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Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: doesntmatter ()
Date: November 21, 2019 01:10PM

Just for transparency, a little bit of basic info on me so my message is not deemed to be from some loser who can't find a date. I am 43, swm, 6'1" tall, athletic, considered average/handsome, white collar professional with a salary of $140k.

I used to do online dating a lot in the past and it really is my fault that I didn't settle down with some of the great women online. But online dating has changed in the last 10 years. I think it's nearly impossible to find an authentic profile of an attractive, fairly normal woman. From my recent jump back into the cesspool of online dating, I have found nothing but fake profiles and scammers. I am amazed at the number of prostitutes and women (likely men posing) who are trying to scam money.

The funny thing is that I hear women say they are successful with online dating. I ask them why they aren't in a relationship or married then. Deer in headlights look as their response. Of the 1 in a thousand real profiles, I see fat women who call themselves average or athletic. Really, that size 16 is average? Wow, I guess lardass is now the norm. And, hold on a second. You work retail as well? What a catch. Where do I sign up? I mean, you have demanded your date be tall, athletic, successful, and a fucking prince charming but you don't have any qualities even close to deserving what you demand.

I think sticking to the bar scene is probably the best bet for me. At least there are no filters misrepresenting your appearance.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Normal dude ()
Date: November 21, 2019 02:15PM

What sites are you using? I think that has a lot to do with the quality of the searches and membership. Match was good years ago, Plenty of Fish was always awful etc... If you're in the hunt for real, you need a site that is going to have some barriers to entry - like paying a few bucks. Match usually managed to get scammers flagged pretty quickly. I don't know about the newer sites.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: doesntmatter ()
Date: November 21, 2019 02:23PM

Normal dude Wrote:
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> What sites are you using? I think that has a lot
> to do with the quality of the searches and
> membership. Match was good years ago, Plenty of
> Fish was always awful etc... If you're in the hunt
> for real, you need a site that is going to have
> some barriers to entry - like paying a few bucks.
> Match usually managed to get scammers flagged
> pretty quickly. I don't know about the newer
> sites.

Match used to be great. But they don't have the same quality assurance they once had. There are so many pics with embedded out of state/country tel numbers. Match used to catch stuff like that. I have done match, ok cupid, pof but that's about it lately. I see the same profiles on all 3 sites. POF implemented a cell phone number requirement but any scammer can get a $20 throw away cell phone. In defense of the few normal women on sites, I know they get about a bazillion emails a day. A female friend of mine is online and she gets inundated with emails. She is a 5 in my book and gets email dry humped all day long. She showed me the emails. 60% were actually nice guys. The other 40% were assholes basically calling her a slut for absolutely no reason.

If you or anyone knows a straight dating site where the ratio isn't 1000:1 men to women, I'd be curious to check it out. Thanks.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Steve D ()
Date: November 21, 2019 03:33PM

This area is loaded with good finds on the female front. There are lots of gals in their 30's and up - that make money, are intelligent, not high maintenance and would make decent partners. No idea where they are online, but this part of the country is about as good as it gets if that's what you're looking for.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: doesntmatter ()
Date: November 21, 2019 03:38PM

Steve D Wrote:
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> This area is loaded with good finds on the female
> front. There are lots of gals in their 30's and
> up - that make money, are intelligent, not high
> maintenance and would make decent partners. No
> idea where they are online, but this part of the
> country is about as good as it gets if that's what
> you're looking for.

Statistically, I think you're right. I have heard it's about 60/40 women to men. But I'm not seeing it even closely represented on dating sites. I read an article about the DC area being one of the top dating metros in the country filled with single people, and skewed in the male's favor. But the article also said it's tough here because people tend to be busy and transient.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: yep ()
Date: November 21, 2019 03:45PM

I routinely go through the entire deck on Tinder and Bumble with no luck. I've had a few dates but, not settling w any fatties. The scammers are pretty easy to find ie they write their age as 40 and they look 25.

