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I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Solitaryman ()
Date: February 17, 2018 11:24AM

Life has not gone as planned but this is the best I can do at this point. Anyone else lost?

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Bro ()
Date: February 17, 2018 11:29AM

See the thread about the wolf trap motel. Many others out there in similar circumstances. Just don’t take it out back at home.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Life.In.The.703 ()
Date: February 17, 2018 01:13PM

Getting married and having kids are big changes because previously the only person you were responsible to...was yourself. Now, you have these other people you have to make time for. Instead of getting off work and having the rest of the evening to myself, I have people depending on me to get home because I have responsibilities for.

But, you can't make others happy until you make yourself happy. There is no law requiring people to be married and many people lead perfectly happy lives without ever getting married.

You will always be responsible for your kids but, you don't owe you wife a thing...

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: 58 and fading fast ()
Date: February 17, 2018 01:25PM

Solitaryman Wrote:
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> Life has not gone as planned but this is the best
> I can do at this point. Anyone else lost?


Enjoy those kids my friend and savor every day.

When you get to my stage of life you will miss those kids. I am still working but my wife and I sold our family home and paid cash for a bungalow. The house is empty, I stay in the basement and she stays upstairs. Our kids are grown and working, they rarely come and see us. Our lives are empty, we have plenty of money but no desire to travel or buy anything other than basic need items. I wake up every morning pissed off at the fact that I lived through the night. I wish you the best of luck.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Child Support...... ()
Date: February 17, 2018 02:32PM

2 kids under 5 years old, and you are 42?

You are fucked when she dumps you for a 25 year old nog.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Soul Brother #1 ()
Date: February 18, 2018 08:21PM

Is behinds me child suport.
Judge say pay or u is jail!
I say fuk u 2 judge.
Brodner give me 2 year for contempt.
I’s writing from ADC!

Jay here, he hanging in Dere!

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Younger op ()
Date: February 18, 2018 08:40PM

Same scenario. Got the day off and 2 little kids and wife out for day... Except I'm 32.. Anyway, any suggestions on how to spend the day?

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: dick broker ()
Date: February 19, 2018 08:20AM

Younger op Wrote:
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> Same scenario. Got the day off and 2 little kids
> and wife out for day... Except I'm 32.. Anyway,
> any suggestions on how to spend the day?


Slit your wrists?

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: SorryBro ()
Date: February 19, 2018 09:02AM

Everyone feels down sometimes, and needs a break, reflect. That's good. But, overall, you have a job and you must do your job.

I agree with poster above: enjoy your kids. It goes by FAST. You think that you'll have them until 18 years old, but your relationship will really start to change significantly with them at 12/13/14, and by 15/16, they're gone. However, all 'n all, at that point, it hopefully will be a healthy time, when kids want to be independent, and to start to explore the world on their own. You will miss them a lot sooner than you think.

For now, place the kids in sports, house leagues are fine, playing sports, good family time, fun. (Side comment: Stay away from travel leagues run by parents because people around here are shameful, arrogant, and looney. If you do travel, make sure it's actually run by professionals with NO parent board due to cheating cliques, not good values, particularly in travel soccer). It gets out their energy, and hopefully teaches good values, lessons in life, how to win and lose, sportsmen/womenship.

The downside, however, is that you have loud-mouth-stay-at-home broads ("soccer moms") who get their frustrations out by yelling on the court/field. But the upside is that at least you can have your nagging wife join the Broad Squad, and bitch with them instead of at you. You should stay away from these women.

It is also important to take care of your marriage as well as your kids. It sounds like you married a stay at homer. It's a good lesson for others -- marry someone who is a fully developed, ambitious person, someone you can share a life with, have substantive/fun disagreements with, not someone who is looking to be dependent and whose goal is to live only in 4 square miles of her house and walk a dog.... (yay, ya... we know, you "love your kids," you "gave up a career" (hahaha!!) and your "busy" buying milk and "driving the kids everywhere" -- tired of patronizing these broads.)

Things will get better, I hope. As a Husband-Dad, it's your responsibility to raise these kids, teach them manners, keep them physically-emotionally healthy. After the youngest is 18, then you can re-evaluate your life and see what comes next. Until then, do your job, bro.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: single FTW ()
Date: February 19, 2018 09:06AM

This is why i stay single (but keep a FWB to feed that need).

- keep all my money (I might throw the FWB $100 in a card on holidays to be nice)

- do what i want when i want. No nagging spouse to tell me I can't just leave right now and go to Gino's Pat's one of them in Philly and get one wit wiz and come back in 5.5 hours- my personal record. (Waze says 3.5 hours to go right now).

