When my friend and relative Elizabeth made the (foolish) decision to remember Grace Episcopal Church in her will, my understanding is that it was done with the express understanding that the gift was confidential.

In the time since her death, Bob Malm has not only falsely stated under oath that both she and my mother repeatedly canceled appointments with him, apparently he also discussed the details with members of St. Dysfunction. See the screen cap below.

So, if you are considering telling Bob Malm anything in confidence, just know that it can and may find its way onto Fairfax Underground. And keep in mind our dear friend “a long-time parishioner” discloses confidential giving information on other blogs.

Keep this in mind as you consider your pledge this fall.
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And if you are still paying on your current year pledge, nothing prevents you from canceling the rest of your pledge and taking a pass on this sort of #fakechristian nonsense.