If you have some time to waste keep at it, if not the bar scene is doable but, you have the downfall of not knowing how many kids, education, where they live although, that's meeting someone at the bar is for...good luck in the quest

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: another idea ()
Date: November 21, 2019 05:38PM

Found mine on Match some years ago. While I wouldn't trade her in, I will say there were some women on there that seriously had their shit together. The beauty of the online thing is that you can rule out lots and lots of gals quickly on politics, worldview, statistical stuff and a host of other crap that it may take several dates to figure out. It's just more efficient.

Another angle is common interest stuff. Doing a tennis social, wine gatherings, hiking groups etc... If it's something you like, they are probably doing it because they like it also. That lets you get a good look at them and interact without the overhang of it being a date.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Drunk Hobag ()
Date: November 21, 2019 05:48PM

Sure looks a lot different than what the drama department of the Democrats dressed her up for the Kavanaugh hearings.
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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: AnotherBrickInTheWallPt4 ()
Date: November 21, 2019 06:04PM


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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: UYVNB ()
Date: November 21, 2019 09:15PM

If you're going on there to find a super model or A list actress quality chick, you're setting yourself up for a disappointment.

You can duck the scammers and prossies fast. As soon as they mention "generosity" or words similar, you poof.

Now, if you're willing to settle for a chick with a few lbs missing or a few extra who's not one of the Lee sisters, you'll do OK.

I'm 26. I met my current GF on line. I didn't let it bother me she was 37 had mild crow's feet, a few streaks of gray & about 15 extra lbs.

I've cut way back on my beer consumption because when I get home, this chick attacks me, rips my clothes off and is almost insatiable.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: GoodRuck ()
Date: November 21, 2019 09:20PM

I have had amazing luck on Tinder. 2 or more times a week Amazing, and plentiful Easy, and sometimes seconds and thirds times a (deep) try. Quick and easy fun. I am in good shape.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: jdajhcwgh ()
Date: November 21, 2019 09:26PM

GoodRuck Wrote:
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> I have had amazing luck on Tinder. 2 or more
> times a week Amazing, and plentiful Easy, and
> sometimes seconds and thirds times a (deep) try.
> Quick and easy fun. I am in good shape.

Do you people read what you write before posting?

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: 97% Chance ()
Date: November 21, 2019 09:44PM

>Doing a tennis social, wine gatherings, hiking groups etc..

She's a liberal Democrat who will want to rule you . In 7 years you will be in divorce court

If she votes Republican and makes her own money enjoys cooking home vegetable gardens DIY home improvements painting off road riding dirt bikes 4 wheelers home brewing water skiing power boating bowling target shooting handguns rifles and shotguns Nascar fishing crabbing hunting camping the beach and mountains helping you work on the cars and trucks bicycling swimming exercise walking and getting dirty with a occasional beer blast time with both of your friends she's a keeper young men if she can cook good

DAJAX

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: what da fuck ()
Date: November 21, 2019 09:55PM

97% Chance Wrote:
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> >Doing a tennis social, wine gatherings, hiking
> groups etc..
>
> She's a liberal Democrat who will want to rule you
> . In 7 years you will be in divorce court
>
> If she votes Republican and makes her own money
> enjoys cooking home vegetable gardens DIY home
> improvements painting off road riding dirt bikes 4
> wheelers home brewing water skiing power boating
> bowling target shooting handguns rifles and
> shotguns Nascar fishing crabbing hunting camping
> the beach and mountains helping you work on the
> cars and trucks bicycling swimming exercise
> walking and getting dirty with a occasional beer
> blast time with both of your friends she's a
> keeper young men if she can cook good
>
> DAJAX


Pat, I'll buy 7 commas and 3 periods for $200 please.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: I call bullshit.. ()
Date: November 21, 2019 10:02PM

GoodRuck Wrote:
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> I have had amazing luck on Tinder. 2 or more
> times a week Amazing, and plentiful Easy, and
> sometimes seconds and thirds times a (deep) try.
> Quick and easy fun. I am in good shape.