- I can take off right now and go on vacation, with a spouse you have to coordinate with their schedule too.

- I don't have to waste a saturday afternoon shopping with the spouse. I just order everything on line. EVERYTHING. No need for me to leave the house outside work if i don't want to. Vidya and porn all day!! I do hit the gym frequently though.

-MOTHER/FATHER IN LAWS. THE LOSER RELATIVES OF YOUR SPOUSE THEY WILL NAG YOU TO GIVE MONEY TO HELP THEM OR A PLACE TO STAY DESTROYING YOUR PRIVACY (why can't we take my deadbeat drunk junkie brother in?? she starts crying and whining and being mad at you until you give in even though his problems have nothing to do with you personally.....he drives up your bils yet can't even help with rent and you have a hell of a time getting him out after the 30 days you agreed on he could stay it turns into 60,90, a year b/c spouse is crying) Nuff said.

Good luck with the marriages and screaming kids you all. I can just go back to bed right now, i know your wifey yelling at you to go cut the grass/fix whatever you said you would fix last week and the kids are nagging you right now.

But hey- you chose her to not be alone- and now you want to complain she is in your face 24-7? LMAOOOOOO

There are women out here ok with casual relationships- find one and be FREE. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? (or for the ladies/gay men, why buy the whole pig for a little sausage?)

Good luck you're gonna need it!

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: Useless ()
Date: February 19, 2018 10:20AM

single FTW Wrote:
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> This is why i stay single (but keep a FWB to feed
> that need).
>
> - keep all my money (I might throw the FWB $100 in
> a card on holidays to be nice)
>
> - do what i want when i want. No nagging spouse to
> tell me I can't just leave right now and go to
> Gino's Pat's one of them in Philly and get one wit
> wiz and come back in 5.5 hours- my personal
> record. (Waze says 3.5 hours to go right now).
>
> - I can take off right now and go on vacation,
> with a spouse you have to coordinate with their
> schedule too.
>
> - I don't have to waste a saturday afternoon
> shopping with the spouse. I just order everything
> on line. EVERYTHING. No need for me to leave the
> house outside work if i don't want to. Vidya and
> porn all day!! I do hit the gym frequently
> though.
>
> -MOTHER/FATHER IN LAWS. THE LOSER RELATIVES OF
> YOUR SPOUSE THEY WILL NAG YOU TO GIVE MONEY TO
> HELP THEM OR A PLACE TO STAY DESTROYING YOUR
> PRIVACY (why can't we take my deadbeat drunk
> junkie brother in?? she starts crying and whining
> and being mad at you until you give in even though
> his problems have nothing to do with you
> personally.....he drives up your bils yet can't
> even help with rent and you have a hell of a time
> getting him out after the 30 days you agreed on he
> could stay it turns into 60,90, a year b/c spouse
> is crying) Nuff said.
>
> Good luck with the marriages and screaming kids
> you all. I can just go back to bed right now, i
> know your wifey yelling at you to go cut the
> grass/fix whatever you said you would fix last
> week and the kids are nagging you right now.
>
> But hey- you chose her to not be alone- and now
> you want to complain she is in your face 24-7?
> LMAOOOOOO
>
> There are women out here ok with casual
> relationships- find one and be FREE. Why buy the
> cow when you can get the milk for free? (or for
> the ladies/gay men, why buy the whole pig for a
> little sausage?)
>
> Good luck you're gonna need it!

So basically you're self centered. Not the type of man upon which the future of a society is built.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: The brght side ()
Date: February 19, 2018 10:22AM

Hopefully, you can at least say that you're not a Republican.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: F g unin ()
Date: February 20, 2018 09:40PM

Hang in there bro. Like others have said, before you know it the kids are grown and you a trying to recall where the time went and regret the moments that you wasted.

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: alone and in the dark ()
Date: December 22, 2018 04:00AM

I am alone, in the dark at the wolftrap motel at 4 am posting on Fairfax underground. I am probably not leaving this room for at least the next 48 hours. My life sucks really bad. I have two cases of beer with me and some beef jerky and bread. What now?

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Re: I’m 42 years old, nagging wife and two obnoxious under five kids in dc for the day. I’m wandering the woods with my dog and drinking beer.
Posted by: White man ()
Date: December 22, 2018 05:52AM

alone and in the dark Wrote:
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> I am alone, in the dark at the wolftrap motel at 4
> am posting on Fairfax underground. I am probably
> not leaving this room for at least the next 48
> hours. My life sucks really bad. I have two cases
> of beer with me and some beef jerky and bread.
> What now?
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