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Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Jessica ()
Date: May 28, 2009 02:59AM

So I caught my boyfriend watching porn. In the library in Fairfax City. Umm.......what the hell? I've been dating him for a year, and he still watches porn? WHAT THE HELL. First off, this isn't the only occasion I've caught him. This is the second time, but never in a a public setting. OMFG. Do i break up with him?

I saw the post on www.thedkd.com about men and porn. is it really true about how much porn men watch? and is the anything we can do about it?

IN THE LIBRARY......REALLYYYY.............WHAT SHOULD I DO

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Jessica ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:00AM

OH and this was last week, and we haven't really talked about it.....he doesnt know I saw him watching it. I never said anything, and its really been bugging me.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: ur stupid ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:02AM

Your stupid for not saying anything. And yes the blog post on that web site is so true. You should have stuck you pinky in his stinky. bahaha you stupid girl, why are you still dating him. come home to me ; )

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: nacho momma ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:21AM

It's just porn, it's not another woman, and it was in public so he wasn't exactly hiding it. Just tell him that if he wants to look at it you can either look together or you can make your own peep show for him. it's not the same, but it will at least change the dynamics.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Dr. Fill ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:26AM

You did not specify which type of porn he was viewing. Please be more specific.
Was it gay, straight, or other? If he was looking women, at least you know he's
straight. If so, be happy and enjoy it with him. He will love you even more.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: foment ()
Date: May 28, 2009 05:52AM

Whatt??????????

There's porn in the Library? Time to get a library card.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Junes ()
Date: May 28, 2009 06:44AM

Foment, the little lady won't let you watch porn at home? Well, the Fairfax County Library System is your friend (PWC has filters). The VA General Assembly does not want to infringe on your civil liberties and limit your Internet access to do "research."

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Since public libraries nationwide started offering Internet access to customers at least a decade ago, anti-porn groups have fought hard to block the viewing of pornographic sites on library computers. However, opponents say the filters are too costly and would infringe on citizens' civil liberties and limit Internet access of those doing research.

In Fairfax County, the library system does not have filters installed on any of its computers available to the public, according to Lois Kirkpatrick, a spokesperson with the Fairfax County Public Library System.

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A 2006 House of Delegates bill that would have forced state-funded libraries in Virginia to eliminate Internet pornography from their public computers was watered down in a Senate committee last week. A week earlier, a similar Senate bill never made it out of a finance committee.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Slapshot ()
Date: May 28, 2009 06:54AM

What do you mean, "you caught him". How much of a leash do you think you have on him? You're only his stinkin' girlfriend. You don't set the rules. Get over it, it's what men do. My wife sees me watching porn all the time. Please note I said "sees me", and not "catches me". It's because she knows I watch it, she isn't crazy about it, but it doesn't bother her that much at the same time. She knows I'm not out trying to get some strange, she just accepts it. So if you have a problem with that and are waiting for the "perfect" man that doesn't watch porn you'll find yourself masturbating all the time becuase you won't have a boyfriend. You'll just be lonely.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: foment ()
Date: May 28, 2009 07:11AM

Oh I thought she meant there were movies in the viewing room. but if it's just internet....

Junes Wrote:
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> Foment, the little lady won't let you watch porn
> at home? Well, the Fairfax County Library System
> is your friend (PWC has filters). The VA General
> Assembly does not want to infringe on your civil
> liberties and limit your Internet access to do
> "research."
>
> =====
>
> Since public libraries nationwide started offering
> Internet access to customers at least a decade
> ago, anti-porn groups have fought hard to block
> the viewing of pornographic sites on library
> computers. However, opponents say the filters are
> too costly and would infringe on citizens' civil
> liberties and limit Internet access of those doing
> research.
>
> In Fairfax County, the library system does not
> have filters installed on any of its computers
> available to the public, according to Lois
> Kirkpatrick, a spokesperson with the Fairfax
> County Public Library System.
>
> =====
>
> A 2006 House of Delegates bill that would have
> forced state-funded libraries in Virginia to
> eliminate Internet pornography from their public
> computers was watered down in a Senate committee
> last week. A week earlier, a similar Senate bill
> never made it out of a finance committee.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Boyfriend ()
Date: May 28, 2009 07:32AM

Damnit it was just porn, give me a break. Your terrible at sex too btw.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: pgens ()
Date: May 28, 2009 08:50AM

Sounds like he was just looking for excitement elsewhere. Not a big deal, he's a guy and guys like to look at naked ladies.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: inkahootz ()
Date: May 28, 2009 09:29AM

At least he's not cheating on you...YET! The fact that he was checking porn online in the open (in such a fashion that you easily find out) is a red flag message: He's not getting sufficient action at home. You need to spice shit up; I suggest making a video with him so that he can use that when you are not in the mood. Wouldn't you prefer that he do his 'thing' to a video of you than some slut on the web?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: britdrnva ()
Date: May 28, 2009 09:30AM

I wouldn't equate watching porn with cheating on you. Do you equate him masturbating with the same degree of scorn as watching porn? Porn is a mastubatory aid - men respond highly to visual. If the porn is somehow interfering with your love-making then there should be no issues.

