Re: Outback curbside take-out gave me dirty look because I didn't tip them...
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mp
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Date: May 06, 2008 02:57AM
70chip Wrote:
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> Proper tipping at a sit-down restaurant is 15%
> PRE-TAX. Bartenders - 10%. Don't like it? go get
> an education. You don't tip until AFTER you get
> your food. And between the high prices and
> illegals preparing the food, I rarely return. I
> never send anything back, because I know it WILL
> be tampered. If its that bad, I send it back
> demanding a refund. And if they bitch, I like to
> make big scenes for other customers that I will
> personally engage and throw out words like,
> filthy, rotten, & rancid. Food service pikers in
> metro areas like NoVA always seem to possess an
> entitlement mentality . They expect everything to
> be given to them. They don't look at customers as
> someone to service in hope for a reasonable tip.
> Just under the surface, they HATE customers...
> because customers are nothing but WORK. people
> like STFU. Rarely do I encounter a servant that
> feels they need to earn their reward. You can see
> it in their body language when you dont order the
> fancy fruity drink, appetizer and/or desert. They
> just want to jack up the bill and provide minimal
> service. They don't like fetching water, napkins,
> or other non-billable items.. because they know
> around here the sheeple will give em the 15-20%
> POST Tax regardless of the service... they've
> instituted a restaurant culture of low standards
> and mandatory rewards. Generally food service
> wait staff have a history with the law, are
> uneducated, and have learned no meaningful trade
> in life. Usually their last stop before they
> continue on their downward spiral. Ever leave
> the area, and go somewhere rural? Drop a 15% tip
> down and they jump for joy. Like a SERVANT should.
> Wait staff around here think they are above a
> servant's status. They're afraid to admit they've
> sunk that low, and the end is near. Unfortunately
> the cookie cutter national chains are permeated
> with this behavior. Mom and Pops that have some
> skin in the game usually fare better.
I would be very interested in knowing the basis for any of the garbage you feed others on this thread. You continually reference pre-tax, and technically, you are correct, but I am not sure your percentages are. Where do you get your information? I know 15% seems to be the standard, but 10% for a bartender? Is the service less?
Next time you are in a bar/restaurant, ask the "servant" the extent of their education. You may find they have succeeded the societal norm.
The term TIPS is an acronym for 'To INSURE Prompt Service', so tipping is technically not something that you do after the fact. Although it is the accepted norm, get your facts straight.
You do not send anything back? Your mentality may lead you to believe that restaurant workers alter food when you are dissatisfied (and there are a few bad seeds), but you are unwarranted, and you base your founding upon the secret camera video shown on your favorite TV station.
The high prices for food that are prepared by illegals (as you say) are typically implemented in an effort to make a profit. Consider your educational background. For a business to succeed, it must post a profit. Often times (please sense the sarcasm) that requires them to charge more for a product that they actually pay for it. In addition, often times, they need to recover their labor costs, as well as other overhead.
I am unsure of any restaurant that would ever allow you to cause a scene such as the one you have described. Disorderly conduct is a charge that comes to my mind, and I cannot think of an establishment that would allow you to conduct yourself in such a way that would unjustly (however, maybe in your mind) defame their name.
Your poor observation that the service industry hates customers is completely unfounded. You are being ignorant in this regard. Service people certainly view customers as "work": that is what they are. This does not imply hatred. Do you hate your clients? (Better question: have you ever worked?)
The level of service you receive (and certainly the basis for your ill regard for the service industry) most likely surrounds your reference to such people as "servants" (and more than once). Although, by definition, you are correct, this seems to be completely dehumanizing.
What is the premise to your statement that service industry employees have history with the law? What is your definition of uneducated? What is a meaningful trade in life?
"[T]he end is near...". What does this mean?
I will refrain from expressing the remainder of my opinion on this issue until I see a response post. I do anticipate many to agree with the original post, but I would anticipate many to see its ridiculousness. I also anticipate unintelligible responses from many regulars on this thread. I hope they do not prohibit other from speaking up.