If you have no standards this is definitely possible, but Tinder is full of fat whales.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: VGH Supervisor of Operations ()
Date: November 21, 2019 10:10PM

I am sincerely sorry for the temporary difficulties you have experienced.

Please rest assured that Vienna Glory Holes, Vienna's 2018 Business of the Year, is available to serve you 24 hours each day and 7 days each week.

You can contact us for service at Plaka, Church St. Pizza, Amphira, the Dollar Store, Night Dreams and the caboose.

We can happily and professionally assist you as you navigate you temporary dry spell.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: jsdafjhfseg ()
Date: November 21, 2019 10:31PM

I call bullshit.. Wrote:
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> GoodRuck Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > I have had amazing luck on Tinder. 2 or more
> > times a week Amazing, and plentiful Easy,
> and
> > sometimes seconds and thirds times a (deep) try.
>
> > Quick and easy fun. I am in good shape.
>
>
> If you have no standards this is definitely
> possible, but Tinder is full of fat whales.


True anyone can go bottom fishing

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: VGH Supervisor of Operations ()
Date: November 21, 2019 11:57PM

I am sincerely sorry for the temporary difficulties you have experienced.

Please rest assured that Vienna Glory Holes, Vienna's 2018 Business of the Year, is available to serve you 24 hours each day and 7 days each week.

You can contact us for service at Plaka, Church St. Pizza, Amphira, the Dollar Store, Night Dreams and the caboose.

We can happily and professionally assist you as you navigate you temporary dry spell.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: VGH Patron ()
Date: November 22, 2019 06:44AM

Fuckin a. VGH is the best. Hands down, er, pants down.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Michael331 ()
Date: November 26, 2019 08:20AM

Well, I wouldn't call it a disaster... When I was pretty interesting to meet a woman, first of all I've search for Russian women, cause a friend of mine said they can be pretty interesting and hot. Searched for dozens of websites and, well, a lot of dating websites do not suggest you a real thing, but only beautiful pictures, don't they? Of course there are also great exclusions like this one great ( here: https://russian-woman-dating.com/ ) dating website, where you always can find a real woman. But a lot of websites only with beautiful words and pictures of girls, who can be not even Russian, hah. You always have to check it and re-check it.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: jsadfjgfeg ()
Date: November 26, 2019 02:48PM

Michael331 Wrote:
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> Well, I wouldn't call it a disaster... When I was
> pretty interesting to meet a woman, first of all
> I've search for Russian women, cause a friend of
> mine said they can be pretty interesting and hot.
> Searched for dozens of websites and, well, a lot
> of dating websites do not suggest you a real
> thing, but only beautiful pictures, don't they? Of
> course there are also great exclusions like this
> one great ( here:
> https://russian-woman-dating.com/ ) dating
> website, where you always can find a real woman.
> But a lot of websites only with beautiful words
> and pictures of girls, who can be not even
> Russian, hah. You always have to check it and
> re-check it.


Russian women are cold, robotic, atm-robbing machines

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: mahdi key aches muk muddd ()
Date: November 26, 2019 05:41PM

"am 43, swm, 6'1" tall, athletic, considered average/handsome, white collar professional with a salary of $140k."

typing lame shit like this isn't going to help you get bitches

bitches like to chase a man...bitches want a man who has other things on his mind other than bitches

no way she could ever think she chasing you with you giving a resume like a lost puppy dog?

buck up!

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Pointer outer of things ()
Date: November 26, 2019 05:56PM

what da fuck Wrote:
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> 97% Chance Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > >Doing a tennis social, wine gatherings, hiking
> > groups etc..
> >
> > She's a liberal Democrat who will want to rule
> you
> > . In 7 years you will be in divorce court
> >
> > If she votes Republican and makes her own money
> > enjoys cooking home vegetable gardens DIY home
> > improvements painting off road riding dirt bikes
> 4
> > wheelers home brewing water skiing power
> boating
> > bowling target shooting handguns rifles and
> > shotguns Nascar fishing crabbing hunting
> camping
> > the beach and mountains helping you work on the
> > cars and trucks bicycling swimming exercise
> > walking and getting dirty with a occasional
> beer
> > blast time with both of your friends she's a
> > keeper young men if she can cook good
> >
> > DAJAX
>
>
> Pat, I'll buy 7 commas and 3 periods for $200
> please.


