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about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: needs to now ()
Date: June 04, 2019 12:21AM

Can anyone give me a brief rundown of the deal between Bob Malm and the other guy?

Man, does it seem like some of the other drama that has gone on here in recent years?

is eesh or any of those other characters involved?

Many thanks in advance

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Erik is Batshit Crazy ()
Date: June 04, 2019 09:42AM

Simple, Bob didn't want to put up with Erik's gay drama.

Told him to calm down or leave.

He didn't calm down, so Bob kicked him out.

Erik has been on a gay tizzy fit ever since and is obsessed 24/7 with Bob and his family.

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Truth
Posted by: Queen Bonetti ()
Date: June 04, 2019 10:07AM

Not quite true Eric left on his own! Fr. Bob didn’t kick out, Eric left on his own. He didn’t get what he wanted so he left, but all the rest of what you said Is true. He is definitely crazy!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: gracealexwatch ()
Date: June 04, 2019 02:50PM

Bob Malm, perjuring priest

Bob Malm, rector, Grace Episcopal Church

Visit www.gracealexwatch.org to learn more
Social media @gracealexwatch
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Re: Truth
Posted by: Wowza! ()
Date: June 04, 2019 02:57PM

Bob Malm says Eric’s a domestic terrorist. So I’m taking Malm at his word and steering clear of the palace. I mean, what if he brought in a gun and started shooting up the day school?

Queen Bonetti Wrote:
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> Not quite true Eric left on his own! Fr. Bob
> didn’t kick out, Eric left on his own. He
> didn’t get what he wanted so he left, but all
> the rest of what you said Is true. He is
> definitely crazy!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Queen Bonetti ()
Date: June 04, 2019 09:57PM

That text is bullshit! Not from any Peter at Grace Church! No that for a fact! If he tries telling y’all any different it’s another one of his crazy fantasies!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Actually.... ()
Date: June 05, 2019 10:17AM

From Peter Barnes, who had served the first previous year as senior warden and the chaired the personnel committee

Too bad, so sad, you have no idea what you are talking about

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: PS.... ()
Date: June 05, 2019 10:21AM

Anyone who doesn’t recognize the difference between “no” and “know” has very little credibility.

Queen Bonetti Wrote:
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> That text is bullshit! Not from any Peter at Grace
> Church! No that for a fact! If he tries telling
> y’all any different it’s another one of his
> crazy fantasies!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 05, 2019 10:29AM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: All U Need 2 Know ()
Date: June 05, 2019 10:49AM

You are attending a church. The church hires a priest that you cannot stand. Most sane people in America would simply pick up and move to a different church with a more acceptable priest. They wouldn't embark on a crusade to try and destroy the priest or the church they had just left. Yet what we have in the Malm drama is a former congregant who has chosen to embark on just such a crusade. Then having embarked on a war our crusader is shocked that the targets of his ire are fighting back as ferrociously as he is.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: outsider. ()
Date: June 05, 2019 10:50AM

PS.... Wrote:
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> Anyone who doesn’t recognize the difference
> between “no” and “know” has very little
> credibility.
>
> Queen Bonetti Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > That text is bullshit! Not from any Peter at
> Grace
> > Church! No that for a fact! If he tries telling
> > y’all any different it’s another one of his
> > crazy fantasies!

Same thing I thought. Still, it doesn't negate the fact that the guy stirring up all this drama is a fucking nut job!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Actually.... ()
Date: June 05, 2019 11:14AM

Bob Malm’s behavior long predates this dispute. In the words of one former assistant rector, “Bob has been getting away with murder for years.” Letting people know of that misconduct is appropriate; people have a right to know what they are getting into. That includes the fact that Malm lies under oath.

For the record, I am not shocked by Malm’s perjury or other abusive conduct. Far from it. His behavior is part of a larger, consistent pattern.

