I am woman in her early 40s and have been divorced for a little over a decade, during which time I have had a number of long-term relationships. I have always been a passionate in bed and the men I've been with have been likewise. 3 months ago I met a man who is a couple years older. He's caring, sensitive, well mannered, fit, good looking and affectionate. We share many interests and generally seem extremely compatible. He is healthy and in excellent shape and incredibly sexy. There is one big issue, however, that bothers me greatly. I know that he enjoys sex, but he's just terrible in bed. A lousy lover. He told me that he has never been wild in bed. I don't believe a man has to be wild to be a good lover but he doesn't even like to kiss. This makes me sad. I now find myself being more inhibited in bed, more like him. After sex, I'm left feeling frustrated, unsatisfied and sad. I don't like to put so much emphasis on sex, but I think I deserve more consideration. Our relationship is great except for the sex. I care deeply for this man, but I also want to be kissed and caressed and passionate in bed. What should I do?

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That was a heroic response.

Damn Eesh I got a boner watching that. OP get a dog.

Nip

Damn that dog only lasted 3 seconds.

Is she gonna have puppies now?

Kissing is the main thing women want! If you are a good kisser they will kill themselves trying to heap the pussy on you! Seriously, women love to kiss!

Good news for the OP, you've come to the right place for top notch advice.

40 something and horny Wrote:
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> I am woman in her early 40s and have been divorced
> for a little over a decade, during which time I
> have had a number of long-term relationships. I
> have always been a passionate in bed and the men
> I've been with have been likewise. 3 months ago I
> met a man who is a couple years older. He's
> caring, sensitive, well mannered, fit, good
> looking and affectionate. We share many interests
> and generally seem extremely compatible. He is
> healthy and in excellent shape and incredibly
> sexy. There is one big issue, however, that
> bothers me greatly. I know that he enjoys sex, but
> he's just terrible in bed. A lousy lover. He told
> me that he has never been wild in bed. I don't
> believe a man has to be wild to be a good lover
> but he doesn't even like to kiss. This makes me
> sad. I now find myself being more inhibited in
> bed, more like him. After sex, I'm left feeling
> frustrated, unsatisfied and sad. I don't like to
> put so much emphasis on sex, but I think I deserve
> more consideration. Our relationship is great
> except for the sex. I care deeply for this man,
> but I also want to be kissed and caressed and
> passionate in bed. What should I do?

I'm a shit stain underwear wearing man in his 40s. Never married, no friends except DentHead. Mom & Dad dominated my life. I need a wild man in bed too. If you find a wild man, if he loves anal, send him to me. My asshole awaits.

Well this is a simple one. Cheat.

If you are half way good looking then you simple pick out any guy in the bar and ask him "have sex with you." No guy ever turns down sex.

Baby,I got what you need...I'll teach how to blow my horn and I will eat your taco like the starving Mexican migrant I am. Email me at tootguy@aol.com

get a video of what you like. Have him watch it. Problem solved.

Dear 40 something and horny. HI.. I am a mid 60s WM...I am a great kisser and very passionate. I love to give oral and i am very good giving hand stimulation and i love intercourse and last a long time. I am on the thick side of normal and i love to talk dirty and i love to discuss and entertain fantasies, Yours and mine. Your man can watch and take turns if he likes and / or join in.. leave a message for layslow..

Dear 40 something and horny. HI.. I am a mid 60s WM...I am a great kisser and very passionate. I love to give oral and i am very good giving hand stimulation and i love intercourse and last a long time. I am on the thick side of normal and i love to talk dirty and i love to discuss and entertain fantasies, Yours and mine. Your man can watch and take turns if he likes and / or join in.. leave a message for layslow..

buy your man the book "Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity" by Daniel Reid

spoiler alert...one of the main points of the sex part of the book is that men must learn to hold their semen

layslow Wrote:
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> Dear 40 something and horny. HI.. I am a mid 60s
> WM...I am a great kisser and very passionate. I
> love to give oral and i am very good giving hand
> stimulation and i love intercourse and last a long
> time. I am on the thick side of normal and i love
> to talk dirty and i love to discuss and entertain
> fantasies, Yours and mine. Your man can watch and
> take turns if he likes and / or join in.. leave a
> message for layslow..


Sorry to break it to you gerry, but the OP is a girl.

I'm in my 20s, which means you'd be old enough to be my pretty young mother, but, I like older women. They taught me a lot, so I'm not your average ham handed 20something.

You don't have to look like a movie or pop star. I'd be interested.

Retards responding to a three year old thread from a troll.