Re: FCPS Changes A Brewing
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Johnny's Dad's a Bore
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Date: December 04, 2014 09:20PM
uwhYD Wrote:
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> bbb Wrote:
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> > uwhYD() you must be a LHS administrator there.
> You
> > write:
> > "Many of the Langley parents make it a really
> > tough place for the kids, teachers and
> > Administrators.
> > The sooner the parents understand that the kids
> > need to make their own way in the world the
> better
> > off it will be for everyone."
> >
> > Really? “Kids make their own way in the
> > world?” They might as well just teach
> > themselves! I wonder why students get
> frustrated,
> > depressed, and take their lives sometimes.
> Kids
> > can’t teach themselves; they need mentors
> and
> > educators who care about them. This, can make
> > all the difference between a good school and a
> not
> > so good school.
> >
> > The parents who push SOMETIMES have very valid
> > points. In under privileged schools, they want
> > parents to speak up for their children when
> > something does not seem quite right and the
> > administration tells parents to help their
> > children. There are good and bad teachers at
> > every school, just like good and bad students
> and
> > parents.
> >
> > If Matt Ragone wants to make a change and grow
> > professionally, good for him. Maybe he even
> plans
> > to move near there. whatever the reason, it is
> > none of our business.
>
> I am not an Administrator at Langley.
>
> Have kids that have graduated under Ragone and
> have also seen a lot of the foolishness that goes
> on with the overbearing parents in the area.
> Looking back much of this started in Elementary
> school and has just snowballed. Too often it is
> about the parents and not about the kids.
>
> My kids never were signed up to a class by anyone
> other then themselves. They took ownership and
> never dropped or transferred out of any classes.
> If they took and Honors or AP class, they needed
> to "own" it and they needed to be prepared for the
> class. Often tried to talks the kids out of some
> of their choices, usually it did not work!
>
> I am not looking for my or any other kid to teach
> themselves but to understand how to make things
> happen for themselves, make wise decisions and be
> committed to what they choose to do. My kids
> actually were very well prepared for life beyond
> Langley and really did quite well even out of the
> starting gate Freshman year away from home.
>
> We did take input from teachers and councilors and
> I think for the most part the input was reasonably
> accurate and as I recall we pretty much followed
> the general recommendations.
>
> I believe there may have only been one instances
> where we needed to discuss an issue with the
> Administration at the school. We choose to not
> "manage" our kids in High School, this is
> something that needs to be transition away from in
> Middle School.
>
> Wonder why students get frustrated, depressed, and
> take their lives sometimes? Overcommitment,
> unrealistic expectations and too many kids trying
> to live their lives for their parents and not for
> themselves.
>
> I could care less about what "Johnny" classes is
> taking in school, where "Johnny" is going to
> college or what "Johnny" gets on his ACT/SAT or
> what his GPA is. "Johnny" is not my problem nor my
> worry and should not be my kids problem or worry
> either. I also support and encourage my kids, I
> never show or indicate any sort of disappointment.
> I do not push my kids to be things they are not
> capable of being. Not everyone can be class
> officers, the start athlete, first chair in band,
> start of the play. This is actually kink of OK! I
> push/encourage my kids to reach realistic goals
> and not aim for unrealistic expectations.
>
> My original comments were to the person that
> thinks Hess and Ragone were not happy at Langley.
> I know exactly why Hess left and it had nothing to
> do with the environment. Ragone is moving on and
> looking for advancement, if he is/was unhappy, it
> was pretty well hidden.
>
> Ragone has done a decent job at Langley, he will
> also do a good job for SC.
>
> Hopefully Ragone's replacement will be as good or
> better for Langley.
>
> Ragone's choices are Ragones, choices, my comment
> about the commute was to make it clear that this
> was not a reason he was leaving. I can also assure
> you he will not move because of taking the SC
> position.
TL; DR. Learn to Tweet, grandpa.