It's DAJAX. Ya' jus' gotta' take him the way he comes.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: NUF6K ()
Date: November 26, 2019 10:12PM

doesntmatter Wrote:
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> Just for transparency, a little bit of basic info
> on me so my message is not deemed to be from some
> loser who can't find a date. I am 43, swm, 6'1"
> tall, athletic, considered average/handsome, white
> collar professional with a salary of $140k.
>
> I used to do online dating a lot in the past and
> it really is my fault that I didn't settle down
> with some of the great women online. But online
> dating has changed in the last 10 years. I think
> it's nearly impossible to find an authentic
> profile of an attractive, fairly normal woman.
> From my recent jump back into the cesspool of
> online dating, I have found nothing but fake
> profiles and scammers. I am amazed at the number
> of prostitutes and women (likely men posing) who
> are trying to scam money.
>
> The funny thing is that I hear women say they are
> successful with online dating. I ask them why they
> aren't in a relationship or married then. Deer in
> headlights look as their response. Of the 1 in a
> thousand real profiles, I see fat women who call
> themselves average or athletic. Really, that size
> 16 is average? Wow, I guess lardass is now the
> norm. And, hold on a second. You work retail as
> well? What a catch. Where do I sign up? I mean,
> you have demanded your date be tall, athletic,
> successful, and a fucking prince charming but you
> don't have any qualities even close to deserving
> what you demand.
>
> I think sticking to the bar scene is probably the
> best bet for me. At least there are no filters
> misrepresenting your appearance.

If you're so great, you should be able to find a chick in the real world.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: qusserel ()
Date: February 04, 2020 11:15AM

Interesting situation. My experience of online dating was another and quite good.
Perhaps the experience depends on the site you used. In the beginning, I also suffered many failures. Now I am more than satisfied with the development of events. I am currently using https://hookupmasters.com/adult-dating-sites/xmilfs-review/ with this dating site. Maybe you should try it.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/13/2020 11:40AM by qusserel.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: judge judy ()
Date: February 04, 2020 07:38PM

I have no problem with online dating but I'm a chick.

Some pointers:

Be polite, ask questions, ask her out sooner than later, ask to meet for coffee or a drink, dress nice.

Do not: Ask her for a second date in person, text her more than once after the date or come on strong

Play for the long game. I like Bumble. Just be you!

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: doesntmatter ()
Date: February 05, 2020 01:12PM

NUF6K Wrote:
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> doesntmatter Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Just for transparency, a little bit of basic
> info
> > on me so my message is not deemed to be from
> some
> > loser who can't find a date. I am 43, swm, 6'1"
> > tall, athletic, considered average/handsome,
> white
> > collar professional with a salary of $140k.
> >
> > I used to do online dating a lot in the past
> and
> > it really is my fault that I didn't settle down
> > with some of the great women online. But online
> > dating has changed in the last 10 years. I
> think
> > it's nearly impossible to find an authentic
> > profile of an attractive, fairly normal woman.
> > From my recent jump back into the cesspool of
> > online dating, I have found nothing but fake
> > profiles and scammers. I am amazed at the
> number
> > of prostitutes and women (likely men posing)
> who
> > are trying to scam money.
> >
> > The funny thing is that I hear women say they
> are
> > successful with online dating. I ask them why
> they
> > aren't in a relationship or married then. Deer
> in
> > headlights look as their response. Of the 1 in
> a
> > thousand real profiles, I see fat women who
> call
> > themselves average or athletic. Really, that
> size
> > 16 is average? Wow, I guess lardass is now the
> > norm. And, hold on a second. You work retail as
> > well? What a catch. Where do I sign up? I mean,
> > you have demanded your date be tall, athletic,
> > successful, and a fucking prince charming but
> you
> > don't have any qualities even close to
> deserving
> > what you demand.
> >
> > I think sticking to the bar scene is probably
> the
> > best bet for me. At least there are no filters
> > misrepresenting your appearance.
>
> If you're so great, you should be able to find a
> chick in the real world.

