Re: Big O and Dukes
Date: June 05, 2009 02:23PM
FurfaxTownie Wrote:
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> Per yesterdays discussion on girlfirends who of
> guy friends. I never trust those guys who only
> hang out with girls and why do girls hang out with
> those guys, They always seem sleazy.
Oddly enough, this was the one time I turned on the radio in the past 6 months, and this was the only thing I listened to.
I have a lot of female friends that I have no interest in boinking, mostly because I understand that nothing screws up that sort of friendship quicker than sex. I'd rather keep hanging out with them, so it's a fairly simple choice.
The most interesting part of the show, to me, was when they were talking about letting your girl go to a party with a bunch of dudes you don't know. Personally, I would be uncomfortable with the idea and talk to my girlfriend about it. If she got all bitchy and accused me of trying to control her life, then I would be suspicious. If she explained why she wanted to go and said that I could trust her, I would trust her.
The one guy was totally right; if a girl is going to cheat on you, it's only a matter of time until she does. The situation doesn't matter. Drunken frat party, cable repair guy, some dude at the office... she's going to eventually. However, trying to know where she is, who she's with, and what she's doing all the time to make sure she ISN'T cheating on you is only going to drive you crazy, put a strain on the relationship, and give her another reason to cheat.
I was surprised that they all agreed that they rarely go more than 6 hours without talking to their S/O, and would become suspicious if they didn't talk for one night. I can go for a couple days at a time without talking to my S/O and not instantly leap to the conclusion that she must be out fucking someone else, that's why she didn't call.
It was a very interesting segment, all in all.
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