The stigma of internet dating is passing quickly. In spite of the fact I haven't done it in quite some time, I'm sure defending it makes me sound like a total loser. Whatever.
Bars and churches were cited as bad places to meet women. I'm not the only person in the world who won't date someone I work with. I'm not currently going to college. My "hobbies" generally take place in bars. Is meeting someone on the internet any more lame than speed dating? Are you supposed to lurk in a grocery store or library, waiting for a cute girl to come along?
When you respond to an ad or a profile and try to initiate communication, it's actually a lot harder than real life. In a bar, I can sit down and strike up a conversation with a girl about her clothes, what's on TV, something I overheard her say, etc. You don't get that with internet dating; you get judged by your written word alone.
It's convenient in that you can get to know someone a little bit before you waste the time and money actually going out with them. It exposes you to far more people than you would ever normally meet in real life. Not everyone is interested in going to "the club" with their "bros."
Is internet dating any more degrading than this:
I say, "No. No it's not."
Craigslist has more than its fair share of the un-pretty, but saying that internet dating in general is strictly for losers and bottom-feeders is just stupid, especially considering the number of people that use the fucking internet.
Flame on!
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