I can. But I am also busy with work and the bar scene is loud, filled with asshole guys, and is generally not a good place to get to know somebody. But your point is valid, I don't disagree.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: DC Monday night ()
Date: February 06, 2020 06:27AM

Fuck online dating faggot.
Hit dc on Monday nights.
Don’t drive, take uber black.
14th street has a bar called “Barcelona wine club” that is packed to the gills with pussy.
Most guys in dc are closet homos and brag about politics and law and bullshit.
Make sure you goto HER place if you’re married.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: DJW6V ()
Date: February 08, 2020 12:49AM

DC Monday night Wrote:
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>
>
> Don’t drive, take uber black.
> 14th street has a bar called “Barcelona wine
> club” that is packed to the gills with pussy.
>
>
>


What if you like beer & not wine?

What kind of Uber do you take when you leave?

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: mahhhhdiiii ()
Date: February 09, 2020 11:03AM

doesntmatter Wrote:
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> Just for transparency, a little bit of basic info
> on me so my message is not deemed to be from some
> loser who can't find a date. I am 43, swm, 6'1"
> tall, athletic, considered average/handsome, white
> collar professional with a salary of $140k.
>
> I used to do online dating a lot in the past and
> it really is my fault that I didn't settle down
> with some of the great women online. But online
> dating has changed in the last 10 years. I think
> it's nearly impossible to find an authentic
> profile of an attractive, fairly normal woman.
> From my recent jump back into the cesspool of
> online dating, I have found nothing but fake
> profiles and scammers. I am amazed at the number
> of prostitutes and women (likely men posing) who
> are trying to scam money.
>
> The funny thing is that I hear women say they are
> successful with online dating. I ask them why they
> aren't in a relationship or married then. Deer in
> headlights look as their response. Of the 1 in a
> thousand real profiles, I see fat women who call
> themselves average or athletic. Really, that size
> 16 is average? Wow, I guess lardass is now the
> norm. And, hold on a second. You work retail as
> well? What a catch. Where do I sign up? I mean,
> you have demanded your date be tall, athletic,
> successful, and a fucking prince charming but you
> don't have any qualities even close to deserving
> what you demand.
>
> I think sticking to the bar scene is probably the
> best bet for me. At least there are no filters
> misrepresenting your appearance.


nigga....bitches don't like dudes who give a fuck about bitches, and they generally run game on them....they say they do, but thats part of the game...they don't...your first mistake is you actually care about what a bitch thinks....women have a built in biological need to chase a man...

"I am 43, swm, 6'1"
> tall, athletic, considered average/handsome, white
> collar professional with a salary of $140k."

cee, this right here...you gonna be food for sum succubus bitch who will drill her tenticles into you and suck your lifeforce dry

work on perfecting yourself and stop typing this faggot shit and the bitches will be knocking on your door with no effort on your part

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Trump Stumped the Chumps . ()
Date: February 09, 2020 12:00PM

I am 54 years old, live in my parent's basement and I worship Trump. I also have a convection toaster oven and a mini fridge. Should I try online dating?

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Dr. Remulak ()
Date: February 09, 2020 12:31PM

Trump Stumped the Chumps . Wrote:
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> I am 54 years old, live in my parent's basement
> and I worship Trump. I also have a convection
> toaster oven and a mini fridge. Should I try
> online dating?

Yes, give it a try. There’s a lid for every pot. Thanks for the glue tip for catching basement crickets.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: UltraRight ()
Date: February 13, 2020 09:41AM

I don't know. I feel like it all depends on where you are logged and what type of an arrangement you are looking for. I am a 38 year old white collar professional like you and I have been dating online for a while now. To be 100% honest I am not looking for something serious atm. I feel like my life is good as it is and I just want a pretty girl who is going to be this young arm candy of mine until we get tired of each other. (I know that a lot of you will say I am dumb but it works for me so I am okay with that). So yeah you can consider me a sugar daddy. My current girl and I met on one of the many sugar baby sites where you can find a girl that will do exactly as you want her to do. I am very happy with my current bae (she is sweet and nice and not as shallow as I expected) and I genuinely want to give her things and take her places. So I feel like it all depends on your outlook.