It would seem to me the issue is with yourself. You could accept that men will watch porn or you could always fight it (the men will just hide behind your back, but they'll still indulge). Perhaps try and watch porn with him - make it fun and relax a little!

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: May 28, 2009 09:43AM

If you want him to stop watching porn, you need to tea bag him and allow him to bukkake you more. Otherwise, learn to live with it.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Eastsider ()
Date: May 28, 2009 09:43AM

Why do people humor these trolls?

This is obviously made up and the original poster made the first four responses.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: May 28, 2009 09:49AM

Eastsider Wrote:
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> Why do people humor these trolls?
>
> This is obviously made up and the original poster
> made the first four responses.


Do you think my response was serious?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: pgens ()
Date: May 28, 2009 09:50AM

WashingTone Locian Wrote:
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> If you want him to stop watching porn, you need to
> tea bag him and allow him to bukkake you more.
> Otherwise, learn to live with it.


If his girlfriend in teabagging him, then it's a boyfriend or a transfriend.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Caveman ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:02AM

WashingTone Locian Wrote:
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> Eastsider Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > Why do people humor these trolls?
> >
> > This is obviously made up and the original
> poster
> > made the first four responses.
>
>
> Do you think my response was serious?

No, but it was retarded. How the fuck can a chick teabag a dude? Teabagging is something you do to Meeper or vice versa. Sometimes you let that taint licker ยง participate, but he only does it when he can't find little boys to play with. Basically, you need a nutsack to teabag someone, and I doubt this chick has a set of testicles. How stupid are you?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: May 28, 2009 10:14AM

Regarding teabagging, I'm envisioning the nutsack on the girlfriend's face, not the other way around. I'm not fluent in teabagging, so I may be using the terminology incorrectly.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/28/2009 10:15AM by WashingTone Locian.

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Posted by: inkahootz ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:26AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/01/2010 11:42PM by inkahootz.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Just saying ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:34AM

WashingTone Locian Wrote:
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> Regarding teabagging, I'm envisioning the nutsack



That is pretty gay to envision some dude's nutsack. Actually, it is not pretty gay, it is SUPER gay.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: pgens ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:34AM

inkahootz Wrote:
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> I suggest
> making a video with him so that he can use that
> when you are not in the mood.

Unless the boyfriend is the type to post that online.


> Wouldn't you prefer
> that he do his 'thing' to a video of you than some
> slut on the web?

All girls who have pictures posted on the Web by boyfriends are sluts?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:45AM

This is just another shameless ad for thedkd.com.

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13 4826 0948 82695 25847. Yes.

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Posted by: inkahootz ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:45AM

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Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/01/2010 12:56PM by inkahootz.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: May 28, 2009 11:34AM

nobody cares about your stupid thedkd.com blog. stop posting a thousand stories trying to get people to go there and then carrying on a conversation with yourself with different anon names asshole

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Shadow ()
Date: May 28, 2009 11:36AM

OP really sounds like a troll, but probably isn't. Get a grip, lady, guys like to watch women. It's no big deal.

What's more interesting is the rampany knowledge of the variety of sexual terminology that others here have. I feel so naive, never even heard of 'teabagging'

:-) Too funny.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: ITRADE ()
Date: May 28, 2009 11:42AM

Hell, most women like to watch...They just won't admit it...

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Furfur ()
Date: May 28, 2009 11:51AM

Why are women so threatened by porn? I knew a guy whose girlfriend found his Playboy, rolled one of them up and batted his face until he had several bruises.

She is just a girlfriend; not like you are violating some marriage.

Besides, I've found even very conservative women to be intrigued by lesbian scenes.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: May 28, 2009 12:20PM

Furfur Wrote:
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> Why are women so threatened by porn?


Because this is a porn star...


terapatrick-01.jpg


And this is most women...


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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: TINFOIL ()
Date: May 28, 2009 01:25PM

what were you doing spying on him in the first place

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: CLingon ()
Date: May 28, 2009 01:51PM

porn at the library,what a loser. i'll date you. i'm real tight. u?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: BLight ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:07PM

ask THE DKD. I'm sure he'll know. You fucking retard. break up with him

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: GMU Hokie ()
Date: May 28, 2009 03:30PM

Jessica Wrote:
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> So I caught my boyfriend watching porn. In the
> library in Fairfax City.

What is your definition of "porn?"

Fairfax County Public Libraries filter any site linked to what could be porn.

I have been blocked on innocuous stuff.

> I've been dating him for a year, and he still
> watches porn?

An elderly southern lady once told me that there was no need to eat in restaurants when there was good cooking at home.

How is the cooking in your house?


> IN THE LIBRARY......REALLYYYY.............WHAT
> SHOULD I DO

Be glad his library card is not canceled.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Warhawk ()
Date: May 28, 2009 06:06PM

So you saw your boyfriend watching porn. Big fucking deal.