Bob Malm, perjuring priest



All U Need 2 Know Wrote:
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> You are attending a church. The church hires a
> priest that you cannot stand. Most sane people in
> America would simply pick up and move to a
> different church with a more acceptable priest.
> They wouldn't embark on a crusade to try and
> destroy the priest or the church they had just
> left. Yet what we have in the Malm drama is a
> former congregant who has chosen to embark on just
> such a crusade. Then having embarked on a war our
> crusader is shocked that the targets of his ire
> are fighting back as ferrociously as he is.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Queen Bonetti ()
Date: June 05, 2019 11:26AM

You are lying again! What else would you expect from a compulsive liar! Peter Barnes did not write that!! He was very surprised and disgusted by Eric’s behavior. Great friends with the Barnes and I know for a fact that this is another one of Eric’s fabrications. Showed him this post which has been repeated again and again for 3 1/2 years! Eric is crazy and not a stable person, which is quite obvious!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Gthtg ()
Date: June 05, 2019 11:45AM

This whole thing is like a car wreck, I have to slow down to watch. One man named Eric’s insanity on full display, and he doesn’t even know it. Pass the popcorn!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: All U Need 2 Know ()
Date: June 05, 2019 11:58AM

Nice try EB. There was no war involving Bob Malm until you started it.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Actually.... ()
Date: June 05, 2019 02:57PM

Once again, like most of the good Christians at Grace Church, you are full of shit. Peter sent the text after the infamous personnel committee meeting, with Elizabeth Legere and Anne Caputo in attendance, to discuss the office staff.

Instead of discussing the topic at hand, Bob cane after me. I left the meeting to show a home, and Bob was excoriated for his conduct.

Tellingly, the message has been shown to Bob on multiple occasions, including during discovery, yet has never challenged its validity. That is typical for Bob, who likes to ignore evidence of his own conduct, while making up lies, like his claim that my mom made appointments with him.

Doubt it? Ask Bob for ANY evidence to support his claim that Mom ever made an appointment with him, or anyone claiming to be her. He has none, despite making the claim under oath, because Bob lied. Pure and simple.

Bob lied.
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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Eric_Bonetti ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:00PM

PS If Bob wants to claim he didn’t commit perjury, he is more than welcome to try suing me for defamation.

Challenge on!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Grace Episcopal Alexandria ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:03PM

Welcome to Grace Church!

This sort of talk is how we live into our baptismal promises.

If you’d like to be part of things, join us at 10 AM on Sunday.

All are welcome!

Queen Bonetti Wrote:
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> You are lying again! What else would you expect
> from a compulsive liar! Peter Barnes did not write
> that!! He was very surprised and disgusted by
> Eric’s behavior. Great friends with the Barnes
> and I know for a fact that this is another one of
> Eric’s fabrications. Showed him this post which
> has been repeated again and again for 3 1/2 years!
> Eric is crazy and not a stable person, which is
> quite obvious!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: outsider. ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:03PM

Who gives a fuck whether or not the guy made an appointment with your mom? And even if he lied about it, so what, is that a crime? I'll answer for you, no it's not. Get your crazy fucked up ass off of this vendetta of yours and go do something useful with your life before you fuck yourself up further or endanger others.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Queen Bonetti ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:05PM

Knew you wouldn’t post the phone #, LIAR!!!!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Eric_Bonetti ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:17PM

Actually, lying under oath is a crime. It’s called perjury. While difficult to prosecute, it is nonetheless illegal. It also is — or should be — highly inappropriate for clergy, who according to canon law, are held to a higher standard.


Again, Bob is more than welcome to sue.

Challenge on! Time for Bob and the good Christians of Grace Church to put their money where their mouths are!
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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Malmites ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:30PM

Why do the Malmites lie about obvious shit? Like if he already had left the church, why did the priest send that email?

It’s like Trump. Malmites make up shit as they go then wonder why no one respects them.

Meanwhile their hateful responses show just what a fucked up church this really is. Like, every time they say something, they show the world why religion is a fraud.

Folks, you can love God without getting mixed up with the hypocrites in organized religion. Just say no to shit like the Malmite crap above. God doesn’t want you talking about other people like this.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Malmites 2 ()
Date: June 05, 2019 03:43PM

BTW, if ya’ll are so worried about people being “crazy,” do some good in the world and help people. Quit spending money on an expensive building and a priest who hasn’t taught you shit about God. Put the million a year it costs to keep that weird old pile open and spend the money on people in need. That’s what God really cares about...not getting shitfaced at Shrinemont and talking about other people like they are trash.

I bet not one of you assholes ever called Bonetti to ask what you can do to help fix things.