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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Trump is a NAZI Sympathizer! ()
Date: February 13, 2020 10:08AM

Join athletic social groups on Meetup. The more athletic the group the better. Runners, hikers, kayakers. The athletic groups weed out all the fat women. Also, athletic groups love to fuck and have orgies. I went to a party after a run and half the women from the run were drunk and naked in the hot tub. Even women making out with other women.


I've also found that professional groups are good for meeting women. I've picked up a ton of married women at Chamber of Commerce events.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: communication differences ()
Date: February 13, 2020 11:21AM

judge judy Wrote:
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> Do not: text
> her more than once after the date or come on
> strong

I'm a guy so I naturally hate texting, but everyone is different. I know some girls who would absolutely hate not getting a bunch of text messages after a date. At most I'll send "hope you made it home safe, had a lot of fun, blah blah" and end it there.

Now the tricky part is timing the next text. The worst is if I get a "good morning" the day after a first date, WTF! Am I in the wrong for hating that kinda shit? I may text a day or two after, but usually something funny, none of that good morning bullshit.

At the end of the day everyone has different communication preferences, some people love texting all day while others hate it.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: etdpn ()
Date: February 13, 2020 12:51PM

"I am so great. Why is it all the people I meet online are unattractive losers." Maybe the OP needs to admit that he isn't really all that great, and he's getting exactly the type of women who are looking for a guy with his profile. 43, still single and narcicistic with an only slightly better than average income for the area, if he is being truthful. That is hardly the kind of profile that your typical hot 32 year old professional woman is going to be looking for. For a slightly overweight divorcee with two kids OROH he may be a great catch.

I am 62. Divorced 8 years. In good shape for my age, but realistically am average looking. Well off financially but don't advertize it. Not specifically looking to get married again. I am not the type of profile women who use online dating would be looking for. Even women my own age. Yet I have no problem finding great women to date through more traditional channels. Online dating searches tends to be superficial and emphasizes the ideal. If the man or women doesn't meet all the qualifications then flip to the next profile. And you wonder why people lie in their profiles.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: married guy ()
Date: February 13, 2020 03:02PM

etdpn Wrote:
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> "I am so great. Why is it all the people I meet
> online are unattractive losers." Maybe the OP
> needs to admit that he isn't really all that
> great, and he's getting exactly the type of women
> who are looking for a guy with his profile. 43,
> still single and narcicistic with an only slightly
> better than average income for the area, if he is
> being truthful. That is hardly the kind of
> profile that your typical hot 32 year old
> professional woman is going to be looking for.
> For a slightly overweight divorcee with two kids
> OROH he may be a great catch.
>
> I am 62. Divorced 8 years. In good shape for my
> age, but realistically am average looking. Well
> off financially but don't advertize it. Not
> specifically looking to get married again. I am
> not the type of profile women who use online
> dating would be looking for. Even women my own
> age. Yet I have no problem finding great women to
> date through more traditional channels. Online
> dating searches tends to be superficial and
> emphasizes the ideal. If the man or women doesn't
> meet all the qualifications then flip to the next
> profile. And you wonder why people lie in their
> profiles.

I might agree with you but for the fact that around here, a woman that's 32 would be lucky to find a white guy that's 43, slim and makes a decent salary.

They're well past their own birthing prime with about only 5 years left. And at that point wimmen are pretty desperate to find a life partner if that's what she's looking for.


I'm a 48, slim, athletic Fairfax County adult league soccer star with a full head of golden brown hair. I catch chicks of all ages giving me the eye so I know there's plenty out there. Sometimes I wish I wasn't married!