Chicks that get pissed about stupid shit like this are high maintenance, spoiled, cunty and immature. The antithesis of what you want in a wife. Hey, you're not Kate from Jon and Kate + 8 bitching about your husband are you? Because I'm sure Jon is totally into porn and she'd bitch about it too. If I were that dude, I'd fire up the PC and autoerotic aphyxsiate myself.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: graymoose1 ()
Date: May 28, 2009 07:28PM

Next time you catch him watching porn,crawl under the table and give him a bj

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Guest ()
Date: May 28, 2009 08:49PM

put it in the butt

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Jessica ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:07PM

f you all. f thedkd.com. fuck you all. that blog post on his site was so right, you guys are all PIGS and will NEVER stop.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Gravis ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:11PM

Jessica Wrote:
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> f you all. f thedkd.com. fuck you all. that blog
> post on his site was so right, you guys are all
> PIGS and will NEVER stop.


that's what we have been trying to tell you!


"the wisdom of the wise will perish, the intelligence of the intelligent will vanish."095042938540

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: ffxstoner ()
Date: May 28, 2009 10:14PM

jessica stop trying to advertise your blog thedkd.com.





if it's built right you'll be the pick of the litter
everyone will want to follow you like twitter
competition will get bitter and you'll shine like glitter
if you trying to grow your company will get bigger
design and code right man can you get with it

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: GMU Hokie ()
Date: May 29, 2009 03:44PM

Warhawk Wrote:
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>
>
> Chicks that get pissed about stupid shit like this
> are high maintenance, spoiled,

YOU GOT THAT RIGHT.



> If I were that dude, I'd fire up the PC and
> autoerotic aphyxsiate myself.

that is a little extreme . . . No needy high maintenance woman is worth dying over.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Shut Up ()
Date: May 30, 2009 04:52PM

Jessica Wrote:
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> f you all. f thedkd.com. fuck you all. that blog
> post on his site was so right, you guys are all
> PIGS and will NEVER stop.


Hey you:
Attachments:
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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: ThePackLeader ()
Date: May 30, 2009 10:12PM

Jessica Wrote:
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> So I caught my boyfriend watching porn. In the
> library in Fairfax City. Umm.......what the hell?
> I've been dating him for a year, and he still
> watches porn? WHAT THE HELL. First off, this isn't
> the only occasion I've caught him. This is the
> second time, but never in a a public setting.
> OMFG. Do i break up with him?
>
> I saw the post on www.thedkd.com about men and
> porn. is it really true about how much porn men
> watch? and is the anything we can do about it?
>
> IN THE LIBRARY......REALLYYYY.............WHAT
> SHOULD I DO


How old are you? I ask, as I've never heard of any problem with someone in a relationship watching some skin flicks from time to time, as long as it's not an obsession. The public Library though? That's quite creepy in my opinion, or at the very least reckless and inconsiderate.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: THE DKD ()
Date: June 03, 2009 09:38PM

someone emailed me to come read this post.


jessica your boyfriend is a freak. why would you even ask what to do? wow, your boyfriend is a werido. you need to have a reality check.

advice:

stick that pinky in his stinky.



DKD

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Date: June 03, 2009 09:40PM

THE DKD Wrote:
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> DKD

fuck your blog asshole. go promote it somewhere else. youre not one bit entertaining

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: THE DKD ()
Date: June 03, 2009 10:25PM

bahahahaaha, you need help. psychological help. im not promoting my blog, nor have i started the threads. so i guess its you who is writing me all these hate mail emails? eat a big one cutie.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Harry Tuttle ()
Date: June 03, 2009 10:31PM

Joe Smith ladies and gentlemen...

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: MrMephisto ()
Date: June 04, 2009 10:40AM

There is nothing amusing about thedkd.com, so I find it hard to believe so many people are excited about it enough to post about it on this site.

"DUFF?" Wow, a poorly-written story about a phrase that's been around since 1834. Holy shit, men watch a lot of porn? NO WAY!!! And who can forget the side-splitting tale of some drunk girl skank-dancing?

Maybe we'll be lucky and he'll write a story about how bad the drivers are around here, or how Jar Jar Binks ruined the Star Wars movies. You know, the gritty, original stuff that has made thedkd.com synonymous with quality.

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13 4826 0948 82695 25847. Yes.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: bdimag ()
Date: June 04, 2009 10:46AM

many lolz that video has, ffxstoner

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: GMU Hokie ()
Date: June 10, 2009 08:44PM

Your BF needs to find a GF who is not a control freak.

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Harry Tuttle ()
Date: June 10, 2009 08:52PM

Come on Hokie! This thread was almost dead, man! What the FUCK!?

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Re: Caught my BF watching PORN in LIBRARY
Posted by: Primitive Screwhead ()
Date: June 10, 2009 09:06PM

> > GMU Hokie Wrote:
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> > Your BF needs to find a GF who is not a control freak.

> Harry Tuttle Wrote:
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> Come on Hokie! This thread was almost dead, man! What the FUCK!?


A witticism is like a shit.


The timing may not be perfect, but sometimes it's just got to come out.



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