My partner and I are planning on moving here to Fairfax for his new job and are trying to find the best neighborhood to riase our kids. Preferably a safe area, more liberal and accepting schools, etc.. Any suggestions would be fabulous!

Oh, not the best place to come to for advice. Most people here (on this website) are homophobic assholes.

There are no areas of Fairfax that are significantly more or less gay-friendly. Just avoid moving into a black, latino, or Muslim neighborhood.

DC has Dupont Circle, but that probably doesn't help you any.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/24/2012 03:15AM by Ding an sich.

And the ignorance begins.


The only correct thing that guy said was,
"There are no areas of Fairfax that are significantly more or less gay-friendly."

I see people called fags and gay all the time on here, and dupont is the 'gay area' of dc

Steve P. Wrote:
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> My partner and I are planning on moving here to
> Fairfax for his new job and are trying to find the
> best neighborhood to riase our kids. Preferably a
> safe area, more liberal and accepting schools,
> etc.. Any suggestions would be fabulous!

It's your choice to be a butt-fuckin' fag, but subjecting a child to your behavior is wrong and they will suffer because you choose to act that way because you can. Grow a real set of balls, and go through what the rest of us have to do to court a woman.

Or move to California.

Arlington would be a better choice for you.

Grossed Out Wrote:
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> Steve P. Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > My partner and I are planning on moving here to
> > Fairfax for his new job and are trying to find
> the
> > best neighborhood to riase our kids. Preferably
> a
> > safe area, more liberal and accepting schools,
> > etc.. Any suggestions would be fabulous!
>
> It's your choice to be a butt-fuckin' fag, but
> subjecting a child to your behavior is wrong and
> they will suffer because you choose to act that
> way because you can. Grow a real set of balls,
> and go through what the rest of us have to do to
> court a woman.
>
> Or move to California.


I hope this is a joke. If you honestly believe being gay is a choice you must be a repressed homosexual because no real straight man would find gay sex appealing in anyway. Keep pushing those feelings down.

I bent over to tie my shoelace on Lee Highway in Fairfax, near the Lamb Center, and was immediatlty confronted by several wide eyed, obviously homosexual men.
I would imagine that Steve P., his flaming partner, and their unfortunate, doomed children may "fit " right in to this area.

Resident. Wrote:
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> Grossed Out Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Steve P. Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > My partner and I are planning on moving here
> to
> > > Fairfax for his new job and are trying to
> find
> > the
> > > best neighborhood to riase our kids.
> Preferably
> > a
> > > safe area, more liberal and accepting
> schools,
> > > etc.. Any suggestions would be fabulous!
> >
> > It's your choice to be a butt-fuckin' fag, but
> > subjecting a child to your behavior is wrong
> and
> > they will suffer because you choose to act that
> > way because you can. Grow a real set of balls,
> > and go through what the rest of us have to do
> to
> > court a woman.
> >
> > Or move to California.
>
>
> I hope this is a joke. If you honestly believe
> being gay is a choice you must be a repressed
> homosexual because no real straight man would find
> gay sex appealing in anyway. Keep pushing those
> feelings down.


I am not sure if it was meant as a joke or not, but certainly the question of genetics versus "willful choice" as it relates to homosexuality is somewhat beyond the scope of what is generally discussed in this forum.

Speaking as a resident of Fairfax County, I have to agree that I have seen no neighborhoods that are, per se, more or less receptive to those with alternate lifestyles.

However I can say, from a personal perspective, that I hope the OP chooses somewhere far from me. I have no interest in living near a couple of men who choose to doom their "children" to a life of scorn and misery by having parents who are butt-fuckin fags.

Welcome to FFU.

WNC is gay, bi-sexual, and trans-gender friendly...heck, most of us are gay, but just don't be BLACK!

But you better plan on drinking BUD LIGHT... WNC won't tolerate sissy beer drinkers.

You show up with a Blue Moon - no RE-spect!

Unfortunately, there are good people and bad people. Clearly many of the above posters are of the bad variety.

I'd have to agree though, I know of no specific area that's more friendly to LGBT than any others. Visit potential neighborhoods on the weekends and see if you can talk with any of the residents, if they're out and about. Could give you a feel for their position.

You'll probably be happier over in Maryland with the rest of the liberals.