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: 5 Liter ()
Date: February 13, 2020 03:59PM

"a full head of golden brown hair"

Only a super faggity cuck says shit like that.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: #Nohomo ()
Date: February 14, 2020 08:16AM

5 Liter Wrote:
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> "a full head of golden brown hair"
>
> Only a super faggity cuck says shit like that.

OK in all honesty I'm greying at the temples a little. So I get the low fade and no one can tell.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Gaydar just went full tilt ()
Date: February 14, 2020 09:45AM

5 Liter Wrote:
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> "a full head of golden brown hair"
>
> Only a super faggity cuck says shit like that.




No kidding Lol. That guy is clearly a butt pirate.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: etdpn ()
Date: February 14, 2020 12:24PM

married guy Wrote:
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> I might agree with you but for the fact that
> around here, a woman that's 32 would be lucky to
> find a white guy that's 43, slim and makes a
> decent salary.

You remember that girl in high school. Smart, ambitious, hard working. Only so-so looking although she had the potential to look more attractive if she made an effort. A bit bitchy. Still thought she should be entitled to any A list guy in the school that she wanted, and looked down her nose at any non A list guy who showed an interest. She got into a good college, worked hard, graduated near the top of her class, and then got a good professional job. She's now 32, single, living in the DC area, making enough money to live on, and doesn't need a man to support her. She does still want a partner. She still doesn't think she should have to make an effort to look more attractive though, she still wants an A list guy and she won't give anyone else a shot. She's the type that gives 32 year old single women in this area who are looking for dates a bad name.

Her type isn't the only 32 year old available woman out there. However you don't get to be in your 30s and still be single without some flaws or baggage. That goes for men as well as women. Not saying if you are in that group you need to settle. You do need to be willing to overlook some things, even if you think you are better than 90% of the available men or women out there.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Ragman ()
Date: February 14, 2020 03:30PM

"a full head of golden brown hair"

Is this you?
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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Henry Genr ()
Date: May 12, 2020 07:00AM

I don't agree with you. In my opinion online dating is really good thing. Many people are alone and they usually shy to meet girls or boys for example on the streets or anywhere else. For such people dating online can bring many benefits. I usually spend time with Ukrainian girls on https://datejasmin.com/girls/ukrainian-female/kharkov/ website, just check these profiles!

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Antonio Horton ()
Date: May 12, 2020 08:35AM

Cut out carbs.
Start a watered down version of P90X.
Within 60 days, you can goto wegmans FAIRFAX and get bomb pussy.
Pussy you don’t have to wine and dine-they just come over to your house/shit condo near fair oaks mall/moldy condo in Reston....then they just grab their ankles.

Internet dating was fucked up 20yrs ago.
Can’t imagine the horror it is now.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Discerning AA ()
Date: May 13, 2020 07:23AM

You're just on the wrong site.

https://nova.bedpage.com/

Here is a site with plenty of women who are interested in dating you.

Check out the women seeking men section.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: Mark H Black ()
Date: May 22, 2020 03:04AM

Maybe you are right. Most of dating services are scum dump where the chance of a real match is literally close to zero and several digits after the point. But I honestly you just picked wrong applications. Try this https://www.wildspank.com for example. I’ve had several dates with girls from it and they were very nice!

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: doesntmatter ()
Date: May 22, 2020 02:56PM

I'm impressed this thread is still alive. I must have posted a hot topic. I haven't been around much lately; working way too much from home the last 10 weeks. I hope everyone is doing well and staying safe.

But I did just read through some of the advice. And, you're right. I guess I am flawed for caring too much. Oh well. I have been taking time for myself these last 10 weeks and focused on fitness outside of work. I am focused on taking my physical appearance to the next level. It's shallow as shit but I think you're right, not much matters if you are in perfect shape. Doors automatically open up to the beautiful people.

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Re: Online dating is a disaster
Posted by: ojasdbgh ()
Date: May 23, 2020 08:36AM

just find a avg cute nice girl and make sure she cums hard youll find she will follow you anywhere

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