post is: "skinny subs are
> better than 'fat' submissives." That might not
> have been what you meant, but I get your point of
> wanting them to 'convert to your lifestyle.'
>
> Maybe the reason why you can't find a 'skinny'
> submissive is because you are actually looking for
> a slave? Or you strictly are looking for a fit
> submissive that likes to exercise as you do? There
> are plenty out there. A sub, in my opinion,
> shouldn't 'convert to your lifestyle' unless she
> is a slave. BIG difference, and from your above
> comment you clearly know that.
>
> But really, a submissive should have a choice
> whether her Dom posts a pic of her on any website,
> especially here. I would dump my Dom immediately
> if I found out he was doing that behind my back.
> If she gave her permission, then that's
> different.
>
> But really, why post her pic then comment why so
> many 'fat' submissives? That's a rhetorical
> question.
>
> Just as a sub has to find the 'right' Dom for her,
> a Dom should also know he has to find the right
> sub for him.
>
> PS-I was active in the scene 10 years ago (clubs,
> conferences, etc), not so much anymore. The
> reason? A 'Dom' that wanted a skinny, 'you do as
> I say' sub wouldn't find many with that attitude.
>
> Good luck with your sub (that is not sarcastic).
>
> SPS- The reason why I am so defensive is because I
> had a "Dom" similar to you. I wasn't skinny enough
> for him, but I was the only fucking idiot to
> submit to him. He'd go too far with discipline
> that I didn't deserve. So, that explains why I
> initially said what I said.


You seem very nice. I would piss all over you every day.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: EXIF Fail ()
Date: July 21, 2014 03:16PM

WHVX9 Wrote:
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> But really, a submissive should have a choice
> whether her Dom posts a pic of her on any website,
> especially here. I would dump my Dom immediately
> if I found out he was doing that behind my back...
>

Especially when the dumbass forgets to remove the EXIF from the file.

https://goo.gl/maps/Mqh34

lol

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: bdsmlife ()
Date: July 21, 2014 03:29PM

EXIF Fail, that is where the pic was taken, not where I live. ;)

WHVX9, thanks for clarification. I do not look to change anyone. People make their choices and I think it would be unfair to ask them to go against what's in their nature. I incorrectly used the term conform. I should have said that I seek out women whose lifestyles already conform to mine. As for posting the picture, she is fine with it as long as I guard her identity.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Moe Betta ()
Date: July 21, 2014 03:48PM

bdsmlife Wrote:
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> EXIF Fail, that is where the pic was taken, not
> where I live. ;)
>

Yeah, your girlfriend will be even more happy that you've posted her location. lmao

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Zitzbath Zark ()
Date: July 21, 2014 07:00PM

The OP may want (beg) cary to delete this thread.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Don't Try This at Home ()
Date: July 21, 2014 07:06PM

This shit is sick. You deserve what you're going to get.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Vexxxed ()
Date: July 21, 2014 07:49PM

Moe Betta Wrote:
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> Yeah, your girlfriend will be even more happy that
> you've posted her location. lmao


I doubt her husband will appreciate it much.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: Where's eesh? ()
Date: July 21, 2014 09:01PM

Surprised we haven't seen BDSM pix on the more gruesome side. This is a perfect opening to a typical eesh thread.

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Re: BDSM lifestyle
Posted by: fx4mn ()
Date: July 21, 2014 09:10PM

Where's eesh? Wrote:
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> Surprised we haven't seen BDSM pix on the more
> gruesome side. This is a perfect opening to a
> typical eesh thread.


His hands are tied up with his thumbs up his ass. Wish it were his head up his ass, which, now that I think about it, is where it usually is.

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