"Fabulous"? How... cliché.

Well, you can probably tell by now that most posters here are homophobic assholes. I don't believe that they represent the majority of people in Fairfax County.

You probably want to avoid neighborhoods that have a lot of military families (e.g., Kings Park). In addition, some areas have a heavy concentration of ethnic minorities (e.g., Koreans in Centreville, hispanics in Annandale). I have no idea how any of these ethnicities feel about LGBT issues, but you might. And you're probably better off closer to DC (e.g., Arlington) than farther out (more conventional families). Other than that, most places in NOVA are probably the same.

My Two Cents Wrote:
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> Well, you can probably tell by now that most
> posters here are homophobic assholes. I don't
> believe that they represent the majority of people
> in Fairfax County.
>

You can also probably tell by now that in addition to the assholes there are a fair number brainwashed morons.

They're easy to identify, they use liberal groupthink terms like "homophobic".

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>
> I hope this is a joke. If you honestly believe
> being gay is a choice you must be a repressed
> homosexual because no real straight man would find
> gay sex appealing in anyway. Keep pushing those
> feelings down.


You, sir, have bought in to the homosexual agenda, where anything that feels good must be ok, a message reinforced by demanding that it be accepted by everyone else. Homosexuality is as natural as pedophilia or the urge to beat the crap out of someone. Self-control is what keeps us free.

These two and their child (who is forced to accept their lifestyle) are free to do what they want behind their bedroom door, but don't move here expecting us to change our values for you.

There really aren't any areas in fairfax that are goign to be gay friendly. No matter where you go, your kids are going to get picked on, regardless of the area, because kids are just terrible monsters.
Arlington is probably the most socially progressive part of NoVA, but it's getting very expensive, and they're gentrifying the place at high speed. They also have a system of alternative schools there your kids might be interested in. They're not for kids who like to start fires and carry switchblades, they're for kids who don't deal with structure and traditional schooling very well.
You'd be much better off checking out city-data or dc urban moms and dads to get a more direct answer

You shouldn't encounter much trouble around the area, this isn't rural America and most rednecks can't afford to live around here. The county population is educated, not religious, and pretty liberal. Even the Republicans you meet are intelligent and not dumb teabagging hicks like you find down south or in the midwest. There's probably no gay community but you're better off here than moving to some small town full of ignorant white trash and your typical intolerant jesus-retards.

Best of luck.

KVM Wrote:
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> You shouldn't encounter much trouble around the
> area, this isn't rural America and most rednecks
> can't afford to live around here. The county
> population is educated, not religious, and pretty
> liberal. Even the Republicans you meet are
> intelligent and not dumb teabagging hicks like you
> find down south or in the midwest. There's
> probably no gay community but you're better off
> here than moving to some small town full of
> ignorant white trash and your typical intolerant
> jesus-retards.
>
> Best of luck.

I hope you were being ironic.

What an isolated little bubble you must live in.

I pity you.

Resident. Wrote:
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> Grossed Out Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Steve P. Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > My partner and I are planning on moving here
> to
> > > Fairfax for his new job and are trying to
> find
> > the
> > > best neighborhood to riase our kids.
> Preferably
> > a
> > > safe area, more liberal and accepting
> schools,
> > > etc.. Any suggestions would be fabulous!
> >
> > It's your choice to be a butt-fuckin' fag, but
> > subjecting a child to your behavior is wrong
> and
> > they will suffer because you choose to act that
> > way because you can. Grow a real set of balls,
> > and go through what the rest of us have to do
> to
> > court a woman.
> >
> > Or move to California.
>
>
> I hope this is a joke. If you honestly believe
> being gay is a choice you must be a repressed
> homosexual because no real straight man would find
> gay sex appealing in anyway. Keep pushing those
> feelings down.

Being gay is a choice for many homosexuals. Cynthia Nixon claimed it was a choice for her. How ignorant are you?

I would advise against moving to this area. There is a local contractor who is the brother-in-law of the assistant police chief. This contractor has been hiring gay and lesbians and then murdering them prior to the end of job to avoid paying them and to further his evil homophobic agenda.

Back the way you came!

