Here's the way it was: "From a Country Boy's View: Clifton Virginia--the 1950s."
http://www.amazon.com/From-Country-Boys-View-Virginia/dp/1425930069
It was a little bit different on the other side of Clifton (toward Centreville), but not by much. A bit less farming. Some of the adults worked in Fairfax, D.C., or Arlington. (One grownup worked for "The State Department" which we found out later was really the CIA.
The closest grocery store was the Giant in Annandale. (There were small general stores scattered around, like the one in Clifton.) Schools were segregated. I remember the first time our school bus picked up some "colored children." The bus driver first stopped the bus and explained to all the white kids what she'd be doing. That was probably around 1959.
White kids seldom saw blacks, unless they worked for their parents as maids or outside. Asians didn't seem to exist. Jews were almost as rare, and Sunday schools were still teaching that Jews killed Christ.
There was no Beltway, no 66, no Fairfax County Parkway. Most of the roads that are now 4-lane (123, 236) were just 2-lane back then. The only real highway was Shirley Highway--now 395. And "Bunnyman Bridge" was just a railroad bridge, with no horror stories attached.
A lot of homes--especially on the other side of Clifton (described in "A Country Boy's View")--had outhouses. Most people had phones, but they were on "party lines"--one line shared by multiple families. You could tell if a call was for your family by a distinctive ringing combination. You'd come home from school and watch "American Bandstand" on TV...if you had one. You'd listen to the radio at night, especially stations like WABC in New York and WBZ in Boston . . . if the night was cold and clear so the signal would carry, bouncing off the atmosphere.
The movie "Back to the Future" captures a lot of it--soda fountains, Davey Crockett hats, the novelty of television, etc. The movie "Stand by Me" is a pretty good recreation of what it was like to be a kid back then.