Re: College admissions
Posted by:
PhilLesh
()
Date: May 23, 2005 12:14AM
ben Wrote:
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> PhilLesh Wrote:
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> > the reality is, if you know your shit, it
> don't
> > matter what school you went to, or if you
> even
> > finished. Step aside from the mainstream,
> and the
> > whole world opens up to you. Seriously.
> > Mainstream, that's a telling description.
> If
> > you've ever swam a river, the current is
> strongest
> > in the middle. That's the mainstream. You
> have
> > much better control over your swimming (or
> life)
> > outside the center of the river, outside the
> > mainstream. Don't get swept up into the
> > mainstream! IN the mainstream, the only ones
> that
> > survive or succeed are the ones willing to
> pull
> > themselves up by pushing others down. Mull
> over
> > the idea that mainstream is exactly what it
> means,
> > the mainstream in a flowing river. Then it
> all
> > makes sense.
> >
>
> But 'knowing your shit' is no excuse not to go to
> college either. Even if you ignore that it's a
> growing experience, the connections and
> opportunities that you have are worth the time and
> money. It's all about playing your cards right.
>
But if you just "jump in" to the workplace, you can make the same connections, and discover even better opporunities. I mean, in college, the connections you make are all tentative. But in the workplace, the connections are known-quantities. They already have jobs, they know other actual people with jobs, etc. You know who you're spending time to get to know, what they do, who they know, etc. In college, you're hoping to single out the right people that can some day have those same connections. Which is better? Networking works outside of school. I still have contacts from like 4 or 5 jobs ago, that can help me out when it comes time to find a contractor, find a new job, hook me up with more business for my current job, etc. They're active, in the work place, not about to enter. They are quantifiable. I have zero contact with the people I went to school with. Maybe that's unique to the school I went to. It attracted people from Cleveland, Pittsburgh and DC. I've run into people, and we, of course, get along just great when we do, but there's no commonality as far as career issues are concerned. It's more about buying drinks for each other and talking about "the good ole times", but none of us can help the other out in business.
> I'm like you in that I don't even *try*, and when
> I graduate next semester I can write my own ticket
> to whatever job that I want. I can start working
> when I want to, where I want to, doing what I want
> to because I've (only recently) played my cards
> right.
It's self-satisfying to know you're "playing the system", in a way, by just getting by. As long as you're not dumb and you're not avoiding learning, at least. But don't fool yourself about "writing your own ticket" (unless you go to Yale or Harvard) You need to know what you're doing, people can sense that when you interview. How well you can discuss your abilities is important, if you come across like you don't know the tasks and duties, you'll never get a good job, or any, possibly. SO maybe you can learn that ability at school, but I doubt that this knowledge is exclusive to higher education. You can either sell yourself or you can't. It's all about selling yourself properly. Maybe school can give you that confidence, but you can find it in yourself, just as easily, by doing, by knowing that you know your shit, etc. College isn't bad, it's just not always NECESSARY.
>
> It didn't matter how awesome I was when I was
> working at UPS.. the more intelligent you are, the
> harder they come down on you. The more you show
> them that they were idiots, the worse it gets for
> you. Sure I could have been making 50,000+ at 20,
> but it would have been because I had no other
> opportunities to do it- because I wouldn't have a
> degree in anything. Now I'm looking at making the
> same money, but with people that are actually
> capable and informed.
>
> If you don't give yourself the opportunity to
> succeed, you won't.
>
Yeah, well UPS is blue collar. You can make a lot, but you're going to bust your ass to make it. Not that blue collar is "bad", it's just a lot of hard work, that's all, and there's easier ways to earn your money. Besides, if you're too good, if you make other people feel threatened, you'll experience what you did. You certainly don't want to come across like you're better than everyone else, no matter where you work, and no matter how much better you really are. That's diplomacy, good office politics, etc. I never call anyone on their shit, unless it's completely over the top. You have to figure out how to explain your side as a side they haven't thought of yet, or show someone the same thing for the 5th time without being a jerk about it, you know, that sort of thing. Always come across like the guy that's a "team player", not over-competitive, not condescending, not hateful. Team work. That's all. Plain and simple.
Your last sentence probably sums up this entire conversation. If you don't give yourself the opportunity to succeed, you wont. That is basically the core of what I've been saying, and in everyone else's responses.
College might be A way to get that opportunity, but it's not necessarily the only way to accomplish success. Success is what you allow yourself to have. If you believe you can only achieve it by going to college, then you'll probably only find it through going to college. If you consider other options, you might find out that you don't need college, and can do it on your own. (unless you want to be a doctor). Just simply defaulting to college as the answer may or may not achieve that goal, but giving consideration to your situation, what you want to do in life, and how to achieve it, really thinking it through, looking at real world situations, you might find that college is either a waste of time, or a waste of money. Or not. But never just believe that college is the only answer. It's not. It's just the conventional wisdom to think that's the only route to your goal.