Copied from http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/40/807603.html:


"Remember when “gay” meant “happy”? If you said yes, fuck you. Gay today means getting slapped in the face with peniseseseesseses and liking it. That was not a spelling mistake, just a lot of cock. There was once a time where homos kept it to themselves, or moved to San Francisco. Now everywhere you look is gay, gay, gay. Gyms, airport restrooms, Abercrombie and Fitch, catholic churches, but worst of all, television. The last bastion of truth has been infested with cum guzzlers. Will and Grace, Modern Family, Six Feet Under, Hannity and Colmes, and many more shows are teaching our youth that it is okay to be themselves. Stop it! If you enjoy the loving caress of strong, warm, passionate hands while listening to Andrea Bocelli while laying atop Egyptian cotton and he whispers “our love should not be a secret” in your ear, and you swell up, a single tear rolling down your cheek, your loin burning, swelling, becoming… Wait, where was I, oh yes, gay is just wrong. The only man that should have two dads is Jesus. Now I am not saying that it is wrong to masturbate to videos of Newt Gingrich debating, but it is wrong to act on it. You may have noticed that I have not mentioned two women in the act of love. This is because there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It is very natural."

That being said, Huntington Metro area is very convenient.

"You, sir, have bought in to the homosexual agenda, where anything that feels good must be ok, a message reinforced by demanding that it be accepted by everyone else. Homosexuality is as natural as pedophilia or the urge to beat the crap out of someone. Self-control is what keeps us free."

1. You admit that it "feels good".
2. You say that you have to use "self-control".

http://google.com/flights/?hl=en#search;f=IAD;t=SFO;q=dulles+airport+to+san+francisco;d=2012-02-09;r=2012-02-13;s=0

You can find accepting neighborhoods in Fairfax County, but you don't mention how old your kids are. If they are as young as preschool age then I would seriously consider Arlington County; North Arlington being somewhat better than South Arlington. With only a little searching you will find gay-friendly preschools, sports teams. playgroups, churches, and eventually HB-Woodlawn for high school. It's an amazing place to grow up.

A quick shortcut to finding acceptance in Fairfax County is to move to a mid-century modern neighborhood. There are only a few but the architecture attracts a much broader-minded class of people: artists, photographers, and yes, suburban gay families. Look through moderncapitoldc.com for possibilities. Good luck.

While I agree that North Arlington is a great place for the LGBT I dismiss your gayness of mid-century. Please.

What are the hotspots for cruising around Fairfax? Other than the glory hole at kilroys, but its only good on Wednesdays for some reason. Where else can us fags get some fun witgout going.g to Dc?

Now when I was boy, my pastor taught me the evils of secular society. So naturally I don't appreciate all this talk of giving homoseculars rights or any of that mumbo jumbo. And I am not at all for letting these homoseculars ruin the sanctity of marriage. I say us Americans don't need no secular nothing, what happened to the God fearing family man?

God made everyone. Stop the hate and judgement.

choice Wrote:
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> Being gay is a choice for many homosexuals.
> Cynthia Nixon claimed it was a choice for her.
> How ignorant are you?


You know, if you're saying you believe sexual orientation is chosen, then you're saying that you believe you could choose to partake in an emotionally and sexually gratifying relationship with someone of your own sex.

So fine, call it choice. But that means you're fighting your interest in men and choosing to be heterosexual.

no fags in my backyward.....these fags have thin skin and always cry about the slightest thing that MAY seem anti-fag.

If you want liberal, go move to DC with the rest of the fags, tree huggers, niggers, illegals, and liberals.

nobody wants you here.

Libs and other big-government, busy-body, dictator-wannabe propopents should live in DC and MD. Freedom-loving people who take responsibility for themselves should live in VA.

Shame that the libs who've created the anti-business, job-killing policies of the Peoples Republik of Maryland and other lib strongholds are flocking to Virginia for jobs - where they will no doubt repeat their mistakes and elect more corrupt commie democraps and ruin it for everyone else.

!@#$ Wrote:
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> nobody wants you here.


So what is worse? Living next to a turd pusher or a towel head?

Honestly if you want to live openly and without scrutiny in a community while you take domicile with another male and raise kids then move to California.

Two Sandusky's raising a boy in a neighborhood should be scrutinized and not just over looked. Somethings are not only not PC, they are just wrong.

Having ghetto blacks or beaners of any kind is much worse, just destroys a neighborhood and kills property values.