You’re liars and fakes and we see right through you and your so-called church.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Malmites 3 ()
Date: June 05, 2019 05:44PM

Final thought: If you want to impress me, act like Christians and fix thins with Bonetti. He’ll probably tell you to go fuck yourselves, with good reason, but at least you tried. While you’re at it, how do you think Mike S feels about you and your fucking shithole church? What does God think about the way you’ve treated Mike?

“...so also have you done to me.”

You people are pathetic.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Eric_Bonetti ()
Date: June 06, 2019 04:57AM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: outsider. ()
Date: June 06, 2019 11:30AM

Eric_Bonetti Wrote:
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> Actually, lying under oath is a crime. It’s
> called perjury. While difficult to prosecute, it
> is nonetheless illegal. It also is — or should
> be — highly inappropriate for clergy, who
> according to canon law, are held to a higher
> standard.

Can someone besides this whack job verify any of this? What does he mean lying under oath? Was there actually a court case where he lied on the stand? And was the lie really about whether or not he had a meeting with whack jobs mother? I've never seen anything quite like this. Entertaining, but sad.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: outsider. ()
Date: June 06, 2019 12:04PM

outsider. Wrote:
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> Eric_Bonetti Wrote:
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> -----
> > Actually, lying under oath is a crime. It’s
> > called perjury. While difficult to prosecute,
> it
> > is nonetheless illegal. It also is — or
> should
> > be — highly inappropriate for clergy, who
> > according to canon law, are held to a higher
> > standard.
>
> Can someone besides this whack job verify any of
> this? What does he mean lying under oath? Was
> there actually a court case where he lied on the
> stand? And was the lie really about whether or
> not he had a meeting with whack jobs mother? I've
> never seen anything quite like this.
> Entertaining, but sad.

Just realized my comment may be a bit confusing. When I say he I'm referring to the pastor or minister or whatever he's called. When I say whack job I'm referring to the drama queen that apparently has no life, guess his name is Eric.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: UHKNN ()
Date: June 06, 2019 12:20PM

One is batshit crazy and one is a man of sterling character. But, which is which?

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 06, 2019 06:14PM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 06, 2019 06:18PM


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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Condensed version ()
Date: June 06, 2019 06:34PM

Thanks to Erik Bonetti people who never heard of Malm feel sorry for him and people who never heard of Erik think he’s nuts.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 06, 2019 08:19PM

Bob Malm, perjuring priest

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 07, 2019 10:39AM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: outsider. ()
Date: June 07, 2019 11:01AM

Condensed version Wrote:
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> Thanks to Erik Bonetti people who never heard of
> Malm feel sorry for him and people who never heard
> of Erik think he’s nuts.

Truer words were never spoken!

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 07, 2019 11:20AM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: true dat ()
Date: June 07, 2019 12:58PM

outsider. Wrote:
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> Condensed version Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Thanks to Erik Bonetti people who never heard
> of
> > Malm feel sorry for him and people who never
> heard
> > of Erik think he’s nuts.
>
> Truer words were never spoken!

This^

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 07, 2019 01:18PM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: I agree ()
Date: June 07, 2019 01:59PM

true dat Wrote:
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> outsider. Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Condensed version Wrote:
> >
> --------------------------------------------------
>
> > -----
> > > Thanks to Erik Bonetti people who never heard
> > of
> > > Malm feel sorry for him and people who never
> > heard
> > > of Erik think he’s nuts.
> >
> > Truer words were never spoken!
>
> This^

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 07, 2019 02:31PM

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 08, 2019 09:56AM

Terrorists! In Grace Church! OMG!
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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: Bob Malm, perjuring priest ()
Date: June 08, 2019 02:45PM

Dysfunctional Bob. Coming soon to a news outlet near you!
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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: gracealexwatch ()
Date: June 10, 2019 06:14PM

Do members of Grace Church realize that they’re being filmed? As in, when they roll by and fire off the One-Gun Salute to Jesus, they’re being recorded and the footage is going on the web?

Just wondering.

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Re: about Bob Malm drama
Posted by: gracealexwatch ()
Date: June 11, 2019 09:58PM

Bob Malm, perjuring priest

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Social media @gracealexwatch
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