Reeling in Reston Wrote:
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> My 13 year old son went over to hang with a friend
> for a few hours. My wife and I were under the
> impression that an adult would at least be in the
> house. At some point, my son's friend's Mom had to
> leave to take their other child to a sports
> practice. In the 30 minutes the Mom was gone...my
> son, his friend he was visiting and 2 other boys
> who were there, emptied a bottle of Absolut.
>
> When the Mom returned, she called us right away to
> explain what happened. I went to pick up Drinky
> McDrinkerton who was in no condition to discuss
> what had happened and brought him home.
>
> My wife is hell-bent for this Mom's head and wants
> to press charges for child endangerment and
> "anything else she can hang on her". The family is
> a casual acquaintance of ours. We've had them over
> a few times, they've reciprocated. Our sons have
> known each other since they were about 10. We will
> permit our son a glass of wine or a half-glass of
> beer at special occasions and have talked with him
> about the legalities, the potential consequences
> and the dangers that can be associated with too
> much consumption.
>
> My wife's background is squeaky clean. Her teenage
> years consisted of the honor-roll, never skipping
> class, full-ride scholarship, no drugs and of
> course, no drinking until she was 21.
>
> While I was not a hell-raiser...I drank socially
> as a teenager, and got into my fair share of
> trouble none of it involving the law.
>
> So, do I let the wife "run this op" and press
> charges or do I make the case for..."You know,
> hon...this kind of shit goes on. It's not legal
> and in this case no one was hurt. However, we're
> going to have to talk to your friend's parents
> again about our concerns before you can go over
> there again." and then proceed to have a sit-down
> with my son's friend's parents? Or is there
> another option I'm missing?
Liquor cabnites are meant to be locked.
With that being said there is nothing you or your wife can do.
In the mean time it is best to look forward then backwards.
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