BrandonGMU Wrote:
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> Having ghetto blacks or beaners of any kind is
> much worse, just destroys a neighborhood and kills
> property values.


...My partner is African American......

Welcome to the world of negro aids.

Steve P. Wrote:
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> ...My partner is African American......

So not only are you gay, but you're a race traitor too? I hope you're not the taker, but you probably are. Frickin' size queen.

marcust Wrote:
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> What are the hotspots for cruising around Fairfax?
> Other than the glory hole at kilroys, but its only
> good on Wednesdays for some reason. Where else can
> us fags get some fun witgout going.g to Dc?

now this one I can answer. Was at Spa World in Centerville. Middle of day. Men just looking around trying to make eye contact. Some with tatoos and displaying their junk so obviously - not even modestly - it is an obvious gay trolling grounds.

Being gay is a choice.

Im pretty sure most gays never had good/any relationships with the opposite sex while growing up. I believe that they were scared or uneasy around the opposite sex and took the easy route and went gay. When your gay your immediately accepted into a defined community and you being socially uneasy with the opposite sex is ok because everyone else there is too.

Fuck it. Gays are gay

Barbara Mikulski Wrote:
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> Shame that the libs who've created the
> anti-business, job-killing policies of the Peoples
> Republik of Maryland and other lib strongholds are
> flocking to Virginia for jobs - where they will no
> doubt repeat their mistakes and elect more corrupt
> commie democraps and ruin it for everyone else.

They're like locusts.

They vote for liberal politicians that ruin their state, then they move to another state and vote for the exact same kind of politicians.

isn't Herndon a gay friendly town boasting the first openly gay bar in fairfax county?

Darwin Wrote:
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> Being gay is a choice.

So you had to choose to be straight? Was it hard? Are you still attracted to men at all?

> Im pretty sure most gays never had good/any
> relationships with the opposite sex while growing
> up. I believe that they were scared or uneasy
> around the opposite sex and took the easy route
> and went gay. When your gay your immediately
> accepted into a defined community and you being
> socially uneasy with the opposite sex is ok
> because everyone else there is too.


That would make sense if it were uncommon for gay men to have female friends, however that's clearly not the case.

you should move to a more enlightened place, take it from me, living here with these low life closed minded right wing morons (read above) is all that I can take, I would get out if I could, but this is the headquarters of dumbasses, most of them are fat and stupid and no gay man would ever look their ways, as well as their wives who are seeking attention in alternate subdivisions.

Ding an sich Wrote:
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> > Im pretty sure most gays never had good/any
> > relationships with the opposite sex while
> growing
> > up. I believe that they were scared or uneasy
> > around the opposite sex and took the easy route
> > and went gay. When your gay your immediately
> > accepted into a defined community and you being
> > socially uneasy with the opposite sex is ok
> > because everyone else there is too.
>
>
> That would make sense if it were uncommon for gay
> men to have female friends, however that's clearly
> not the case.

Fag hags are a part of the defined community described above. They don't want to be intimate with the gay men, just get interior decorating tips from them.

FH Wrote:
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> Ding an sich Wrote:
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> -----
> > > Im pretty sure most gays never had good/any
> > > relationships with the opposite sex while
> > growing
> > > up. I believe that they were scared or uneasy
> > > around the opposite sex and took the easy
> route
> > > and went gay. When your gay your immediately
> > > accepted into a defined community and you
> being
> > > socially uneasy with the opposite sex is ok
> > > because everyone else there is too.
> >
> >
> > That would make sense if it were uncommon for
> gay
> > men to have female friends, however that's
> clearly
> > not the case.
>
> Fag hags are a part of the defined community
> described above. They don't want to be intimate
> with the gay men, just get interior decorating
> tips from them.


Whether what you've said is true is irrelevant. The claim was that gay men are 'socially uneasy' around the opposite sex.
This is obvious bull shit.

Ding an sich Wrote:
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> Whether what you've said is true is irrelevant.
> The claim was that gay men are 'socially uneasy'
> around the opposite sex.
> This is obvious bull shit.

There are too many variables at play here to draw a conclusion one way or another. They could have been socially uneasy around women before deciding to be gay and once they were comfortable being gay, they could then feel comfortable around women because there is no sexual tension or feelings of awkwardness.

