They say nearly every person at least once in their lives finds a person of the same sex physically attractive. I was wondering then, that homosexuality in of itself is more the act of an imtimate relationship with a person of the same gender, rather than a mere same sex attraction. If a person does not act on this attraction, then they are not doing homsexual acts.

I remember a story someone talked about. It was a guy who said he thought he was gay because he started noticing other guys. It was usually when he was alone for some time or not in a relationship with a woman. But it turns out, once he was around his male friends again, all these same sex feelings went away. He felt the need for male companionship, not the same as a sexual relationship. Since that is true, I wonder if sexuality is a lot more fluid than we think.

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> They say nearly every person at least once in
> their lives finds a person of the same sex
> physically attractive. I was wondering then, that
> homosexuality in of itself is more the act of an
> imtimate relationship with a person of the same
> gender, rather than a mere same sex attraction. If
> a person does not act on this attraction, then
> they are not doing homsexual acts.
>
> I remember a story someone talked about. It was a
> guy who said he thought he was gay because he
> started noticing other guys. It was usually when
> he was alone for some time or not in a
> relationship with a woman. But it turns out, once
> he was around his male friends again, all these
> same sex feelings went away. He felt the need for
> male companionship, not the same as a sexual
> relationship. Since that is true, I wonder if
> sexuality is a lot more fluid than we think.



nothing hotter than man on max sex

Lips are lips

I think that there can be a grey area some times. If you think someone of the same gender is attractive, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. Its more the act of being intimiate with someone of the same gender or having predominant sexual fantasies about the same gender. Most people recognize if someone is hot, male or female. They just want to admit it.

I think the Kinsey scale/heterosexual-homosexual rating scale can be applied here. Not that many people are 100% heterosexual.

Three points-

If a girl tells me she is a lesbian, I don't stop hitting on her, and you shouldn't either.

People like to say "everyone is a little bisexual" but they rarely encourage homos to try hetero, but they seem to want the vice versa.

Has a lesbian ever given another lesbian AIDS?

I can understand lesbians more than gay guys. There are 100 hot women to every "good looking" guy. If a guy is good looking and not a gay, he is also very arrogant and usually just a jerk because he can get any woman he wants. Even the most beautiful woman often feels she is not beautiful enough.

They did a study and found that all lesbian couples ahve at least one fat chic.

Lesbians are only hot in the movies.

Eat-at-the-Y !

I dont mind fat chicks if they are hot. I mean, not obese, but really curvy and a nice rump. Some girls are so thin they have no rack at all. Thats a turn off.