FH Wrote:
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> Ding an sich Wrote:
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> > Whether what you've said is true is irrelevant.
> > The claim was that gay men are 'socially
> uneasy'
> > around the opposite sex.
> > This is obvious bull shit.
>
> There are too many variables at play here to draw
> a conclusion one way or another.



Actually, human sexuality isn't the mystery you make it out be.
There is nothing socially or psychologically wrong with homosexuals, and anyone that suggests otherwise is basing their claim purely on the unscientific.

Fort Belvoir post housing comes to mind. Apparently its okay now.

Lesbians - Welcome in my neighborhood, especially if they are cute. We all dream.

Gay Men - Not so. And if they bring a pre-teen boy with them, well, that's just creepy.

Bi - Make up your mind already, Charlie Brown.

Tranny - Not even welcome at Rocky Horror on Saturday night.

A few years ago some group did a study and found the gay population in Fairfax County was roughly 2%, well below other urban centers.

reality Wrote:
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> Lesbians - Welcome in my neighborhood, especially
> if they are cute. We all dream.
>
> Gay Men - Not so. And if they bring a pre-teen
> boy with them, well, that's just creepy.
>
> Bi - Make up your mind already, Charlie Brown.
>
> Tranny - Not even welcome at Rocky Horror on
> Saturday night.
>
> A few years ago some group did a study and found
> the gay population in Fairfax County was roughly
> 2%, well below other urban centers.

I was ready to completely agree with you, but then I thought about the inconsistency between your first and third point. It is the hope of #3 that leads to the dreaming in #1. Other than that, spot on analysis.

reality Wrote:
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> Lesbians - Welcome in my neighborhood, especially
> if they are cute. We all dream.

Who told you that YOU were 'welcome' in your neighborhood?

Tell straight people to stop having gay kids then you fucking prick!

If you come across a neighborhood that does roll out the red carpet for them then please notify the justice department and a hate crime investigation will be started.

I here Rose Hill is very diverse and accommodating to everyone.

vienna, arlington, or some parts of falls church.

gay fags gaily fagging up the faggy gay fag area of gay fags church

I personally welcome you to Fairfax County and hope you find a welcoming and accepting neighborhood. I agree I don't see too many gays and lesbian couples around here, but I welcome them and wish there were more of them. The neighborhood you choose will be a crapshoot because so much is dependent on one's immediate neighbors. You could live in a very accepting loving area, but have an ignorant homophobe next door. Thismgoes for everyone. Scope out your potential neighbors, folks.

I would look into fairfax city, Clifton, and Burke. Others will argument, but I've found am lot of open minded people in these areas.

If you're a liberal escaping the anti-business, no-jobs environment of your hometown created by years of voting for leftwing politicians, then by all means move here and help me bring the same failed policies to Northern Virginia!

Gays are preferable to any immigrant third world mutant, so yeah, welcome to the neighborhood, colon cowboys.

Our neighborhood has fundamentalist Mooslims living next to two fags. The fags have a pool and host Saturday night oil parties on the pool deck. It's funny to see the oiled queers dancing while the burqa-clad terrorists spin their heads! I'm not sure who I hate more!

Get a big ass parcel of land and don''t worry about your immediate neighbors.

Unless the kid is afraid of mice and spiders......

Hard to Choose Wrote:
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> Our neighborhood has fundamentalist Mooslims
> living next to two fags. The fags have a pool and
> host Saturday night oil parties on the pool deck.
> It's funny to see the oiled queers dancing while
> the burqa-clad terrorists spin their heads! I'm
> not sure who I hate more!


so from your own words, we see that you apparently watch oiled men dance EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT!?!?!?


your own words, yo..................... Hope you enjoy yourself again this Saturday LoLz

Move in next to us. Please.

We're in a nice subdivision in Fairfax relatively near Clifton and Fairfax Station. There's a house for sale across from us. It's priced over $500,000. But it seems that the only people looking at it are rednecks with pickup trucks and tuned mufflers. We have a nice, quiet black family a few yards away, and some other friendly folks. We'd welcome a nice couple with some kids. Please buy it before a family of mullet-heads with their firecrackers, pickup trucks, a pet pitbull or two, etc., decides it's for them.